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I Apologise For No Reason a Lot

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    I Used To, Anyway...

    i used to say "i'm sorry" for everything. i even apologized when someone else had hurt me. i don't know how i stopped that habit, but i'm glad i did. i think the phrase "i'm sorry" is very over-used, at least for my experiences, and i tell people that i'll let...
    thirty30 thirty30 31-35, F Jun 19, 2008

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    Aren't Puppies Great

    Yes they make messes and chew up everything inside and outside the house.  They are quite the little terrors.  I had two foster dogs, Bonnie and Clyde, who figured out how to open the back gate and chewed the brick on the house.  Clyde discovered how to climb the...
    archiedog archiedog 36-40, M 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Even When Its Not My Fault.

    I find myself apologising in situations where I myself expect an apology. Does anyone ever do that? It's the emotion I feel aftewards that really gets me thinking. Its like I sold myself out, because I didn't stand up and wait for an apology or I didnt stand strong for long...
    Flymy Flymy 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Guilt For Nothing.

    I always find myself apologising for every little thing. it's worse when i've had a drink or two,and lately when I saw my friend from work. He had to tell me off last night for apologising for laughing at him (I'm painfully shy and get nervous quite easily) but I'm quite hard on...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    It's Kinda The Way I Was Raised

    When i was little, i always got blamed for everything that my older brother did wrong; breaking toys, writing on walls, etc. Well anyway, when i feel as if I've done something wrong, i immediately apologize, even when nothing was wrong. And to this day, im still trying to break...
    maxb102 maxb102 18-21, M Feb 25, 2011

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    I'm Sorry

    I'm sorry I'm pretty damn useless most of the time. I'm sorry I can't grasp simple everyday things like, using the washing machine or calculating money and Finances. I'm sorry my job means I work mainly nights, and that you work mornings. I'm sorry you feel like I'm pushing you...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2012

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    Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt?

    This Experience Group really resonated with me, because I am someone who apologizes all the time, more than is needed. What a difficult habit to break! I immediately assume that I have some "blame" in any given issue, and try to heap the responsibility on me. How can I be more...
    rebelstreak rebelstreak 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Actually..

    It's kind of weird... i do that with some people....  If I love someone, i feel like everything is my fault... like I dont want them to feel bad I guess or that its their fault so im just like.. :( Im sorry... and theyll be like ... uh no its my fault...
    Debunkifyme Debunkifyme 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    I Know Why

    My self-esteem is extremely low, enough said.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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