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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

understanding the real purpose of discipline, away from sadistic causes or sexual arouses. 1,713 People

    Spanked for a full day of infractions... Well my started out with me not being on top of laundry and my hoh had no clean pants for work. Once he came home he decided to go into...
    Monkeybut63 Monkeybut63 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    Prolonged Delayed Discipline -  We live in a world of instant gratification. I agree that delaying discipline can be a tool in itself. Giving a person time to think and achieve a...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    So very happy... I've never felt happier or more treasured in my life. Our marriage was wonderful before we entered a dd relationship. Now? I can't believe how much better it...
    Tihtil Tihtil 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Just wanted to know if you had any odd or hard rules your husband makes you follow or do during the whole spanking process. For example in our house, I am not allowed to let my...
    kimkan50 kimkan50 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Adjusting Punishments To Make Her Expect More Of Herself - My wife grew up in a home where she was protected as the youngest member of the household. So she grew up, sheltered...
    Redradioflyer Redradioflyer 26-30, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I have an agreement and have chosen to live the domestic discipline life style. I believe it makes for the best relationships because it allows both of us to b so...
    Monkeybut63 Monkeybut63 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    My Fiancé And Me - I have been with my fiancé for over 3 years and during that time we have had our fare share of fights. After the last major fight that we had, we broke up for...
    Mrsthandie Mrsthandie 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 1, 2013

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    Ok, so does any body have thoughts about equality and mutual respect in a dd relationship? Are they possible? Are they important?
    GeeGee8 GeeGee8 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Consistancy As HOH Is Key - I write from out house in France where my wife and I have come to redefine out marital boundaries on a special holiday alone. I carried out an...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    What DD Means To Me - I truly don't care what people think of our lifestyle. It is not their life. I understand the desire of most women to define 'equality' as being the same. But...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 7 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Cause and effect. One new surprise short hair cut = one sore backside :(
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Humility - I am not a spokeswoman for ladies in domestic discipline relationships, so I can only speak truthfully from my own point of view. So forgive me if you disagree. Being a...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    The Many Ways He Shows His Love For My Own Good. - I love my domestic dominate husband. His rules and regulations make me feel warm and safe. I know I have boundaries I can not...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    I don’t think I have shared the story as to how I got here, how I believed in the power of such a thing. I am naturally the submissive one in the relationship. When I was 13 I...
    SgtsLittleGirl SgtsLittleGirl 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Perfect Card! - So this is a card I saw tonight in the grocery store! I loved it :) Actually I couldn't believe I saw it here.(sorry the pictures aren't that good, I was in a rush...
    dclovingdd dclovingdd 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    "Looks like the good old wooden spoon is still considered okay for spankings"January 22, 2014, 4:26 amSAN JOSE, Calif. (AP) — A California court has sided with a mother who...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M Jan 23

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    Discipline Is Always There! - Some may think that discipline within a marriage is just a kink. But, as I see it, every couple has a certain discipline dynamic. If you are a...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 16 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    No Excuses - I do not believe in, or tolerate excuses. To have a successful DD marriage, consistency is paramount. I will accept explanation, but an explanation is not the same...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 4 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Our New Conract - I was asked by some of my wonderful EP friends to post our new "contract". This is our agreement regarding how we should conduct our marriage ongoing, with some...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Oh no, What have I done I feel as though I've failed. I lost it this morning big time, I was so disrespectful even swore a couple of times at my husband. I know there is no reason...
    Flick86 Flick86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    I Should Have Known Better - I earned my first cathartic cry Saturday. I got sentenced to time alone in the bedroom. I should have known that locking my DH out of the room was a...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    2 Day Submission Refersher - Last week I was spanked twice, for good reason. Yesterday I got another hiding. A short sharp shock my husband called it. It was for attitude, and he...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Now That Hoh Is Retired... - This was so much easier before L and I retired. After spending so many year teaching and in law enforcement telling people what to do, I am at home...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I know us women would like to think we don't deserve any of our spanking, but let's be honest, 99% of them are justified. But I was wondering if any women out there have honestly...
    kimkan50 kimkan50 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    21 Demerit Points In The Log Earned Me A Punishment Spanking - Like many others in a DD relationship, we keep a log book of minor infractions which is reviewed on a daily basis...
    Melissa62 Melissa62 51-55, F 9 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Observations From A Newb. - I have willfully and in full capacity of my mind entered into what is labeled as a Domestic Discipline marriage. I am still fairly new and so of course...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    Recent Dd Publicity... What A Crock... - I can't finish the phrase in the title of this story - I don't want to risk my first mouth soaping... (after a recent 'episode' I am on a...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Reluctant Domestic Discipline - i have a woman that i'm proud to call my own. she is also does me the honor of calling me hers. at the beginning of our serious relationship, i told...
    daguid daguid 61-65, M 21 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Why I Am Grateful When You Spank Me... A Wifes Confession To Her Husband -   It makes me think of you for hours, it obviously excites me, but there's so much more.  The warmth...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 14 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    In Trouble Again - I'm beginning to think that I will never learn to submit to DH fully. I have now lost my android for an undisclosed amount of time. He is right. I'm am just not...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl. - I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded...
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    The Hotel Manager - On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job...
    drfessee drfessee 31-35, M Nov 15, 2013

