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    I am a submissive male into female domination

    who loves receiving hard corporal punishment. I would like to hear from subs and doms who also enjoy hard corporal punishment. I would like to discuss your idea of a great session. thanks
    writeprow writeprow
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 9

    There is so much that I want to try,

    so much to explore. I had a brief D/s relationship and I felt alive for the first time in years. My husband had agreed to explore this lifestyle and we had even negotiated a semi-open marriage but he became too jealous. Things got bad and we separated for awhile but got back...
    JoyinDarkness35 JoyinDarkness35
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Considering A D/s relationship

    Hello everyone! I am new to this type of lifestyle. I am a 40 yr old woman, who has recently seperated from my husband of almost 20 yrs. As my name states.. he broke my heart and it seems no matter how much I wanted things to get better, I sadly see now that they will not. We...
    hebrokemyheart hebrokemyheart
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2010

    So Glad He Said Something

    I am new to this whole bdsm world. It all started when I was being rather forceful with my husband during one of our nightly romps when he asked me to tie his hands together. After our very vigorous and enjoyable time I asked him about wanting me to tie him up. It was then that...
    WolfAngel712 WolfAngel712
    31-35, F
    Oct 25, 2013

    Owning A Slave

    Owning a slave is more then just sexual activity or painful punishments, it takes love, care, and comement , but then again some own slaves just for the pure fact for being pleased , it's a two way street depending on the depth of the relationship as well , you have to listen to...
    soldier8 soldier8
    31-35, M
    Jul 25, 2013

    First Experience

    Ok so 6 months ago my world changed........... I began talking to a local man i had met online..... this man was so diff. from any of the other men i had met or talked to since my marriage had started to  fall apart. Before this i was always a very shy...
    hebrokemyheart hebrokemyheart
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    Oh, So That Is What The Little Toe Is For

    Ms. ill - now that the rules have been explained and the safeword is agreed upon: McDonald's Hamburger. We agree we are being respectful and trusting - and most importantly we are showing our Love for each other as we develop positive behaviours to correct your societal mal...
    aerolanroots aerolanroots
    51-55, M
    Aug 2, 2012

    Twas The Night For A Spanking

    Here’s the perfect bit of Christmas Eve spanking poetry for you. Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night! ‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the town Her pleas could be heard as her panties came down. “Oh Santa, dear Santa, don’t spank me, I pray...
    Daddyskitten21 Daddyskitten21
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2011

    New BDSM story up tonight,

    shouldn't have kept you all waiting so long ;)
    IvyJuliet IvyJuliet
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2014

    Shamelessly Submissive

     I'm 27 and female.  I find true comfort in service at home and outside of the home.  I have very particular needs however.  I'm not the typical young submissive.  I am sexually submissive, and I am personally submissive and subserviant, but I am this way...
    RighteousGirl RighteousGirl
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

    I've Got A "Real Dungeon"

    My "playroom" appeared in a "national" magazine in 1987. I specialize in suspension bondage. I do suspension in over a dozen ways: Floating Platform (picture a ladder hung by a chain at each corner) , Rotating Cross (like Farris wheel), floating cross, Hanging Mail Bag, Boot...
    SirHugo SirHugo
    56-60, M
    Jul 25, 2013

    Tell Me Your Rules...I'll Listen

    I can be an obedient girl ... And I like being told what to do. The force and control over my body is what takes me to bliss
    Lyssa201 Lyssa201
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2013

    Visiting Sir At His Office...

    While you are at work, I come to see you wearing a nice sexy top and short skirt thigh high stockings and some come **** me high heels...you are at your desk working, as I walk in you don't notice me at first but you look up when you hear the door to your office close and the...
    sweetangelcakes sweetangelcakes
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2013
    akila231 akila231
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    Nailed Toungue

    I call you over. you are completely naked.You are kept naked at all times.I tell you to stand before me and spread your feet apart. I then tell you to stick out your toungue. I take hold of the stud you have pierced through your toungue and take it out. I then grab hold of it and...
    Mastertoyou Mastertoyou
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 2, 2011

    Our New Normal....

