I Believe In Chemistry Between People

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    I have always believed in chemistry between

    males and females. I have been this way since my early dating days as a teenager. Before kissing my male date, I check and see where the chemistry is between us. If it is good, then I will kiss and French kiss him. If it is not good then I do not kiss him until the chemistry...
    redheadinredgown redheadinredgown
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Some people you just meet

    and its easy. Its exciting, but your not nervous. No awkward pauses in the conversation. No calculated language, trying to create an image of your or their selves. Purely honest. I need more of this in my life. Lets talk, as there is no other way to feel the connection. If you...
    DantheMan17 DantheMan17
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

    Can't we get beyond words

    and talk with our bodies? If a picture is worth a thousand words, a touch is worth many, many more. And I think I might be running out of words.
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    Aug 9, 2015

    I am going through a serious school girl crush,

    and I am far from a school girl. Help!
    PLisa88 PLisa88
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    Undeniable

    Physical chemistry, when it's there, is a rush of blood to the groin, an undeniable ache radiating down my legs. Mental chemistry, when it's there, is a tingle at the base of the neck, prickling across my scalp. When the fire is there it will not be extinguished. Slow burning...
    Fallflower Fallflower
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2013

    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Nov 27, 2014

    Especially "Word Chemistry",

    which I have learned is so very important to me. It sets the stage for all of the beautiful things to come. One Step Closer Baby! :)
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    Chemistry!!!?? It's definitely real,

    and absolutely important, but can one search for it? Impossible to predict or define - very elusive, and likely to jump up and surprise you as an overpowering emotion between you and someone unexpected.
    MAXwho MAXwho
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

    It's funny how one person can look me up

    and down and it will give me the creeps, and another person can do it and it makes me all warm and melty inside.
    Fallflower Fallflower
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    There's a connection instantly

    as soon as we meet. It can either be a connection of closeness, or disconnection. Chemistry between ppl when met can be anywhere. There's no certain place. Just a matter of time.
    SecretlyDesires SecretlyDesires
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 22

    Haven't you ever felt a crazy attraction to

    someone you've never talked to or don't know anything about. Or find someone ridiculously hot even though, when you stop and think about it, you realize there's nothing about them that should be that hot. It's more than a crush. It's a chemistry/ pheromone thing, or something...
    Haybaybee Haybaybee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

    When you've met the right one,

    you'll know it. It will feel more right than anything you've ever felt before. If the spark is there, don't let it die out.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    I love this because it is

    so true. Have you ever met someone and you just instantaneously hit it off with them? You can't even explain it! The chemistry is just explosive....Off the charts! Sometimes just a one word reply can trigger that response if you are both on the same page. Chemistry at first...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery
    31-35, F
    Aug 13, 2014

    I used to put a lot of faith in chemistry,

    and still do. I couldn't love someone without it. I have had an awakening of sorts though. I've come to realize that you can have more chemistry then Marie Curie, but if you live on opposite sides the continent, or even on different continents, chemistry doesn't really matter...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    Ive felt it! .. whether its friendship

    or love. there is always something that just feels good.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    And spooky action at a distance,

    we are all connected through the universal consciousness which pulls at the chemical strings in our brain changing our hidden perspective of the people around us. I may be rude on bad days but who isn't? I rant, cry, hate even loath and love. But the pure chemistry will and does...
    Lhokw Lhokw
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    Have you ever experienced perfect chemistry

    when you first meet a person? You think on the same wavelength, conversation is smooth and easy, you laugh at the same stupid things - you just get each other. It's so hard to find that like-mindedness, so when you find someone whose mind clicks with yours, you can sense that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Oct 25, 2015

    I believe. I know. It can be palpably,

    indisputably, amazingly good - as long as you're conscious and pick up the signals that are blinking louder than neon signs...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015

