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I And Doing the Love Dare

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    I'm Really Hurt But God Is Going To Pull Me Through This

    Its been a bout a month ago when my wife of 18you years told me she wanted a divorce. I was floored. Then I almost committed sucide but the gun didn't go off. I met some people that are really praying and helping me get a closet walk to God. But I was given the Love Dare book and...
    Williamjenkins Williamjenkins 36-40, M Sep 26, 2012

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    Day 1

       Yesterday was the first day of the Love Dare for me.  It was extremely hard for me because my husband had gone out and stayed out late the night before so I was angry with him.   It was hard for me to try and keep quiet instead of starting an argument...
    kimh1981 kimh1981 26-30 3 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    After 16 Years.....over And Heartbroken.

    I tried the love dare with my husband about a year ago and thought it was going great. We laughed more, smiled more and spent more time talking. On November 13th, 2009 he told me he wanted a divorce which devastated me to my core.  We now live in different homes and share...
    Michelle16 Michelle16 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    What Am I Going to Do?

    I am doing the Love Dare because my husband says he is not happy. I am on Day 3 right now. I met my husband while I was in college. I was very young,19 to be exact. Later during the year, I became pregnant. I got extremely ill and was hospitalized.I had to drop out of school that...
    GeorgiaPeach22 GeorgiaPeach22 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2009

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    Is It Worth It?

    This is my day one and I'm full of doubts and questions, what i know is that i love my girl i want God to work on our relationship and keep us together, we are not married, she was my girlfriend a few days ago but we have been toghether for 3years and 8 months and everyday i have...
    cheo39 cheo39 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2011

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    Still Working

    I am still doing The Love Dare, but am having trouble keeping it up I really need someone to do it with me and keep me on track.  You know keep me motivated.  My husband and I are getting along a little better right now, I am not wishing him dead anyway, so that's...
    itry itry 36-40 2 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    Day 5 Love Is Not Rude

    Day 4 did not go like I thought it would the dare was to call him and just say Hi how are you.  When I called he sounded annoyed like "she is checking on me" the truth is I do check on him (Sorry).  But today I just said " I just called to say I...
    itry itry 36-40 Mar 31, 2009

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    Love Dare In the Trash!

    I did try I wanted to do it but it is " HARD"  I feel like I am always doing the Love Dare begging for him to give me a little love and understanding, and I get crap! Yesterday was a bad day I got the book out of hiding and YELLED "you don...
    itry itry 36-40 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    This Love Dare Better Work Or It Is Over!

    I have been married for almost 20 years, and have two children, I work full time my life is busy.  I am a Christian my husband is not, and it is getting very hard to stay with him.  I have stayed because I am a christian and I know I am supposed to: he...
    itry itry 36-40 2 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Starting This Again...

           So, I've been married for only 2 years and I know I already need help from the Dare.   I need to do this now because I don't want to be married for a long time and be unhappy the whole time.   I am a Christian and I know...
    kimh1981 kimh1981 26-30 2 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Love Dare Challenge

     Hi i just recently joined this group because i noticed that many of you were doin the love dare. my husband and i have been together only 2 yrs and left me here in florida. I know that i have left the lord behind and i have done some things to put our marriage where it is...
    LixMH2208 LixMH2208 18-21 Jul 22, 2009

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    Love Dare Challenge

     Hi i just recently joined this group because i noticed that many of you were doin the love dare. my husband and i have been together only 2 yrs and left me here in florida. I know that i have left the lord behind and i have done some things to put our marriage where it is...
    LixMH2208 LixMH2208 18-21 1 Response Jul 22, 2009

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    I Am Into the First Few Days of Love Dare

    I am 53, married 27 years and father of four. I have made some bad business decisions, sometimes against the better judgment of my wife, lost money and was not honest with my her about everything until recently. The repercussions knocked the stuffing out of her and as a...
    Jake5493 Jake5493 51-55, M 4 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Day 1 and 2

    I've been married for almost 16 years.  I'm a Christian and my husband is a complete and total NON-believer.  He's even become quite nasty and cruel lately about me going to church and taking our daughter to the Christian school for Preschool.  I know that a lot of...
    KimberlysMommy KimberlysMommy 31-35 2 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    I Did the Love Dare Challenge !

