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I Believe In Discipline

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    I was not abused as a child.

    I was not left with bruises. I never hated my parents for punishing me. I learned respect. I was taught that if you do a bad thing, you get the consequences. I didn't get in trouble much because I knew to respect my parents. That's the problem with young people today. Many...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 20

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    Daddy, I admit I was very disrespectful

    and acted like a very stupid, disrespectful, undisciplined brat when I had an attitude and argued with you on Sunday night daddy. I had no reason to daddy. I disobeyed you by going over my text limit without asking you to extend my limit for the day daddy which was stupid to do...
    Stephanie98 Stephanie98 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 15

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    at least when discipline

    as played by king crimson in concert, powerful piece
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M Sep 18, 2014

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    I really do believe in discipline I also

    believe in getting my butt wore out when lines are crossed and rules are broken... But the problem with me is that I'm to old for my mom to still spank me I guess I don't know any 20 year old women that get disciplined by there momma's still and I would be kinda scared to bring...
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    My boyfriend is 27 and I'm only 18

    so I'm much more playful and naughty than he is. So when he punishes me for doing something wrong, I know I deserve it and he always asks me why I'm being punished too. It teaches me valuable lessons when I get punished by him and it brings us closer together.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 4

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    To discipline my 8 year old son Nathan I take

    away privileges. It works well for us and I also did that with my daughter Cara, 12 (she gets grounded or phone taken away) and I will do that with my 3 year old Isabella (she gets time out) and with my one year old twins Joel and Jacob.
    Renee305 Renee305 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    In whatever shape or form,

    this is needed to establish desired behavior. Adults don't require this (yeah, right, you'd be kinky if you did, LOL), but rather, NEED this, and there are effective ways to curb bad habits. Like the rewards system. I find that the toughest of all, however, is maintaining self...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    At a loss… A friend of mine,

    who is beside themselves over their 12 year old's recalcitrant behavior, asked me what spanking implement is most appropriate to use in disciplining their son. Evidently, they hand spanked him until he was 8 years old, before giving up on spanking altogether. Now, they felt he...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 10 Responses Apr 12, 2014

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    any girl who lives in central Florida

    who wants to be held accountable for there wrong doings and need to be properly spanked in ga regular basis please contact me
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Spanking is not the only way to discipline.

    Sometimes things are needed. Long time out, toys thrown away, dinner taken, good scolding, ruler on hands, having to write lines, and many other ways. Love to know what other parents do besides spank
    DoMyBest DoMyBest 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 5

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    An excellent example of support

    for parental discipline http://m.wpbf.com/news/deputy-supervises-okeechobee-father-spanking-daughter/30478716
    mrpauldavies mrpauldavies 51-55, M 10 Responses Mar 20

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    I need immediate corrective action to get me

    through exams. I'm missing assignments and blowing things off. I want someone to punish me now and get me focused.
    splidel splidel 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Noelthemadhouse Noelthemadhouse 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I believe in discipline to a certain point.

    You can't have so much discipline that the person being disciplined is afraid to be who they want to be. Discipline but not to the point of instilling fear
    Etherealrose Etherealrose 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I am a firm but fair disciplinarian

    and I believe in the guidance that proper discipline can give. Anyone who disagrees can get the hell over my knee.
    ThePhilogynist ThePhilogynist 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    josh16wack josh16wack 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Discipline For Women

    Are you having trouble fitting things in such as work, house chores, and even class in school? Are there things you want done but just can't find the time? Are you procrastinating which puts things behind? I am a firm believer in Discipline as well as learning to schedule one's...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2012

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    Command me to edge constantly.

    Deny me of my selfish *******. Force me to become a slave dependent on pleasuring you. Show me that you own me, and that i myself am a worthless f*** toy used for the amusement of others.
    CuriousTurtle CuriousTurtle 18-21, M Feb 23

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    Everyone in this group just mainly talks about

    spanking or disciplining their child or spouse/ lover. I joined this group in the sense that we all need it. Not just spanking but in our everyday actions. In this day and age we've all gotten rather relaxed and greedy... I mean honestly if we want cake, will get cake. If we...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    Daughter Thinks Mom Was Too Strict And Should Never Have Spanked Her.