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    My First Spanking. - I remember my first spanking like it was yesterday. I ran off from a discussion me and by husband Jason were having one night. I left in my car and went to...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Wife's Mouthsoaping - Wives are like parrots. They will repeat what they hear. I've had to wash my wife’s mouth out with soap many times, and she still hasn't stopped swearing...
    Lomaz Lomaz 61-65, M 17 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    I woke up Thanksgiving morning with a huge chip on my shoulder and don't know why. I was just feeling edgy. My husband had to leave early to go help my brother with something. He...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    A Weekend With Paulnfuzzy & JennaR - ~~ Okay, so many of you guys know that JennaR and her husband Sir Paul came to Oklahoma for a visit. They arrived on noon Friday and left...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 11 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Tantrums And Paddles - Yesterday was not my day. For whatever reason I was in a really bad mood and just feeling needy I guess. I had to go out to run a fast errand and I asked...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    I Was Spanked Hard Last Night - So he finally punished me. I was sent to the bedroom at about 8pm, nose in the corner. He left me there for 15 minutes before I heard him coming...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    For The Right Man - I was talking to my husband the other day, chatting about DD, spankings, TIH, this thing we do, the different variations of similar concepts. And one thing that...
    ckrazyinme ckrazyinme 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Me And Dclovingdd - After my x-wife and I divorced, I became an Adult Disciplinarian (AD). I love the responsibility of taking care of someone else. For me this involved...
    christinasHOH christinasHOH 51-55, M 8 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I Have Been Blessed - With a delightful weekend with Sir Rod and MatildaEve. As you may have read in MatildaEve's amusing rendition of the weekend we Spent the Thanksgiving holiday...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    My Goal - I have set a goal for myself for the week, starting with today! I have a gym membership that I used every week for a couple months then the last 2 months I have not...
    dclovingdd dclovingdd 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Spankings By Definition - I read this and wanted to share with others. It was of great help when we were new to DD and I have found it useful to share with others who are new and...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 40 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Today was pretty bad for me, especially when for the last two days we have decided that “we” should become stricter on my training. First of all, I got a snotty, bratty...
    SgtsLittleGirl SgtsLittleGirl 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    Medical Insight Into Why Wives Love To Be Spanked - http://www.news-medical.net/news/2005/03/29/8788.aspx Smack that bottom - it can cure everything !! Published on March 29, 2005...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 33 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Matilda's Spankings By Definition - I've read and re-read Jenna's spanking definitions, but when I read the names I think of something a bit different! So here is MY Spankings By...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 12 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Oh Boy... I'M For It Now - I messed up yesterday. It wasn't all my fault but I have already received an email lecture this morning. My husband was away with his team for a weekend...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    DD Fabulous If It Works For You But Not For Everyone - I am in a DD marraige and I love it. As soon as you start discussing your life or writing accounts of what has happened you...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    I am so sad today. I'd let things go. My weight was up and my house was a wreck. I just couldn't seem to get back on track. I want and need a DD (domestic discipline...
    Looking4More26 Looking4More26 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    My husband told me to post this. He would like all the submissive women and Dom men's opinion on this. He believes that when I continue to act out, that it is foreplay for me. I...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 20

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