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I Believe Fantastic Sex Starts In The Mind

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    Mind Sex

    I'm a very creative and passionate person,with a very vivid imagination.Everything for me starts in my mind. I visualize it before I actually see it. I can taste it before I actually eat it. I can feel it before I actually touch it. Sex is no different for me,my mind needs...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 43 Responses Jun 15, 2011

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    What happens when 20 people meet

    for the first time and kiss? Watch this link and find out. It is beautiful. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/11/tatia-pileva-first-kiss-strangers_n_4940669.html?icid=maing-grid7|maing7|dl13|sec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D452850
    OutOfPatience OutOfPatience 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Be gentle with me, sincerely greet me in the

    morning as we start the day together. Sit and enjoy breakfast with me at the table and let's exchange meaningful banter. Let me get into you mentally and you do the same with me. Relate to me, and I want to do the same with you, lets get lost in conversation. Lets be friends for...
    2LiveIs2Learn 2LiveIs2Learn 31-35 May 25

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    I Believe Fantastic Sex Starts In The Mind Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 28, 2013

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    Like A Symphony

    Great sex starts in the mind. First you must awaken all of your senses. Having your senses highten through seeing, touching, tasting and smelling, you increase the amount of oxygen that you take through breathing, energy from this oxygen will flow through your bloodstream to all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 10, 2012

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    This One Makes My Mind Buzz....

    I didn't write this.....it was written by a friend.....but I enjoyed it.. ------------------------------------- The ropes were the perfect length. Both wrists bound and tied up above your head kept you standing for me. I watched your naked form for a bit. I could see the...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Wife's Old Crush

    A few days ago, my wife and I were shopping and ran into an older man she used to know. He was the first to say hi to her and she got a little flushed when he talked to her. She said hi and they exchanged pleasantries and then she introduced him to me. We left and I asked her...
    freedom25 freedom25 31-35, M 3 Responses May 15, 2012

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    Imagine you have only two hours left to live

    and spend them with your partner or crush. What exactly would you do to them?
    chasingdreamss83 chasingdreamss83 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    My Secrets Are Groups At EP

    Ever since I was a teenager I knew one basic fact about sex. It starts in the brain. It was the most intelligent realization that I ever made as a kid. I not only knew it, but exploited it as much as I could. In the beginning I would do subtle things like reminding my date about...
    marduk marduk 41-45 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    I Couldn't Agree With The Sentiment Of This Group More.

    I have recently been exploring my gay fantasies online. Confessing my dreams and honestly talking about my desires with other men. I have begun to notice just how much more excited I get when things are psychological. How words and mind games can be much more powerful than sex...
    lukeyboy1974 lukeyboy1974 36-40, M Jul 23, 2013

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    Stopping Over

    i haven't heard from you in a bit......soo..... i stop over to visit, and when i get there i can see that you are not your usual self......you look sad......you invite me in and i follow you over to the couch. sitting next to you i put my arm around you and pull you close.....you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 17, 2013

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    Fantasy Exploration..

    The open and honest sharing of fantasy, and the potential exploration leads to mind blowing experience. Embrace and encouraging anothers lusts and desires is my utmost passion xx
    MNstranger MNstranger 36-40, M 4 Responses May 5, 2013

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    The Thought Of You

    The thought of you has helped me through some rock hard times, and brought pleasure to another... but it was you when I close my eyes.
    withintent withintent 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Fantastic Sex

    I had a fantasy to go down on a woman I didn't even know. Long story short, i posted an ad on === === that I wanted to lick a woman and then walk away when I was done. No strings, no sex requested. To my surprise I got 2 responses! The first I met at a local resturaunt that has a...
    doriskkll doriskkll 26-30 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    The most powerful sex organ is the brain.

    So I want you to fondle my subconscious.Make my Medulla Oblongata say Oo La Laas you unbutton and expose your intellect.Study every inch of my mentality like a psychologist.Give me a prescription for thought provoking love.Take me twice and call me in the morning.Caress my...
    smorrigan68 smorrigan68 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 5

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    Contact...