    When I was raising my daughter, I didn't think I was strict. And by 1980's standards I didn't think I was out of the mainstream.  My daughter has no idea of the meaning of "strict."  I let her get away with so much that my parents never allowed.  For example, when I was...
    margaret3 margaret3 66-70, F 5 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    If your a girl and want a spanking from a strict

    but caring female hand and live in florida please msg me
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F May 12

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    TAWSE TAWSE 61-65, M 5 Responses May 4

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    I was always chastised is my momma's room

    laying over the bed but I have heard and seen people getting disciplined other ways like bending over chair an such. Is there other way that are different then others is the location a and position a big deal?
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 11 Responses Jan 19

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    I need regular discipline to keep me focused on

    things better. Even if I still need spankings to accomplish that.
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    In my young days people were far more

    disciplined than they are now. They knew the rules and either kept them, or knew what to expect if they broke them. Today I think that there are too many petty rules that people do not know or understand. It would be better to return to fewer and more simple rules, with definite...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    Sometimes my boyfriend punishes me by

    handcuffing me to a chair and forcing me to watch him enjoy another girl physically. He does all the things I like but to her until she is begging to come.
    CCandBella CCandBella 36-40 3 Responses Jan 23

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    So its still happening

    til now. its not something that i made up, nor it is something from 1950s. its basically just my life in highschool. I just graduated from middle school, and starting my life as a high school student (here elementary school is 6years long, middle school is 3, and high school is...
    barbie13 barbie13 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    My sub and I have been in a d/s relationship

    for about a year and a half now. She already was very knowledgeable of this lifestyle because she was in a D/S relationship with a very experienced master when she was young. She was in a vanilla marriage for many years after that but realized that she very much needed the...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    To keep discipline from being non sexual I

    think its ok to keep your clothes on! Do you all think is possible to give a whopping with out baring your butt?
    Myalatrice Myalatrice 22-25, F 12 Responses Jan 12

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    More Discipline

    I am naturally very submissive so I am obedient and respect the superiority of men most of the time but I do tend to procrastinate on doing things. I put off doing every day things like exercising, studying and doing my assignments in my online classes that I am taking and so on...
    Born2Submit Born2Submit 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    I believe a child should learn

    that their consequences have actions. They shouldn't be allowed to destroy things and think it's okay. That is wrong with society. There is simply to many undisciplined people in it.
    Emiliodecker Emiliodecker 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    If you as a man and woman aren't motived enough

    to teach your children right from wrong to love and respect other people not to steal other people things and not to Kill to get a job work hard for things you want. My opinion you should keep your legs closed and don't make anymore. Discipline and home training is a thing of...
    MasterofSpankings MasterofSpankings 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I enjoy working with older moms

    who discipline their children.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 7

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    I have discipline many women of all different

    ages. I believe in discipline as well as manners. So many women lack the discipline to do things which need to be done. Manners is also one of those actions which is also really needed and many times are not taught or engrained with in you and needed to be taught. Whether...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M Mar 16, 2014

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    I realise that this is quite a long post

    for anyone to have to read though; essentially I am asking for advice on a somewhat unusual situation. My stepdaughter Emma has recently had all kinds of pressures on her recently, both in work and at home. She is a university lecturer and researcher, and has recently been...
    LouiseBainbridge LouiseBainbridge 66-70, F 9 Responses Mar 3

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    So I gave Bella a simple task of talking to

    guys on EP and get pics of their wives (for me), in exchange Bella had to do what they asked.. That never happened, and it's been a few days.. Not only did it never happen but she disappointed me by sending a guy I know a naughty pic, with out my authorization (nothing to do...
    CCandBella CCandBella 36-40 Jan 25

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    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 3 Responses May 12

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    You've been a very bad boy.

    You know what happens to bad boys? They get punished.
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 11 Responses Apr 4, 2014

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    I believe most of us would be healthier

    and happier with fair consistent even handed discipline that requires us to respect our best interest and those of others where breaking the rules that we need to live together in a mutually respectful way is backed up by timely and appropriate consequences. For a grown adult...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    But some parents nowadays are lacking of

    discipline. And they wonder why their kids are acting the way they're acting: Disrespecting, misbehaving, disobey.. etc. I don't condone those kind of behavior. Parents: Quit being your kid(s) friend and whoop that butt!
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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    50 Strokes of the Belt

    for Gangster Impersonation Ok, I just saw a video on the news, which they claimed is going viral, of a 5th grade intercity kid getting 50 strokes of the belt over his clothed (jeans) bottom while bending over a chair. His parents caught him boasting of being a gangster (he isn...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    Sure wish I had some back in the day.

    Now I have to learn it for myself. Shucks.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 21 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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