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I Believe Fantastic Sex Starts In The Mind

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 6,114 People

    She loved how his words disturbed the rhythm of

    her pulse. How words alone could set her body on fire.
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust
    Jun 6, 2015

    If there can't be a more intimate emotional

    connection and simple let acts of intimacy throughout the day, then what is the point. If I can't connect in the daytime, then my heart and body doesn't care if it connects at night.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 30, 2015

    If men especially , understand the techniques

    of using the mind and body together , woman would be better satisfied, and have a more forthcoming attitude to love making in general , I have found tantric massage , and meditation,
    wishingwellguy wishingwellguy
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    This One Makes My Mind Buzz....

    I didn't write was written by a friend.....but I enjoyed it.. ------------------------------------- The ropes were the perfect length. Both wrists bound and tied up above your head kept you standing for me. I watched your naked form for a bit. I could see the...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jun 7, 2013
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Aug 1, 2015

    I certainly have proved to myself

    that great sex definately starts with me rolling ideas around in my head.... 
    gypsysub gypsysub
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

    My Desire For You

    My body is aching to have you inside me. The feel of your body ontop of me, sends electric currents throughout my body. I have to have you now. My body arches upwards to meet you as you gently glide yourself into me. Slow and gentle at first, until the desire to make love turns...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    We Just Met.....and Its Already So Intensely Erotic!

    We just sort of met here on EP...... You commented on one of my stories, gave me support and offered strength. We were so polite and formal that day. Offering each other support and gratitude. Giving each other moral support in ways only two who understood could provide. And...
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    My GF and I say foreplay begins way way

    before we get in the glances, we flirt constantly with a mix of naughty and romantic. Foreplay is ongoing...a kiss on the neck, a heartfelt detailed thank you for doing something like the dishes or going to work. We even talk about how sexy those things are and...
    scottbrooks31 scottbrooks31
    36-40, M
    2 Responses May 19, 2015

    ...he cuddled to her in the morning twilight,

    knowing they are waking after taking her again last night. Her skin and body is an instant arousal to him. She had clawed and scratched her way into his soul to make it her home. He had stood guard against her demons. When she loved, it was always full and intense not like...
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Not everything in sex

    but you have this!
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 22, 2015

    I can sit and look at him

    and imagine what is going to happen later, it always starts in my mind.
    juicylucy69 juicylucy69
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2014

    Yes that's what everyone think!

    But how no action lol! 😳
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    My Lover broke my heart

    when she shifted her affection to an ex convict she found on " I Love" or some stupid site. I can't believe women actually DO this! Anyway, for some reason she broke away from him and came to me for sex the other night. After we got naked, instead of sex I simply...
    KevinConfused KevinConfused
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    I think the above line should include 'and

    ends' in the mind.. For surely that is what's the case no..? The act of being physically turned on is mostly triggered by actions that are going on in your head (except most of us men lol) but for the woman the above is certainly true.. In D/s relationships - especially those...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 6, 2015

    If your roots are deep then you can take this

    feeling to a very wonderful level ! It will grow more sensual and pleasuring .
    pleasuretobehere pleasuretobehere
    26-30, M
    Apr 3

    It's planned out just waiting

    until the right person comes along.
    2lively2blonely 2lively2blonely
    41-45, F
    16 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Was thinking about being absolutely naughty

    with my partner earlier today and this song came to mind. Oh what I imagined doing to him then.....
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    There's no question. Nothing like getting a

    little head to get the juices flowing.
    CheezItz CheezItz
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 16, 2015

    With the right combination of people,

    everything you do is foreplay.
    yetanothermaninCT yetanothermaninCT
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    There is no doubt about this,

    however to make it truly fantastic it must end in the physical. The mind starts the excitement and process, the body concludes it and then both are at peace.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2014

    .....Deliciously lingering there

    as I close my eyes and think of you.
    deleted deleted
    14 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    In our marriage it starts in my darling Wife's

    mind when she selects lingerie and sleepwear to come to bed in. With this delightful invitation presented to me I don't find myself fantacising I find myself focusing upon her and I. Given that she extends this invitation to me on a daily basis I find it entirely appropriate...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    Ohh Your Dirty Mind

    I think that sex for me begins with a look at someone I find attractive, really looking, the depth of color in their eyes, the shape of their nose, the mouth, lingering a little here, imagining the acts of pleasure that could be brought by that mouth. I trail my sights down...
    omgseriously omgseriously
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

    I'm seduced by the power play

    and domination dynamic 95% of the time...please do kinky-taboo things to me. But when he leans close and whispers in my ear 'let's make love', something inside me melts.
    yourtheocean yourtheocean
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    And it shouldn't just end there.