    ...is what it is all about for me. If all I cared about was physical pleasure I would simply watch **** and **********. But it is the thrill of another person, the give and take, the exposure to real desire, the shedding of all our masks... and much, much more that makes sex...
    MattB765 MattB765 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    I can sit and look at him

    and imagine what is going to happen later, it always starts in my mind.
    juicylucy69 juicylucy69 22-25, F 2 Responses May 24

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    The most powerful individual part of every

    single part of us is our mind, every emotion is held from within and using the mind stimulates sexual liaison to the highest plane. Note: This is different to the mind F#@k
    sexyspanker sexyspanker 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Woo Hoo, It Sure As Heck Does

    Woo hoo, it sure as heck does start in the mind. Your mind is the thing that makes you think about sex on and off (mostly on) throughout your working day, making it so you're so horny by the time you get home that you don't know how you're going to stand waiting for "playtime...
    justwonderingif justwonderingif 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    I'm thinking about it a long time

    before the guy actually starts to do anything about it. I love to see his surprise, when he pushes his hand into my panties and feels how wet I am!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    The Best Sex...

    ...i've had is when he's texting me his naughty thoughts...I'm texting him my naughty thoughts... or...on the phone...he's vocalizing, creating images in my mind of an erotic encounter... Have you ever cybered, texted or had phone sex with someone you wished would walk in the...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Oh my. Hubby and I sat on the couch last night

    and went thru a site that sells many fun 'toys' n 'tools' that he thinks we should have in our chest for anytime we may need them. He made sure to tell me how he would use each one on me. Some were made of glass and some were made of leather. He told me that he would be...
    hismissjones hismissjones 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    We Just Met.....and Its Already So Intensely Erotic!

    We just sort of met here on EP...... You commented on one of my stories, gave me support and offered strength. We were so polite and formal that day. Offering each other support and gratitude. Giving each other moral support in ways only two who understood could provide. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Made My Minds Most Erotic Scenes Come True

    The best, wildest, orgasmic, orgiastic, hedonistic, *** filled sex for me has always started in my mind. We really can do anything with each other.It is so true that the best sex starts in the mind. The best sex of all in my life has started with a sexy collaboration with someone...
    AWhiteKISA AWhiteKISA 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    I Strongly Believe That Yes Sex Has To Starts In The Mind.

    Especialy on Ep where its all about sharing how you feel without speaking or touching. I strongly believe that yes sex has to starts in the mind. The body’s biggest sex organ is the brain! What’s going on in your head has an enormous influence on giving pleasure and recieving...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 12 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    Indeed

    And most often, ends there.
    samedeepwater samedeepwater 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    My Sexual Fantasy

    Hi there, I am 37 and married but have had a gay fantasy that I need to get off my chest because for obvious reasons it's not something I can tell my wife or friends; yet it excites me so much. I hope you are all understanding and I can get some constructive feedback and perhaps...
    lukeyboy1974 lukeyboy1974 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2013

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    Locked Out Nude On A Hotel Balcony

    This was during our stay at Pattya. On one of the days, after we returned from the pool, my wife went to take a shower. She returned naked to the room, and I told her that I wanted to take a few pics. She told me that I already had so many nudes of her, what will I do with a few...
    HotDelhiCouple HotDelhiCouple 36-40 9 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    You Should Know....

    Sexually, I want to dominate you.. but in a way that ONLY brings pleasure. I may get rough, I may show my strength, I may become aggressive and primal but I am constantly of your limits. I want to devour you. I know you always take showers and are extremely anal about being...
    NaughtyAngel2011 NaughtyAngel2011 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    All Day Long.

    I've been thinking about you all day long. I'm so hot right now, I'm practically writhing with need. The anticipation is such a turn on...it just keeps building and building.....
    Smartnsexy869 Smartnsexy869 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Think It Starts With

    guess am different I thing the best sex comes from being able to talk with each other and express what your needs are and trust
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 22, 2013

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    You're funny and intelligent

    and you describe certain things so well, I feel as if you're in the same room - and I need to sit down. Will you let me describe what *I* would like to do with you? UPDATE: I'm not going to get into this with people I don't already know. Sorry.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 14 Responses Jun 3

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    My Most Frequent Sexual Dream

    The scene always begins the same. I feel myself lying on a hard surface with my head tilted and falling back over the edge. I can’t move my head to look down my body. I hear voices, but I cannot see anyone. My arms are bound tightly straight down to the floor. My knees are bent...
    some2soon some2soon 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Delivering It!

