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I Appreciate Honesty

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    I've been lied to too many times to count.

    I have trust issues occasionally. I just want honesty.
    xoxokendyl xoxokendyl 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'd tell tell you the truth

    if you asked so please tell me.
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Being Honest For me is

    so Important , It is better to be told a hurtful truth than to be told a comforting Lie.
    YousBlali YousBlali 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    Had my first date today

    and it went well . But i Still dont Know if i should trust What he says . Sigh
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I like honesty no matter how brutal it is.

    Whether it be bad or good. I definitely appreciate it.
    BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It is all for me.Do good,

    do wrong...but do not lie to me.I like to have honest people around me,because fake is a waste of time...and hurts.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I wonder if the people

    who tell lies to my face know that I know that they're lying. Just tell me the truth. I react 90% better when you do, but expect 100% honesty back in return.
    mcatH2O mcatH2O 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I appreciate honestly

    whether it hurts or not.
    Littlewallflowerx Littlewallflowerx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I guess everyone have their own preference about

    who they talk to.. But it's cool..
    Johnny0592 Johnny0592 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Honesty and integrity go hand-in-hand

    and I appreciate both. What's the point of not being honest unless you particularly set out to deceive someone? And what's the point in that? Because what goes around, comes around, and all forms of lies and deceit always backfire on you and come back to bite you on the bum! I...
    CarMechanic CarMechanic 66-70, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I wish people would just be more open n stop

    worrying about what orther think love when you know you are loved n be happy when life gives it to you or you may say it another way however I just need those around me that knowns them selves n love without thinking dang we only get one shot bs ...am I wrong for thinking this...
    crissyred33 crissyred33 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    What if in my past relationship we went through

    some hell... Feelings were hurt and needs were not met in a time of a lot of personal stress. Now one of us is trying to get it back to that point of when we were happy... I'm afraid, I have vented to a good group of friends and I stayed around and stuck through all of my hurt...
    fight2staypositive fight2staypositive 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Like I Have A Boyfriend.

    SO you pervs can stop hitting on me I'm here for friends and to be a friend not for pleasure. Go to pornhub if you're that damn desperate! Duh.
    lucidity91 lucidity91 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    When Someone Is Honest With Me.

    I think the best thing in a friendship is honesty. I'm always as honest as I can be, as long as I like/trust the person and want to be friends with them. I appreciate when someone can be honest with me, even about the slightest things. Even if they think I wont like what they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Blackrain97 Blackrain97 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Honesty is the best policy,

    but hey if you honest I got time for you, or I can just feel it in your vocal tones of words you speak of if you're telling the truth.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Wanna impress me? Just be honest.

    Oh by the way, if you do not be honest to me and I find out, I will be pretty mad. You do not want to see a mad Kat.
    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Someone befriended me here,

    asking me to be a friend but then doubted my honesty. It was annoying. Don't believe me don't friend me! I have returned home to Spain from travels across the world. In all the places I have been I have seldom met anyone with so much vitriol as I met from this one person, and...
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to talk to someone honest,

    like really honest even if it can be mean I don't really mind
    hgscgirl hgscgirl 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Easier said than done.

    Only a few people really know me and are able to tell me what they think about me and how they me you. The rest are at best partially right and to some degree wrong and prejudiced. What good does it do to hear premature impressions? Is honesty not also to admit.... I dont know...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Honesty is truly the best policy.

    I'd rather have someone be honest to my face than talk about me behind my back and then find out about it. Be truthful even though it may sting a little.
    wantsumluvn wantsumluvn 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I want to know what people think about me

    and how they see me. I want people to be 100% honest with me. I want them to always speak their mind. One of the best ways to show you appreciate and respect someone is to be honest with him/her.
    howlingtiger howlingtiger 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I like to know the truth.

    It makes things much easier. The truth is like a splash of cold water to your face. It stings at first, but you feel very refreshed afterward.
    SabrinaB27 SabrinaB27 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    Guys, when I know your looking at my boobs

    and say what your looking at, don't say nothing, I appreciate it if your honest. Guys my face is up here not down here!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jun 10

