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I Appreciate Honesty

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    It was a year ago I met this guy,

    when I first saw him for the first time , I thought : he's good looking but he will never like me. Turns out that he does like me , I just got this feeling he does and my close friend got the feeling too , it's just the way he acts. So I haven't seen him for let's say two...
    Mintyberries Mintyberries 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    mrniceguy1979 mrniceguy1979 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 14

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    Being Honest For me is

    so Important , It is better to be told a hurtful truth than to be told a comforting Lie.
    YousBlali YousBlali 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Honesty is indeed the best policy.

    Although sometime I am offered the truth pill and then the lie pill ( lol) and to be quite honest the truth pill can be hard to swallow at times But I rather the ugly truth than a pretty lie
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 20

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    I always try to be as honest

    as i can, with everyone i talk to. So if total honesty is what you like, we should talk, if not, then fair enough :) I dislike when people ask for your 'honest opinion' then act like you just punched them in the stomach just because they don;t like your answer lol
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Happy Open Normal Exciting Sincere Topical Yearning.....
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 26

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    Okay! I am completely happy with my body

    and how I look. But I'm also honest with myself and I'm not 100% healthy. I'm working on it! I quit smoking, I'm going to start eating better! Which is difficult when the people I live with literally soak salad in bacon grease and call it wilted! No! Lol But I wanna try and...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I Do

    Especially in my relationships I expect honesty.  If I am witrh a man and he wants someone else more than me I would rather hear it from him than from the general public.  There is no point in lying about situations because if you care enough to be in a relationship...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    It's weird, but sometimes

    when I know in my bones that something needs to be said, and then I say it... there's an "at peace" sort of feeling that comes over me afterward - even when the thing I said was really hard and maybe ended something I don't want to end... or maybe not. You never know what shape...
    SilverSearching SilverSearching 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    Wanna impress me? Just be honest.

    Oh by the way, if you do not be honest to me and I find out, I will be pretty mad. You do not want to see a mad Kat.
    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    More than appreciate,

    I demand it. I cannot bear the thought of being lied to or misled. I don't get angry. I simply am hurt. Dishonesty is a lack of faithfulness , a betrayal. It can be forgiven, but repeated events indicate a deep problem in whatever relationship exists--lovers, familial, friends.
    Unabashedlysplendid Unabashedlysplendid 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Isn't it funny that we go

    after those who are a challenge, and we reject those who we know we could have in the palm of our hands? I'll speak for myself, but when I thought I fell in love the strongest, was with a guy who honestly could care less about me. Then when I see a guy showing some serious...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Be as frank as possible,

    dear! I hate this about my wife. She will have something to tell me and will use vague language and dance around the issue. I have to say, "Honey, spare me the cuteness!" It takes her 5 minutes to tell me she overspent our credit card instead of the 5 seconds it should have...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Honesty is truly the best policy.

    I'd rather have someone be honest to my face than talk about me behind my back and then find out about it. Be truthful even though it may sting a little.
    wantsumluvn wantsumluvn 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I don't hate, I dislike liars,

    if you tell the truth I will respect you more.
    Player0 Player0 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I have always thought

    that most complete way to show that you respect someone is through honesty. You may not want to hurt their feeling because you know what you will say will have that effect but at the end of the day if it is the truth as you believe then you should be honest. I have been trying...
    pwis2648 pwis2648 31-35, M Jun 18

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    Seeing honesty more and more in my new friend.

    I have appreciated that quite a bit.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jun 26

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    Honesty and integrity go hand-in-hand

    and I appreciate both. What's the point of not being honest unless you particularly set out to deceive someone? And what's the point in that? Because what goes around, comes around, and all forms of lies and deceit always backfire on you and come back to bite you on the bum! I...
    CarMechanic CarMechanic 66-70, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    honesty is another form of truth

    and i like it so much..a honest person can never be involve into wrong deeds,he would be a real human and i appreciate it!
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    When Someone Is Honest With Me.

    I think the best thing in a friendship is honesty. I'm always as honest as I can be, as long as I like/trust the person and want to be friends with them. I appreciate when someone can be honest with me, even about the slightest things. Even if they think I wont like what they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Even Though It Sometimes Does Not Seem To Pay

    It was my schooldays. A rather naive language teacher said, before lunch, that he would test us on a specified passage of text, after lunch. A group of us spent the break checking the vocabulary. He found out that something had been going on and asked for those concerned to own...
    unsichtbar unsichtbar 46-50 Apr 30, 2010

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    Honesty

    Honesty when you have it you have it all but when you dont have honesty you have nothing you have minulaption and lies , and nothing good becomes of lies and dishonesty. honesty no matter how hard its the best lies will always backfire no matter how good the intention...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Yes, it would be nice

    if more people were, but most are not. Not with you and not with themselves. It makes you appreciate the honest ones more.
    JustmeraeAgain JustmeraeAgain 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    It is all for me.Do good,

    do wrong...but do not lie to me.I like to have honest people around me,because fake is a waste of time...and hurts.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Guys, when I know your looking at my boobs

    and say what your looking at, don't say nothing, I appreciate it if your honest. Guys my face is up here not down here!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jun 10

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    I love it when you people

    appreciate me for my thoughts, way of living and sincerity... Comments under pictures aren´t the measure of real feelings, there is no picture of a woman not being commented on as stunning, breathtaking, hot, sexy...etc. So that isn´t anything to be...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    Unless...

