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I Believe In Chemistry Between People

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    I used to put a lot of faith in chemistry,

    and still do. I couldn't love someone without it. I have had an awakening of sorts though. I've come to realize that you can have more chemistry then Marie Curie, but if you live on opposite sides the continent, or even on different continents, chemistry doesn't really matter...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    I love that moment when you look at someone,

    and that alone seems to charge the air between the two of you. I'm fascinated by how some people are so immediately drawn to each other, but there's no denying that there is a wonderful energy created between some of us simply from looking at and being around each other...
    MaidForMilking MaidForMilking 41-45, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Have you ever experienced perfect chemistry

    when you first meet a person? You think on the same wavelength, conversation is smooth and easy, you laugh at the same stupid things - you just get each other. It's so hard to find that like-mindedness, so when you find someone whose mind clicks with yours, you can sense that...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 11 Responses Oct 25, 2015

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    What is that? 10 years ago someone told we had

    no Chemistry. He found someone with Bio-Organic-and Pure Chemistry. 10 years later, he is divorced with a Child. Ha ! chemistry.. ! Cuckoo ! Cuckoo !! My mood I wanted to say .. Hilarious ! Add that Ep jelly.
    BiggestRegrets221 BiggestRegrets221 41-45, F Aug 15, 2015

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    I recently received a text message from an old

    friend. We haven't spoken in a couple of years. There was no big fallout, we just drifted apart because we lived in different states and our responsibilities made it difficult to see each other often. He messaged me to tell me that he's going to be moving to my state to attend...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2015

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    Isn't it fascinating?

    That nebulous something, indefinable spark. Even acknowledging this is not what you usually go for ... Or sometimes that this is not a healthy path to pursue... You feel drawn, compelled, intrigued. Alive. It's a wondrous thing to be that aware of another human being.
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F Sep 1, 2015

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    SilverSearching SilverSearching 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    Chemistry!!!?? It's definitely real,

    and absolutely important, but can one search for it? Impossible to predict or define - very elusive, and likely to jump up and surprise you as an overpowering emotion between you and someone unexpected.
    MAXwho MAXwho 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Haven't you ever felt a crazy attraction to

    someone you've never talked to or don't know anything about. Or find someone ridiculously hot even though, when you stop and think about it, you realize there's nothing about them that should be that hot. It's more than a crush. It's a chemistry/ pheromone thing, or something...
    Haybaybee Haybaybee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa 26-30, F Oct 19, 2015

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    A mutual flowing current,

    when locking eyes or accidentally touching, that fails to translate perfectly into words- but you just know deep down, they have something that binds. It's an intense spark that zaps the spirit when around that special person. Chemistry makes you want more of them; it provides a...
    LightOfMyOwn LightOfMyOwn 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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    And so you are asleep

    because of course we are in different parts of the world. But that's ok, because I look forward to you waking ....
    Livit Livit 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    I couldn't resist posting a nice read on

    Chemistry between people. Kind-of a long read, but very educational. Enjoy! Chemistry (relationship) In the context of relationships, chemistry is a complex "emotion"[1] that two people get when they share a special connection. It is not necessarily sexual. It is the...
    LEXUS46 LEXUS46 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2015

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    I do believe that there needs to be chemistry

    between people if they want to be in a relationship. So my thought for the day is, can chemistry exist for people that only know each other online?Foreigner-Waiting For A Girl Like You
    aldnaz aldnaz 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    Ive felt it! .. whether its friendship

    or love. there is always something that just feels good.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    I am going through a serious school girl crush,

    and I am far from a school girl. Help!
    PLisa88 PLisa88 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    I wish I had it with someone.

    So much right now I'd like maybe/maybe not quite platonic hands on my shoulders, empathetically soothing my stresses. She could just reach over, and murmur (half-mockingly) "poor dear". And then perhaps remark that I've obviously been working out...
    Woody6 Woody6 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    It's funny how one person can look me up

    and down and it will give me the creeps, and another person can do it and it makes me all warm and melty inside.
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 3, 2015

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    It's amazing to me the various connections you

    find playing around on here! The different personalities and connections that to me even somewhat defy logic. A shared love here, a hurt there, a genuineness, a heart, a trust........each tying itself to you in a way. Some of my friends are as different as night is to day...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 31, 2015