    My husband and I have been married for almost two years; but we just recently discovered one another in a way that has completely turned our lives into a daily honeymoon full of lust and new love. As far as I can remember I have always had a desire to be dominate in my daily life...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 14, 2013

    All For Daddy :)

    My long distance relationship gets a little more complicated when one considers the collar around my neck. It's been a year and a half, and I've never taken it off, except when I was required by work... and it literally made me sad to take it off. He is my other half, my better...
    lostlonelybrokengirl lostlonelybrokengirl
    26-30, F
    Sep 6, 2013

    Make Me Do It On Video

    I'm currently looking for someone I can video tape myself for doing their dirtiest ideas for me to do. No face on camera, illegal, or public PLZ email me at xclosetfreakx@gmail so I can share my fun with you or send me a message on here.
    xclosetfreakx xclosetfreakx
    36-40, M
    Jun 17, 2013

    My Only Experience

    This is my FIRST and ONLY bdsm experience. After my mom died and I was living with my grandparents, I got onto the yahoo chat rooms. I got on to the bdsm chat rooms by accident, I found out what it was, and recognized those feelings from when I was 12. THAT was what it was...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Aug 27, 2013

    In Which I Find Out I'M A Bedroom-Only Sub...

    I was asked to be a sister-slave, and without quite knowing what that entailed, I said yes... ...So this last weekend, I went up there...the two of them are both kinda broke-ish...so I spent money on them-about $50. I have a job, but I'm far from swimming in money, so this...
    hylierandom hylierandom
    41-45
    11 Responses Feb 25, 2013

    Your holes belong to me

    if your a good girl maybe I will let you decide where I ***
    bdsmmaster68 bdsmmaster68
    46-50, M
    Aug 3, 2014

    Wood Nymph

    so you like camping?? hmmm...maybe a wood nymph..you and me..out in the woods..up in the smoky mountains..clean air..clean cold water...and you!..i pull up..and wow! you are all packed..and waiting! damn, what a woman i have found!..and you can drive a truck too..finally...
    shooter5 shooter5
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Jan 9, 2012

    New Mistress

    I am a 76 yr, old Mistress who found this lifestyle late in life. I have a submissive who has asked me if I would start lactating for him. I would love to but don't know how to start, has anyone had any experience with this? I would appreciate all comments.
    texflower texflower
    70+, F
    May 1, 2013

    What Now??

    I have for a long time wanted to explore BDSM, But never known where to start. I have very recently had a nsa liaison with a man in a committed relationship. This has left me wanting more, we only touched on the surface of play, and although i was the sub I wasn't very good at it...
    snowdark snowdark
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2013

    Water Treatment

    The Dark Falconer enters, his belly is the same as 4 Filipino men tied together as one Big Fat Man - Not Strong - but He is a Guidance Man he guides those wayward women / ladies who have enough confidence to say: " Master Frank, the Dark Falconer my c e r v i x itches...
    aerolanroots aerolanroots
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 22, 2012

    Just Kink, I Think, Therefore I Am

    My wife of 25 years and I practically grew up together, and after our first few sexual interactions, we began to experiment.  The experimentation ( and fun ) has never stopped.  We were into this stuff before we ever heard about any "rules" or "limits...
    dlaurence75254 dlaurence75254
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2009

    Seeking To Please A Domme Via A Skype Relationship

    Been on my own a long time now. I'm a novice submissive male who is losing weight but not in the breast area. I have resigned myself to purchasing a bra due to their prominence and am awaiting delivery. Photos are in my profile and I will upload my modelling the bra when it...
    chrissy2013 chrissy2013
    56-60, M
    Nov 3, 2013

    My First Encounter...

    "Take off your clothes," she said sternly, her face stoic and hands gently placed at the hips. The black leather crop she held matched almost seamlessly to the form-fitting black sheath dress, with its subtle snakeskin pattern that seemed so befitting for her. The dress hugged...
    allformymistress allformymistress
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 24, 2013

    Maybe...I'M A Bit Long In The Tooth....

