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I Believe All Men Should Be In Touch With Their Feminine Side

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,294 People


    I suppose I have a feminine side although I find it hard to define what that is. In my case it certainly isn't clothes, I look silly in bra and panties and dreadful in a dress. Might have something to do with the beard. So what defines your, or my, feminine side.
    4patt 4patt
    Oct 10, 2010

    Reaching The Feminine Side

    Nowadays when I am around the home I wear long t shirts which are as good as short dresses with tights or (as I have already numerous times in other posts) tights underneath feminine trousers. Since doing that I am sure that my stress levels are greatly reduced and I am more...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 21, 2012

    Why I Crossdress!

    My earliest memory in life is that of trying on my mothers high heels. Most little boys try this a time or two and then go on to something else but for me it was a great big wobbling step towards who I am today. I remember that my father was absent from my life most of the time...
    sissyribbons sissyribbons
    36-40, T
    3 Responses Sep 17, 2009

    Femanine Feelings

    i just think its good when men can be who they want to be ,i very much enjoy being intouch with my femanine feelings . Dressing as a female helps me to relax and be who i want to be.
    racheal46 racheal46
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jun 27, 2010

    All Men's Need To Be In Touch With There Self

    if they are not then please get it to gether and keep up with other men's
    pastor24 pastor24
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2011

    It Started Today

    i started therapy today to help me decide how far i want to take my femininity. i think i picked a good one, she works directly with an endoctronoligist and specializes in hormone therapy. So if choose to go that route, i'll have both the mental and physical aspects taken care of...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 29, 2012

    Whole ...

    All the men in my life, without exception, have all had a very strong feminine side.  I have always loved men who are happiest in the company of women, at ease and can communicate and express themselves and are not afraid to show emotion. I have never been attracted to...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    37 Responses Oct 17, 2009


    ok,fellas,it's THERE whether you like it or admit it or not.Most of the macho dudes I know are usually motivated by FEAR,internalised from life lessons when young.(me too,I'll admit)but knowing and honoring all aspects of our complex selves has alot to be said for it,rather than...
    dubkebab dubkebab
    46-50, M
    9 Responses Oct 17, 2009

    I Do

    My wife says my actions change when I am dressed up. She says I sit more like a lady and act more like one too.I didn't think I changed any after I was dressed up, but I guess wearing women's clothing makes me act more like a lady.She also says I am a happier person when I am...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2013

    Four Days And Looking Forward To More

    If you have read my story "It Is My Week (+)" you know that the wife is out of town for 10 days and I am avidly pursuing my hobby and passion of cross dressing 24/7 (instead of the more usual hour here and there). This is a truly wonderful experience for a closeted CD one that...
    DonnaSt DonnaSt
    66-70, M
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2013
    4patt 4patt
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    'Man Goddess'

    My roommate recently coined the term 'man goddess' in his attempt to explain me to a friend. I think the phrase sums it up pretty well, a man who appreciates being beautiful, graceful, dignified, and feminine. I know plenty of straight guys who would never ever think of dressing...
    IsIsPericles IsIsPericles
    22-25, T
    12 Responses Jun 12, 2010

    Loving My Feminine Side

    loving my feminine side has brought me into a very beautyfull place with wonderfull people and i think that some men would love to find their feminine but are afraid to do it .
    phylisanne phylisanne
    70+, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2009

    My beautiful wife and Mistress have decided to

    start our pages on here looking for friends and networking. I am 40 bi m who loves to be humiliated and made to dress up by my wife and suck **** and want to get ******. I would love to see my wifes sweet ***** ****** by a fat **** since I have such a small sissy **** ****. She...
    hersissycuck hersissycuck
    41-45, M
    Dec 9, 2013

    You Might See This In Your Work Place.

    I am a bisexual guy that workes as a laborer at  a meat packing plant. as a bisexual I am all for fair play, but there are young men at work who are a bit ignorrent about life. There is this one guy who jokes around putting people down. he has been talked to about his rude...
    sisypwimp sisypwimp
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2010

    Keeping Me Focused

    My wife understands and supports my feminine side that is such a huge part of my personal makeup. She knows that when en femme, I am so much more content, relaxed and attentive to her needs and desires. Further, by accepting it my personal health (mental & physical) improved...
    janusatv janusatv
    61-65, T
    Jun 1, 2013

    Tonight Is Special

    My wife is out of town and tonight I get to enjoy our home in my new (first!) dress. I have built a collection of unmentionables but this is new for me. How calming and relaxing it is to enjoy the freedom and coolness of it. I look forward to doing all the usual activities...
    prettydar prettydar
    Sep 17, 2009

    *coughs* Why Is "feminine" Clothing You Idiots? I'm Tired Of This Metrosexual Insult To Women.

