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I Believe Fantastic Sex Starts In The Mind

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 6,490 People

    Mind Sex

    I'm a very creative and passionate person,with a very vivid imagination.Everything for me starts in my mind. I visualize it before I actually see it. I can taste it before I actually eat it. I can feel it before I actually touch it. Sex is no different for me,my mind needs...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 41 Responses Jun 15, 2011

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    I heartily agree with this one!

    And please save me from those women who hate to talk about sex. Communicating the great sex in our minds is about half the fun. The foreplay that starts before we're even in the same room! S'cuse the rant, I guess I've run into a few women lately with an 1800's mindset in which...
    doug57a doug57a 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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    If men especially , understand the techniques

    of using the mind and body together , woman would be better satisfied, and have a more forthcoming attitude to love making in general , I have found tantric massage , and meditation,
    wishingwellguy wishingwellguy 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3, 2015

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    Yes, I think the mind is the first place to

    start. Our thoughts, lead to action, that leads to physical and mental pleasure. It all starts in my head and progresses from there. No stampeding toward the clitoris till it is time to stampede. lol.
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M Jul 13, 2015

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    I'm thinking about it a long time

    before the guy actually starts to do anything about it. I love to see his surprise, when he pushes his hand into my panties and feels how wet I am!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    My Lover broke my heart

    when she shifted her affection to an ex convict she found on " I Love Convicts.com" or some stupid site. I can't believe women actually DO this! Anyway, for some reason she broke away from him and came to me for sex the other night. After we got naked, instead of sex I simply...
    KevinConfused KevinConfused 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    There is no doubt about this,

    however to make it truly fantastic it must end in the physical. The mind starts the excitement and process, the body concludes it and then both are at peace.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 28, 2015

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    If there can't be a more intimate emotional

    connection and simple let acts of intimacy throughout the day, then what is the point. If I can't connect in the daytime, then my heart and body doesn't care if it connects at night.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 30, 2015

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    There's no question. Nothing like getting a

    little head to get the juices flowing.
    CheezItz CheezItz 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2015

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    It's planned out just waiting

    until the right person comes along.
    2lively2blonely 2lively2blonely 41-45, F 23 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    Not everything in sex

    but you have this!
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 5 Responses May 22, 2015

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    Lucca9 Lucca9 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Without this, its just meaningless sex

    and never be as good as your mind and body working together, taking you to euphoric, intense, deep, passionate sex, involving both mind and body, possibly reaching to each others souls.
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 1 Response May 22, 2015

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    In our marriage it starts in my darling Wife's

    mind when she selects lingerie and sleepwear to come to bed in. With this delightful invitation presented to me I don't find myself fantacising I find myself focusing upon her and I. Given that she extends this invitation to me on a daily basis I find it entirely appropriate...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M 5 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    yourvoluptuousbaby yourvoluptuousbaby 46-50, F 15 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    She loved how his words disturbed the rhythm of

    her pulse. How words alone could set her body on fire.
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ Jun 6, 2015

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    We Just Met.....and Its Already So Intensely Erotic!

    We just sort of met here on EP...... You commented on one of my stories, gave me support and offered strength. We were so polite and formal that day. Offering each other support and gratitude. Giving each other moral support in ways only two who understood could provide. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I'm in need! Someone,

    please do my mind!
    C01literacy C01literacy 70+, M Sep 18, 2015

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    Through the Lens Eye.

    Drapes were drawn, allowing just the right streak of light and the dramatic flow of shadows. White sheets laid crispy flat on the soft mattress. The tripod in position. The lens' focus adjusted for light and distance. He came out of the bathroom with his lower half covered...
    KaleidoscopeMoment KaleidoscopeMoment 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2015

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    Of course I love the looks,

    and a hot girl could make me horny, but... If you want me to want you, you have to make my mind want you. And it's all about intelligence, and soft, feminine behaviour, attitude, and those small signs... If you are a player, then I'm a player too. If you are not a player... you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3, 2015

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    Ohh Your Dirty Mind

    I think that sex for me begins with a look at someone I find attractive, really looking, the depth of color in their eyes, the shape of their nose, the mouth, lingering a little here, imagining the acts of pleasure that could be brought by that mouth. I trail my sights down...
    omgseriously omgseriously 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    A hand on my body is stimulating.

