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I Believe In Chemistry Between People

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    There is a strange concoction of genetics,

    desire and blood swamped chemical excretions swimming around us in undefined auras lit with electric impulses slipping between us like eels, we scent and taste possibilities at levels we don't consciously understand. Certain words trigger us, certain combinations of movement and...
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    Chemistry!!!?? It's definitely real,

    and absolutely important, but can one search for it? Impossible to predict or define - very elusive, and likely to jump up and surprise you as an overpowering emotion between you and someone unexpected.
    MAXwho MAXwho 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 30

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    Long distance love is

    even harder than normal love. Words, voices and thoughts are all there but unseen and less felt. Sometimes confusing and often difficult. I really miss that comfort and frightening electricity of being together when words aren't required.
    IanMcL IanMcL 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Especially "Word Chemistry",

    which I have learned is so very important to me. It sets the stage for all of the beautiful things to come. One Step Closer Baby! :)
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 13

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    Not that I've experienced it much,

    but it's certainly possible. Sometimes you just click with people, even when you're not even trying. It's marvellous.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Sep 9

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    I know what it can be like: shimmering energy.

    .. a deep, palpable emotional connection; deepset closeness and amazing intimacy... an overwhelming attraction; unmistakable natural peace in our unity... unspeakable beauty in our shared smiles; steadfast appreciation of our specialness... stimulating growth of the fuller...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    We are so much alike.

    .. We hate each other, yet can't help to show some kind of affection towards each other when we see each other... We need each other but she pulls away :(
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M Jul 6

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    We possess amazingly fine tuned electromagnetic

    sensors, and if we pay attention to the forces within ourselves, we will attract people that are right for us. It has happened to me without even seeing or meeting the person first, just connecting with words and shared experiences.
    GJOFJ3 GJOFJ3 56-60, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Haven't you ever felt a crazy attraction to

    someone you've never talked to or don't know anything about. Or find someone ridiculously hot even though, when you stop and think about it, you realize there's nothing about them that should be that hot. It's more than a crush. It's a chemistry/ pheromone thing, or something...
    Haybaybee Haybaybee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I Don't Care That I Can't Explain It, ...

    ...this chemistry, and I really don't want to explain it. It just IS and it's fine with me. Still pretty freaky when it happens, huh?
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    Undeniable

    Physical chemistry, when it's there, is a rush of blood to the groin, an undeniable ache radiating down my legs. Mental chemistry, when it's there, is a tingle at the base of the neck, prickling across my scalp. When the fire is there it will not be extinguished. Slow burning...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I believe in the alchemy of desire.

    I believe that two very different types of people can come together to create a deeper element of being. I believe in the indefinable quality that makes us magnets for one another, dragging us together across the space between us with an awful propulsion.....
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Don't bypass or downplay the chemistry you

    feel; remember that it exists for a reason. The people you're most arttracted to are your greatest teachers in love. Show up for the lessons they have for you.
    JD0121 JD0121 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 28

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    I always wondered why I'd have more fun with

    certain people even though I do the same activities with other people And sometimes comes the feeling of being misplaced. I never had much fun when i was young till i grew into my middle teenage years, I didn't know you could be this happy! I didn't know that all I needed was...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I personally believe in chemistry between

    couples. If there is no chemistry then that relationship will not work. You must have something in common besides opposite body between your legs. If you do not have something in common then what do you have to build your relationship on? The answer is nothing.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I love this because it is

    so true. Have you ever met someone and you just instantaneously hit it off with them? You can't even explain it! The chemistry is just explosive....Off the charts! Sometimes just a one word reply can trigger that response if you are both on the same page. Chemistry at first...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    It's Not Always About The Spark

    Creating real bonds with people is not determined by the spark. You see, sparks last only for a moment. What you have to take note of is your fuel. Is your fuel enough to reach out to the other? Is it enough to cross the bridges of differences? Will it hold you two together...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer 22-25, F Sep 18, 2012

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    Isn't it fascinating?

    That nebulous something, indefinable spark. Even acknowledging this is not what you usually go for ... Or sometimes that this is not a healthy path to pursue... You feel drawn, compelled, intrigued. Alive. It's a wondrous thing to be that aware of another human being.
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    dvd0607 dvd0607 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    Love is neither black

    nor white. Relationships are neither black nor white. Living in a world without the grey is constrictive and isolating. You make decisions based on current emotions or lack of, and it seems right. It feels right, but there is wisdom through introspection. Relations are not check...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    Chemistry is close to magic.

