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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

understanding the real purpose of discipline, away from sadistic causes or sexual arouses. 2,079 People

    Consistancy As HOH Is Key

    I write from out house in France where my wife and I have come to redefine out marital boundaries on a special holiday alone. I carried out an experiment in a run up to our "boot camp" holiday. My household expectations during this experiment remained the same as usual... BUT I...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

    I Am Going To Spank My Wife Tonight

    Tonight my wife is going to be disciplined. I won't bore you with the details of her misbehaviour; suffice it to say, she has been disobedient. I have just sent her a text telling her she will be getting a spanking. I no longer feel angry. I am looking forward to putting her...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jan 17, 2013

    The DD lifestyle really interests me!

    My husband does spank me, but only as foreplay. I feel like if I received punishment spankings it would really help my attitude sometimes. Any advice? Also, can anyone recommend blogs on DD? Thanks!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Jun 16, 2015

    With all the HOH I see here I don’t know

    if I am in the proper forum. I am posting this because although Dianne and I started out with the Spenser Spanking Plan almost two years ago she has only received a few spankings while I have received an average of one a week. I am 37 and she is four years my senior and...
    appolinaire appolinaire
    66-70, M
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    How often do you get maintenance spankings?

    Just wondering what everyone else does. At the moment I am not getting any but we are planning on incorporating them and just after somw ideas :-)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Spankings By Definition

    I read this and wanted to share with others. It was of great help when we were new to DD and I have found it useful to share with others who are new and have questions.  I got it from C's Loving Domestic Discipline Blog. I know it is a tad long.Good Girl (GG) spankings are...
    JennaR JennaR
    46-50, F
    43 Responses Apr 10, 2013

    I woke up Thanksgiving morning with a huge chip

    on my shoulder and don't know why. I was just feeling edgy. My husband had to leave early to go help my brother with something. He was home early (around 9am). When he got home I had been cooking for a couple of hours. Not a big deal, I usually enjoy it. I just was not in the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2013

    I Was Spanked Hard Last Night

    So he finally punished me. I was sent to the bedroom at about 8pm, nose in the corner. He left me there for 15 minutes before I heard him coming into the room, going into the drawer and taking a few things out. I was dying to turn around but didn't quite dare. He then came up...
    LittleSally LittleSally
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Apr 15, 2013

    Reluctant Domestic Discipline

    i have a woman that i'm proud to call my own. she is also does me the honor of calling me hers. at the beginning of our serious relationship, i told her that the only thing that i would expect of her was her, "best." in turn i offered my best effort to her. i have me one of them...
    daguid daguid
    61-65, M
    20 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    Medical Insight Into Why Wives Love To Be Spanked

    http://www.news-medical.net/news/2005/03/29/8788.aspx Smack that bottom - it can cure everything !! Published on March 29, 2005 at 7:01 PM Russian scientists at the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine are claiming a beating on the naked buttocks with a cane is the perfect way to...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity
    51-55, M
    30 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    Why I Am Grateful When You Spank Me... A Wifes Confession To Her Husband

      It makes me think of you for hours, it obviously excites me, but there's so much more.  The warmth spreading across my bottom reminds me of the woman I want to be, makes me want to show you how much I love and desire you.  I feel your strength and I know that I can come to...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    36-40
    13 Responses Feb 10, 2011

    My ,limits

    I have never been in a proper relationship like this but I think I would accept it as long as everything was agreed beforehand. I'd want to be able to trust him and respect him and he'd have to know my limits. It's OK if he goes over sometimes if its for something special and I'd...
    luvvinit luvvinit
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 22, 2012

    New here and confused.

    Help? I'm new here and I don't even know what I'm doing so I could use some advice. I am not in a DD relationship, though I think it's something I'd like to try. I'm just so confused! I have a few questions and could use some help. I just found out about this lifestyle and it...
    notcliche notcliche
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 5

    My First Spanking.

    I remember my first spanking like it was yesterday. I ran off from a discussion me and by husband Jason were having one night. I left in my car and went to the grocery store parking lot and just stayed there for a bit. Then I came home. My husband asked if I was ready to talk...
    JennStone JennStone
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 4, 2013

    Well since I have been away from my family

    for job training for the last 3 weeks, I have been able to do lot of thinking. This new job is going to require me to travel on a regular basis. Due to this fact I think I'm going to tell my wife that changes are going to happen with this new job and put my expectations down...
    Titan766 Titan766
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    In a DD relationship how long should a

    discipline spanking last? I understand watching the color of bottom change but wondering if others could expand on amount of time it should last?
    Iastateyepyep Iastateyepyep
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    My latest spanking was on Wednesday.

