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I Believe In Chemistry Between People

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    Long distance love is

    even harder than normal love. Words, voices and thoughts are all there but unseen and less felt. Sometimes confusing and often difficult. I really miss that comfort and frightening electricity of being together when words aren't required.
    IanMcL IanMcL 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Like Nothing Ever Before.....

    We had a chemistry that I had never felt with anyone ever before.....an incredible physical & emotional connection that made everything else pale in comparison.....From the moment I met her, waaaaay before there was an "us" there was something about her.....I remember walking...
    Oldfool81 Oldfool81 36-40, M Jul 8, 2013

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    I love this because it is

    so true. Have you ever met someone and you just instantaneously hit it off with them? You can't even explain it! The chemistry is just explosive....Off the charts! Sometimes just a one word reply can trigger that response if you are both on the same page. Chemistry at first...
    1MagicalMystery 1MagicalMystery 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I have been in a relationship

    for almost four years now. I can't share how many times I have slept on the couch. In fact, for the first time, I am cuddled with a box of my dog's ashes. I am leaving her tomorrow, partially for lack of chemistry, but mostly lack of empathy. Not regarding the loss of my pet...
    ai2993 ai2993 36-40, M Dec 4, 2013

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    Kissing On The Street I don't think I paid

    attention to my class TODAY :( I am waiting for the bus after getting off the train. While heading to the subway, I saw a handsome couple passionately kissing each other, they were kissing for a long time ... What was on my mind was when the broke up, would they remember how...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F May 29

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    Not that I've experienced it much,

    but it's certainly possible. Sometimes you just click with people, even when you're not even trying. It's marvellous.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M Sep 9

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    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    You Make Me

    You make me smile, even if it's just words that you say You make me laugh at myself when things don't go my way You seem to know just what to say To make my problems go away You have no idea what impact you have had on my life You have done nothing but lift me up I love this...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2011

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    You can look like Johnny Depp

    or George Clooney..., be rich like Bill Gates... but if there is no mutual chemistry.... it will never work for me. I am not interested in your material assets or value nor just your handsome, toned body... In order to hook me you need to be intelligent, sensual, and,.... maybe...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 3

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    I Don't Care That I Can't Explain It, ...

    ...this chemistry, and I really don't want to explain it. It just IS and it's fine with me. Still pretty freaky when it happens, huh?
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    A Smile....a Spark....a Giggle...a Tingle

    a smile a spark a giggle a tingle nothing much really,but the magnetic appeal between two people that makes all the difference in the world. You can say the exact same phrase, in the same place, wearing the same clothes, to the wrong person,and you get nothing nada zip blank But...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 12 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    There is a strange concoction of genetics,

    desire and blood swamped chemical excretions swimming around us in undefined auras lit with electric impulses slipping between us like eels, we scent and taste possibilities at levels we don't consciously understand. Certain words trigger us, certain combinations of movement and...
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    First comes attraction,

    second comes things you share in common, third comes chemistry.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I always wondered why I'd have more fun with

    certain people even though I do the same activities with other people And sometimes comes the feeling of being misplaced. I never had much fun when i was young till i grew into my middle teenage years, I didn't know you could be this happy! I didn't know that all I needed was...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Our Private Sky

    We are so much more then just chemistry. I was the moon and she was the sun. The stars between us was our journey of meeting. The timeline of our souls crossing the universe to somehow join. She blazed her light in the day and I shined my great moonbeams at night but somehow we...
    tikaka tikaka 51-55, M Dec 24, 2011

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    I personally believe in chemistry between

    couples. If there is no chemistry then that relationship will not work. You must have something in common besides opposite body between your legs. If you do not have something in common then what do you have to build your relationship on? The answer is nothing.
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Between us there is shimmering energy.

    .. a deep, palpable emotional connection; deepset closeness and amazing intimacy... an overwhelming attraction; unmistakable natural peace in our unity... unspeakable beauty in our shared smiles; steadfast appreciation of our specialness... stimulating growth of the fuller...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Can't we get beyond words

    and talk with our bodies? If a picture is worth a thousand words, a touch is worth many, many more. And I think I might be running out of words.
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    " Ii Believe In Chemistry Between People'"

    i have always believed in an emotional bond between is the best way to a fullfilling lasting relationship between ppl that so important chemistry is vital as i know from my failed relationships so for those who want a deep committed relationship developing an emotional connection...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M May 3, 2012

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    I believe in the alchemy of desire.

    I believe that two very different types of people can come together to create a deeper element of being. I believe in the indefinable quality that makes us magnets for one another, dragging us together across the space between us with an awful propulsion.....
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Amazing

    Chemistry, an amazing phenomenon! Amazing that across the miles the zap of passion can arch a back and tighten a nipple. Words have power, I know I make a living shaping words, but it's more than an erotic picture painted with titillating tidbits. Amazing how his passion...
    rosieapparition rosieapparition 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Chemistry

    Chemistry,It's a must,For friendship,Also for love,If you want it to work,Chemistry,That's what's needed.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 17, 2012

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    Apc

    Have you ever experienced absolute perfect chemistry? I'm not talking necessary of chemistry born of soulmates, lovers or even a couple. I'm talking absolute perfect chemistry that is unbridled, intense that you experience with that rare person. I've only experienced it with...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2011

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    Chemistry is close to magic.