    . Chemistry can be physical attraction or two personas that ignite a fire. Sometimes all it takes is a kiss and you'll know. Other times not even a kiss is necessary.. The chemistry is so strong it just exists in the spaces between you like electric fields... That kind of...
    PhilosophicMind PhilosophicMind 18-21, F Sep 16

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    First comes attraction,

    second comes things you share in common, third comes chemistry.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    You can look like Johnny Depp

    or George Clooney..., be rich like Bill Gates... but if there is no mutual chemistry.... it will never work for me. I am not interested in your material assets or value nor just your handsome, toned body... In order to hook me you need to be intelligent, sensual, and,.... maybe...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 3

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    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seeker25 Seeker25 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 27

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    A Smile....a Spark....a Giggle...a Tingle

    a smile a spark a giggle a tingle nothing much really,but the magnetic appeal between two people that makes all the difference in the world. You can say the exact same phrase, in the same place, wearing the same clothes, to the wrong person,and you get nothing nada zip blank But...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 12 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    This is basically on the verge of being

    scientifically discovered. I think it is even going to get to a point where chemistry between people will be measurable. I mean, we already know about pheromones and how they affect us. The Institute of HeartMath has done some pretty interesting studies. Look them up. It's worth...
    Antoinette1120 Antoinette1120 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    " Ii Believe In Chemistry Between People'"

    i have always believed in an emotional bond between is the best way to a fullfilling lasting relationship between ppl that so important chemistry is vital as i know from my failed relationships so for those who want a deep committed relationship developing an emotional connection...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M May 3, 2012

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    I have always believed in chemistry between

    males and females. I have been this way since my early dating days as a teenager. Before kissing my male date, I check and see where the chemistry is between us. If it is good, then I will kiss and French kiss him. If it is not good then I do not kiss him until the chemistry...
    redheadinredgown redheadinredgown 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    Can't we get beyond words

    and talk with our bodies? If a picture is worth a thousand words, a touch is worth many, many more. And I think I might be running out of words.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 9

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    hilarycc12 hilarycc12 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    When you feel totally synching with someone's

    vibe...awesome to find people like that.I also believe love gets played a lot thanks to our chemicals and when that is gone...you think "What the hell I was doing?!" I hate chemicals in that sense,or when you feel depending on someone for how good that person makes you feel...
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    When your positive vibration gets matched with

    someone you meet and if you feel *happy from within* being with that person, then it means that person is your undeniable soul mate. True for me. To truly grasp this, you need "mind-sight": a conscious level of awareness as well as a kind of spiritual understanding which can...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Kissing On The Street I don't think I paid

    attention to my class TODAY :( I am waiting for the bus after getting off the train. While heading to the subway, I saw a handsome couple passionately kissing each other, they were kissing for a long time ... What was on my mind was when the broke up, would they remember how...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 29

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    I have been in a relationship

    for almost four years now. I can't share how many times I have slept on the couch. In fact, for the first time, I am cuddled with a box of my dog's ashes. I am leaving her tomorrow, partially for lack of chemistry, but mostly lack of empathy. Not regarding the loss of my pet...
    ai2993 ai2993 36-40, M Dec 4, 2013

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    Like Nothing Ever Before.....

    We had a chemistry that I had never felt with anyone ever before.....an incredible physical & emotional connection that made everything else pale in comparison.....From the moment I met her, waaaaay before there was an "us" there was something about her.....I remember walking...
    Oldfool81 Oldfool81 36-40, M Jul 8, 2013

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    A new survey has revealed

    that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The study, conducted by online younger women older men dating site www.agemeet.com , collected data from 53,233 users with the...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F Nov 27

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    I believe in the chemistry between any two

    people, no matter the gender. A bond created so beautifully you would think you knew each other in another life.💋
    AfroLove91 AfroLove91 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Even though I have only been in 2

    relationships, chemistry played a huge role in both of them. I actually have a couple of books that I plan on reading by Helen Fisher, a famous biological anthropologist, and after reading a couple of articles she posted online about love and chemistry, I purchased all of her...
    afdragon afdragon 36-40, F Jul 5

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    Amazing

    Chemistry, an amazing phenomenon! Amazing that across the miles the zap of passion can arch a back and tighten a nipple. Words have power, I know I make a living shaping words, but it's more than an erotic picture painted with titillating tidbits. Amazing how his passion...
    rosieapparition rosieapparition 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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