    I saw the movie Fireproof back in Feb. I thought it was a great movie. So I tried the love dare for 40 days. My marriage failed. But doing this love dare made me understand things I was lacking in my marriage. I did it trying on last time to make things work. What I learned is...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Day 3

    I spent the morning thinking about what it was I could go and buy my husband to show him that I was thinking about him.  So during my lunch break I went and picked him up a pair of reading glasses.  He's been asking for a while for me to pick him up a pair but I...
    KimberlysMommy KimberlysMommy 31-35 1 Response Apr 15, 2009

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    I Am On Day 4

    I made him rice crispy treats (day 2) with butterfinger on top when I asked if he liked them he said "well they are going to be too expensive to make all the time."  I bought him a tomato plant (day 3) and Suprise, he asked me if WE were going to plant it and...
    itry itry 36-40 4 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    Ready For Change

    I have been married for 15 years and been a Christian for the past 10 years. My spouse life routine consists of going to work, coming home, getting on the computer to play poker of play video games. When we go out, my spouse is the loudest thing in the room, whether we are...
    imtired72 imtired72 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2010

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    Trying

    I am starting this love dare because, well as everyone, my marriage is in trouble. I have let myself get off the path and want to get back to where we belong. I have treated my wife horribly with my words, and I truely hate myself for letting me become someone that...
    gibbyngocky gibbyngocky 36-40 10 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Help!!!

    I'm on day 25 and still no changes. For the 3nd week in a row the wife has ask for a divoice. I really do love her, but its hard to continue when all she want is to start her life new without me. We do have a 8yr son who we both love a great deal. He doesnt know anything yet. I...
    wantmywifeback wantmywifeback 46-50, M 14 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Does It Really Work

    Ok I am just starting this I have some dough about a lot of things right now. I really need some support. I miss my baby we do not live togother any more and it killing me. We talk only throw text . So someone help me? Has anyone been where I am ? I do beleive in my heart that...
    clintonparker clintonparker 31-35 Aug 23, 2011

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    40 Dares to Make a Change

    My oldest daughter seen the movie Fireproof at her church with her new husband.  She came over the next day and told me about it.   A few weeks later I purchased the movie and watched it myslef. My daughter wanted me to get her step-father to watch the movie due...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 1 Response May 20, 2009

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    Starting The Love Dare Again...after I Quit Last Year On The 16th Day

    my husband and i have been married for 2 years this june. I just realized that hes not the person he made me believe he is. He has lied to me, cheated on  me abused me mentally, emotionally, financially. ive tried to show him i love him but it just seems that all he cares...
    maritzel4 maritzel4 22-25 1 Response Aug 27, 2010

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    Just Started The Love Dare... Need Support

    My husband and I have been together 4 1/2 years... married 1 1/2.  We've both made some serious mistakes... but I want my marriage to work so much it hurts.  I am only on day 3 of the Love Dare, but I already feel myself falling more in love with him each day.  He...
    cassiereese89 cassiereese89 18-21 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    This Hurts Badly.

    I've been married for 20 years.  I could have been a lot better husband.  She loved me so much and that made me love her.  We have two boys who are 16 and 11.  I was neglectful at times and wasn't involved with the kids enough.  I gained 70 pounds and was a couch potato when...
    Blackie54 Blackie54 56-60 1 Response Feb 16, 2012

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    I Just Want My Marriage Back!

