I Believe Gay's Are Born Gay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,625 People

    lightpainter lightpainter
    56-60, M
    Jun 20, 2012

    I'm sick and tired of all the people saying the

    f word. Not **** but the other one. I don't want to type it. I mean guys come on. They're not different from any other human being. They're just people living the fvcked up society. They're not bad. They're not evil and planning world domination like Hitler. (NO PUN INTENDED...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 9, 2014

    Yes, mostly biological.

    Maybe a very small percentage it is psychological? I do think there is a small number of people that choose to be gay for a plethora of reasons. ...as do some people pretend to be straight.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015
    EnvyTheGinger EnvyTheGinger
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2012

    Everyone wants to be popular,

    nobody want to be in the minority so that's why I think that people are born gay and don't choose to be gay.
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1
    18-21, M
    Sep 20, 2014

    I Have A Dream...

    “I have a dream, that my children with one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” Do you all remember that speech? That speech that changed a nation with the beauty and sorrowful truth behind its...
    Freeingtibet Freeingtibet
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2013

    I've Always Known I'm A Lesbian

    When I was four years old, my mom took me to the local swimming pool one afternoon. The two attendants on duty in the women's locker room caught my eye immediately: they were both middle-aged, with matching wedding bands, and kept giving each other that king of secret look/smile...
    sugarfooties sugarfooties
    17 Responses Oct 18, 2009

    The Apostrophe Is Redundant

    However, I agree in principle.
    cyberkitty cyberkitty
    6 Responses Dec 15, 2008
    romanalanski romanalanski
    18-21, F
    Oct 23, 2014

    I Say This From Personal Experience...

    I am bi. I like women as much as I like men. And I always did. I never chose to have crushes on both women and men, it's just the way I've always been and the way it's normal for me. I must admit that I've only fallen in love with males, I tend to stay away from girls I have...
    whatsername whatsername
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 12, 2008

    My Honest Opinion!

    I believe that all gays, lesbians, bi-sexual, and transgender were born that way. That a person doesn't choose their sexuality no more than they choose the color of their skin or the color of their eyes. Think about it! Did you suddenly wake up one day and say, "Hey, I'm...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Mar 29, 2009

    A number of years ago my wife

    and I had a purebred terrier. He was a wonderful protective dog and an excellent “ratter” he was not aggressive but would never back-down from a fight, in all, typical for the breed. The breeder had asked us not to neuter him as he would like to breed from him. One evening...
    runtom runtom
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jul 2, 2014

    Same As Being Born Straight.

    Some people believe that people choose to be gay. . . Why would they do that?? Why would they choose to be hurt and alienated, in some cases, even by there own parents.The most  human instinct is self-preservation. So, why would anybody choose to be casted out from the world??
    uNiTRIPx uNiTRIPx
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 23, 2011
    mistydawnFL mistydawnFL
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    I personally believe

    that when you are born your sexuality is hard wired it's in your brain it may take a while to figure out wether your gay or not but it's there from birth. I personally knew u was gay from about 10 but I thought I was bi from age 7. it's a shame that society has put labels on...
    CrimsonShadow CrimsonShadow
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    The Heart Wants...

    As they say "the heart wants what the heart wants". You can't change your sexuality anymore than you can change anything else you like, love, or hate. Whatever turns you on is what turns you on period.
    bvb1123 bvb1123
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2011


    A newborn knows nothing about sex. However, that newborn is born with sexual proclivities, and if it has the tendencies to being attracted/aroused by someone of the same sex it will grow up to be gay or bisexual. 
    Dragon56 Dragon56
    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2010

    I Have Always Been Attracted to Guys Only.

    Well, I know I was born gay. I grew up in the Mormon religion with very anti gay influences so I didn't want to be gay. I knew I was becoming attracted to guys by the age of 12, and at 14 years old I tried to kill myself (Almost worked to.) and that set the tone of my life...
    BenderBoy BenderBoy
    36-40, M
    9 Responses Sep 17, 2009

    I've Always Believed So...

    I believe people are born that way but today I was discussing this topic with my boyfriend, whose father is Gay. And he said that people turn gay because of a series of bad straight relationships, he believes this because thats what supposedly happened to his father, his father's...
    Klong91 Klong91
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    Yesterday I went to an LGBT meetup.

    It's a small little gathering at a local Unitarian Universalist church for just teenagers. And.. I don't believe in god.. I don't believe in heaven.. But when I was little I did. And I pictured it every day just like that day. Just like that place. Friendly faces.. Accepting...
    Twittlebug Twittlebug
    1 Response Mar 9, 2014

    I Was Always Gay

    I've kissed one of my friends before. It was on the cheek, as a joke.Plus, I've never had a crush on a guy in the same way I've had a crush on a girl.I know a cute guy when I see one, but I think I blush when I see a cute girl. I don't know for sure, because I'm black, it doesn't...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw
    16-17, F
    Sep 14, 2012

    What Causes Homosexuality?