    I had forgotten we were supposed to be going to our daughters house that evening and stopped for a quick drink on the way home. This is normally allowed and not worthy of punishment but tonight I had made us late!. My wife had already rung our daughter and told her we were...
    openmind48 openmind48
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 17, 2014

    A couple of days ago my best friend

    since elementary school called me up. "Jenn I really want to sit down with you and your husband and talk about the lifestyle you live!" I honestly never thought those words would escape from her mouth. She is my only friend that knows about our lifestyle. This was a huge game...
    JennStone JennStone
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2015

    Starting back up up with discipline

    after a long break during pregnancy, but baby is 3 months old now and it's time to start again.
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2015

    I met a woman who needs to be spanked to keep

    herself level. she gets bratty when she has been to long without a spanking. I still remember the first real spanking I gave her, she lied to me and about me. I spanked her bending her over my knee until she submitted to me. after she submitted I comforted her and held her in my...
    caer caer
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    What can I say? Naughty girls deserve spankings.

    And I give them! If any of you naughty young ladies need a man to put you over his knee and tan your little bottom, feel free to leave a comment or message me. I also write spanking-related stories. If you pm me you may ask for one if you'd like. I have a no pouting rule as some...
    BruceWained BruceWained
    26-30, M
    Jan 30

    My Friend Is Coming To Stay!

    Hello to all my new friends and anyone reading this, I just want to ask you a question and please can you answer with honesty? We have a friend that we have known for many years and is coming to stay for a short time. She has treated us badly and my husband has threatened to...
    Susanthespanker Susanthespanker
    56-60, F
    30 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    I had been with my ex

    for a long time before our first spanking. One night she received a phone call and politely asked me to turn down the radio so she could hear the telephone better. Selfishly, I only turned it down slightly so I could still hear the music. After her call, she returned with my...
    whitebirch999 whitebirch999
    66-70, M
    Nov 11, 2015

    Prolonged Delayed Discipline

     We live in a world of instant gratification. I agree that delaying discipline can be a tool in itself. Giving a person time to think and achieve a proper mind set. I also understand that there are often circumstances that will make delays impossible to avoid. Lately I have...
    JennaR JennaR
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

    Humility

    I am not a spokeswoman for ladies in domestic discipline relationships, so I can only speak truthfully from my own point of view. So forgive me if you disagree. Being a volunteer wife in a DD relationship (I actually introduced this to my husband) there are many assumptions that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Aug 2, 2013

    No Excuses

    I do not believe in, or tolerate excuses. To have a successful DD marriage, consistency is paramount. I will accept explanation, but an explanation is not the same as an excuse. When my wife gives me a reasonable explanation for something, my response is always the same...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh
    41-45, M
    4 Responses May 11, 2013

    Discipline Is Always There!

    Some may think that discipline within a marriage is just a kink. But, as I see it, every couple has a certain discipline dynamic. If you are a *****, your husband will punish you! One way or another. He may ignore you, come home really late, and so on... He could even cheat on...
    anonimacy anonimacy
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Mar 3, 2012

    What DD Means To Me

    I truly don't care what people think of our lifestyle. It is not their life. I understand the desire of most women to define 'equality' as being the same. But my view is different. We are equal but not the same. When I was young, I had an eating disorder. For some reason I needed...
    LittleSally LittleSally
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 11, 2013

    This week has just been rough.

    2 nights this week I having stayed out past curfew and turned my phone off which is a BIG no no. I tried to tell my fiance my phone died but she took my phone turned it in and proved it wasn't dead. She says tonight I will be punished..... I hope its not that bad. How would you...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 8

    The problem is his idea of moderate is a little

    different than mine. While being across his knee is something that I have agreed to I didn't think it would be so often or that the spankings would last so long. He doesn't stop until my bottom burning red. I also didn't think that it would be common knowledge among our friends...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    2 Day Submission Refersher

    Last week I was spanked twice, for good reason. Yesterday I got another hiding. A short sharp shock my husband called it. It was for attitude, and he said in light of how recently I'd been spanked with a paddle brush, he had expected my attitude to be better. Now, as of Friday...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2013

    I've created a safe, private dd community on

    facebook, no aliases or fake profile pictures allowed. https://www.facebook.com/groups/privatedomesticdiscipline/
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    Mar 20, 2015

    The Many Ways He Shows His Love For My Own Good.

    I love my domestic dominate husband. His rules and regulations make me feel warm and safe. I know I have boundaries I can not cross. It helps me discipline myself and keeps my temper under wraps. I have always had unconditional love for him but my respect for him wavered. Now, I...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2011

    One Of Many Conversations..................................................

