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I Balboaguy Has Passed Through The Veil To The Other Side

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    Thank You

    for showing me who real friends are. real friends don't forget. you are a wonderful person. i will never forget that. ever. period.
    hungrybuddha hungrybuddha 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2010

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    Tobias

    was one of the most awesome people that had ever met on ep. so full of life and wisdom, positive energy abound! i can't help but miss him very much. i still think of him often.
    hungrybuddha hungrybuddha 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    For All BG's Friends

     I am Naomi, Balboaguy's wife. There is no easy way to say this, and I am making this announcement with the help of a dear and close friend.  I am doing this because "BG" would want me to let his friends know what happened. During the early hours of Tuesday...
    NaomiBGand2chn NaomiBGand2chn 41-45, F 53 Responses Nov 27, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    One can acknowledge himself only throughout The Other. Our wishes, morals, acts, virtues, judgement etc. are founded throughout the interaction with The Other. I am really proud of...
    NchK NchK 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    but I don't know that it was an accomplishment. I know that it helped a few things but it also knocked back a lot of really good work that I had gotten done
    titterbird titterbird 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I feel everyone has a feminine and masculine side to them. I feel it's not half n half or anything like that. I just think we all have both of them in us. I feel much more female...
    dev1978 dev1978 36-40, T 4 hrs ago

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    It's empty psychobabble. Take responsibility for your own words and actions, just as you expect me to take responsibility for mine. And quit blaming people for being 'affected...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 11 hrs ago

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    I don't know where to begin.... My Mum and Dad were only 19 when they had me. They broke up when I was very young, but they were still civil for my sake. I lived with My Mum but...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ummm... The other side you noob.
    Mechawaffle Mechawaffle 13-15, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    A different perspective. (This will be long...sorry) I'm going to change names and certain details purely because this is not my own experience, but observations I've made about a...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    "We're not broken, just bent..." One of my husband's most sustaining phrases he has used to keep my spirits up during our marriage recovery, is a lyrical line, from the song...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Our relationship has always been good. (other than not having enough time) But it is getting emotionally deeper. It scares the heck out of me. First he is having a major...
    blue963 blue963 46-50, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Talking on the phone is stressful because the person on the other side doesn't know if something distracting is going on my side. A lot of times when my sister and I are at home...
    AlpineBeast AlpineBeast 16-17, F Jul 9

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    Next week will be a year since him and I started this. I can't believe a whole year has passed. I've been reflecting on how all this started, how last summer him and I got to know...
    eforever82 eforever82 31-35, F a week ago

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    I'm not sure if this counts but I see that from what I have been through, it has made me a better person. Basically, since I was 5 years old my parents have been separated. My...
    edenfw edenfw 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Update: Divorce. I hope you're all doing well, and wanted to give you an update, since we've all considered divorcing our asp. spouse (or many of us at least). I got lucky in a...
    Mannon Mannon 36-40 3 Responses Jul 4

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    The great actor James Garner has passed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family at this sad time. http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/21/movies/james-garner-actor-dies-at-86.html...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Jul 20

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    As the OW, I've really learned what it's like to be on the other side of the spectrum. I used to ridicule woman who put themselves through these somewhat torturous relationships...
    StuckInEternity StuckInEternity 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 29

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    I've been back for two and a half weeks. It's two and a half weeks since he text me last. I'm still hoping every day that he'll be in touch, still waking in the night and checking...
    Bittersweet14 Bittersweet14 26-30 1 Response Jul 6

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    Once their was a little boy. He grew up in a house with his Daddy and his Mummy and his sisters. One day the little boy saw the truth, when he was about six. He watched as his...
    TorchwoodBoy TorchwoodBoy 18-21, M Jul 21

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    My husband and I have been together for 18 years and now due to traumatic childhood event that he just remembered a year ago he now has multiple personality disorder (mod) or...
    apryljeff apryljeff 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Hey, I'd been having a relationship for the last year with a guy who is married. He and his wife have a little boy together. His wife found out about the affair and immediately...
    Andrea32f Andrea32f 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 5