    A great idea is one that is fun and filled with adventure. For two people who enjoy a dynamic connection, the playtime begins with, 'What's on your mind?'
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    The Ultimate Foreplay

    Seduction, arousal and foreplay should begin way, way before our lips ever meet, before the first caress of your hair. Well before we gaze longingly into each others eyes. The body’s most powerful sex organ is the mind. The subtleties of seduction, begins the wheels of...
    ThatFeeling ThatFeeling
    51-55, M
    8 Responses May 7, 2011

    Without this, its just meaningless sex

    and never be as good as your mind and body working together, taking you to euphoric, intense, deep, passionate sex, involving both mind and body, possibly reaching to each others souls.
    Kman4You Kman4You
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 22, 2015

    The Thought Of You

    The thought of you has helped me through some rock hard times, and brought pleasure to another... but it was you when I close my eyes.
    withintent withintent
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2013

    The amazing sex that I had with my AP

    definitely started in our minds. While we grew up together, our lives took different paths. When we finally got in contact again, it started an almost 2 year emotional affair. We finally got to the stage where we knew that we had to see each other in person. I know that I...
    Raven57 Raven57
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    I cannoy stop thinking about

    and visualizing an Asian wife looking up at me as she is wrapping her lips around my....
    Jason6996 Jason6996
    46-50, M
    Nov 3, 2015

    YES starts in the mind.

    ..a thought...a smiling innocent glance. maybe an accidental touch while walking by...a smell...Mmmm...a growing feeling from deep within. A soft touch...gentle fingertips down the back..feeling grows deeper...gentle lips trail from the neck slowly down... Yes it starts in the...
    Slashrattlenroll Slashrattlenroll
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I heartily agree with this one!

    And please save me from those women who hate to talk about sex. Communicating the great sex in our minds is about half the fun. The foreplay that starts before we're even in the same room! S'cuse the rant, I guess I've run into a few women lately with an 1800's mindset in which...
    doug57a doug57a
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    That's why your poetry is

    so marvelous. Ohn, the places I go....
    C01literacy C01literacy
    70+, M
    Aug 11, 2015
    yourvoluptuousbaby yourvoluptuousbaby
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    A hand on my body is stimulating.

    But what if you know the thoughts that go with that hand? What that hand really wants to do to you? That is so much more powerful. Touch my mind then touch my body.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

    I need to have my mind ravished

    before my body. I can give my body freely without such a thing, but you will never have my heart, and I will never have respect. I need a man to take my mind, know me, mull me over, caress me before he even touches me. I need him to own me, push and pull me, and make me...
    Eclecticelle Eclecticelle
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    Grab her ***, kiss her forehead,

    and call her beautiful.
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 14, 2014

    Of course I love the looks,

    and a hot girl could make me horny, but... If you want me to want you, you have to make my mind want you. And it's all about intelligence, and soft, feminine behaviour, attitude, and those small signs... If you are a player, then I'm a player too. If you are not a player... you...
    deleted deleted
    May 3, 2015

    Fantasy Exploration..

    The open and honest sharing of fantasy, and the potential exploration leads to mind blowing experience. Embrace and encouraging anothers lusts and desires is my utmost passion xx
    MNstranger MNstranger
    36-40, M
    3 Responses May 5, 2013

    In the midst of getting a proposal done

    for a client, I eavesdropped on my staff on their tea break deep in discussion. The topic that had everyone all excited was none other than, "How much time should be put aside for". Mind you these were all kids in their early 20's. I listened while I finalised my work...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Jul 15, 2015
    Lucca9 Lucca9
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    I'm thinking about it a long time

    before the guy actually starts to do anything about it. I love to see his surprise, when he pushes his hand into my panties and feels how wet I am!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    He found words that reached deep into my soul,

    words that touched on some of my deeper desires and I found the words he was longing to hear, words of caring, words of tenderness, words of love and passion. Our words intertwined and carried us to a fantasy world of our own, a world in which no one else existed until reality...
    Diablessse Diablessse
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    I'm in need! Someone,

    please do my mind!
    C01literacy C01literacy
    70+, M
    Sep 18, 2015

    So this is by no means an invitation

    for people to start soliciting me with sexual comments/messages, but I just wanted to say how much I agree with this. I just posted this as a comment on somebody else's experience: "[This] reminds me of a quote I read once that I really love: "Seduce my mind and you can have my...
    iSpyce iSpyce
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    You're funny and intelligent

    and you describe certain things so well, I feel as if you're in the same room - and I need to sit down. Will you let me describe what *I* would like to do with you? UPDATE: I'm not going to get into this with people I don't already know. Sorry.
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jun 3, 2014
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