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I Believe Gay's Are Born Gay

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    Being gay was actually very normal back in the

    day. A lot of people today are gay almost half of the country. It's just that it's so suppressed by people that a lot of people are in the closet making it seem out of the norm or minorities.
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M Jan 14

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    You Can't Turn Gay.

    Gay is not a light switch.  You can't just cut it on and off like that.  I hate when people say, "I wonder when he turned gay??" or, "I won't make my kid gay".  WTF??!  From every gay person I've known, they have always ...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 23, 2009

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    I've Always Known I'm A Lesbian

    When I was four years old, my mom took me to the local swimming pool one afternoon. The two attendants on duty in the women's locker room caught my eye immediately: they were both middle-aged, with matching wedding bands, and kept giving each other that king of secret look/smile...
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 21 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    What Causes Homosexuality?

    I have made a couple of posts in this forum and I actually find the topic rather interesting. I would prefer to focus more on the scientific aspect of sexual orientation, rather than the moral aspect. But for the record, I see nothing wrong with being gay. I believe that most...
    BookOfRoses BookOfRoses 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    I Have A Dream...

    “I have a dream, that my children with one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” Do you all remember that speech? That speech that changed a nation with the beauty and sorrowful truth behind its...
    Freeingtibet Freeingtibet 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Big fight over that one.

    Straight people say I made a choice and this that and the other. I believe I was born gay and it really doesn't matter one way or the other. I've tasted man flesh and I love it. So you can cry all you want, it won't change anything.
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Yesterday I went to an LGBT meetup.

    It's a small little gathering at a local Unitarian Universalist church for just teenagers. And.. I don't believe in god.. I don't believe in heaven.. But when I was little I did. And I pictured it every day just like that day. Just like that place. Friendly faces.. Accepting...
    Twittlebug Twittlebug 22-25 1 Response Mar 9

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    If Gays Are Born Gay Is A Anti Gay Trick

    You know, I was born gay. Now, its hard for me to come to any other conclusion. I am attracted to men. Men in general to women and the reverse. So, what else can we say. Does a person's sexuality define the person? I think being hererosexual for a life time would be such abore. I...
    jaysbarn jaysbarn 61-65 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    Like who cares, does it really matter

    if I was born gay or not? No! Simple fact is, I'm gay, I'm here, and that's not going to change. So do what you have to do to get over it! If you can't, not my problem!
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Three Classifications of Homosexual

     In my professional experience I have noted that there are three classifications of Homosexual (or Gay) 1) Gay by birth. Born gay as a another person would be born straight. It's genetic. No amount of counseling.prayer or anything else is going to change this. And why...
    retiredfather retiredfather 61-65, M 10 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Duh ,,

    Of course we are born gay , I think its something so engraved in our genetics , it just seems so natural to us and I am not talking about all the extras that society and media brought with it. Being gay is not being obsessed with shopping and madonna and wanting to be a girl...
    GG1234 GG1234 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    I Didn't Turn Into A Lesbian, I've Always Been One

    Well I believe I was born lesbian since I didn't make the decision to be one. It's not like you wake up someday and think "How about I'll be lesbian. Yeah that would be nice, why not be one.", if it was a decision I would've never made it this way, I'm happy being lesbian, but I...
    xniksy xniksy 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2010

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    The Heart Wants...

    As they say "the heart wants what the heart wants". You can't change your sexuality anymore than you can change anything else you like, love, or hate. Whatever turns you on is what turns you on period.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Heck Yes

    My argument is this. Would you choose to live a life where you are constantly being ridiculed and made fun of? Would you choose to live a life where, if you didn't hide who you truly were, you might loose that life? I don't think so. I don't think that there is a single man or...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2011

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    I'm straight and not a homophobic.

    I believe humans are entitled to love others without contradiction. I'm for human rights !
    lunamars lunamars 16-17, F Mar 20

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    Born Gay

    I was born-Gay... I was into my mother shoes, make-up and nail polish before I could remember... Never thought about girls like I thought about boys. There is a GAY Gene I know there is... Just ask the 12+ gay folks in my family... There must be 3 or 4 born every generation...
    Matty2000 Matty2000 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    I've Always Believed So...

    I believe people are born that way but today I was discussing this topic with my boyfriend, whose father is Gay. And he said that people turn gay because of a series of bad straight relationships, he believes this because thats what supposedly happened to his father, his father's...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    I Have Always Been Attracted to Guys Only.

