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I Apologise For No Reason a Lot

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    It's Kinda The Way I Was Raised

    When i was little, i always got blamed for everything that my older brother did wrong; breaking toys, writing on walls, etc. Well anyway, when i feel as if I've done something wrong, i immediately apologize, even when nothing was wrong. And to this day, im still trying to break...
    maxb102 maxb102 18-21, M Feb 25, 2011

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    Actually..

    It's kind of weird... i do that with some people....  If I love someone, i feel like everything is my fault... like I dont want them to feel bad I guess or that its their fault so im just like.. :( Im sorry... and theyll be like ... uh no its my fault...
    Debunkifyme Debunkifyme 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    Why Do I Feel So Much Guilt?

    This Experience Group really resonated with me, because I am someone who apologizes all the time, more than is needed. What a difficult habit to break! I immediately assume that I have some "blame" in any given issue, and try to heap the responsibility on me. How can I be more...
    rebelstreak rebelstreak 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    I Know Why

    My self-esteem is extremely low, enough said.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Guilt For Nothing.

    I always find myself apologising for every little thing. it's worse when i've had a drink or two,and lately when I saw my friend from work. He had to tell me off last night for apologising for laughing at him (I'm painfully shy and get nervous quite easily) but I'm quite hard on...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2008

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    Even When Its Not My Fault.

    I find myself apologising in situations where I myself expect an apology. Does anyone ever do that? It's the emotion I feel aftewards that really gets me thinking. Its like I sold myself out, because I didn't stand up and wait for an apology or I didnt stand strong for long...
    Flymy Flymy 22-25, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Aren't Puppies Great

    Yes they make messes and chew up everything inside and outside the house.  They are quite the little terrors.  I had two foster dogs, Bonnie and Clyde, who figured out how to open the back gate and chewed the brick on the house.  Clyde discovered how to climb the...
    archiedog archiedog 36-40, M 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    I Used To, Anyway...

    i used to say "i'm sorry" for everything. i even apologized when someone else had hurt me. i don't know how i stopped that habit, but i'm glad i did. i think the phrase "i'm sorry" is very over-used, at least for my experiences, and i tell people that i'll let...
    thirty30 thirty30 31-35, F Jun 19, 2008

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    I'm Sorry

    I'm sorry I'm pretty damn useless most of the time. I'm sorry I can't grasp simple everyday things like, using the washing machine or calculating money and Finances. I'm sorry my job means I work mainly nights, and that you work mornings. I'm sorry you feel like I'm pushing you...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2012

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    I think it is a domino effect, if you are the reason that someone smiles it in effect makes you smile and makes you feel happy inside. So, if everyone made someone smile in the...
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    Who doesn't love being the reason for someone smiling? You feel special
    EdwardIX EdwardIX 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    1. I'm afraid of people and can't socialize. 2. I have hurt people in the past to make me feel better about myself. 3. I'm the ugliest person I have ever seen. 4. I'm not skinny...
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    Every day is just a repetitive cycle. I wake up early in the morning, I survive the day, go home, then rest. It just goes on and on and on. I'm tired of this. I don't have someone...
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    When Sum One Hates You for no reason.................Give them a reason :P :D _!_
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    lilygaga lilygaga 41-45, T 1 Response a week ago

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    but does the reason lead to more pain & struggle...... or does it serve a better purpose to show that every relationship is fragile & if not kept safe and sound will shatter into...
    mechanicman96 mechanicman96 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 28

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    People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life...
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    I have decided to use ep for my therapy because I really love how open and honest I can be on here, I have a really hard time communicating with people In my life and feel like I'm...
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    Due to recent events in my life, forgiveness has been a reoccurring matter of thought for me. Not a long time ago, my mother said "Everything can be forgiven" Really? The way she...
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    I am a 14 year old boy living in Tennessee, I have been a very quiet, shy, and emotional person, these past few years I would stay locked in my room and never come out unless it...
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    1. His smile 2. His gorgeous blue eyes 3. His amazing personality 4. His talent 5. His interests 6. His adorable British accent 7. How he flirts with me 8. He's respectful 9. He...
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    just love being blocked and people not having courtesy to give u a reason. I get it u don't like me but man up and say so not be nice and ask if we can talk later then ban me
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