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I Believe In Marriage

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    The Responsibility Of Marriage

    I read a question on EP recently, that asked - "How do I tell my husband I need to be submissive sexually", or something like that. It always surprises me when someone asks something like this. Why don't people discuss these things with their partners BEFORE they marry? Things...
    wolvescry2 wolvescry2 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life,

    basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more times, and divorced twice. Strong emotion is not sustainable. Successful acquisition of practical things – like deciding which vehicle to purchase...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11, 2014

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    Marriage Can Be Beautiful

    Many people in my generation don't believe in marriage. They feel it's a piece of paper for tax benefits and for a long time I felt the exact same way. That was until I saw how beautiful it was to be vulnerable with another and to give of oneself with love.Marriage is more than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16, 2012

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    So Be It

    This is something I read on Reader's Digest, I hope they're not going to come after me for this. I've already created the group I Love Reader's Digest! When I asked a friend the secret to his 52 years of marriage, he replied, "We never go to sleep angry."...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Beautiful cathartic intimacy Deep mutual

    acceptance Profound sensual surrendered passionate lovemaking Mutual Emotional support Each person putting the other before themselves, in every regard Each person having a thirst for healing, wholeness, overcoming the damage of past generational and a better life. A...
    Ajushi Ajushi 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 17

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    Marriage is a huge leap of faith!

    If more people took their vows seriously than there would be less cases of divorce. Anyone who's married know that it's not easy & a lot of work but it is what you put into it as it is a vow unto God that is more than just a piece of paper. I see too many people giving up on...
    bubblysunshine bubblysunshine 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2014

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    After an emotionally challenging year,

    I'm proud to say that I have the marriage I've always wanted. It required some work on changing myself and how I interact with my husband, a LOT of humility, and a lot of self-control and staying focused on long-term goals. I lead by example - the kinder and gentler I am with...
    BBWand40 BBWand40 41-45, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Commitment

    I believe in marriage as a commitment. If and when I get married my marriage will be my priority - I will want to make sure my husband is happy, and that our relationship is strong. When the going gets tough I want us to remember our love and promise to each other and try and...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F Dec 6, 2009

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    Even thru all the trials in life I believe in

    marriage only b/c of who I serve & believe in which is Jesus! When you're having problems in your marriage is not the time to turn away from each but towards one another to maturely work on the issues presently. What happens when one is weak minded right now & keeps going...
    bubblysunshine bubblysunshine 31-35, F Apr 24, 2014

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    I Love Him, So Of Course I Believe

    I believe that love is not just a feeling. It is a decision! I choose to love him even when he is rude or insensitive. I choose to love him even when he is angry for nothing. I choose to love him because if love is only a feeling, no marriage would survive. Choosing to love...
    sailnude sailnude 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    I Think Marriage Is Outdated.

    In the days of my grandparents, Marriage was a beautiful thing. To the modern couple, marriage is a trainwreck waiting to happen. The divorce rate (according to the census bureau) was last logged at 50%. Flip a coin. Tails = divorce. Heads still means married. But the census...
    Phreeek Phreeek 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    I believe a wedding is about dressing up

    and having the most beautiful day of your life. But, I believe marriage is where you should learn that growing, changing, helping, asking for help, communicating, exploring, discovering and loving can all happen at once. I don't believe any marriage is perfect, but they can be...
    beckmonet beckmonet 18-21, F 1 Response May 20, 2014

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    Despite Where Society Is Right Now

    It seems that marriage from a societal standpoint is no longer encouraged. We see fewer and fewer individuals, who are deciding to get married to their loved one. Part of this growing trend, can be attributed to the rise in divorce. Most statistics show, that the overall...
    NinjaGuide321 NinjaGuide321 26-30, M Dec 3, 2013

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    The Idea Of Getting Married Agrees With Me

    I don't believe you have to get married to have a good, lifelong relationship with someone.  I'm certainly not of the opinion that couples who consummate relationships outside the bounds of marriage are going to hell, either.  There are things far worse than that that...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M Jul 16, 2009

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    I believe that couples will be happy

    if they keep their vows. I don't think I can be with a guy who makes up some excuse not to marry me because 'we don't need to get married'.
    sohomestuck sohomestuck 22-25, F May 1

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    I Want To Believe

    I am making this a goal.   This is highly necessary, as I am going to school to be a marriage counselor. Everyone always asks me why, at such a young and unmarried age, I already know I want to do this. I grew up in a small town, where everybody I knew...
    NovemberBlue NovemberBlue 22-25, F Nov 10, 2009

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    We Know How....