    Well, I know I was born gay. I grew up in the Mormon religion with very anti gay influences so I didn't want to be gay. I knew I was becoming attracted to guys by the age of 12, and at 14 years old I tried to kill myself (Almost worked to.) and that set the tone of my life...
    BenderBoy BenderBoy 36-40, M 9 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I Was Always Gay

    I've kissed one of my friends before. It was on the cheek, as a joke.Plus, I've never had a crush on a guy in the same way I've had a crush on a girl.I know a cute guy when I see one, but I think I blush when I see a cute girl. I don't know for sure, because I'm black, it doesn't...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 13-15, F Sep 14, 2012

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    Why would somebody wake up

    and say," I think I'm going to want to be hated by half the country and get bullied by every word possible."
    crazykim17ily crazykim17ily 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    From Who I've Known

    My opinion, as it is based on observation, is that people are born with a genetic predisposition to being homosexual. I would say it's similar to those born with a genetic predisposition to be an alcoholic, or to develop an inherited disease. Although I don't mean to relate the...
    Mello Mello 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    We Are

    You don't wake up one day and say: "oh you know what, I'm going to be gay." Yeah no that's like setting yourself up to be hated by society, and who would do that?
    taylorismex3 taylorismex3 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    Just Ask A Queer Person

    I am always shocked that this is even something people can argue about. I'm queer, I was born this way. I know lots of queer people, they were all born this way. Almost everyone I have ever heard who thinks that being queer is a choice is either straight or has an ulterior...
    JackNikon JackNikon 26-30, F Feb 14, 2011

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    I Just Wanted To Say..

    My best friend is a lesbian and at school she's being bullied for that. I stood up for her so many times and they say that we were in love with each other but I'm a straight girl. Even through all those talks I would never ever let her down! I have so many friends who are...
    Thyrza92 Thyrza92 18-21, F 1 Response May 28, 2011

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    Is the Gender Really Matters?

    i believe gay is the most trustworthy friend you can count on....they will understand your imperfections...they only see the good in you and the best about you...If im given the chance to choose who among the people i want to be with everyday....i would say i prefer to be with...
    somuchhurt somuchhurt 18-21 5 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Why Would I Choose To Be A Lesbian?

    I am a firm believer that homosexuals are born that way. I am a lesbian and I have grown up in a very strict, closed minded family. Being raised in a Baptist church, I was always told that being gay was a sin, even an abomination. I've known from a pretty young age that I'm a...
    Lindz94 Lindz94 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Same As Being Born Straight.

    Some people believe that people choose to be gay. . . Why would they do that?? Why would they choose to be hurt and alienated, in some cases, even by there own parents.The most  human instinct is self-preservation. So, why would anybody choose to be casted out from the world??
    uNiTRIPx uNiTRIPx 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    Hard-wired

     I have long believed that sexual orientation is hard-wired into our brains from day one.  The first crushes I remember having were both in second grade...simutaneously one on a boy, one on a girl.  This was BEFORE hormones started kicking in, people!  I just...
    Geode Geode 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2009

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    lesbiancouple lesbiancouple 18-21, F Jun 12, 2013

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    Ugh

    I would seriously love to slap the people that think being gay is a choice silly. Do these people really think that if gay people had the choice they would choose such a hard, lonely, and at times scary lifestyle for themselves? I know if I had had a choice I sure as hell wouldn...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2010

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    My Honest Opinion!

    I believe that all gays, lesbians, bi-sexual, and transgender were born that way. That a person doesn't choose their sexuality no more than they choose the color of their skin or the color of their eyes. Think about it! Did you suddenly wake up one day and say, "Hey, I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Well...technically I Think That...

    I think that we're born bisexual but that life experience tilts us one way. So in a way we're all born 'half gay.' That's my opinion.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Say This From Personal Experience...

    I am bi. I like women as much as I like men. And I always did. I never chose to have crushes on both women and men, it's just the way I've always been and the way it's normal for me. I must admit that I've only fallen in love with males, I tend to stay away from girls I have...
    whatsername whatsername 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 12, 2008

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    Big Possibility, But Environmental Influence Could Contribute

    Many, many gays feel secretly or admitting they would feel more comfortable in heterosexual skin. That would have been their "choice," if they could have chosen to do so. Anti-gay therapy, or "Reparative Therapy", as it is usually called, may seem like a good idea. It promises...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Mar 24, 2013

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    So I'm gay. I guess I'm starting to come out more and more. I kinda don't give an eff anymore. I'm shy and a little reserved but if you keep talking to me and don't get on my...
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