I Avoid Conflict

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    Why Argue?

    I think some argueing is good up to a point. When it comes to yelling, I will just walk away. I don't think anything good has ever come from yelling at one another. Same goes for fighting. If you want to fight I will try to go around you to avoid it. But don't take a swing at...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2007

    My mom and dad always fought

    and yelled at each other. I even see them running around the house naked fighting. To this day when fighting and arguing are in front of me, I Leave. I picture myself, as a little kid watching two grown ups acting like little kids. Still hurts. My children have never seen us...
    Veteran1 Veteran1
    66-70, M
    Jun 10, 2015

    But Does It Avoid Me

    I have enough GGRRR!! in my life so finding more here is not an option. I've learned to avoid it here when at all possible and maybe I'm out of the loop on a lot of things but that's okay with me. :)
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2008


    Just because i don't like to fight doesn't mean i am not a dangerous person.. I just don't like to fight but if i have to i will tear your head off.
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Mar 19, 2010

    Avoid Conflict

    Avoid conflict,Great idea,Do it,When I can,Me,Don't like conflict.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2012

    ~ No Matter What ~

    * I'm hoping with a bit more confidence that I will eventually be able to stand up for what I believe in. Will be able to state my side without cowering away in fear. It's hard, I've been swallowing my opinions & feelings for a lot of years, but in getting to know myself I've...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 16, 2009

    Avoiding Conflict Almost Killed Me

    My husband has an explosive temper. For someone like me who hates yelling, it is kind of traumatic when he gets angry. So I bend over backwards to avoid fights. But after 9 years, biting my tongue and bottling up any unpleasant emotions turned me into a depressed, anxious...
    sorella97 sorella97
    36-40, F
    May 23, 2012


    ***** were given that day.
    HaveFunXB HaveFunXB
    22-25, F
    May 7, 2013

    Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr !

     Avoid it like the plague !       And will not be a party to it here  on this site either. If you see me even head in that Direction, I give you permission to whack me upside the head !
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 17, 2009

    I don't like yelling,

    I don't like arguing, and I don't like fighting. So I avoid it. Agree with things even if I don't like it. Get rid if things even if I don't want to. But if it avoids a conflict of any type then why not?
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2014

    Avoiding Conflict

    I admit that I avoid intense conflict. Not all conflict but the ones where I know it can be intense (i.e my wife) and yet I also know that it is only through conflict can reconciliation be achieved. The problem is that there is fear behind it..the fear of being judged, the fear...
    deleted deleted
    May 24, 2013

    Sometimes- not all. But today,

    if I ignore phone calls, texts, and beatings on my door long enough, the problem will go away-- right? I think it's a splendid plan.
    tefaire tefaire
    18-21, F
    Dec 12, 2013

    I Cant Stand It, As Far As I A...

    I cant stand it, as far as I am concerned, that word belongs to the goverments of this world, and all the trouble makers on this earth.
    rosygal rosygal
    46-50, F
    Dec 5, 2007

    Life Is to Short to Create Conflicts Even When You Are Right!

    Why argue. Today the #2 boss asked me wht my partner has kept a item for 2 years & 3 months. I said that certain people do not share or honor the joint property. Why get in a conflict. I have worked all this time without it & have outstanding evaluations. She has not...
    moonwalker moonwalker
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2008

    Why to make everything a conflict

    when you can avoid it. conflicts always leads to disagreements
    deleted deleted
    Aug 15, 2015

    What's the Point?

    I just don't see the point in being angry and trying to fight or argue all the time.  People have enough stress.  I know I certainly do and I'm sure the person next to me does too.  Why add to it by being argumentative or mean?  I believe in...
    darlingviola darlingviola
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2008

    I Do My Best to Avoid Conflict...

    I do my best to avoid conflict. It's nothing but drama, and I hate drama. If someone is dramatic, I keep myself away from them.
    BMcD BMcD
    16-17, F
    Dec 5, 2007

    It Stresses Me Out to Much.

    i avoild conflict too. to much stress. i do say at times,  i say what i won't to say and it does help. at the same time it only makes matters worse.  [ alot of times ]
    dayandnight dayandnight
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2008

    Keeping The Peace...

    My husband and I have an extremely strange and "strained" relationship. There is so much he says that if I was working on implusivity...would just blow up into a huge arguement...so I try to stay calm for the sake of the kids. There is nothing worse for young children to see...
    marlon70 marlon70
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    It's seems so much easier

    than arguing over something that you may or may not be right about. I just rather avoid it all together and move on. On the other hand I think inner conflicts are probably best being dealt with seeing how running away from things like that is very unhealthy, but the trivial...
    StrikeFour StrikeFour
    Feb 12, 2014

    And I'll Kick the *** of A...

    And I'll kick the *** of anyone who says otherwise.
    IndyNudist IndyNudist
    46-50, M
    Dec 5, 2007

    Life Is Too Short!

     I agree with moonwalker. Life is too short and what is accomplished in the end except ill feelings, tension and future conflict? There are things I will certainly step into the fray about, but generally I try to avoid conflict. On EP if I am responding to someone else...
    lovelife2themax lovelife2themax
    51-55, M
    Jan 10, 2010

    I Love Beavus and Buthead

    But I avoid conflict, I think everyone is entitled to their opinion, and that's the beauty of life. Though I don't always agree with everyone, I don't think confronting them would do any good. I do love to debate and discuss the differences, but I don't like to fight.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    Conflict = Drama

    and I'm all about reducing drama in my life...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle
    36-40, F
    Aug 23, 2010

    I don't like conflict.

    I want the world to be a good place to live. Sadly my defense to conflict is to just ignore it and pretend that it isn't happening. I know that doesn't make it go away but I don't want to stress over something i have no effect over. Sometimes I wish I could travel into the...
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Sep 18, 2014


    I hate conflict.  I try to find the nicest but most firm way of saying something to get my point across.  I try to be the peace maker and keeper.  It's the libra in me.  But...if conflict is unavoidable...watch out.
    vampireheart vampireheart
    31-35, T
    1 Response Aug 14, 2008
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