    Why do people think crossdressing and wearing womens clothing and caring about your appearance makes you "feminine?"Or that "feminine" has anything to do with women really even and isn't just a list of traits society thinks women have? I separate the mental from the physical and...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Sep 9, 2012

    Just Think

    Just think what it would be like if even 50% of men would even recognise the fact that they have a feminine side. Most men go through life beliving what they have been told. Big boys don't cry. Act like a man. OMG if only they would break down once in a while and have a good cry...
    girdlemania girdlemania
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2009

    Yes I think it is a must,

    finding mine gave me a feeling of completeness lets me experience things sexually and otherwise I was missing out on.
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014

    Why Do Some Women Think It's A Bad Thing

    Growing up I seen both masculine and feminine traits and all the bashing in between men and women because of are differences physical and emotional . I thought by learning how to do thing that women do like hair and make up walk in high heels it would make me the prefect man that...
    notech64 notech64
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 9, 2010

    I would love to be in touch with my feminine

    side: rub my cl*t until I'm squirting, touch my fantastic boobs all day. If I could find those... Can anyone here at least try to help me FIND my feminine side? Must be microscopically small, cause nomatter how hard I look: barren, dry, nothing to give me some pleasure!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 21, 2015

    Best thing that's ever happened to me relating

    or knowledge of my fem side.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Mar 26, 2015

    If You Let Your Little Head Control You...

    Please stay away. If you can't cry, kiss me true, bathe with me by candleight and clean up any strange child's scraped knee...exit stage left, G.I. Joe! Oh, and it would be awesome if we could swap shirts too. *big grin*
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Oct 14, 2009


    Yes I think so. I live in an inverse relationship with my Boyfriend. He learns to be a woman. He lives the advantages and disadvantages. It is dressed as a woman at home and takes care of the household. He has some men's clothes out. He is at home. I work.
    catherinembs catherinembs
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    I Love My Feminine Side

    I've always been in touch with my feminine side. She gives me balance. I love her }:o)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 14, 2009

    Have Always Been In Touch With My Feminine Side

    I have always embraced my feminine side and it never has bothered me. I know many macho guys and ladies who love them will call you names if you embrace this, but to me it is fine. I don't overtly show it but I am. I have always found that the shows for ladies can be entertaining...
    deleted deleted
    May 13, 2013

    I think it's my mom who pushed me towards it.

    I had to participate in household chore like a girl. During my first marriage, my wife encouraged me with this. for it more real self in our relationship or roles were reversed. Female clothes are quickly used. Raised almost like a child, I felt better dressed me in dress pants...
    Charlotte666 Charlotte666
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 21, 2014

    Im Expading My Yan

    Im gradually increase my experiencies in my fem side. First i confess to my wife my bisexual tendencies, and my like to woman closes. The i pay more atention to buying closes an shoes and flowers and other sensitives atentions. She like it and expend more sexual arousement...
    Flisp Flisp
    31-35, M
    Aug 2, 2011

    Loving My Feminine Side

    loving my feminine side has brought me into a very beautyfull place with wonderfull people and i think that some men would love to find their feminine but are afraid to do it .
    phylisanne phylisanne
    70+, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2009

    Side Benefits

    It was a huge step for me when I accepted my femme self & allowed her to to step out of the closet. The anxiety problems I had experienced, including heart palpatations, restlessness, mood swings and other discomforts disappeared nearly overnight. Dressing as a woman and...
    janusatv janusatv
    61-65, T
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2010


    As the way of Tao, that great Chinese school, teaches, there is a feminine element even when all seems masculine.  It is part of us to be both.  We must have something in common to communicate.  Our brain consists of two halves. I never felt ashamed for my...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 3, 2010

    Like My Feminine Side

    I always wear a bra and panties every day. I love the feeling. I also wear pantyhose or stay up stockings when the weather is cool. I totally admire women who understand this life choice.
    jt069 jt069
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2010
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