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    Or, at least I try to do.... Martika, my madam, insists that all her prostitutes smoke and they have to look sexy and act sexy too.... That goes with the smoking too.... Amber...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It's been quite a while since I've posted here. I check in every now and then, and quite often see stories from people with a case of the what ifs, the ones we all experience when...
    Iamhere4me Iamhere4me 36-40, M 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I am sadly coming to the realization that my spouse and I never really had a marriage. We weren't even good at dating. The first Valentine's day we had an argument...I don't even...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 2 Responses 55 mins ago

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    I always seem to be turned on, I literally never stop. I usually ********** and finish at least twice a day, normally more.. Is this normal? It's not even like I've had sex or...
    JPSmith24 JPSmith24 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hb says I dont need to move out to work on our problems... We could solve them "in house".:). Fact is we have not had sex in the past year. He says he is trying really hard... I...
    Whywhenwho Whywhenwho 26-30, F 11 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I believe some people marry to stop from being alone not caring if the make another person lonely. I have been married going on 12 years and my wife slowly started losing all...
    distant7322 distant7322 46-50, M 1 Response 32 mins ago

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I'm in a same sex relationship, we've been together for over a decade. Same sex marriage isn't legal in our state but we had a commitment ceremony several years ago and consider...
    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Sexless Marriage is a Biblical Reason for Divorce This is a re-post of a comment I wrote to someone that TheWendigo suggested I post as a story, in case it helps anyone. I am...
    UndefinedValue UndefinedValue 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    I need some opinions as to whether I'm being a jerk. My wife has developed a medical condition that she says is making it uncomfortable to have sex and also makes her desire to...
    lookingforanswers1 lookingforanswers1 51-55, M 22 Responses Jul 31

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    I can't believe I am doing this. I have been married for just 10 years, and we have a young child My husband is attentive, plugged in, affectionate, and present. He is...
    ChildOfDNM ChildOfDNM 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    My Story Part 2 About a year I could not face the reality... I thought it all was happening to somebody else and I was just watching... at the same time my country collapsed in...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F Aug 1

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    My husband is a sex addict. I discovered this about a month ago, although I had been ignoring the clues for years. Throughout our marriage of 14 years (and before we met) he has...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    Here goes...I found EP doing a search about sexless marriages so here I am, my first story. I've been married 15 years to a man who in the beginning had me believing he could not...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a sexy goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    Not a whole lot to tell. My wife announced over 10 years ago that there would be no more sex. She has hip and shoulder joint pain from being a hairdresser, so I don't blame her for...
    greyeagle45 greyeagle45 66-70, M 7 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm 42, he's 40. We've been married 7 years with 2 kids. I just thought we were too tired for a sex life. For the last couple of years I have had this low level of resentment...
    Blox99 Blox99 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Sex-Shaming I ran across this, buried down in a string of comments: "Actually they say the more intelligent a person is often the less sex they need..." I was a little surprised...
    MeNotWe MeNotWe 26-30, F 20 Responses Jul 27

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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
    Nil0 Nil0 46-50, F 12 Responses Jul 30

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    I have been married for 15 years. The crossdressing came out about 8 years ago. I was really supportive and loving about it. Felt sorry for Husband that he had had to hide it all...
    LadyLana39 LadyLana39 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    This marriage of ours has been teetering on the brink of failure for some time now and I am really struggling to cope with the absence of sex. My wife is an alcoholic / pain pill...
    007jeep 007jeep 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    This is how much is missing when sex is missing from one's marriage. "“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    The situation in my home hasn't been good for the last couple years, and I know I need to leave my girlfriend of 8 years. Not only has she completely excused the behavior of her...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been thinking... Maybe people with high sex drives are 'normal' and those with 'normal' normal sex drives are missing something. A high sex drive is different to sex addiction...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    "Im in a sexless marriage but I won't cheat on my spouse." The problem you hope to never face but are never prepared to face. Often people are at the end of their rope, having...
    Happablap Happablap 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 20

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    Sexually frustrated husband uses spreadsheet to show wife what's wrong with their sexlife. I have empathy for the husband. Obviously, however, his spreadsheet didn't inspire his...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 15 Responses Jul 21

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    Observations from amazing night of passionate sex last night. Aftermath. I only post this because i use to spend a lot of time wondering weather or not I could go through w...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 27 Responses Jul 22

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    Interesting article on obesity and its effect on people's sex lives. "Readers first encounter Englehardt at her heaviest, 265 pounds, strapped to a CPAP machine for sleep apnea...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    When we got married five years ago, I was 24 and he was 47. He was very kind, respectful and affluent. He made me feel good about myself in ways I never did before. The sex wasn...
    gothette gothette 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 24

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    Ironically enough-the tables have been turned!! I originally posted on this experience because I was worried that my relationship would deteriorate due to my lack of hornyness. I...
    Dinorat Dinorat 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I am married and I have lost interest in sex. There are several things that turn me off. I HATE talking during sex. I hate being awakened for sex (I have a very hard time sleeping...
    lipservice22 lipservice22 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    So I'm still in my 'stormy' phase (I'm likening my ups and downs of sexual importance to a baby App called the wonder weeks! Stormy developmental phases and sunny happy phases...
    Waterlanding Waterlanding 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I'm not sure what I am to be honest, but this is the one definition that fits best. I have found myself attracted to male and females, but only after close relationships, after we...
    beautyfromthis beautyfromthis 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Failure to Recognise RealityWhen I first came to EP, like most others, I claimed my marriage was great bar the sex. I even said that before my ex and I were married we couldn&rsquo...
    Unjusted Unjusted 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 27

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    I feel so confused atm. Before my sex life plummeted 18 ish months ago it was very good and exciting. Hubby made me feel sexy and desirable. Sometimes though I use to wish that we...
    evie36 evie36 41-45, F 16 Responses Jul 28

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    The good news is my husband seems to be more interested in having sex since our last talk (the one about being afraid of not satisfying me completely since ). He mentions it more...
    asterinight asterinight 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 28

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    hi all I am a 54 male an d have been married for 30 years my wife had a hysterectomy about 10 years ago and sex along with intimacy have gone down since now it is at zero my wife...
    Nightb4 Nightb4 51-55, M 10 Responses Jul 31

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    It was long ago. They grabbed sexy. Rolled into a van. And drove away. Since then others became sick mimicrees. Sexy is now erotic but greedy and mean. Not really...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 2

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    I'm sexual not in the way of ************ or sex with another person, but sexual in the way that I think most everything has a sexual element to it. You can say that money makes...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 2

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    I haven't had sex with my wife in almost a year. In the meantime I've cheated on her with other men about 6 times. After being not just sexless but affection less for over 6 months...
    Jasonpresten2 Jasonpresten2 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 3

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    On the Today show today they talked to couples over 50 about their sex life. There was a couple on there who have sex once or twice a month. The wife says she wants to have sex...
    suburbanmomoftwo suburbanmomoftwo 51-55, F 19 Responses Aug 6

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    Selectively Coming Out As some of you know, last weekend I went on a road trip with my best friend from college, to the town where we went to college. Up until now, the only...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 6