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    Assumptions

    I have a longstanding habit of making assumptions about what other people think. It runs me into trouble without fail and it's almost constant when I interact with others. It's the reason I prefer to be alone. If I can give an example, I can say even now, when writing this story...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4, 2013

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    And It Just Destroyed Me

    Assuming what other think sucks! I am done with it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2013

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    I've become bolder as I grow older. I still care about giving the right impression but I care a little less about it as time goes on. Do you find you are a rollar coaster or a...
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    I'm bored right now and have a headache, so why not lol, I'm curious.
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    I don’t believe in plastic surgery, But in your case, just go ahead bc you are ugly as **** u lil hoe
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    once more again. With feeling this time! lol, I must be bored to have said that... anyway, judge away everyone else, I'm curious.
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    In YOUR opinion, am I attractive appearance-wise? I know appearance isn't important in fact it's what is on the inside that counts but I think many people can agree with me saying...
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    This is bs , societal paradigm requires that one cares what others think in order to fit in with others no matter where you are within the social strata , you need friends...
    missreeedy missreeedy 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why does it matter if other ppl think your attractive or not. Only thing that should matter is what u think about urself. What someone else may think about u shouldn't determine...
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    Just curious of what others think!
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    Just wondering what others think!
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    Not got much confidence so let me know what you think and hit me up?
    callum94 callum94 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I protected you, I defended you, I LOVED you!! And YOU back stabbed me. And it's not funny. It never was, and it never will be. It still creeps up on me from time to time. I really...
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    Here's me !! I just want to know what you all think
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    I'm kind of in the middle of wanting to kill myself so I don't have to suffer and people don't have to deal with me anymore and not wanting to because people would think I'm weak...
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    You Are an Aisle SeatYou are an assertive and energetic person. You know what you want, and you're very decisive.You are wiling to speak out, and you're definitely not shy. If you...
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