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I Assume I Know What Others Think

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    Assumptions

    I have a longstanding habit of making assumptions about what other people think. It runs me into trouble without fail and it's almost constant when I interact with others. It's the reason I prefer to be alone. If I can give an example, I can say even now, when writing this story...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 4, 2013

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    And It Just Destroyed Me

    Assuming what other think sucks! I am done with it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2013

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    The majority of us spend most of our lives trying to satisfy other people. I don't think you should care what others think of you, because you don't live for them. If they don't...
    InLoveWithDarkness InLoveWithDarkness 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really don't care what others think about me. I'm a truly caring person who doesn't believe in being rude or spreading hatred. There is enough of it in the world so why would I...
    hugsandkisses26 hugsandkisses26 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    I have had a great friend for many years, and a crush on them for nearly as long. Since meeting they came out as transgendered, and we continued to be great friends without any...
    Randomnomad Randomnomad 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Please, indulge me and read my profile, my stories, anything. And let me know what you think. Judge me if you will. Good or bad. I have a strong will for criticism. If you really...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just don't care any more, I am exhausted in caring what other people think if me.... I have spent calf my life pleasing people...they want me to be this way and not that way...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I have been told that it is none of my business what people think of me, but I have this burning desire to know how I am viewed by the people in my life. Positive or negative, I...
    goldenbeginning goldenbeginning 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Go for it? Let me know whatcha thinkin hahaha
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I interested in knowing what is says about me. Please let me know. Thanks :)
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I`m just curious about what people think about me.
    cleocat1234 cleocat1234 13-15, F Sep 3

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    For the first time today I really decided to gain weight. I've always wanted to do it myself but never had the confidence to do it. Instead I was a feeder and helped others gain...
    goofyg54 goofyg54 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    Today, my boyfriend had to register as a Psychopath. He recently lost his best friend due to a suicide last week. When he was 1, his parents murdered his sister. Meanwhile, his...
    alyson1913 alyson1913 16-17, F Aug 24

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    This looks fun! Alright, so by my profile picture, what do you think my name should be? If you manage to say my real name, I'll give you a thumbs up~ 👍😋
    MermaidCurry MermaidCurry 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    I am curious what my profile says about me though I am also a bit scared to ask. My profile content is all over the place. Please forgive me for some of the things I posted -.- Ive...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    First time trying this I always wonder what name would fit me . When I was born my parents and grandparents couldn't decide what to name me so my dad past through this place and...
    Verano93 Verano93 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    What do you think of me? Honest opinions please :)
    queenoftheashes queenoftheashes 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    What do you think? :).....
    PandaLovee PandaLovee 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Do you think I'm still cool or am I just like whatever now
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Go on ahead. Let me know. :D
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Liarrrs! everybody care about it
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F Sep 10

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    Nope. Not anymore. I'm done with that
    daisymarie12 daisymarie12 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Girls, lets be honest....We have all been there !! :-)
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 21

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    I never get bored by this beautiful and romantic song from Paul McCartney, it's "My Valentine"
    NaughtyAngel91 NaughtyAngel91 22-25, F Aug 23

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    I`m just curious. It might help if you read some of my posts before. I have light brown hair, brown eyes and I like reading, writing and dancing. I thought that might help.
    cleocat1234 cleocat1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Okay! This should be interesting… feel free to stalk the profile, I've probably searched through yours anyway (just kidding, well maybe not). Hair: brown. Eyes: brown. Skin...
    everybodyclapyourhands everybodyclapyourhands 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I have already done one of these so I thought id do a new one. You can look on my old one if it helps or have a look at my profile.
    cleocat1234 cleocat1234 13-15, F Sep 4

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    Today a guy pushed me out of the way to open the door for me???????
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Which these are lies... o.o 1) My Childhood is dead 2) I'm not a virgin 3) I'm 6"2 4) I'm Bisexual 5) I'm actually 18 6) I love 5sos 7) I have a boyfriend 8) My favourite animals...
    InnerEgo InnerEgo 16-17, T 2 Responses a week ago

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    Let's have it then, everyone could use some thicker skin, self included
    wednesdaychildke wednesdaychildke 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I'm just curious..................
    Experiencevisionary Experiencevisionary 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sounds like fun, go for it :)
    Stillnotbroken Stillnotbroken 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My profile says it all! And it'd be nice to hear honest opinions too!
    RainbowAdventurer12 RainbowAdventurer12 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I honestly don't think I am, but I don't know what others think.
    WhySufferxx WhySufferxx 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    this girl i like we have been going back and forth, for a while now. we used to be really close but its like whenever i start to get back close with her something happens that...
    unattached1 unattached1 22-25, M Aug 27

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    It happened to me yesterday and I still don't know what to think about it. There already is someone I already love (we're not in a relationship though, I wrote about it in my...
    GlowingHeart GlowingHeart 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Okay soooo, I'm like super bored and a lot of people are always telling me I am attractive. I'm not a ****** wimp and I've been called ugly too, so if u think I'm ugly then TELL ME...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm quite upset with my boyfriend right now. I wont discuss why with him because im not sure why myself. ive gone through and thought about it, and here's what ive come up with: i...
    WellUh WellUh 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Have you ever felt like you just want to break down in tears and you don't know why? Only to find you have no more tears left to cry? I feel empty - numb, almost as if existing...
    TaintedSnowflakes TaintedSnowflakes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Lets make this a better question I want to know what you think is most attractive about me. Don't rate just say ______ feature and why don't, rate just answer . I know I'm...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 7

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    i want to know what people think. are my friends lying or just saying i am to spare my feelings be honest please
    blosszm blosszm 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 27

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    I want to know what you think of me and I'm single
    kylescott1 kylescott1 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 31

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    let me know what you think bout me
    jhopp07 jhopp07 22-25, M Aug 31

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    I want to know what everyone thinks?
    callum94 callum94 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 3

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    Caring about what others perceive you to be is a form of social slavery. You will be constantly craving for social approval and admiration, bounded by a paralyzing fear of being...
    loveandwars loveandwars 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Your Style is Passive When it comes to communicating with others, you tend to let them take the lead. You prefer to listen. You aren't necessarily meek or shy, but you are...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Aug 27

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    My whole life I've been trying to figure out what normal is, and how to be it.. My earliest memory is breaking something, I don't even really know what it was, a cup maybe? or...
    JanusTheTwoSidedCoin JanusTheTwoSidedCoin 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 27

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