    I am in my mid 30's and been married for 13 years.  I am doing the Love Dare trying to win my husband back and save my marriage before its too late.  Part of me already feels like its too late.  A month ago he told me he was moving on and has made some pretty...
    IrishMamma IrishMamma 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    OKAY, so decided to do this tjingymcjigger, and was hoping y'all would help me with it! Anyways, since my school is boring and needs some liveliness, I would like you guys to give...
    Ellaven14 Ellaven14 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    April 21. Waiting. Wait. If the time is not right, the way is not clear, the answer or decision not consistent, wait. We may feel a sense of urgency. We may want to resolve the...
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    Defense of Total Depravity and Its Effects on the Human Will ~ Total Depravity means that sin has touched all of what a person is. In the unbeliever this means that his...
    PMEWhite PMEWhite 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    POST SOME **** DARES!!!! I will check ep every day
    gamer2000 gamer2000 16-17, M Mar 23

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    This was a dare heheheheheheheheheheheheheheh
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Ok let me jus get summink off of my chest I hate the way society is today … I mean the negativity of life these days jus kills me like it's not even being realistic to say or...
    IILaraII IILaraII 18-21, F Apr 8

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    I Have Nothing by Whitney Houston Share my life, take me for what I am 'Cause I'll never change all my colours for you Take my love, I'll never ask for too much Just all that you...
    TheLawOfNature TheLawOfNature 13-15, F Mar 23

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    REBA MCENTIRE "Is There Life Out There" She married when she was twenty She thought she was ready Now she's not so sure She thought she'd done some living But now she's just...
    sherrianna sherrianna 18-21, F Apr 4

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    He is my coworker. I know, I know, getting involved with someone at work isn't exactly the brightest thing to do but it happened. I couldn't help it, my feelings are too strong...
    applef applef 18-21 2 hrs ago

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    It gets a little easier every day. I was what you needed then. She is what you need now. The things she is giving you now, I can't. It is so great to see you happy. I am doing my...
    MyLifeIsNow MyLifeIsNow 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I love doing business with beautiful women.
    Ydh2LVq3Sbt8Uv9 Ydh2LVq3Sbt8Uv9 36-40 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    "Dark Horse" (feat. Juicy J) Oh, no. [Juicy J:] Yeah Ya'll know what it is Katy Perry Juicy J, aha. Let's rage [Katy Perry:] I knew you were You were gonna come to me And...
    SpiritQuest2014 SpiritQuest2014 46-50, F Mar 27

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    After months of looking for a job, I’ve recently settled for a minimum wage thing in a popular “Family Restaurant” that specializes in pizza and Italian food. I won’t name...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F Apr 11

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    After months of looking for a job, I’ve recently settled for a minimum wage thing in a popular “Family Restaurant” that specializes in pizza and Italian food. I won’t name...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    After months of looking for a job, I’ve recently settled for a minimum wage thing in a popular “Family Restaurant” that specializes in pizza and Italian food. I won’t name...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Really bored, love a good dare ;)
    bd693 bd693 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    On the posts from before, about my love, I expressed my own self hatred. Some were confused as to why or how I can hate myself. I wrote this story to help explain to my friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    I need **** dares. I WILL BE ON EVERYDAY WAITING FOR DARES!
    gamer2000 gamer2000 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Go ahead, ask me anything I dare you!!! I triple dog dare you!!
    Mangoboy32 Mangoboy32 13-15, M 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I will do any naked dare so dare away
    Colfman10 Colfman10 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Dare me anything and I will do it and post it on YouTube my name is Dan Jeffers and I am proud to be me so I can do anything so please dare me anything
    humiliatedyoyo humiliatedyoyo 18-21, M Apr 1

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    Dare me to do anything I will do it
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 5

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    I dare you to ask me. Double dog dare you.
    strangerguy78 strangerguy78 31-35, M Apr 8

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    C'mon, I'll do anything you dare me!
    bd693 bd693 18-21, M Apr 8

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    Someone must have a dare? I'm well bored ;)
    bd693 bd693 18-21, M