    But what if you know the thoughts that go with that hand? What that hand really wants to do to you? That is so much more powerful. Touch my mind then touch my body.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    In the midst of getting a proposal done

    for a client, I eavesdropped on my staff on their tea break deep in discussion. The topic that had everyone all excited was none other than, "How much time should be put aside for fore.play". Mind you these were all kids in their early 20's. I listened while I finalised my work...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    ...he cuddled to her in the morning twilight,

    knowing they are waking after taking her again last night. Her skin and body is an instant arousal to him. She had clawed and scratched her way into his soul to make it her home. He had stood guard against her demons. When she loved, it was always full and intense not like...
    GWMH GWMH 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    I need to have my mind ravished

    before my body. I can give my body freely without such a thing, but you will never have my heart, and I will never have respect. I need a man to take my mind, know me, mull me over, caress me before he even touches me. I need him to own me, push and pull me, and make me...
    Eclecticelle Eclecticelle 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    I certainly have proved to myself

    that great sex definately starts with me rolling ideas around in my head.... 
    gypsysub gypsysub 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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    The Thought Of You

    The thought of you has helped me through some rock hard times, and brought pleasure to another... but it was you when I close my eyes.
    withintent withintent 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    With the right combination of people,

    everything you do is foreplay.
    yetanothermaninCT yetanothermaninCT 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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    You're funny and intelligent

    and you describe certain things so well, I feel as if you're in the same room - and I need to sit down. Will you let me describe what *I* would like to do with you? UPDATE: I'm not going to get into this with people I don't already know. Sorry.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    .....Deliciously lingering there

    as I close my eyes and think of you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I can sit and look at him

    and imagine what is going to happen later, it always starts in my mind.
    juicylucy69 juicylucy69 22-25, F 3 Responses May 24, 2014

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    PollyAmoreMMF PollyAmoreMMF 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 28, 2015

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    YES starts in the mind.

    ..a thought...a smiling innocent glance. maybe an accidental touch while walking by...a smell...Mmmm...a growing feeling from deep within. A soft touch...gentle fingertips down the back..feeling grows deeper...gentle lips trail from the neck slowly down... Yes it starts in the...
    Slashrattlenroll Slashrattlenroll 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    My GF and I say foreplay begins way way

    before we get in the bedroom...sexy glances, we flirt constantly with a mix of naughty and romantic. Foreplay is ongoing...a kiss on the neck, a heartfelt detailed thank you for doing something like the dishes or going to work. We even talk about how sexy those things are and...
    scottbrooks31 scottbrooks31 36-40, M 3 Responses May 19, 2015

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    He found words that reached deep into my soul,

    words that touched on some of my deeper desires and I found the words he was longing to hear, words of caring, words of tenderness, words of love and passion. Our words intertwined and carried us to a fantasy world of our own, a world in which no one else existed until reality...
    Diablessse Diablessse 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    Lucca9 Lucca9 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    This One Makes My Mind Buzz....

    I didn't write this.....it was written by a friend.....but I enjoyed it.. ------------------------------------- The ropes were the perfect length. Both wrists bound and tied up above your head kept you standing for me. I watched your naked form for a bit. I could see the...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Grab her ***, kiss her forehead,

    and call her beautiful.
    Lucca9 Lucca9 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    That's why your poetry is

    so marvelous. Ohn, the places I go....
    C01literacy C01literacy 70+, M Aug 11, 2015

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    Fantasy Exploration..

    The open and honest sharing of fantasy, and the potential exploration leads to mind blowing experience. Embrace and encouraging anothers lusts and desires is my utmost passion xx
    MNstranger MNstranger 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Was thinking about being absolutely naughty

    with my partner earlier today and this song came to mind. Oh what I imagined doing to him then..... http://youtu.be/wIgOL21S98o
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 15, 2015

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    I cannoy stop thinking about

    and visualizing an Asian wife looking up at me as she is wrapping her lips around my....
    Jason6996 Jason6996 41-45, M Nov 3, 2015

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    My Desire For You

    My body is aching to have you inside me. The feel of your body ontop of me, sends electric currents throughout my body. I have to have you now. My body arches upwards to meet you as you gently glide yourself into me. Slow and gentle at first, until the desire to make love turns...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    I think the above line should include 'and

    ends' in the mind.. For surely that is what's the case no..? The act of being physically turned on is mostly triggered by actions that are going on in your head (except most of us men lol) but for the woman the above is certainly true.. In D/s relationships - especially those...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 6, 2015

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    And it shouldn't just end there.

    A great idea is one that is fun and filled with adventure. For two people who enjoy a dynamic connection, the playtime begins with, 'What's on your mind?'
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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