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I Appreciate Men Who Aren't Afraid To Show Their Tears

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 249 People

    Those Who Deserve To See

    Throughout history, men have been the breadwinners and protectors, while women have been the homemakers and caregivers. Men have been scoffed for the show of tears, as it was believed to show weakness. That being said, this is the 21rst century. Women are not just the homemakers...
    CAnnesdad CAnnesdad 41-45, M Dec 14, 2012

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    Wtf Is Wrong With U

    Who in the world wants a man or husband that when your child dies or something or a heartwarming movie to sit there keeping theres tears in looking all retarded trying to act "manely"
    ICEDCOFFEE13 ICEDCOFFEE13 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2012

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    Made Me Love Him More...

    The first time I saw my Dad cry...it made me respect him even more. He isn't a perfect man...far from it. But he is a man who really tries to live what he believes and teaches to his kids. My dad isn't the sort of man who keeps his emotions in check, just so he won't ruin his...
    kayje kayje 22-25, F Jun 16, 2012

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    Northwave Striker SBS

    Be thankful we shot these shoes after three days of dust at the Wines2Whales. Out of the box, the trendy day-glo is arc-eye material, and certainly makes a statement along with the football-boot styling. The fit of the striker was surprising, for an Italian last; roomy and...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Oct 5, 2013

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    Show Me

    Show me your scars, and I'll show you mine. Show me your heart, and I'll show you mine. Open up completely, and I'll let you in, because without that kind of bravery there's no point to even begin.
    lookingwindow lookingwindow 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    Insider

    I started competing in triathlons five years ago as a complete novice to the disciplines of swimming and cycling Having always been a decent runner I had to work hard to get the other two elements of triathlon up to speed. With a full-time job, it was always tricky to fit...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Sep 29, 2013

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    Britain's Biggest Challenge

    If you are looking for a tough challenge, don't discount UK events as being too easy or too close to home. Squash Falconer is an adventurer and mountaineer who has dimbed Everest and is the first woman to fly a paraglider from the summit of Mont Blanc. In September 2011 she cyded...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Sep 29, 2013

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    Sure Do See Many Men Cry

    For different reasons dating in the drama frield tanks. Only thing is my level of percectveness is changing. I don't want to deal with non admissions. Forevermore I want get off ep and into a meeting of minds. Hmmm can we use ep points to fly to san Francisco?
    CelestralCreature CelestralCreature 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    A Battle Of Wills

    Now the cold, dark days are here again it can be difficult indeed to muster the willpower to carry on cycling. It was Mahatma Gandhi who said "Strength does not come from physical capacity It comes from an indomitable will", it seems that a common component among most...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Oct 4, 2013

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    Barrier

    UNLESS YOU fall off cycling is a sport blessed with body-friendliness. But, just like any endurance sport, cycling can produce a catalogue of niggling aches and pains, which, unless properly treated, can lead to something far more serious. The common-sense answer to any lasting...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Dec 3, 2013

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    Giving Bugs The Elbow

    Want to avoid catching colds this winter? Then try keeping your hands to yourselves, recommends Dr Nathan Wolfe, a virus expert at Stanford University, California. Dr Wolfe believes that trying to avoid contact with others could reduce the spread of infectious diseases. He also...
    tableline9 tableline9 31-35, M Sep 29, 2013

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    Whether In...

    pain or in joy it will flow Men!! Embrace it because you can't remove it! Reminded of this well when my daughter took her life!! ;-(
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Well the man who disrespects me most is my father 😔 he treats my mother and sisters the same way. No wonder I'm so shocked when a potential dating partner is so nice to me...
    indigodana indigodana 31-35, F Sep 5

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    There's this friend I've been talking to for almost 2 years. He loves me or something, and recently for the past few months has been asking me for pics, sexual favors and other...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So everyone that knows me understands that I am emotional. I use words of emotion, my music is full of feeling, everything. So when I encounter someone who shows no feeling to me...
    devinprater devinprater 18-21, M Aug 18

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    Douchebag men will belittle other men who's "too nice", "looks weak", looks "feminine" or simply just doesn't appear "tough enough" to them. Douchebag men will also harass women...
    Incognito666 Incognito666 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I always had a thing for older men I don't know what it is about them that turn me on I like them in there 40's-60's they are so hot. ;)
    Elizabeth214444 Elizabeth214444 22-25, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    Okay, so I'm not so young... and I am not even into older men... I'm not really concerned about a person's age at all. I was just watching "Dr. Drew", and he had a segment about...
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 29 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well, maybe "admire" is a strong word. I've never really admired anything in my life. Appreciate, sure, but we have to remember that everyone, EVERYONE, is a teeny tiny bit fake...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey guys I am indeed a black lady from South Africa who is deeply in love with one special German man. He is my everything and hope one day I will marry him and have offspring...
    Luseeyah Luseeyah 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I had a bad time recently, and one friend was very helpful and nice about things. That really showed me how nice people can be! It's really nice, he said someone was good to him...
    Hyacinthas Hyacinthas 18-21, M Aug 20

