I Believe Gay's Are Born Gay

While there are probably some people claiming to be gay who weren't born that way (and perhaps aren't truly gay) the overwhelming scientific evidence shows that gays are indeed born gay. This forum should perhaps be named I Know Gays...

Some people believe that people choose to be gay. . . Why would they do that?? Why would they choose to be hurt and alienated, in some cases, even by there own parents.The most  human instinct is self-preservation. So, why would...

I believe people are born that way but today I was discussing this topic with my boyfriend, whose father is Gay. And he said that people turn gay because of a series of bad straight relationships, he believes this because thats what...

My best friend is a lesbian and at school she's being bullied for that. I stood up for her so many times and they say that we were in love with each other but I'm a straight girl. Even through all those talks I would never ever let her...

Of course we are born gay , I think its something so engraved in our genetics , it just seems so natural to us and I am not talking about all the extras that society and media brought with it.

Being gay is not being obsessed with...

Well, I know I was born gay.
I grew up in the Mormon religion with very anti gay influences so I didn't want to be gay.
I knew I was becoming attracted to guys by the age of 12, and at 14 years old I tried to kill myself (Almost...

My opinion, as it is based on observation, is that people are born with a genetic predisposition to being homosexual. I would say it's similar to those born with a genetic predisposition to be an alcoholic, or to develop an inherited...

In my professional experience I have noted that there are three classifications of Homosexual (or Gay)
1) Gay by birth. Born gay as a another person would be born straight. It's genetic. No amount of counseling.prayer or anything...

When I was four years old, my mom took me to the local swimming pool one afternoon. The two attendants on duty in the women's locker room caught my eye immediately: they were both middle-aged, with matching wedding bands, and kept...

You know, I was born gay. Now, its hard for me to come to any other conclusion. I am attracted to men. Men in general to women and the reverse. So, what else can we say.
Does a person's sexuality define the person? I think being...

I believe that all gays, lesbians, bi-sexual, and transgender were born that way. That a person doesn't choose their sexuality no more than they choose the color of their skin or the color of their eyes. Think about it! Did you suddenly...

My argument is this. Would you choose to live a life where you are constantly being ridiculed and made fun of? Would you choose to live a life where, if you didn't hide who you truly were, you might loose that life? I don't think so. I...

I am bi. I like women as much as I like men. And I always did. I never chose to have crushes on both women and men, it's just the way I've always been and the way it's normal for me.
I must admit that I've only fallen in love with...

I've kissed one of my friends before. It was on the cheek, as a joke.Plus, I've never had a crush on a guy in the same way I've had a crush on a girl.I know a cute guy when I see one, but I think I blush when I see a cute girl. I don't...

I was born-Gay... I was into my mother shoes, make-up and nail polish before I could remember... Never thought about girls like I thought about boys. There is a GAY Gene I know there is... Just ask the 12+ gay folks in my family...

I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi.

After one experience...

I think people are born with sexual attraction...period.  It's up to how we are raised a little, and what we feel in our hearts ultimately that will decide whether we are gay straight or bi.

“I have a dream, that my children with one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” Do you all remember that speech? That speech that changed a nation...

Many, many gays feel secretly or admitting they would feel more comfortable in heterosexual skin. That would have been their "choice," if they could have chosen to do so. Anti-gay therapy, or "Reparative Therapy", as it is usually...