    I really believe in and know

    that Chemistry exists between people. I have known since I was a child almost instantly, if I liked or would have fun being with a person I was just meeting. That doesn't mean I didn't have interaction with people I did not have Chemistry with.. I did. But when I felt that...
    fairone fairone
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    Don't bypass or downplay the chemistry you

    feel; remember that it exists for a reason. The people you're most arttracted to are your greatest teachers in love. Show up for the lessons they have for you.
    JD0121 JD0121
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2014
    SilverSearching SilverSearching
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    Your curiosity will lead you down roads you

    would otherwise not have traveled. On occasion you will almost certainly want to stop and look around. You never know, you may bump into someone you have a lot in common with......Instant Chemistry.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 13, 2015

    You help me feel to good

    when things are bad..
    Livit Livit
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    I recently received a text message from an old

    friend. We haven't spoken in a couple of years. There was no big fallout, we just drifted apart because we lived in different states and our responsibilities made it difficult to see each other often. He messaged me to tell me that he's going to be moving to my state to attend...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    There is a strange concoction of genetics,

    desire and blood swamped chemical excretions swimming around us in undefined auras lit with electric impulses slipping between us like eels, we scent and taste possibilities at levels we don't consciously understand. Certain words trigger us, certain combinations of movement and...
    Brangwen Brangwen
    46-50, F
    Mar 24, 2014

    Falling in love actually causes a chemical

    reaction in your brain. The same chemical is released when we eat chocolate. Therefore, I also believe in chemistry between people and chocolate.
    weirdcharlie weirdcharlie
    16-17, T
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    What is that? 10 years ago someone told we had

    no Chemistry. He found someone with Bio-Organic-and Pure Chemistry. 10 years later, he is divorced with a Child. Ha ! chemistry.. ! Cuckoo ! Cuckoo !! My mood I wanted to say .. Hilarious ! Add that Ep jelly.
    BiggestRegrets221 BiggestRegrets221
    41-45, F
    Aug 15, 2015

    I love that moment when you look at someone,

    and that alone seems to charge the air between the two of you. I'm fascinated by how some people are so immediately drawn to each other, but there's no denying that there is a wonderful energy created between some of us simply from looking at and being around each other...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Feb 8

    I do believe that there needs to be chemistry

    between people if they want to be in a relationship. So my thought for the day is, can chemistry exist for people that only know each other online?Foreigner-Waiting For A Girl Like You
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 15, 2015

    This is basically on the verge of being

    scientifically discovered. I think it is even going to get to a point where chemistry between people will be measurable. I mean, we already know about pheromones and how they affect us. The Institute of HeartMath has done some pretty interesting studies. Look them up. It's worth...
    Antoinette1120 Antoinette1120
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    And so you are asleep

    because of course we are in different parts of the world. But that's ok, because I look forward to you waking ....
    Livit Livit
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    " I love looking into your eyes,

    I see myself in them" <when a man says this to a woman, what do u think he means?
    tornadowinds tornadowinds
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I sure do now!! I fell in love with a woman

    who is half a world away. Literally! Since our first contact with each other we have been virtually inseparable. It's like God himself picked her just for me. A great distance is all that separates us now. I will get to her. I'm on auto pilot. I have to. I can't really explain...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    A mutual flowing current,

    when locking eyes or accidentally touching, that fails to translate perfectly into words- but you just know deep down, they have something that binds. It's an intense spark that zaps the spirit when around that special person. Chemistry makes you want more of them; it provides a...
    LightOfMyOwn LightOfMyOwn
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    I wish I had it with someone.

    So much right now I'd like maybe/maybe not quite platonic hands on my shoulders, empathetically soothing my stresses. She could just reach over, and murmur (half-mockingly) "poor dear". And then perhaps remark that I've obviously been working out...
    Woody6 Woody6
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 3

    This is a relatively new idea to me

    but I learned it first by experience. A few years ago j might have argued this phenomena but undoubtedly it is true.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 18

    Some people are attracted to each other.

    Some repel each other. Some combine to form as a mixture. Some combine to evolve as new element. Some need agents to combine as one forever like our family...
    whyacinth whyacinth
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 11

    Sometimes it is hard to resist.

    Can chemistry last a lifetime?
    butterflybitch butterflybitch
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Aug 25, 2015
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