    ''I don't want you to touch me. I don't want to have sex anymore. I think of you as just a friend.'' ~ These are words I told my husband a LONG while ago. I had nearly forgotten I've said them, than he recalled them to me this weekend with still a look of hurt in his eyes. My...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    I have spanked my GF

    when she makes a bad grade for a year now, before you judge she asked me to do it to help her focus. This weekend was the first time I spanked for something non-school related.We were at the beach and she wanted to go on hike. So I got up early with her, loaded up the car and we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 31, 2015

    I Have Been Blessed

    With a delightful weekend with Sir Rod and MatildaEve. As you may have read in MatildaEve's amusing rendition of the weekend we Spent the Thanksgiving holiday with Sir Rod and Matilda. It was truly a wonderful break from the stress life has been throwing at us lately. The drive...
    JennaR JennaR
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    “I have had many years of experience with

    spanking. I gave spankings at home to my younger sister until I was in my twenties. She can still expect a spanking or two from me a year. I give my wife weekly "tune up" spankings and when needed much longer punishment paddlings. I also spank my two daughters, who are now 20...
    Lomaz Lomaz
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    I did something really bad

    and I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend. She's not gonna be happy and I'll get a big spanking.
    KylieeBear KylieeBear
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I hope when I find the right woman

    for me I hope to enter a DD relationship, I'm sure it will help me straighten out. But how does DD exactly work?
    spankedmedboy spankedmedboy
    18-21, M
    Nov 12, 2015

    I believe that on the rare occasion

    that I do become rebellious, I should be re-taught a lesson; locked into a maids, or a sissy outfit, publicly humiliated, then given a list of domestic chores to do before I am forgiven. This will remind me that Iam only on this planet to serve my superiors & shouldn't have the...
    chloesiobhan chloesiobhan
    56-60, T
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Hi. My husband and I are looking

    for like minded couples to befriend in the Atlanta Georgia area.
    emma5713 emma5713
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    Deciding not to spank

    for the rest of my pregnancy. My HoH has been a little concerned for a while about spanking me while I'm pregnant as he is worried about what hormones and chemicals will be released in my body when I'm in that much pain and what affect it will have on our baby. I am a little sad...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    Matilda's Spankings By Definition

    I've read and re-read Jenna's spanking definitions, but when I read the names I think of something a bit different! So here is MY Spankings By Definition!!!!This in no way replaces the one that Jenna posted...this is just me being bored and instead of doing housework or being...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    SPANK HOLIDAY MONDAY.

    It was decided that Monday would be used as a maintanence spanking day, where I would have chores to do and hourly punishments. As usual with these days I placed the punishment chair in position in the lounge and prepared 'her' breakfast, non for me, and stood naked in the...
    openmind48 openmind48
    46-50, M
    3 Responses May 27, 2014

    Looks like tomorrow I'll be getting a spanking.

    Would be tonight but I work tonight so Lue said we would wait til tomorrow. We finally decided on a wedding day and Lue insisted I call my dad and tell him. I argued with her over that then when I finally did call him I told him he could **** off and go to hell that I didn't...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    Email responses I'm posting this here

    because I normally post here. I am replying to the many messages i get about spanking my kids. I DO NOT SPANK MY CHILDREN! my husband was never spanked as a child. He grew up great! I was spanked and spanked often. To the point of not being able to walk. My parents spanked...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 3, 2014

    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho
    18-21, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    Nothing makes a woman feel safer

    than a dedicated man who will discipline her. Nothing at all
    AlbertFNewman AlbertFNewman
    61-65, M
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2015

    Recent Dd Publicity... What A Crock...

    I can't finish the phrase in the title of this story - I don't want to risk my first mouth soaping... (after a recent 'episode' I am on a zero tolerance bad language embargo. Does typing count? I don't think I'll test him to find out!) So DD, or more specifically CDD has been in...
    LittleSally LittleSally
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jul 12, 2013

    I'm wondering about other forms of discipline,

    besides spanking and restrictions. Can anyone share?
    LadyKaySmiles LadyKaySmiles
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Saturday night we had a discussion about our

    relationship, where is was, is and where it's going. After a period of almost ending it, followed by an okay but not what it was, we have decided to do a 6 month trial period of domestic discipline. With the amount of traveling I do, we are going to start of slowly, to allow...
    Titan766 Titan766
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    Burning Rubber Leads To A Burning Bottom

    I am the friend, lover and HOH to jonsgoodgirl. She is wonderful in so many ways and makes me happier than I ever imagined.  Happy, that is, unless she is testing me or doing things she knows she should not.  For example, excessive speeding is strictly forbidden.  Going a few...
    StrictSouthernHOH StrictSouthernHOH
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Jan 23, 2013

    This is an older story from an old account

    but I thought I would re-post it. - Abby Accepting The Idea Of Domestic Discipline To find a reason why I believe in Domestic Discipline, I need only look to the happy and loving marriage of my parents. I think some people see our Christian family as very traditional, a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 17, 2014
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