    ... to make a good one......google: relationships and learn how.
    jimrich jimrich 66-70, M Jan 28, 2011

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    Marriage is at best misunderstood by most

    people. It is a point in life where the natural world and the supernatural world meet. It is something that is recognized by governments and religious organizations but it was not created by them. Consider the fact that during slavery in the United States, slaves married each...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I believe and I want to believe but it's hard being with somebody who doesn't have enough time to give me a call. I know he cares but hearing his voice twice a month is riddiculous...
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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    She was perfect. I am not an easy man to understand and damn near impossible to love. I've spent so much of my life separated by a degree without ever knowing her. Our parents...
    Squidbanana Squidbanana 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Reading all of these stories written by women makes me so very sad. My wife never wants sex, and then here are 15-20 women who can't get their husbands interested... its craziness...
    IAGuy83 IAGuy83 31-35, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    If you read Ephesians 5 you will see how marriage should be. We wives should obey our men. It brings harmony to the marriage. We should obey in all things except sin. That means...
    MistiA MistiA 26-30, F 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I feel crazy for feeling this way. I have a beautiful home, no debt, a good job, a successful husband. On the exterior, everything looks great. But inside my home, I feel like I...
    babalulu babalulu 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    We've been together since high school which was 2008 and got married 4 years ago. We have a daughter together and have what every one considers a good marriage. But in reality our...
    Lostinexile Lostinexile 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This is a story about a punishment I once received from my husband. My husband had enough of my bad attitude and smart mouth. He warned me that he was going to make me cut a...
    flowinghoney100 flowinghoney100 46-50, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is a commitment that should only be made if you are absolutely sure that he is "the one".
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I don't think you need a piece of paper, a ring and a big fancy do to show someone that you truly love them. I think it's better for people to love eachother without having to show...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I live in a mostly sexless marriage and it freaking sucks! We've been thru it all. Drs, therapy, talks,ultimatums , misunderstanding, understanding, pretending, lying / being...
    Micromint Micromint 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I know all about soul mates. I married the first one and had 2 daughters with her. I retched that one and was devoced after 19 years. At that time I was travelling around Europe...
    watson8700 watson8700 66-70, M 5 days ago

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    We met 5-6 years ago and our relationship was going like any other. We talk a lot, spend lot of time together, kissing, hugging, laughing...we couldn't wait next time to see each...
    auspergerica auspergerica 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't believe in throwing something as sacred as marriage away. I believe in fixing it! We were almost on the verge and instead, I fixed me and became a better wife! My husband...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F a week ago

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    Like I've been thinking. My marriage is over. It has been for a long time. It's marriage by paper. For the longest time I thought s-x was what I needed. I got that. Then I realized...
    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 20 Responses Aug 27

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    Sometimes I don't know which is worse. I shouldn't be whining, it's really over now, for the last and final time; but writing about how it feels makes it somehow feel better...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M Aug 27

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    My mum and dad want me to be in an arranged marriage when I'm older. I feel like I can't live with someone I've just been introduced to for the rest of my life. The thing is is...
    Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom 13-15, F Aug 27

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    I totally believe in traditional marriage roles. The man should be in charge. He should be the one to make any big (and little too if he wishes) decisions. The wife's role should...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Hi Folks Well, in 2009 while working to try and get through a work-related (and marriage-related, although unbeknownst to me at the time) burnout, I wrote my fist post on...
    Mrcellophane Mrcellophane 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm not sure what to make of my marriage at this point. I thought I was marrying my best friend, but instead of being a wife she has become another mother. I've mentioned this...
    RNMedic RNMedic 26-30, M 9 Responses Aug 24

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    Here's 2min40 sec of how to empathize. This is a building block for love and can lead you out of a sexless marriage I believe as well as many other relationship problems, family...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    In order to have a perfect relationship that turns into a perfect marriage, the wife must honor her husband over her own will, and the husband must love his wife over his own...
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