I Become Emotionally Attached Too Easily

To people mostly... If you feel the same, share your stories here. 1,604 People

    It's True...

    I hate to admit it, but it's true. I have recently cultivated quite a few new friendships. I easily forget that we're not old friends, trusted comrades, because our interactions have been mostly of the electronic sort. Texting, emaiing, chatting, messaging, etc. It so much...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2012

    I believe that every person I meet is somewhat

    special to me. The bigger the bond grows, the harder it is for me to let them go.
    sammichs sammichs
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 28, 2014

    I hope everyone is having a good day,

    ,if you need me I'm only a message away
    DreaSmurph DreaSmurph
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 24

    I let people in and I have a hard time letting

    people out. Even if they hurt me more than I could even imagine. I can't seem to let them go.
    Pretending2Smile Pretending2Smile
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    I had a great friend,

    he was so good to me when I was suffering from anxiety! Over six months ago he started seeing someone! We could always be honest with each other, and I told him I was a bit jealous, but very happy for him! I had started seeing someone too! We always said we'd be friends! Then...
    BMG47 BMG47
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    Always Have...

    I become emotionally attached to guys way too easily. Show me some affection, attention..you will have a stalker on your hands.LOL OK I'm not that bad. I DO become attached pretty easily though. Come to depend on people too easily & too fast. Want them to stay in my life...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2012

    I can clef all in love with someone in the

    course of A few hours. Worst trait ever.
    crabbiecakes crabbiecakes
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 28, 2014

    I hate that i get so attached quick.

    I started to this guy on the phone a couple of days ago and i cant get him out my mind i hate this.
    Dee87 Dee87
    26-30, F
    Sep 19, 2014

    It's unfortunately a weakness

    for me. Intellectual conversations captivate me and draw me in. I apologize in advance. No I'm not desperate just too damn trusting. And wear my heart on sleeve per say.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    It's so ******* annoying!

    Every time I speak to a man I cry when they leave me, if I hug a man I don't let go, if they protect me I'm sad and I'm happy, if they have a wife or girlfriend I want to make them go away...I wish it would end🔫
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10
    22-25, F
    Jan 25

    There are numerous older men in the world

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24

    I become emotionally attached to anything way

    too easily. I was playing Minecraft with my fiancé the other day. Long story short, I tamed a wolf (named him and everything) and after about half an hour he died and I must have cried for at least an hour.
    Honiebun Honiebun
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2013

    Recently I have become emotionally connected to

    someone whose been helping me overcome my depression but like what happened in school, years ago, I've been become emotionally attached to a girl who I don't even know and I don't know what to do. I'm really confused and that's is bringing the heartache I had in the past back.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I Am Broken.

    I'm an emotional wreck. I mean look at me, I'm losing my fcking mind. I don't even know where to begin; where to start. I feel as if I'm nothing but a lost cause. No matter how hard I try to bring myself forward to face the ugly world, I'm always knocked back down. I can't even...
    SFRosie SFRosie
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 3, 2013

    ...It does not occur often

    but when it does I...I don't know.
    Repentover Repentover
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2015

    I don't know if I like this

    or not but @$#$@^$#, I'm always like this XD ahaha.. Then what happen next, nothing. I need an ice cream right now and pizza please! =D
    tummytum tummytum
    22-25, F
    Feb 24

    I find it fascinating

    that someone would want to converse with a person like me. And it is so, that I cherish the person early on because I feel as if they truly accept me for me. Whether or not that is true, is what haunts me. And that is why I'm scared to become attached to someone, even though I...
    babyletterz babyletterz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    I have mentioned previously

    that i have Anxious-preoccupied attachment disorder. I realized many people are not aware of different types of attachment. Just to be informative, i want to explained what it is. I came across it briefly in my psychology class. It simply means that each person have one of four...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut
    18-21, F
    Mar 13, 2014

    Shattered

    Wine, heart , roses Passion, Love and sadness Arts of foolishness Between those sides of darkness Tattoo on her heart "Broke" was the word who marked Then when they held, Piece by piece It became frozen And then it shattered to dozen She sealed it with bandage But then again it...
    SecretWriter7 SecretWriter7
    16-17, F
    Apr 21, 2013

    I easily fall for someone I just met few hours

    or a day, especially if that person uses sugarcoated words and makes me feel special. I just met a guy here and he's like the sweetest guy here who talked to me, he's living far from me but he makes me feel special. I don't wanna fall in love just because of the things he...
    officialwanderer officialwanderer
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2014

    I either love you and become attached,

    or push you away and not you'll feel the distance.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 24

    Apparently So...

