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I Ask Who Endures a Relationship With No Chemistry

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 91 People

    What To Do Now

    Hi ladies, I am also living this life at the moment and it is making me go crazy, I can't believe how many of us there are. I was wondering if anyone has talked to there husbands about this and has any good or bad come from it as I am getting to the point now where I have to say...
    missmoo71 missmoo71
    4 Responses Jul 11, 2011

    No Chemistry No Sex No Communication Wtf Am I Doing Wrong??

    Me and my bf of almost 3 years dont talk anymore we dont have sex we dont flirt i dont get butterflies etc. i tried to not be the "thats my type" kind of girl because clearly my type are socialites who cant be with one i found a anti-social loner with great qualities...
    lovecursedme lovecursedme
    31-35, F
    Oct 18, 2013

    I am nearly 48 years old

    and have been in a passionless relationship for 11 years. I don’t think I ever totally understood the chemistry aspect of being “in love” until now. I thought I could let it develop over time. I was in love with my husband at the age of 21 (awesome chemistry). We were...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    I Married For The Wrong Reasons......

       I met my husband 6 years ago. We worked together, and quickly became best friends for the next three years.  I was lonely coming back from a 6 month deployment. He was there for me, and we started to date. Everything seemed right, and it was just too easy.  There was...
    Harper03 Harper03
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 2, 2011

    I'm 20. Yes its very young

    and a very exciting time as I'm at the height of my college experience. I should have to weight on my shoulders that brings me down of fully experiencing my early adult hood as one should. But I'm in a predicament. Ive been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. He. Is...
    wellshitballs wellshitballs
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    I Like You But Something Is Missing

    I was seeing this guy over the past 9months. We have been on and off a couple of times..and all in all we possible saw each others as much as 15times in all that time (we were living 1h away, both with long working times and different days off). I was coming from a break up after...
    Farfalla Farfalla
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2011

    Before I met my current boyfriend,

    I was single for 4 months for the first time of my life. I was having a blast. I met him one cold February night and we discovered we had very similar interests. I wasn't physically attracted to him. In fact, he mistaken, "I think you're cute"for something I said, which I felt...
    llamar2107 llamar2107
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    I'm Soo Lost

    I'm in a relationship wtih gorgeous,funny and great guy,but I'm starting to feel like I need a way out.I'm 22 and we've been in a relationship for over a year,but we've known each other for 5,and been seeing each other for 3 years now,I told him i didn't want a relationship but...
    onemorenight3 onemorenight3
    26-30, F
    Sep 23, 2013

    Hello, I am currently in a similar situation to

    everyone. I am engaged to my wonderful fiancé. I am 23 and he is 30. He is the most incredible guy I have ever met and the perfect man to spend my life with. We have perfect communication. Recently I have been having cold feet. Our wedding is in 4 months and Im not sure if I...
    frustrated86 frustrated86
    31-35, F
    Jan 25, 2014

    Love Him But...

    I can't get turned on by my partner because is nearly morbidly obese. Don't you dare judging me and tell me "you SHOULD love him just like he is" My answer for you is: many things in the world are not the way they should be. This is the least tragic of them all. I am able to see...
    Orionica Orionica
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Sep 10, 2010

    Would You Stay In A Marriage That Never Had Much Physical Chemistry?

    My husband and I have been together for 17 years. We have never had very good physical chemistry (he was attracted to me, but i wasn't to him), but we married because we were compatible in every other way. But from the first year, I knew things were lacking in the bedroom and so...
    woohoo2 woohoo2
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Nov 21, 2009

    not in love anymore

    i have been with my partner for 8 yrs now i loved him at 1 stage but for the past few months now ive felt absolutly nothing for him at all the sex just wasnt the same so i dont have sex with him any more its like i hate him and i dont want him near me ive told him a few times how...
    wakker wakker
    Sep 1, 2011

    I suppose I endure a relationship with no

    chemistry. I am a 45 year old woman " married " to a 58 year old man with ED. We have been together on and off since 1994. I care about him, I love him, he loves and cares for me as well. I just have no sexual attraction to him at all. He thought if he went to a clinic to...
    Apr 30, 2015

    How Do I End A "new" Romantic Relationship With An Old Close Friend? (yes, I Now Know This Was A Mistake.)

    So I did something stupid. I got into an instantly-serious relationship about six months ago with a man with whom I'd been very close friends for a long time. We went on one date about eight years ago, didn't even kiss (well, I tried, he shied away) and never went out again. But...
    aGirlOnAWire aGirlOnAWire
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2011

    I Love Him But I'm Not In Love With Him - No Chemistry

    What can I say? I've been living 'de facto style' with the most gorgeous, loving, kind, beautiful, supportive, generous and unconditionally accepting man for the last 7+ years. I'm now feeling horribly upset as I realise I love him - with my whole heart - but I'm not in love with...
    ZoeZ ZoeZ
    135 Responses May 26, 2008

    He Says He Wants Me In His Life, But That I Am Not The Woman He Wants To Marry

    A few months ago we got into a heated debate and he told me that he wants to have me in his life until the day he dies, but that does not mean marriage. That I am not the person he sees as a wife. He went on to say that he has been trying to prepare me for that role, but it hasn...
    702Vegas 702Vegas
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2012

    Help! I am also having a love crisis right

    now also! So me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 3 years, next month will be our 4 years. But I am so confuse to how I really feel about us. I love him but I don't think I am in love with him also. I feel like we are just very comfortable around each other and we act...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 13, 2014

    I feel even more confused

    after reading all the posts here. My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years now. When we got together I was in a very dark place, having just gotten out of an emotionally one-sided fling. I ashamedly admit, I was probably pretty desperate for love, and he gave it to me...
    Xansa22 Xansa22
    22-25, F
    Jul 19, 2015

    I Love Her But No Real Chemistry...i Am Sooo Sad!!!! Please Help

    I just read some of your stories and I felt a connection.  It's strange because I feel like the only male that has this problem but that is okay.  The background of my realtionship is I met a cute young lady who I feel in love with and had everything I was looking for in a life...
    Jakes54321 Jakes54321
    12 Responses Jan 19, 2011

    I got together with my current boyfriend a few

    months after the end of a relationship with amazing chemistry and so much love, but that seemed doomed because we were going in opposite directions and weren't sure we'd ever be in the same city again. We've now been together almost three years and I love him and don't want to...
    sadhaiku sadhaiku
    26-30, F
    Feb 5, 2014
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