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I Believe Age Difference Doesn't Matter

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    But when it comes to love and intimacy I wouldn't look at a child. I think that goes without saying. But other than that I do get pissed off when people think it weird of me to...
    Se7enth666nero Se7enth666nero 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Yes it does! As long as you well get along together. And you have a lot in common.
    Bluejec19 Bluejec19 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    When I was 16, I was approached by a 26 year old woman. I ended up falling madly in love with her. My parents found out and went ballistic! We slept together once when I was in...
    tripledmomma tripledmomma 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    IS IT WRONG TO OBSESS OVER A 16 YEAR OLD????😳 Leo Howard.<3 a.k.a Jack from "Kickin It" ...I mean look at him😱
    ItsJayRock ItsJayRock 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    When two people are connected to each other, age shouldn't matter. I don't have a problem with dating older or younger men as long as the connection is genuine. Then the age...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I don't believe it does because weight doesn't either so it's just a number so who cares
    Abby2223 Abby2223 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Age is a number and love is more important in that and I don't care about age
    elizabethmia elizabethmia 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok it depends what type of a age difference a 40 yr old and a 12 yr old maybe when they're over the age of 18 you can pursue them but other than that it's illegal .
    Awkwardandsad Awkwardandsad 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Never - Oldermen have become like an obsession w/ me. Though it's not as if I wouldn't give one that is younger the time of day, but gosh sometimes I can be sitting with my legs...
    NotLolita NotLolita 18-21, F 12 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    To my love is love no matter what age , I have always like older guys , when I was 15 I was with someone 7 years older then me , he never acted it tho and defo didn't look it...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94 18-21, F Mar 3

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    I believe age is determined by knowledge and smart thinking
    diaperedsammy diaperedsammy 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Age shouldn't matter of course because love is love and people should respect that
    Missmiamedina Missmiamedina 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Age sure doesn't matter to me :)
    Missmiamedina Missmiamedina 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Why is it even such a big deal? I get that some people think it's wrong, disgusting, or that the girl is getting used, but that doesn't apply to all situations. That's like putting...
    aly5977 aly5977 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    I would love for an older woman to be with. I wish an older woman would give me a chance. I cant seem to keep girls my age interested in me. its frustrating. any woman from 40 to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    Age doesn't have a number because when it comes to maturity, personality, and the way you can handle yourself in certain situations, I believe that those 3 attributes can speak...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'm falling for someone who is 29, and I am 15. He is the best person I've ever met and known, I don't think it's wrong. I'm rather mature for my age, and he treats me better than...
    treasureforever treasureforever 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 16

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    I just turned 18. Up until now I've always dated guys in college or out of school and I liked that they had more life experience than the boys in my classes. However, I found that...
    awkwardailey awkwardailey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Mine Urs And Our Ages - To me age difference doesn't matter unless ur partners 9o and ur 14. But like i don't think age difference matters. As long as u love them and trust them...
    Needadaddy123 Needadaddy123 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    It Doesn't Bother Me! - I have a crush on a boy (or should i say, man) who is of legal age. (I'm not). He is 4 yearsolder than me and people think it's completely innappropriate...
    Justthatgirl728 Justthatgirl728 13-15 1 Response Jun 19, 2012

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    I use to and actually blew a great chance with a fantastic woman. She was younger and thought she would be interested in me. Find out years later she had a huge crush on me. I...
    shadowwolfeut shadowwolfeut 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Everyone is always asking why it doesn't matter to me and I said because age shouldn't matter about love and who u love don't let he get in the way
    Missmiamedina Missmiamedina 13-15, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Is There Too Much Of An Age Gap? - I'm all for the 'age doesn't matter', to a certain extent. Obviously a minor with an adult is questioned! I was 14 and my first real/long term...
    dannabell dannabell 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Love Is Blind - Love does not know age. Love is ageless. Love knows only itself.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Love is love. If you feel an attraction to someone who is older than you, and it's not just for money or the boasting or even for sexual purposes, then it's love. If you can sit...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    My fiancé is 10 and a half years older than me and this is the best relationship I have ever been in. He is my best friend and we have never had any relationship problems.
    lollyxdolly lollyxdolly 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    My best man freind is 52 and we play games at his house but I can't tell people as he says it a secret but I like going there
    littlejuli littlejuli 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 1

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    People are people not numbers :)
    Becky19409 Becky19409 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    To me honestly Age is just a number, there are 'adults' who act like kids and 'kids' who act like adults. To me age is completely out of the equation, I guess it comes from me...
    Lauramom38 Lauramom38 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 8

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    It Really Doesn't Matter - I've been in a very loving relationship with a man 17 years older than me... I prefer it over the bs I get with younger guys and even guys my age... The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    I'm Sorry But I Love An Older Man - I am 23 now and I am really attracted to a man in his mid 30s to his mid 40s. When I think about sleeping with a man in this age range it really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    The biggest issue I've seen is that society dictates what the norms are and what is acceptable and what isn't. If both parties are happy then age really shouldn't matter. You have...
    OralLover481 OralLover481 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    As long as it's legal! Love is love :)
    iDntCurr iDntCurr 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 23

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    I've seen a kid outsmart a forty year old man, stupid is stupid, no matter what age. Now for relationships, I don't really care, love is love. To each is own, live and let live.
    httpdeathawaits httpdeathawaits 22-25, M Mar 9

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    I'm into older guys, like 18-35 and it's so hard because of the laws they have against it!! I can see why their made but I don't think it's entirely fair.
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 23

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    Why do people thing a older man with a young girl is wrong
    littlejuli littlejuli 18-21, F 51 Responses Mar 4

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    Age is just a number to me
    mongo275 mongo275 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Well, I posted here once when I first got this about my 62 year old boyfriend. There was a lot conflict about that. So I decided to keep everyone up to date and let them know; he...
    JordanJessie JordanJessie 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 3

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    Why Should It? - Age shouldn't matter in a relationship as long as both persons care for the other. I don't get why it's a crime (other than for the ones under 13) to date a...
    CrystalCelestria CrystalCelestria 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    I dated a woman 15 years older than me when I was younger. I recently dated a girl 12 years my junior. To me, it isn't age, but intelligence and mutual attraction that bring people...
    randomgauge randomgauge 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    Really? - Age is just a number so many have said. I don't look at age when it comes to forming relationships with people, it only emanates a barrier to block growth and self...
    Lushiro Lushiro 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    I believe it doesn't for me, but it does for most people. I just happen to have never really grown up, so I've always been an infant in an "adult" world, and a scared infant of...
    phil3gee phil3gee 70+, M Mar 31

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    So I like this guy and he's 19 he's afraid that I'll get him in trouble since I'm only 16 but I promise him I wouldn't because ill respect anything he does. He told me he wouldn't...
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    Even to herself. Just so everyone is clear from the outset, this is not a complaint, nor is it an indictment of my friend (I call her than, because she really is my friend - my...
    tdguy tdguy 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    My mother is 50 years old and she'd still fit right in with middle school spoiled girl who think people who read books thicker than 400 pages are 'icky and have no life', she also...
    Felicity3110 Felicity3110 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30