    . Chemistry can be physical attraction or two personas that ignite a fire. Sometimes all it takes is a kiss and you'll know. Other times not even a kiss is necessary.. The chemistry is so strong it just exists in the spaces between you like electric fields... That kind of...
    PhilosophicMind PhilosophicMind 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It Brings Us Together

    Chemistry is what draws human beings to one another. It brings friends together, lovers together, future spouses together. Sometimes that chemistry is fleeting, sometimes it lasts forever, sometimes you act on it, sometimes you don't, but it is there in every...
    mizzen123 mizzen123 46-50, M 14 Responses Dec 14, 2009

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    Even though I have only been in 2

    relationships, chemistry played a huge role in both of them. I actually have a couple of books that I plan on reading by Helen Fisher, a famous biological anthropologist, and after reading a couple of articles she posted online about love and chemistry, I purchased all of her...
    afdragon afdragon 36-40, F Jul 5

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    We are so much alike.

    .. We hate each other, yet can't help to show some kind of affection towards each other when we see each other... We need each other but she pulls away :(
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M Jul 6

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    It's Odd

    After knowing some people for just minutes, I feel like we have been friends for life, I feel so comfortable around them. And there are people I admire and have known for life, yet I can't talk direct with them.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    When you feel totally synching with someone's

    vibe...awesome to find people like that.I also believe love gets played a lot thanks to our chemicals and when that is gone...you think "What the hell I was doing?!" I hate chemicals in that sense,or when you feel depending on someone for how good that person makes you feel...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Imagine you and your partner facing each other

    across a body of water. A lake, a river, a pond, a stream, a sea...? Imagine the two of you separated from each other. What do you feel? Imagine building a bridge of light extending between you, to join you. When the bridge is complete, how does it feel? Hold the image of a...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I believe in the chemistry between any two

    people, no matter the gender. A bond created so beautifully you would think you knew each other in another life.💋
    AfroLove91 AfroLove91 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    It's Not Always About The Spark

    Creating real bonds with people is not determined by the spark. You see, sparks last only for a moment. What you have to take note of is your fuel. Is your fuel enough to reach out to the other? Is it enough to cross the bridges of differences? Will it hold you two together...
    pinkfruitpop pinkfruitpop 18-21, F Sep 18, 2012

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    This is basically on the verge of being

    scientifically discovered. I think it is even going to get to a point where chemistry between people will be measurable. I mean, we already know about pheromones and how they affect us. The Institute of HeartMath has done some pretty interesting studies. Look them up. It's worth...
    Antoinette1120 Antoinette1120 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    Haven't you ever felt a crazy attraction to

    someone you've never talked to or don't know anything about. Or find someone ridiculously hot even though, when you stop and think about it, you realize there's nothing about them that should be that hot. It's more than a crush. It's a chemistry/ pheromone thing, or something...
    Haybaybee Haybaybee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    We possess amazingly fine tuned electromagnetic

    sensors, and if we pay attention to the forces within ourselves, we will attract people that are right for us. It has happened to me without even seeing or meeting the person first, just connecting with words and shared experiences.
    GJOFJ3 GJOFJ3 56-60, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Especially "Word Chemistry",

    which I have learned is so very important to me. It sets the stage for all of the beautiful things to come. One Step Closer Baby! :)
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 13

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    Undeniable

    Physical chemistry, when it's there, is a rush of blood to the groin, an undeniable ache radiating down my legs. Mental chemistry, when it's there, is a tingle at the base of the neck, prickling across my scalp. When the fire is there it will not be extinguished. Slow burning...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I Love An Instant Connection Between Two People.

    Being somewhere and you suddenly notice someone and they notice you and the rest of the night all you two can do is look in each other with dancing eyes.
    ccake ccake 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    In love with my best friend,

    who has a GF already and his GF treats him like ****. We both know we like each other but he seems like his not ready to leave his GF but his okay cheating on her with me, what should i do. I really like him!!!
    warid12 warid12 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    I have always believed in chemistry between

    males and females. I have been this way since my early dating days as a teenager. Before kissing my male date, I check and see where the chemistry is between us. If it is good, then I will kiss and French kiss him. If it is not good then I do not kiss him until the chemistry...
    redheadinredgown redheadinredgown 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    Yeah I do believe that . Some people come into your life just suddenly and you only talk to then for some minutes but you know that you want these people to stay , others are in...
    ChaiTheCoffeeCat ChaiTheCoffeeCat 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    guideme2truth guideme2truth 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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