    This is my story. It's not a long one, but it's been an emotional one for me. If you must comment, please do so with care, as I'm still a bit raw here. Also, please be mindful of the other party. This story is about -me- and -my- feelings. I will delete any comments that attack...
    Rosalinn Rosalinn
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2012
    floweronfire floweronfire
    22-25, F
    Feb 25

    I'm in band and a while back we had a field

    show were we would take the field for the awards. While we were waiting i just kind of became very sad. A few people realized this and completely avoided me. But the girl I like came up out of the blue and asked me what the matter was. The way she looked at me literally took my...
    Tristan46 Tristan46
    18-21, M
    Mar 13, 2014

    If I date someone I'm going

    for marriage. it's not just a fun thing to do on the side for me I take relationships seriously and I've been hurt because of it.
    Lilaven Lilaven
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 25

    It hurts so much but someones,

    you're just in so much need of another person
    LGirl10 LGirl10
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    I hate it... I would be no problem

    if it was to people that deserve it but i get attached to the wrong ones. :-(
    EternityF EternityF
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 3, 2014

    I get attached so easy

    because I am very insecure and I hate it. It pushes people away from me but I am so alone and I want to be with someone so bad.
    marques30s marques30s
    31-35, M
    Oct 30, 2014

    I Really Really Wish Otherwise.

    It's embarassing to even admit it. I guess it's because I am kind of needy. I mean, if someone messages me one day and chats for a long time via internet or phone and if they don't do the same the next day, I panic. I actually frigging panic. Gad, I can't believe I actually do...
    frootiee frootiee
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2011

    .Fake.

    Sometimes i wish i cannot easily love someone Because if i love i know what will be done It will be happy at first time And be done with painful one Memories of somebody who held my hand And then with those sweet words i know were i'll land I'll land in a fairy tale where it was...
    SecretWriter7 SecretWriter7
    16-17, F
    Feb 7, 2013

    A new survey has revealed

    that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The study, conducted by online dating site www.agemeet.com, collected data from 53,233 users with the results being quite...
    Juliecc11 Juliecc11
    26-30, F
    Dec 1, 2014

    I get emotionally attached to boys easily.

    It sucks so hard. Some people think that a kiss on the lips is nothing but to me, once you kiss me and not talk to me... I will mope around about you for weeks till the next guy comes along and kisses me.
    Lalafancy Lalafancy
    18-21, F
    Mar 22, 2014

    How Do I Stop It? I Don'T Want To Scare Others Away, But I Do?

    I am the same as you. I know that I get to emotionally attached to people, but I don't know how to stop it. I feel as if once I have a connection to someone, I want to talk to them all the time. For instance, I just finished a course. One of my instructors was talking to me...
    Bribles Bribles
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 8, 2013
    alliemonster alliemonster
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2014

    I am diagnosed with "anxious-preoccupied

    attachment disorder". It just means that i have high anxiety and low avoidant. When i get easily attached to a person, i will think negatively of myself, and positively of my partner. This caused my act to become unpredictable, critical, panicking and i will bring up trivial...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut
    18-21, F
    Mar 11, 2014

    I Don't Think This Is A Good Thing

    I scared people because of this. And I often got hurt because of this. Is being emotionally attached to someone a bad thing to do? Well, I think so. Now, my friends are slowly drifting away from me and one of them admitted that I scare him. Is this really wrong? But, I can't help...
    amethyst91 amethyst91
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2010

    stroy of my life, I always seem to become to

    attached, I guess not having alot of people that talk to you does that
    gokuwillis267 gokuwillis267
    16-17, M
    Nov 17, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carinaccaa carinaccaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 1

    Much to my chagrin, this usually ends up with

    me being ****** over. So I will stop doing this from here on out.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Dec 2, 2015

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