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I Believe Fantastic Sex Starts In The Mind

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5,914 People

    YES starts in the mind.

    ..a thought...a smiling innocent glance. maybe an accidental touch while walking by...a smell...Mmmm...a growing feeling from deep within. A soft touch...gentle fingertips down the back..feeling grows deeper...gentle lips trail from the neck slowly down... Yes it starts in the...
    Slashrattlenroll Slashrattlenroll 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 20

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    Without this, its just meaningless sex

    and never be as good as your mind and body working together, taking you to euphoric, intense, deep, passionate sex, involving both mind and body, possibly reaching to each others souls.
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 3 Responses May 22

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    And it shouldn't just end there.

    A great idea is one that is fun and filled with adventure. For two people who enjoy a dynamic connection, the playtime begins with, 'What's on your mind?'
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Through the Lens Eye.

    Drapes were drawn, allowing just the right streak of light and the dramatic flow of shadows. White sheets laid crispy flat on the soft mattress. The tripod in position. The lens' focus adjusted for light and distance. He came out of the bathroom with his lower half covered...
    KaleidoscopeMoment KaleidoscopeMoment 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    Not everything in sex

    but you have this!
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses May 22

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    Yes that's what everyone think!

    But how no action lol! 😳
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 21

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    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 4 Responses May 29

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    My GF and I say foreplay begins way way

    before we get in the bedroom...sexy glances, we flirt constantly with a mix of naughty and romantic. Foreplay is ongoing...a kiss on the neck, a heartfelt detailed thank you for doing something like the dishes or going to work. We even talk about how sexy those things are and...
    scottbrooks31 scottbrooks31 36-40, M 3 Responses May 19

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    He found words that reached deep into my soul,

    words that touched on some of my deeper desires and I found the words he was longing to hear, words of caring, words of tenderness, words of love and passion. Our words intertwined and carried us to a fantasy world of our own, a world in which no one else existed until reality...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 31

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    With the right combination of people,

    everything you do is foreplay.
    yetanothermaninCT yetanothermaninCT 46-50, M 6 Responses Jul 14

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    A hand on my body is stimulating.

    But what if you know the thoughts that go with that hand? What that hand really wants to do to you? That is so much more powerful. Touch my mind then touch my body.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    She loved how his words disturbed the rhythm of

    her pulse. How words alone could set her body on fire.
    OurJourneyOfTrust OurJourneyOfTrust 70+ Jun 6

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    If men especially , understand the techniques

    of using the mind and body together , woman would be better satisfied, and have a more forthcoming attitude to love making in general , I have found tantric massage , and meditation,
    wishingwellguy wishingwellguy 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    In the midst of getting a proposal done

    for a client, I eavesdropped on my staff on their tea break deep in discussion. The topic that had everyone all excited was none other than, "How much time should be put aside for fore.play". Mind you these were all kids in their early 20's. I listened while I finalised my work...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 15

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    I certainly have proved to myself

    that great sex definately starts with me rolling ideas around in my head.... 
    gypsysub gypsysub 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8

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    Within my mind there is a passion.

    This passion is for a woman that I long to engulf in my burning flames of desire.Let me run my fingers through your hair,let me kiss your lips while into your eyes I stare.You will discover instantly I'm not like the rest ,you're in for something special for when I'm finished...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 1

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    most people are boring to mii,

    but as usual i shell make the best of it
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Mind Sex

    I'm a very creative and passionate person,with a very vivid imagination.Everything for me starts in my mind. I visualize it before I actually see it. I can taste it before I actually eat it. I can feel it before I actually touch it. Sex is no different for me,my mind needs...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 42 Responses Jun 15, 2011

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    Have you ever dated (or married) someone

    that was terrible at turning on your mind? It's the worst. I love getting into my woman's mind, capturing her imagination, sending her hot, sensual messages that make her smile, and ideally make her wet. Get her so worked up that we're both ready to go at it the second we see...
    Jackkdaddy Jackkdaddy 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    Marie6421 Marie6421 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 17

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    I'm thinking about it a long time

    before the guy actually starts to do anything about it. I love to see his surprise, when he pushes his hand into my panties and feels how wet I am!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    So this is by no means an invitation

    for people to start soliciting me with sexual comments/messages, but I just wanted to say how much I agree with this. I just posted this as a comment on somebody else's experience: "[This] reminds me of a quote I read once that I really love: "Seduce my mind and you can have my...
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Of course I love the looks,

    and a hot girl could make me horny, but... If you want me to want you, you have to make my mind want you. And it's all about intelligence, and soft, feminine behaviour, attitude, and those small signs... If you are a player, then I'm a player too. If you are not a player... you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3