    Yes, good sex starts in the mind, delivering it needs attitude and acumen! I desire fantastic sex! I want fantastic sex, right now!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2013

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    The True Sex Organ

    Anticipation is the spice of sex. How you flavor the event takes it from good to great. It can be a whisper in your ear on the dance floor ranging from, "I want you." to a description of how I will take you. A narrative of how I will undress you, tease you, taste you is a...
    DerickD DerickD 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Major Frustration Dump!

    Ramble alert!!!!! I just feel so frustrated! I just feel like getting rid of all the pretend boyfriends that I have accumulated in the vain hope that the many would make up a real one. Here is a letter to them all: You just don't get me. I don't want to have sex and then...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    The Psychology Of Sex

    Sex is very healthy for the mind and is mainly psychological. The main difference between men and women when it comes to sex, is how they think about it and what is going on in their mind. Men have the admirable and amazing ability to simply focus on one thing to the exclusion...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 13, 2012

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    To Caress My Lovers Mind, A Thousand Different Ways…

    It is the body’s largest and most powerful sex organ. The mind. The subtleties of looking into her eyes, an innocent touch on her arm, to touch her hair. A deep, soft whisper in her ear, just exactly the things that she longs to hear. To know my lover, so deeply, to touch her...
    1LonelyXHubby 1LonelyXHubby 56-60, M 7 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Communication In Marriage Turns Good Sex To Great

    Great sex in marriage needs excellent two way communication, including being a good listener and receptive to your partners verbal and physical communications. If you can’t talk about or express what works, what doesn’t and what you want to try, you usually never move past a...
    husbandsperspective husbandsperspective 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2013

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    Ohh Your Dirty Mind

    I think that sex for me begins with a look at someone I find attractive, really looking, the depth of color in their eyes, the shape of their nose, the mouth, lingering a little here, imagining the acts of pleasure that could be brought by that mouth. I trail my sights down...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    She is the Girl I Could Never Have

    I knew this Lady. She acted wild and risque, Coy and worldly, Teasing us, taunting us With her stories and demeanor. But, I found her, Not as she pretended to be, But shy, upright and beyond reproach, Resisting our crass approaches. Hiding behind the EP window. Teasing us...
    ericthered07 ericthered07 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    My Desire For You

    My body is aching to have you inside me. The feel of your body ontop of me, sends electric currents throughout my body. I have to have you now. My body arches upwards to meet you as you gently glide yourself into me. Slow and gentle at first, until the desire to make love turns...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    The Ultimate Foreplay

    Seduction, arousal and foreplay should begin way, way before our lips ever meet, before the first caress of your hair. Well before we gaze longingly into each others eyes. The body’s most powerful sex organ is the mind. The subtleties of seduction, begins the wheels of...
    ThatFeeling ThatFeeling 51-55, M 11 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I agree completely. If you can not seduce my

    mind then you definitely won't get my body. I enjoy flirty or even an intellectual matter of fact conversation about, well just about anyone. Keep me focused, keep me intrigued, capture the child within me with your playful words and awesome imagery. Stimulate me, captivate my...
    YellowLilyPad YellowLilyPad 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    *YOU DON'T KNOW....* * You don't know how I

    imagined you kissing my fingertips and running circles with your tongue on the palm of my hand. * You don't know how I imagined you tracing lines with your fingers... on my skin..all over my body. * You don't know how I imagined you awakening every delicately sensitive tip...
    CandyxCane CandyxCane 36-40, F 18 Responses May 1

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    The Anticipation...

    The longing...the slow buildup...exchanging knowing glances from across a room...sending dirty messages back and forth all day...going about your day so aroused that you can't concentrate...it's all you can think about...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5, 2013

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    I want mind-blowing SEX,

    a strong connection, to marry and have a baby... ALL with the same guy!!! I want a fairy-tale!!! Nothing less. I'm tired of guys who want ONLY SEX... I want much more than that and I can offer a lot more. The baby doesn't have to come straight away, but has to come at some...
    Helen33 Helen33 31-35, F Apr 26

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    'Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken.' -Simone de Beauvoir...
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    Without sex we would not exist.
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