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    I think what draws me to people with a dark side is that I myself have a dark side that I feel just eats me up. I am still reluctant to discuss it because I feel that by talking...
    ForeverInDarkness22 ForeverInDarkness22 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    I lost my married man (mm) 2weeks ago. It was and is devastating. I felt like I was dying. He left me to go back to his wife 2 weeks before we moved in together. one day we were...
    rosylovecheeks rosylovecheeks 26-30 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I think this is really gonna be the end. Last week I flat out asking my mm if he needed to end "us" so he could work on his relationship with his fiancé. He ignored my question. I...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am going to share with you how I got bullied in elementary school and how I view it as a Christian. I was SEVERELY tormented or bullied by the devil/satan through other kids. Now...
    sleepinheavenlypeace sleepinheavenlypeace 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    I was the mistress to a 47yr man for over a year. I call it being a mistress now because of how things ended, but let me take you back to when I moved mountains for this man...
    rosylovecheeks rosylovecheeks 26-30 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    theyre sooo amazing I love them!! My friend april has Adam's number and im just sooo jealous eeeerrrrrr
    lolnahhh5 lolnahhh5 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    You beat my mother up whilst she was pregnant with me & screamed that you didn't want a baby. I was born on the 5th of February 1994 and for a second, you had changed your mind. So...
    EBAAA EBAAA 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I'm curious now that I have seen the t.v. shows and read the novels. Is there evidence of an alien civilization on the dark side of the moon? If there is, has any culture from...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 8 hrs ago

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    I read the moon was an artificial satellite that was put there for gravitational purposes. It's also hollow. There's glass dome structures all over. There are structures on the...
    TheGr8Pretender TheGr8Pretender 70+, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    She was born absolutely perfect. All her developments were right on track. Walking, crawling, standing, pulling self up etc. I think we first noticed the problem at 18 months of...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    ive always wondered how every one sees me. I have so many different sides of me I often wonder if they see me as acting fake. im not I just act different depending on how I feel...
    Yungbug Yungbug 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I discovered BVB in 2011 and have been listening to them since then. Their songs are amazing and are life savers. I've been through quite a lot these few years and as a teenager...
    suthidabear suthidabear 18-21, F Jul 19

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    Religious (ego) Consciousness, True Consciousness (subconscious experience), and Spiritual Consciousness (super conscious) *Disclaimer: Controversial. Not for the emotionally...
    nagaprincess nagaprincess 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Black Veil Brides saved my life... Literally
    NatEvans NatEvans 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A spontaneous 3-hour late lunch yesterday with my MM. We were at the park talking. I had my head in his lap and he asked me what I was thinking about. I told him I was thinking...
    Stalked9 Stalked9 41-45, F 9 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    The pain of being the other woman and my story.... Thanks to Experience Project, Thanks to my new circle of friends here, thanks to those people who are just browsing, thanks to...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm suffering from lack of focusing & doing things for a VERY long time. Till I left my family for my high school education, I was simply living in my bed. I was intelligent, I...
    tewkel59 tewkel59 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    The story of the donkey (why you can never please everyone) There once was a man with a donkey. He had to go to the market with his son, so he put his son to ride on the donkey...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I am NOT the other woman any longer but then again I never did feel that way…..For those that know my story already know that my relationship was an open book for all including...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I look at being the other woman as a business deal...especially if the OW is also married and seeing another MM. Every business arrangement is different...for me and my MM, it was...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It was online only, but the love I had for her was as real to me as anything else in this world. I ended many offline sexual relationships to be faithful to her...not because she...
    SunnyJohansen SunnyJohansen 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying...
    PierceTheOvercastKid PierceTheOvercastKid 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have found the man that I want to be with forever.. The only guy since being in an abusive relationship that I have cared about and respected enough to stick with past the first...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Going through a huge breakup.. She cheated. Confidence is destroyed . I don't know what to do now. I don't know what I did wrong. I really need help.. Preferably from a girl...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 6 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    An elderly couple from our local church was in habit of care taking for the needy... Those who had kids... A lady from our church was married to a womanizing drunk with mental...
    Kickingnscreaming Kickingnscreaming 56-60, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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