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    Can't we get beyond words

    and talk with our bodies? If a picture is worth a thousand words, a touch is worth many, many more. And I think I might be running out of words.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I really believe in and know

    that Chemistry exists between people. I have known since I was a child almost instantly, if I liked or would have fun being with a person I was just meeting. That doesn't mean I didn't have interaction with people I did not have Chemistry with.. I did. But when I felt that...
    fairone fairone 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2015

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    That soul connection,

    a mutual love, admiration, understanding and friendship paired with deep sexual desire and longing. Sharing our every fantasy with no sense of inhibition. Eyes that lock from across the room and immediately interpret the animal sexual urges we convey to one another along with...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 18, 2015

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    " I love looking into your eyes,

    I see myself in them" <when a man says this to a woman, what do u think he means?
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    You help me feel to good

    when things are bad..
    Livit Livit 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2015

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    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2015

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    I love this because it is

    so true. Have you ever met someone and you just instantaneously hit it off with them? You can't even explain it! The chemistry is just explosive....Off the charts! Sometimes just a one word reply can trigger that response if you are both on the same page. Chemistry at first...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery 31-35, F Aug 13, 2014

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    This is basically on the verge of being

    scientifically discovered. I think it is even going to get to a point where chemistry between people will be measurable. I mean, we already know about pheromones and how they affect us. The Institute of HeartMath has done some pretty interesting studies. Look them up. It's worth...
    Antoinette1120 Antoinette1120 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I believe. I know. It can be palpably,

    indisputably, amazingly good - as long as you're conscious and pick up the signals that are blinking louder than neon signs...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    Some say opposites attract,

    which is quite odd. How would two people interested in completely different things, work? That's at least, how I used to think, until I met my husband. We are complete opposites, yet the same in many ways, we compliment each other. Having strengths, where the other has...
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    And spooky action at a distance,

    we are all connected through the universal consciousness which pulls at the chemical strings in our brain changing our hidden perspective of the people around us. I may be rude on bad days but who isn't? I rant, cry, hate even loath and love. But the pure chemistry will and does...
    Lhokw Lhokw 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2015

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    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F Aug 9, 2015

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    Some people you just meet

    and its easy. Its exciting, but your not nervous. No awkward pauses in the conversation. No calculated language, trying to create an image of your or their selves. Purely honest. I need more of this in my life. Lets talk, as there is no other way to feel the connection. If you...
    DantheMan17 DantheMan17 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2015

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    This is a relatively new idea to me

    but I learned it first by experience. A few years ago j might have argued this phenomena but undoubtedly it is true.
    koivu koivu 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Undeniable

    Physical chemistry, when it's there, is a rush of blood to the groin, an undeniable ache radiating down my legs. Mental chemistry, when it's there, is a tingle at the base of the neck, prickling across my scalp. When the fire is there it will not be extinguished. Slow burning...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Your curiosity will lead you down roads you

    would otherwise not have traveled. On occasion you will almost certainly want to stop and look around. You never know, you may bump into someone you have a lot in common with......Instant Chemistry.
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 13, 2015

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    There is a strange concoction of genetics,

    desire and blood swamped chemical excretions swimming around us in undefined auras lit with electric impulses slipping between us like eels, we scent and taste possibilities at levels we don't consciously understand. Certain words trigger us, certain combinations of movement and...
    Brangwen Brangwen 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2014

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    biwhisper biwhisper 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2015

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    Falling in love actually causes a chemical

    reaction in your brain. The same chemical is released when we eat chocolate. Therefore, I also believe in chemistry between people and chocolate.
    weirdcharlie weirdcharlie 16-17, T 2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

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    Sometimes it is hard to resist.

    Can chemistry last a lifetime?
    butterflybitch butterflybitch 41-45, F 16 Responses Aug 25, 2015

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    We possess amazingly fine tuned electromagnetic

    sensors, and if we pay attention to the forces within ourselves, we will attract people that are right for us. It has happened to me without even seeing or meeting the person first, just connecting with words and shared experiences.
    GJOFJ3 GJOFJ3 56-60, M 5 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    I sure do now!! I fell in love with a woman

    who is half a world away. Literally! Since our first contact with each other we have been virtually inseparable. It's like God himself picked her just for me. A great distance is all that separates us now. I will get to her. I'm on auto pilot. I have to. I can't really explain...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    Especially "Word Chemistry",

    which I have learned is so very important to me. It sets the stage for all of the beautiful things to come. One Step Closer Baby! :)
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 51-55, F 6 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    When you've met the right one,

    you'll know it. It will feel more right than anything you've ever felt before. If the spark is there, don't let it die out.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2015

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