    If you notice that my fly is down... please tell me. If I have something in my teeth... please tell me. If you think I'm an *******... please tell me. But, if you think I'm an arrogant, intolerant know it all who makes people feel bad for being dumb and lazy? I don't want...
    NoLongerHere NoLongerHere 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    Its the Key to Good Relations..

     Honesty to me is being forward or direct. No what ifs. No maybes. I will get back to you. That to me is like saying the checks in the mail. Be truthful with each other. Have issues don't hide from them. Take the positive approach and handle the situation. If you don't...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 22 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    I like to know the truth.

    It makes things much easier. The truth is like a splash of cold water to your face. It stings at first, but you feel very refreshed afterward.
    SabrinaB27 SabrinaB27 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    After growing up in a household lies were

    dished out like breakfast, lunch and dinner, and having going through a dishonest phase as an adolescent - honesty is my biggest value. I'd rather a harsh truth than a pretty, little fib..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Honesty about is what makes people respect you.

    There is nothing worse than liars. If you want others to call you a coward, look down on you, and scoff at you, then go ahead and lie. Just keep in mind that your lies won't last long before someone reveals them, while honesty will be remembered forever and mark you as a...
    NuminousLove NuminousLove 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    We have gotten too used to dishonesty,

    white lies, and we are the worst for it! Now, we think we must sugarcoat our relating to each other, and honesty is lost in this. I appreciate honesty, being told the truth, even if it's hurtful!
    Bourgault Bourgault 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Its Okay

    I want to know.  I want to know what people think.  If you think I'm a nutcase, tell me.....Dont beat around the bush and sugar coat anything.  I know I screw up.  I can handle being told those things.....Truth hurts, but only for a little while until its dealt with...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Does God Exist? Some people they don't believe

    in God specially an Atheist. They don't believe in God because they don't see him. I do not know how could they don't see him. well, I can see that creation of God all the time in every inch around me. Do you agree with me?
    mustafadulaimi mustafadulaimi 22-25, M 10 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I would rather someone be honest with me

    whether it upsets me or not I dislike liars
    Misticroses Misticroses 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    Not just nice honesty,

    but blunt honesty. I really get hurt when I'm lied to and I find out, and, trust me, I have ways of finding out.
    shilosmistress1 shilosmistress1 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I don't understand how people can be

    so engulfed in hate that they expect you not to see it, there is really nothing better than loving your own, what is the need for carrying that burden called jealousy
    benjamari benjamari 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I think being honest is just the best way to

    live ones life, but its hard to live with people who say they are honest but constantly lie when honesty does not favor them. Unfortunately not a lot of people (that i know) believe in being honest and truthful when it doesn't benefit them personally.
    Taboolove103 Taboolove103 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Kermit plays no ****** games...
    HiiiPower HiiiPower 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Ariana Grande look so good but she got the body of a 12 year old...😂😂
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    Half of these people on here talkin bout how big they **** is and how many ******* they **** but yet they prolly virgins 😤😤
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    Girls don't know what they want...
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    Although my friends obviously don't. On Saturday night a lot kicked off in our fiends group. Arguing, Falling outs, ignoring others and just snapping at one another. So basically...
    WeWereNeverAlive WeWereNeverAlive 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I admire honesty but it is rear in our society.. The most people just lie because making life as simple as they can. But life is not about running to the end as fast as you...
    justbe00 justbe00 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 29

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    I guess this one of those redundant groups. I would think that it goes without saying that you would rather hear the truth than be lied to that you admire honesty, right? I don't...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 Jul 2

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    I think we all have an idealist idea about "the perfect relationships". I've had several long term relationships in the past, some long distant relationships. I find trust and...
    jetetter jetetter 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Honesty is the baseline of an good relationship, romantic or not. In my book it is second to communication, but that's a whole other story
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I seriously don't appreciate people who take everything for granted because they know they can so they will but of course this is a generation where giving a single appreciation...
    acesha16 acesha16 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I wish I had someone to tell me how much they appreciate me. I cool, clean, work, take care of home, do everything that is expected of me and all I get is "you think your perfect...
    beautiful8307 beautiful8307 31-35, F Jun 24

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    I appreciate the smile someone gives you who you don't know you as they walk by. Or seeing two little old people holding hands. The way kids laugh and have no worries. The smell of...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence, to value presence. maby once whatever it is is gone then you'll appreciate it better.
    beautiful8307 beautiful8307 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago