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I Believe Humiliation Is Part Of Discipline

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    I'm curious what all this encompasses.

    I get corner time after a spanking but what else is used?
    Ashnikk Ashnikk
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    There is nothing better

    than being spoken down to while I pleasure a man. While I'm taking him in my mouth, sucking slurping, and gasping for breath, trying my best to please him, and all I get in return is my hair pulled and the words ' stupid cu*t'.
    RedRidingGirl RedRidingGirl
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    Does anyone else here give their teenager a bath

    as punishment? I give my 16 year old daughter a bath as punishment for not acting her age. If she resists or complains about me bathing her, it's a good hairbrush spanking on her wet bottom.
    Motherthatspanks Motherthatspanks
    46-50, F
    15 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    It all comes together,

    eventually. There was a time when I first saw this experience it puzzled me perhaps being of the generation of Rights that were taught that humiliation was contrary to it, that we had a right without limits not to be even though it seemed that generalized ideal had its flaws...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    after disciplining my kids id always put them

    naked in the corner for humiliation or spankvthem infront of friends or family as humiliation. how many other parents use this method or need help with humiliation ? add me and well chat.
    spankyouhard3 spankyouhard3
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    I agree too, to have your undies pulled down

    and made to stand there with all revealed is just as intimidating as the spanking itself esp in front of others! 😁
    Paul2v Paul2v
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2015

    I have three kids, two girls

    that are 9 and 3 and a boy that is 5. They are not exceptionally bad really but I still punish them regularly. I don't believe I should have to nag and nag and nag. I tell them once and then they have to suffer the consequences if they don't listen to me. I prefer disciplining...
    CaningCaregiver CaningCaregiver
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    All punishments in our house are administered

    bare, for Gemma and I as well as the kids. The embarrassment of time spent nude before and after a spanking is an integral part of the punishment and at least as important as the sore bottom.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    I believe discipline is a very important part

    of growing up and I didn't experience it much as a kid. I'm thinking about making up for it now. It's be great if some of you more experienced people would be willing to talk
    gaypup gaypup
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 18, 2016
    masonastro masonastro
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2015

    I think that it's a very important part.

    .. I love my parents, but they never did much to discipline me and because of that I made many mistakes growing up that could have been easily prevented... but now I have a boyfriend who loves and cares about me and who keeps me in line, and I've never been happier. Whenever I...
    Jessy413 Jessy413
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    It is still a very effective

    and important part of good discipline.
    mother27 mother27
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    I strongly believe this

    as does Sir. You're not supposed to like your punishment anyways he says. My confusion is this: I do not like being humiliated or punished. Doing or preforming an act that is embarrassing while Sir watches me. Even being lectured is embarrassing. BUT WHY then does this excite...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    my mommy who did the vast majority of the

    HUMILIATIN' and even punished many guys she dated (and maried) did the punishing. it was usually w/a thick friggin' leather strap and it didnt matter who was there if we were at home. I was still gettin' it at 15 yrs of age. usually over the arm of the couch in front of whoever...
    PottyToddler PottyToddler
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 20, 2014

    I wan to be a humiliated slave.

    ..give my body over to the right daddy make me his and whoever else he wants...message me for more details
    SlaveRose53 SlaveRose53
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 17, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 4, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    Yes I do, I hate it,

    but that's part of the punishment and it's a great way to help me learn not to have bad behaviour
    redspice33 redspice33
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    I have a fantasy of having a man standing over

    me watching me play with myself and just as I'm about to explode he surprises me by soaking me in his pee
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    Oh, there are so many fun

    and creative ways to discipline a woman; depending on the discipline of choice some of those lessons can be more effective than purely physical discipline. Last weekend, my wife initially resisted an order I gave her. She eventually complied, but I decided very strong action...
    redradioflyer redradioflyer
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    I'm a single mom with three kids,

    two girls that are 10 and 4 and a boy that is 6. I'm single by choice but that don't mean I don't like the company of men, or women for that matter... Usually I entertain dates at home, less hassle with sitters and such that way. But last night I had big plans. I had been asked...
    CaningCaregiver CaningCaregiver
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    I love it when I have to be the toilet,

    or be tied up in the alley
    bummum bummum
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2016

    How would you humiliate me

    if I've been naughty???
    lalalollies123 lalalollies123
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    Pajamas as humiliation.

    If it was just me and my mom home and she gave me a spanking she would usually order me to go to bed, no matter how early it was in the evening. Interestingly if she had any of her girlfriends over (which was usually several nights a week) the routine would completely change...
    Cleancut Cleancut
    41-45
    7 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    when MASTER took on the worthless vagina HE

    made it very clear that the discipline inflicted upon the worthless vagina would not be easy and would be as humiliating as possible. the worthless vagina agreed to it, deeply desiring to become humbled and meek. the worthless vagina was at one point, an exceptionally beautiful...
    worthlessvagina worthlessvagina
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    I think it's good to belittle

    or scold your kids around their friends and peers.
    Dadhas2girls Dadhas2girls
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    I want to be daddy's slave.

    Have him change my diapers in front of people and spank me in front of people. I want to be completely embarrassed and humiliated in front of daddy's friends.
    CrazyMe14 CrazyMe14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    There is no doubt about it.

    To be fully disciplined you have to be willing to do anything and breaking by humiliation is the quickest and most efficient way of doing it. Men learn this quickly with me. The more humiliating the better for me to do as I'm told, and if I don't, take the humiliation Futher...
    greengirl123 greengirl123
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    Of course that has big limits.

    I would never humiliate anyome in front of friends, strangers, or family members. But it is could if the person who gets disciplined feels ashamed infront of person who punishes him or her. Humiliation should help to make someone remember where your limits are and your pride...
    Nickgermany Nickgermany
    51-55, M
    6 Responses May 24, 2015

    my daugther hates being humiliat in front of

    guess but its something she need's
    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    I raised 3 girls who

    for the most part were well behaved. If they were not behaving I spanked them on the spot, baring their bottom wherever we were. No matter if I gave them a few swats or a short spanking , when we got home I would blister their bottom for their behavior.
    Sternmom111mom Sternmom111mom
    66-70, F
    4 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    i do believe it... i get it weekly to maintain

    my behaviour. usually just simple thing like had my breast bondaged and then going out for shopping in a very thin blouse that people can see thru my bondage's breast...
    suni148 suni148
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    A quick face slap, face spitting,

    name calling are all acceptable parts of humiliation when a child is punished. But I realize, partly from a posting here, that I'm pretty far from the norm. Deliberate exposure of the child is also part of acceptable humiliation in my house. So how do you humiliate your child...
    CaningCaregiver CaningCaregiver
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    No doubt about it! After a

    while we all get used to things. The become expected, passé, and slowly loose their meaning. After a while all that's left is a shell; a thoughtless reaction where there was once something deeply and deliberately meaningful. I believe including humiliation as a part of...
    redradioflyer redradioflyer
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    My wife is 45 and over the years we have built

    a set of quite complex routines that control what she does, when she does it and also how she will be dressed, if her tasks are not completed on time or to a satisfactory level, she is not perfectly behaved at all times or is not dressed exactly to her dress code then she is...
    mistermisery mistermisery
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Nov 13, 2014

    So the age old question it seems: If a boy

    or adolescent gets caught rifling thru your pantyhose drawer. 1.do you make him wear them...why ? 2.understand and empathize...... why?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    I enjoy humiliation/punishment/spanking/sticky

    socks would love some friends here :D
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 28, 2015

    My son Cody has developed the habit of not

    wiping his bum and since he's nearly 12 I think this is the perfect situation where humiliation is a big part of his discipline
    codysmom codysmom
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    Message me about how you'd tie me up

    and humiliate me in front of others ;)
    ticklishmegan17 ticklishmegan17
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    I am such a bad girl.

    .....if you believe humiliation is a part of discipline....."how would you discipline me ?" Creativity wins.....not some lame "I've heard it before idea's."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    It may well be a useful tool.

    Certainly knocks a "getting to big for his boots" down to size.
    sidl sidl
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2015

    how would you like to humiliate my body?

    see my pics then comment please.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    Or for those rasher curious,

    yet irksome individuals whom ferret about the soiled lingerie hamper an extended period of wear in pantyhose may cure there olfactory curiosity.... rather a greater humiliation than nudity.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    My husband believes if i humiliate him in

    front of others i earn the same. He pulls my skirt and panties off and takes his belt to me right there on the couch,
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    19 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    Well looks like I am being targeted

    for censorship today. Story in comments
    68justme 68justme
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    Having my pants pulled down to bare my butt

    for a session with the belt... just thinking about it gives me shivers. Oh how I would beg and plead to keep my underpants, but they always came down. Strappings were always bare butt.
    javlin4 javlin4
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Essentially so I would say.

    A sore butt teaches immediate responsibility for bad behaviour but a humiliation stays in the mind as a reminder. All punishments in our home involve shame and humiliation. That goes for wife and I as well as the kids.
    Disciplineddisciplinarian Disciplineddisciplinarian
    41-45, M
    Mar 10, 2016

    You know I would like to have parents signal

    or together allow me to punish there kids. I'm 25 and I was raised with being punished as long as the parents approve and are in the room. I've done this to boys and girls who's grandparents could not and it was accepted. I've baby sat and been given permission to discipline the...
    sirsfancy23 sirsfancy23
    26-30, M
    Mar 12, 2016
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