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    Honesty is one of the keys to a healthy

    relationship no matter what never lie
    OmarAlhajeri OmarAlhajeri 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Deepsoul45 Deepsoul45 41-45, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Blackrain97 Blackrain97 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't hate, I dislike liars,

    if you tell the truth I will respect you more.
    Player0 Player0 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I'd rather hear the honest truth

    than believe the tower of lies.
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    If you love to drink coffee

    or tea have good conversation, walk on the beach, read a good book, see a movie then let's talk!
    coffeetalk2014 coffeetalk2014 51-55, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    It's the only way we can become friends,

    lovers or family. If you're not honest how do you expect me to get closer or equal with your emotions or doubts.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love it when you people

    appreciate me for my thoughts, way of living and sincerity... Comments under pictures aren´t the measure of real feelings, there is no picture of a woman not being commented on as stunning, breathtaking, hot, sexy...etc. So that isn´t anything to be...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    Isn't it funny that we go

    after those who are a challenge, and we reject those who we know we could have in the palm of our hands? I'll speak for myself, but when I thought I fell in love the strongest, was with a guy who honestly could care less about me. Then when I see a guy showing some serious...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    I would rather someone be honest with me

    whether it upsets me or not I dislike liars
    Misticroses Misticroses 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Honesty about is what makes people respect you.

    There is nothing worse than liars. If you want others to call you a coward, look down on you, and scoff at you, then go ahead and lie. Just keep in mind that your lies won't last long before someone reveals them, while honesty will be remembered forever and mark you as a...
    NuminousLove NuminousLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Be honest to yourself.

    It will free you. :))
    lowell0314 lowell0314 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Yes, it would be nice

    if more people were, but most are not. Not with you and not with themselves. It makes you appreciate the honest ones more.
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Avoid those, who avoid u whilst telling you

    they care and promising to be there for you... If someone avoids you when you need them the most they don't care. Those who do care wouldn't have left your side in the first place if they new you needed them xx
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Its Okay

    I want to know.  I want to know what people think.  If you think I'm a nutcase, tell me.....Dont beat around the bush and sugar coat anything.  I know I screw up.  I can handle being told those things.....Truth hurts, but only for a little while until its dealt with...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    I don't like fake people.

    If you can't be true to yourself than how can you be true to others?
    bananarama1 bananarama1 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    People say they like honesty

    but when it slaps them in the face its not so appreciated is it? The 300 lb gf puts on the bikini asking "do I look good in this?" Well you be honest next time.
    gr8pretender gr8pretender 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You yourself are you own harshest critic

    so no matter what anyone else says to you...you are beautiful no matter what shape size color or race you are believe you are beautiful and you will out shine everyone
    Iwillloveyou4ever Iwillloveyou4ever 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The truth hurts, when the person

    who gives it to you knows that they wouldn't have to tell you this truth, if they hadn't hurt you in the first place xx
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Seeing honesty more and more in my new friend.

    I have appreciated that quite a bit.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jun 26

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    To me it all starts at home

    and upbringing. My soon to be stepson left behind a toy piece at the park. There was a picnic party going on and were loads of people and kids. One little boy spotted the toy that my future stepson had left behind. He picked it up and ran it over to us! I was so impressed! I...
    mnorth72 mnorth72 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think honesty is more of an idea

    than an exact science. It may sound strange but try to imagine you are a soul with no body, you have put on many meat suits, you can see your triumphs and failures very very clearly. And after 1100 years in different bodies, could you pass judgement upon yourself? Love your...
    anhonesttry anhonesttry 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    We have gotten too used to dishonesty,

    white lies, and we are the worst for it! Now, we think we must sugarcoat our relating to each other, and honesty is lost in this. I appreciate honesty, being told the truth, even if it's hurtful!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I don't understand how people can be

    so engulfed in hate that they expect you not to see it, there is really nothing better than loving your own, what is the need for carrying that burden called jealousy
    benjamari benjamari 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    After growing up in a household lies were

    dished out like breakfast, lunch and dinner, and having going through a dishonest phase as an adolescent - honesty is my biggest value. I'd rather a harsh truth than a pretty, little fib..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I always try to be as honest

    as i can, with everyone i talk to. So if total honesty is what you like, we should talk, if not, then fair enough :) I dislike when people ask for your 'honest opinion' then act like you just punched them in the stomach just because they don;t like your answer lol
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 16

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    More than appreciate,

    I demand it. I cannot bear the thought of being lied to or misled. I don't get angry. I simply am hurt. Dishonesty is a lack of faithfulness , a betrayal. It can be forgiven, but repeated events indicate a deep problem in whatever relationship exists--lovers, familial, friends.
    Unabashedlysplendid Unabashedlysplendid 56-60, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    Be as frank as possible,

    dear! I hate this about my wife. She will have something to tell me and will use vague language and dance around the issue. I have to say, "Honey, spare me the cuteness!" It takes her 5 minutes to tell me she overspent our credit card instead of the 5 seconds it should have...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Ariana Grande look so good but she got the body of a 12 year old...😂😂
    HiiiPower HiiiPower 16-17, M Jul 5

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