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I Believe Age Difference Doesn't Matter

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    My experience with younger

    than has always worked out before my wife which is 8 years younger I had girl friends that were 18 -20 and I was 8-10 years older
    Hornydudetoo Hornydudetoo 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It doesn't matter if there is real sexual,

    emotional, or physical attraction there. It just gets in the way and creates an unnecessary, albeit. psychological, barrier.
    apresm0i apresm0i 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    someoneyoulove143 someoneyoulove143 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I believe in a loving sexual relationship

    that age difference doesn't matter as long as both ADULT parties were born in the same decade. After age 50, I believe 15 years upwards is ok and has both parties still being able to be equally active. But after age 70 then both parties will have to travel at the order ones...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2015

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    So wishing my family would understand

    so I could tell them how much I'm in love and introduce them to this amazing man. If they could see past age difference they would love him. I know there just being protective but he looks out for me more then anyone in my life more then my actual family. He's the one who picks...
    WhoseMe WhoseMe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Mikah1022 Mikah1022 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2015

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    My parents have a 17 year age gap.

    They eloped days after my mama turned 18 because she was pregnant with me.... People said they would never make it but guess what? Today is their 20 year wedding anniversary! Happy Anniversary Mama and Daddy!!!
    avf24 avf24 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2014

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    My best man freind is 52

    and we play games at his house but I can't tell people as he says it a secret but I like going there
    littlejuli littlejuli 18-21, F 20 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    My parents are 13 years apart

    and they have one of the strongest relationships I've seen. He's actually half way between my mom's age and her mother's age. I've been involved at times with women 10+ years older than me, and it worked out fine. I think the key is understanding the difference in experience...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 24, 2015

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    ohmygosh6578 ohmygosh6578 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 25

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    I've had young girls now.

    ..and much older ones when I was younger - so natural and that age gap doesn't mean a thing when you have that connection, in fact it just makes everything more intense
    LoverOfWivesAndMoms LoverOfWivesAndMoms 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2015

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    I Truly Believe,That If Two People Meet

    and Are Kindred Souls Age Isn't A Factor(As Long As The Two Are Of Consenting Ages).I In My Past Have Dated Females Who Were At Least Twenty Plus Year's Younger Than Myself,I'm 46.To Be Absolutely Honest I Prefer My Significant Other To Be Younger Than Myself.
    BIGGSKEET BIGGSKEET 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Never

    Oldermen have become like an obsession w/ me. Though it's not as if I wouldn't give one that is younger the time of day, but gosh sometimes I can be sitting with my legs cross from arousal at a lecture (class) just b/c the professor shows this wisdom and experience that I know I...
    NotLolita NotLolita 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    I was 22 when I met my husband at my cousin's

    wedding. He was 34. We dated and fell in love. I was 23 when I married him and he had just turned 36. He was 12 and a half years older then me and it never caused a problem in our life together. Jack was taken from me in a car crash last November just 3 days after my 34th...
    youngwidow80 youngwidow80 31-35, F 25 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    I have many online friends,

    age ranging from 14-60+. I love talking to people of all ages. Age doesn't matter, the friendship does
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 1, 2015

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    why should age matter

    when two people love each other?
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F 21 Responses Sep 29, 2015

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    I just need someone,

    who can understand me, nd whom I cn understand also, we can share our feelings, happiness, joy,even tears, I need the one not only to be with but to stay with, it never matters the age or country because these are jst numbers nd words , for people who wann b together, just...
    arjish arjish 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I have had relationships with guys well over 45

    years older than me. It didn't matter to me and it didn't matter to them. We both got what we wanted. It seemed to matter to friends and family who thought they knew my mind better than I did, who decided I was being taken advantage of. It takes two to tango....and if you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    As long as it's legal!

    Love is love :)
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    What I think should matter is their personality.

    The amount of years someone has been alive has nothing to do with anything. Someone could be old and immature, while someone could be young and mature. Pretty much every culture in the history of the world practiced relationships with massive age gaps, it's only our culture...
    Dagymislife Dagymislife 16-17, F 11 Responses Jan 22, 2015

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    Then it happens that you chat with a special

    girl, and she does not read your answer and misunderstands. Kitten, unblock me. You have not read my reply ...
    Arkimede Arkimede 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2015

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    I'm attracted to guys older

    than me. My friends find it weird. As do I. But what the heck, old guys, young guys, they're all guys.
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jun 1, 2015

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    3rdday 3rdday 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 30, 2015

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    I'm really attracted to guys a little older

    than I am. I'm not really into guys my own age. I'm 17 and dating a guy in his early twenties wouldn't be a big deal to me, I actually prefer it.
    shaylii424 shaylii424 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    if 2people are bonded by mutual love,

    understanding, and respect. that's more important than age difference
    bambi575 bambi575 36-40, M 6 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    littlejuli littlejuli 18-21, F 33 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    No way. I much prefer older men.

    They're much more aggressive and confident. So sexy
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 21, 2015

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    I believe in most situations age difference

    does not matter as long as the two parties R consenting adult age that means nobody under 18 and as long as they have a mutual understanding of the situation just for clarification people should be allowed to love who they want as long as they understand the situation and Intel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    No it does not mater.

    Why should it be? If you feel young you will date young, if you feel more mature than your age, you will like accompany of an older person. It is that simple.
    Gallantio Gallantio 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    I'm dating someone 4 almost 5 years older then

    me... Love is love. Love doesn't know an age!!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2015

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    Actially?? I can date someone younger

    than me and I don't mind if he's going to be way older than me. Cause that's where the fun is. Dating someone younger I can't say anything cause I have not experienced it before but I'm sure if I can get someone who will love me for real and is truely in love with me I'm good...
    Deeyor Deeyor 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2015

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    I just love being with men

    so much older then me i think its so naughty. I love how aggressive they are and know what they want. I love their mischievous grins as Im crawling over to you on my knees
    SarahsTushy SarahsTushy 18-21, F 18 Responses Jan 15

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    Isn't there anywhere out there on the interwebs

    where we can share open ideas that isn't so heavily regulated?
    golferforepartee golferforepartee 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 27, 2015

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    Age really doesn't matter

    when you truly love someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 31, 2015

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    the law of. . . . . .

    attraction, can cage us cougars
    Rain0069 Rain0069 26-30, F 13 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    I'm 16 and love it older men especially over 50

    if you are interested message me
    rosew9 rosew9 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    amelia786 amelia786 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 28

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    When it comes to making an emotional connection,

    it's the soul that starts speaking first. I feel most connected to those over the age of 35 all the way up to 80 and beyond... That must be why I've been thought to have an "old soul" my entire life. My grandmother, a mere 77 years young, is my best friend in the world. And...
    laurenb229 laurenb229 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    Age doesn't define you.

    The person that you are is who defines you.
    ChocolateBunny87 ChocolateBunny87 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 22, 2015

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    I used to believe it

    but now that I am older and wiser to the fact of love, I believe that. My older sister married a man who was more than 20 years her senior. I didn't like the idea until I saw the genuine compassion in them that many other "age appropriate" marriages lacked. I also this love...
    spankemotk spankemotk 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    oye2 oye2 46-50, F 6 Responses Jun 22, 2015

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    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M Jan 24

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    I've always liked younger guys,

    but too bad... I'm too old for him. Ampf!
    JD0121 JD0121 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 13

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    It doesnt really matter

    until when the other starts pretending of their age :P
    adorableprincess adorableprincess 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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