    I may seem a bit out of touch, but, I've recently had my eyes opened to the whole BDSM thing.... The subs The doms Controlling Being controlled Maybe...I'm Just old fashioned... I met my wife when I was 17 Been with her ever since And over those 29 years - we've...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie
    46-50
    1 Response May 2, 2013

    My First Bdsm Encounter

    I talked to the Master on the phone.When he got to my house, he phoned me again, he told me to undress, to open the door but to wait naked behind the door having blindfolded myself.He knocked, I said come in.I was blindfolded, he got me to crawl like that to my lounge then he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 13, 2012

    Behind Iron Doors

    "You're my ***** second and my love first.." Words like silk carving there way through the mind like a drill through cotton. Am I sick for wanting to be owned by another soul? If so , I hope there is no cure. Its one thing to be dominated and another to be owned... Domination...
    TheSleepingSiren TheSleepingSiren
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2013

    Let Us Just Say

    daydreams are good because they can be fully documented, don't you hate not having the best of recall after a nice nighttime dream - and who doesn't enjoy a dream - maybe it becomes reality. This story does not endorse any Hilton partner hotels - - in fact an isolated Best...
    aerolanroots aerolanroots
    51-55, M
    Nov 20, 2012

    While some people like to play with BDSM in

    order to add a little spice to their bedroom activities, others take things more seriously. You might be one of those people who want to set up a strong power relationship between yourself and your slave – but how do you get started? When you’re serious about building a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 22, 2014

    I'm not sure what it is.

    Perhaps coming to a certain age has a lure to it, perhaps it is the preponderance of **** on the internet that loosens some peoples inhibitions. I don't know. In the last three years I have been propositioned by a number of women in their twenties and early thirties. I'm not...
    CompleteCourse CompleteCourse
    51-55, M
    Mar 31, 2015

    I Am Lost

    Due to events I had no control over, and had no knowledge of the man I love no longer wishes to associate with me. He was my dom. I was his sub. I have no light to follow... I have no lips to kiss... I have no heart to hold. Lost.
    Vikingsdragon Vikingsdragon
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 12, 2013

    Friday Night.

    I gasped when I heard my bedroom door open and then be slammed shut. "Hello." Sam grunted. "Hi." Whip!!! Straight across my legs, I gasped out in pain, squeezing my eyes shut. "I didn't tell you to speak, did I?!" He shouted. I shook my head and reopened my eyes to see him...
    IvyJuliet IvyJuliet
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

    Mb people don't understand bdsm,

    some people think it's a ****** up and twisted life,others as in most, think it's kinky sex or just sexual period, but in my eyes bdsm is a lifestyle who the so called normal people don't understand, but guess what BDSM IS NORMAL AND HEALTHY, yea everyone who lives this life...
    soldier8 soldier8
    31-35, M
    May 19, 2014

    Touch...

    Love the feeling of a mans touch...a mans caress...the feel of his hand when he touches my cheek...his lips on my lips...kissing...his kisses down my neck...on my nipples...oh yes...the feeling I get when he sucks and licks and teases them...the feel of when he bends me over and...
    sweetangelcakes sweetangelcakes
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2013

    My first date with my former partner was

    amazing. We had been talking on the phone for a couple of months and finally had a chance to meet. He took me out to dinner. I was wearing a halter top black and white polka dot dress and polka dot heels. I love 50's fashion. He told me how amazing I looked. He always made me...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 29, 2014

    All night party in bdsm.

    Love it. Tell me what you would do to me.
    Doggysue Doggysue
    41-45, F
    32 Responses May 19, 2015

    Humiliation

    Humiliation is a far greater force of control that pain, as any typical arse in the street can beat a person into submission, and rule through fear, only a master of high quality can get a sub to grovel because of humiliation. Putting a sub in a nappy and watching her...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

    I love it... just looking

    for someone in mumbai whom i talk to about it
    ajinkyac ajinkyac
    26-30, M
    Feb 19, 2015

    I See Those Self Flagellation Pictures And Videos And

    think about a back scratcher that little bamboo handle with fingers/tines on one end even with that it is hard to ' get that spot ' but the self whippers and spankers odd !!! - although i like the spanking machines Narcissistic Me is about Self but the self that i can...
    aerolanroots aerolanroots
    51-55, M
    Jan 14, 2013

    My First Time

    I started out in the lifestyle with just being into diapers at first,then I found this site which also led to FL,which then brought me to my local bdsm groups. At first it was just dips,then I found a lovely little thing called ageplay,then I found others into the same ****** up...
    ALdiaperboy ALdiaperboy
    26-30, M
    Aug 29, 2013

    Property Of Or Permanent Property Of Or Take This My Pretty

    i remember the first collared girl i met with a 5/16" or so smooth loop a steel loop / hoop welded tight what about the girls that say i would never tatoo a guy's name on my body i am thinking about branding - i have been burned twice small but severe to moderate...
    aerolanroots aerolanroots
    51-55, M
    Jun 6, 2013
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