    I have made a couple of posts in this forum and I actually find the topic rather interesting. I would prefer to focus more on the scientific aspect of sexual orientation, rather than the moral aspect. But for the record, I see nothing wrong with being gay. I believe that most...
    BookOfRoses BookOfRoses
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Oct 13, 2013
    lightpainter lightpainter
    56-60, M
    Jun 20, 2012

    Three Classifications of Homosexual

     In my professional experience I have noted that there are three classifications of Homosexual (or Gay) 1) Gay by birth. Born gay as a another person would be born straight. It's genetic. No amount of counseling.prayer or anything else is going to change this. And why...
    retiredfather retiredfather
    61-65, M
    9 Responses Dec 18, 2008

    I hate it when people say people are not born

    gay and it's a choice. Ok, if most people aren't born gay and it's a choice, where's the proof?
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    Honestly, think about it.

    Obviously gay dudes have more femininity than other dudes. They had to have been born with it. They have a higher voice and walk like a girl and stuff like that. There is no way that anyone can say that "Gays just want attention" um no hun, they were born that way #lovewins...
    haleyrosie haleyrosie
    26-30, F
    Sep 15, 2015

    I remember that i was making love with a blonde

    man in my first erotic dream. When i was a little boy, boys are more charming than girls. And i could look the underwear boys. I have always felt in this way.
    injizzy injizzy
    18-21, M
    Apr 14, 2015

    Me and one of my good friends were talking

    about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being around me and my husband all his life most likely he'll want the same thing but I'm not forcing him to be gay. And she was like she refuses to...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    is there such a thing

    as "bi-sexual"?
    BottomToddler BottomToddler
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Sep 29, 2014

    Why Would I Choose To Be A Lesbian?

    I am a firm believer that homosexuals are born that way. I am a lesbian and I have grown up in a very strict, closed minded family. Being raised in a Baptist church, I was always told that being gay was a sin, even an abomination. I've known from a pretty young age that I'm a...
    Lindz94 Lindz94
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    We Are

    You don't wake up one day and say: "oh you know what, I'm going to be gay." Yeah no that's like setting yourself up to be hated by society, and who would do that?
    taylorismex3 taylorismex3
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 2, 2013

    I'm straight and not a homophobic.

    I believe humans are entitled to love others without contradiction. I'm for human rights !
    lunamars lunamars
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

    I always thought that I was going to burn in

    hell, and I still do sometimes when I think to hard. But sometimes the bible says things only to make people look to god. Some people take it too literally... Maybe people should be more open minded and realize that teens like me who struggle needing to go through these thoughts...
    Nick221B Nick221B
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    I Just Wanted To Say..

    My best friend is a lesbian and at school she's being bullied for that. I stood up for her so many times and they say that we were in love with each other but I'm a straight girl. Even through all those talks I would never ever let her down! I have so many friends who are...
    Thyrza92 Thyrza92
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 28, 2011

    Well I have no doubt on the question.

    I was born gay. Never have fancied a female. To me being gay is as normal as being straight Luckly for me my parents excepted that being gay is ok so from When I came out at 13 I was encouraged to be who I am. and never deny mhy true nature. So in fact being gay. is who I am...
    thegaychef thegaychef
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    Many people question to

    if it is nature or nerture that "makes" you gay. Now I can only speak from personal experince. I have always knew I was not like the majority of other boys..yes Im all man..but I was attracted to men. I had my firt sexual experince with a bloke at 11 and came out at 13. As such...
    thegaychef thegaychef
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    Did any one weigh the pros

    and cons of being gay? Would you choose to be hated, to suffer discrimination and all the rest we endure. We are gay, we choose to live a gay life and not a lie so others will not hate us. Did any one choose to be str8 or were you born that way?
    Scott1954 Scott1954
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2015

    Duh ,,

    Of course we are born gay , I think its something so engraved in our genetics , it just seems so natural to us and I am not talking about all the extras that society and media brought with it. Being gay is not being obsessed with shopping and madonna and wanting to be a girl...
    GG1234 GG1234
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 1, 2011

    Being gay was actually very normal back in the

    day. A lot of people today are gay almost half of the country. It's just that it's so suppressed by people that a lot of people are in the closet making it seem out of the norm or minorities.
    Gus1996 Gus1996
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    Who Would

    we say we like being gay, that we would not change who we are, some say gay is as normal as straight. i say i would not change who i am that i am gay. honestly i say that because it is all i have ever known. knowing what the world thinks of homosexuals, when i was being made...
    sfrancisk sfrancisk
    61-65, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    I was in the car with my mom and dad driving home from eating out. I was telling a story about my best friend from earlier that day and then my mom tells my dad "____ is her gay...
    sxvenfxld sxvenfxld
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 19
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    thenicholasexperience thenicholasexperience
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 19
    All of this, this group and all the stories here, are really impressive... in the most horrible of the possibile ways. What I'm most impressed with are the amount and similarity of...
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    nevergoingtousethis nevergoingtousethis
    16-17, F
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    PoEticallyDrivEn PoEticallyDrivEn
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    dabram71 dabram71
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