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I Apologise For No Reason a Lot

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    It's kind of weird... i do that with some people....  If I love someone, i feel like everything is my fault... like I dont want them to feel bad I guess or that its their fault so im just like.. :( Im sorry... and theyll be like ... uh no its my fault...
    Debunkifyme Debunkifyme 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    Even When Its Not My Fault.

    I find myself apologising in situations where I myself expect an apology. Does anyone ever do that? It's the emotion I feel aftewards that really gets me thinking. Its like I sold myself out, because I didn't stand up and wait for an apology or I didnt stand strong for long...
    Flymy Flymy 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    I'm Sorry

    I'm sorry I'm pretty damn useless most of the time. I'm sorry I can't grasp simple everyday things like, using the washing machine or calculating money and Finances. I'm sorry my job means I work mainly nights, and that you work mornings. I'm sorry you feel like I'm pushing you...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2012

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    I Know Why

    My self-esteem is extremely low, enough said.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I Used To, Anyway...

    i used to say "i'm sorry" for everything. i even apologized when someone else had hurt me. i don't know how i stopped that habit, but i'm glad i did. i think the phrase "i'm sorry" is very over-used, at least for my experiences, and i tell people that i'll let...
    thirty30 thirty30 31-35, F Jun 19, 2008

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    It's Kinda The Way I Was Raised

    When i was little, i always got blamed for everything that my older brother did wrong; breaking toys, writing on walls, etc. Well anyway, when i feel as if I've done something wrong, i immediately apologize, even when nothing was wrong. And to this day, im still trying to break...
    maxb102 maxb102 18-21, M Feb 25, 2011

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    Guilt For Nothing.

    I always find myself apologising for every little thing. it's worse when i've had a drink or two,and lately when I saw my friend from work. He had to tell me off last night for apologising for laughing at him (I'm painfully shy and get nervous quite easily) but I'm quite hard on...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Aren't Puppies Great

    Yes they make messes and chew up everything inside and outside the house.  They are quite the little terrors.  I had two foster dogs, Bonnie and Clyde, who figured out how to open the back gate and chewed the brick on the house.  Clyde discovered how to climb the...
    archiedog archiedog 36-40, M 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt?

    This Experience Group really resonated with me, because I am someone who apologizes all the time, more than is needed. What a difficult habit to break! I immediately assume that I have some "blame" in any given issue, and try to heap the responsibility on me. How can I be more...
    rebelstreak rebelstreak 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    I came to EP for me.to share my thoughts and feelings with others out there in the hopes that perhaps someone out there could make sense of my crazy or at the very least understand...
    Jadelicious Jadelicious 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I don't apologise for who I am, because I believe it's one of the quickest ways to find the right people to fit into your life and to find the ones who really love you.
    InLoveWithDarkness InLoveWithDarkness 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I can't forgive my dad for what he done on my 13th birthday. I ended up in hospital for a week because he assaulted me. I've tried in the past to face him even though I can barely...
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I believe everything happens for reason. Three years ago, I applied for Disability benefits and was denied. I appealed the decision. Months and a year went by but in the meanwhile...
    BookDiva BookDiva 36-40, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am sometimes too blunt for my own good and can be taken the wrong way and then end up having to apologise .I am afraid I have never been very diplomatic and I am sure some people...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I breathe. My heart beats, pumping blood around my body. Air flows in and out of my lungs. I was born for a reason, we are all here for a reason. We live, love, make connections...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm searching for sense of it all. I'm searching for the reason two good people can find one another after treading in waist high **** and things still not be easier than they were...
    twilightbutterfly twilightbutterfly 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I received an email early this morning from an old buddy asking if I would meet him for a quick lunch as he was heading back to Europe. I already had a long list of errands I...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    Forgiveness is a weird concept. People attempt to manipulate others by playing the "forgiveness" card. Especially if they think you are a Christian. The typical approach is, "I m...
    fr33bird fr33bird 51-55, M Apr 1

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    Respectfully, I don't believe everything happens for a reason. I don't believe in coincidences, but neither do I believe that everything happens for a reason. I DO believe in...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    I've been through so much, but who hasn't? Throughout all these experiences, I've never once stopped telling myself that everything happens for a reason. And honestly that plays a...
    Pearlljjam Pearlljjam 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Everything has a purpose, everything is here for a reason. The thing is, do you know what it is? Would you believe and accept it if someone could tell you what it is? Are you sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Naturally, although it is not impossible to get children with herpes, you'll need to take additional precautions. You could have a kid without giving herpes to it, but you as well...
    smitha143 smitha143 26-30, F Apr 15

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    Someone once sent me a message saying that every person that comes into your life is there for a reason and that even I come in someone life for a reason. But things can happen...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I have a weird experience. I am not sure if my family and I have been dealing with an evil spirit. I have seen and felt things but mostly when I'm near asleep. I have had sleep...
    angelatone angelatone 22-25, F Apr 15

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    you don't need reason to be happy and relax,,,, only need one to be not:))) haha,,, i don't know why people are asking me , I am so happy today , what reason shall I give them...
    mdbest4u mdbest4u 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I wouldn't say everything at every moment. But I'm so weird about this. I think my iPad shuts off just so I know I should get to bed, or my writing is delated because it's awful...
    fighteratheart fighteratheart 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I know I met him for a reason, I dreamt about a conversation we would have BEFORE we reencountered each other. I woke up one night with his name on my lips, "Mike...where did that...
    crownandginger crownandginger 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    People are like seasons come and stay awhile then they're gone , as for what the reason is im unsure so far I only feel them adding fuel to the fire
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I was so upset that I almost forgot who I was. I really had to think about the reasons why I was crying and the reasons weren't worth my tears. I just have to learn how to forgive...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28

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    I just met this really nice young man on here & for some unknown reason he blocked me with out any explanation that really boggles my mind! I don't know what to even think about...
    bevS62 bevS62 61-65, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    After weeks of waiting, yesterday I got a call from the real estate agent who had promised to act in my favor in the matter of my renting a flat in our building. This would have...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F Apr 3

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    this man messaged me then blocked me 5 minutes later FOR NO REASON! LMAOOOO
    Babyblue95 Babyblue95 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I go to sleep at around 6am. That's not reasonable at all.
    SparkleSwirl SparkleSwirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    You're the reason of my smile everyday. You're the reason why i want to wake up. Full of Love.
    eumi eumi 22-25, F Apr 14

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    I really believe in that,but Sometimes I can't stop thinking about it and I just want to know the reason behind everything that has happened so badly that It gives me headache,and...
    Anachiiswa Anachiiswa 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I don't believe there is such thing as a coincidence. I believe everything in our life happens for a reason. Regardless of whether it is good or bad - we have to learn something...
    myusernameislame myusernameislame 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Sadly that reason is to show me how worthless l am.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 17

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    I know we do. We go through life constantly meeting people as co-workers, religious services, shopping, and so many other places including online. But then you'll meet someone...
    shoreguyct shoreguyct 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I do believe everything happens for a reason. It's called being a fatelist. It isn't a bad thing. You just believe in signs and symbols etc. all the people that have entered my...
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    sense birth I have never like belong. im 21 a male and im absolutely writhing i pain. ive been single my whole life, never had very many friends, and in every circumstance...
    strizboi1 strizboi1 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I believe this is true. Even if the reason is it made clear to us right away. I guess we'll see ;)
    qtrican80 qtrican80 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So the fact that my recruiter motivates me and shows more care than my family and many " close others" and I'm not even in the pull yet is the reason I believe blood isn't thicker...
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 18-21, F 2 days ago

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