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    I can sit and look at him

    and imagine what is going to happen later, it always starts in my mind.
    juicylucy69 juicylucy69 22-25, F 3 Responses May 24, 2014

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    .....Deliciously lingering there

    as I close my eyes and think of you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    The Thought Of You

    The thought of you has helped me through some rock hard times, and brought pleasure to another... but it was you when I close my eyes.
    withintent withintent 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Lucca9 Lucca9 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Fantastic does start in the mind

    if that were not the case I would not enjoy it at all
    braveywanes braveywanes 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Ohh Your Dirty Mind

    I think that sex for me begins with a look at someone I find attractive, really looking, the depth of color in their eyes, the shape of their nose, the mouth, lingering a little here, imagining the acts of pleasure that could be brought by that mouth. I trail my sights down...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Lucca9 Lucca9 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    If there can't be a more intimate emotional

    connection and simple let acts of intimacy throughout the day, then what is the point. If I can't connect in the daytime, then my heart and body doesn't care if it connects at night.
    kayakescape kayakescape 51-55, M 4 Responses May 30

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    The Ultimate Foreplay

    Seduction, arousal and foreplay should begin way, way before our lips ever meet, before the first caress of your hair. Well before we gaze longingly into each others eyes. The body’s most powerful sex organ is the mind. The subtleties of seduction, begins the wheels of...
    ThatFeeling ThatFeeling 51-55, M 11 Responses May 7, 2011

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    The amazing sex that I had with my AP

    definitely started in our minds. While we grew up together, our lives took different paths. When we finally got in contact again, it started an almost 2 year emotional affair. We finally got to the stage where we knew that we had to see each other in person. I know that I...
    Raven57 Raven57 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I Strongly Believe That Yes Sex Has To Starts In The Mind.

    Especialy on Ep where its all about sharing how you feel without speaking or touching. I strongly believe that yes sex has to starts in the mind. The body’s biggest sex organ is the brain! What’s going on in your head has an enormous influence on giving pleasure and recieving...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Yes, I think the mind is the first place to

    start. Our thoughts, lead to action, that leads to physical and mental pleasure. It all starts in my head and progresses from there. No stampeding toward the clitoris till it is time to stampede. lol.
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M Jul 13

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    Fantasy Exploration..

    The open and honest sharing of fantasy, and the potential exploration leads to mind blowing experience. Embrace and encouraging anothers lusts and desires is my utmost passion xx
    MNstranger MNstranger 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5, 2013

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    This One Makes My Mind Buzz....

    I didn't write this.....it was written by a friend.....but I enjoyed it.. ------------------------------------- The ropes were the perfect length. Both wrists bound and tied up above your head kept you standing for me. I watched your naked form for a bit. I could see the...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    yourvoluptuousbaby yourvoluptuousbaby 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    My Desire For You

    My body is aching to have you inside me. The feel of your body ontop of me, sends electric currents throughout my body. I have to have you now. My body arches upwards to meet you as you gently glide yourself into me. Slow and gentle at first, until the desire to make love turns...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    Grab her ***, kiss her forehead,

    and call her beautiful.
    Lucca9 Lucca9 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    We Just Met.....and Its Already So Intensely Erotic!

    We just sort of met here on EP...... You commented on one of my stories, gave me support and offered strength. We were so polite and formal that day. Offering each other support and gratitude. Giving each other moral support in ways only two who understood could provide. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Fantastic sex starts in the mind

    as a thought/fantasy and ends in the mind as a great memory.
    Ashley2K14 Ashley2K14 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    If you don't have a vivid imagination,

    you're going to end up doing the same things over and over, until you and your partner are both bored with the routine and mundane. If you use the power of your mind to imagine new scenarios, positions, toys, whatever, between you and your partner, you can unlock an entire...
    ThirtySevenX ThirtySevenX 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 9

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    polyamoray polyamoray 31-35, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    You're funny and intelligent

    and you describe certain things so well, I feel as if you're in the same room - and I need to sit down. Will you let me describe what *I* would like to do with you? UPDATE: I'm not going to get into this with people I don't already know. Sorry.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    Was thinking about being absolutely naughty

    with my partner earlier today and this song came to mind. Oh what I imagined doing to him then..... http://youtu.be/wIgOL21S98o
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 15

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