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    I really do - we are only strangers in life , when we keep to our selves - there are reasons some of us keep to our selves - due to bashing , bullying , gossip and i don't blame...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M Aug 23

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    Most people live in a shell of their own and do not express their feelings. Some feel it too odd to express in front of people. Guess some people are natural with it and some...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    It's nice to feel warm from thinking about someone. It's nicer to reciprocate that gift. Yes, our thoughts and feelings are ours only, but how great would it be if, every time...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    still trying to write a story for each experience i claim to have had, lol. i am one that will stay quiet when people are gossiping about this or that. it never fails, they'll...
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M Aug 17

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    So many people would have it that they are 'individualistic' when, in fact, they slavishly follow 'trends' and ideas. Quentin Crisp was the most effeminate of men and yet, consider...
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Fighting My Own Demons The greatest enemy is the ego. I learned, it demands to act out without considering the people around and the consequences. It makes you forget wisdom. It...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    It's best to share your true feelings. If you don't people will never know how you really feel
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Well adoring is kind of the wrong word for me...because most of the time when I do share... people either take and twist what I say into something they may feel with the words I...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It is really is fairly simple...the more you recognize how worthy and good enough i already are just being me, the more i will find myselve naturally showing the world who i am...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I have a friend who is truly not afraid to be herself. She's blunt with her interests and doesn't care what others think. The first time she met my sister openly told her she was...
    blueamber blueamber 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a big believer in this. If you can't tell me your true feelings then I don't want them around me. I hate to have to drag it out of someone. Just tell me good or bad and I...
    lonewolf2060 lonewolf2060 51-55, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I work at a supermarket, so there are many opportunities to see someone's crack if they are bending down for an item on a shelf or something like that. Weirdly, in the first 3...
    coooooooooooooooooool19 coooooooooooooooooool19 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I hate when people dont train their dogs! Having a run in with untrained dachshunds has greatly made me hate the breed to this very day. When I was like 8 i went to my future step...
    KiwiLiv KiwiLiv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Teacher buttcrack. I was in school one other time and i was heading to the lab with my friends and we walked past this teacher sitting at the row of tables helping a guy. She saw...
    RobertDowneyNeymar RobertDowneyNeymar 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion, "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Men should treat their woman like Kanye would treat Kanye. :)
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 4 days ago

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    There are a number of us with daddy daughter fantasies. I have yearned and ached for a young teen girl who was a lover and yet called me daddy. It has finally happened! I am so...
    zoltar34787 zoltar34787 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm getting memories from a few people, like one is going down this paved path to a lake, maybe it's somewhere in Sackville, not sure. Another one, I've been getting a lot, is...
    4EverBlissful 4EverBlissful 26-30, F Aug 30

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    I have dated all races but I must admit that my longest relationships have been with white men. I have always had a curious mind and would be the one listening to Jodeci one minute...
    minablaze minablaze 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I would love to teach a young woman how to enjoy their body to the fullest and open up their desire to explore their sexuality!
    wantayounglady wantayounglady 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    sure thing its such a stupid thing to say when women have proven their mettle in all fields ///
    romell romell 36-40, M Aug 22

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    Conscience and cowardice are never the same things. I myself have always been my own master. Independently by nature. I won't allow any external influence in my life. Except those...
    NonchalantEros NonchalantEros 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Some years ago I took part in a workshop called Actualization - focusing on supporting people to be more "actual" - or, actually who they are - no more no less. This doesnt mean...
    ToniaMV ToniaMV 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    "Masticate" and "poobah" are my favorites. "Taphephobia" is fun too, even though it doesn't really sound naughty.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 1

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    ...to an extent. Some people shouldn't be themselves in public, haha
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F Sep 8

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    I know this is racist, but I've developed this poor mindset and now I can't get out. Americans are starting to look the same to me. When someone says someone American is attractive...
    SammiSakura SammiSakura 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    When I was a boy, I used to stop with my grandparents at weekends. Usually, I was asigned the wee cupboard room as my sleeping chamber. One particular time, the house was full of...
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M Aug 16

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