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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

understanding the real purpose of discipline, away from sadistic causes or sexual arouses. 1,765 People

    How My D&D Journey Started

    My name is Sara and I have been practicing domestic discipline just shy of 8 months now. I first brought it up to my husband after close to a year of researching and talking to others about it, and ever since then it’s been smooth sailing. Well, almost. Getting my husband on...
    raindropseve raindropseve 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    One Of Many Conversations..................................................

    ''I don't want you to touch me. I don't want to have sex anymore. I think of you as just a friend.'' ~ These are words I told my husband a LONG while ago. I had nearly forgotten I've said them, than he recalled them to me this weekend with still a look of hurt in his eyes. My...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    The Many Ways He Shows His Love For My Own Good.

    I love my domestic dominate husband. His rules and regulations make me feel warm and safe. I know I have boundaries I can not cross. It helps me discipline myself and keeps my temper under wraps. I have always had unconditional love for him but my respect for him wavered. Now, I...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    A while back my bf and I broke up.

    The last couple months we have been going on dates again and trying to see if we can work things out. We decided that while we are dating we should practice dd as it was a part of our relationship and we want to see how things go as if we were back together. So anyways, the...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    Those who have children

    who do not know about this part of your life...have they ever caught you in the act? My 16 year old found my husband spanking me. Her eyes got big and she just said "oh sorry!" And walked away....well more like ran! Anyway I have no idea what to say to her. I know I should have...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 17

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    Recent Dd Publicity... What A Crock...

    I can't finish the phrase in the title of this story - I don't want to risk my first mouth soaping... (after a recent 'episode' I am on a zero tolerance bad language embargo. Does typing count? I don't think I'll test him to find out!) So DD, or more specifically CDD has been in...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Discipline Is Always There!

    Some may think that discipline within a marriage is just a kink. But, as I see it, every couple has a certain discipline dynamic. If you are a *****, your husband will punish you! One way or another. He may ignore you, come home really late, and so on... He could even cheat on...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 16 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    Just a note, but giving HoH attitude

    while being lectured about attitude = one very sore bottom. Whoops!
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 30

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    Last night I asked my husband

    for a "cleansing" spanking. After we talked for a while and I explained to him why it was important to me he agreed to do it tonight. We are pretty new to Domestic Discipline and even though this is going to be a pretty hard spanking to get through I feel like it will be...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    Most Em-bare-***-ing Spanking Ever

    So my boyfriend came up with a cruel and unusual spanking position. It is so humiliating to have to do this. Anyways, for bigger offenses when an implement that is going to be bad is needed my boyfriend will handcuff me to keep me from reaching back. Now he found this new way...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Consistancy As HOH Is Key

    I write from out house in France where my wife and I have come to redefine out marital boundaries on a special holiday alone. I carried out an experiment in a run up to our "boot camp" holiday. My household expectations during this experiment remained the same as usual... BUT I...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I am so sad today. I'd let things go.

    My weight was up and my house was a wreck. I just couldn't seem to get back on track. I want and need a DD (domestic discipline) relationship and was talking to a man thru EP who had experience in this type of relationship and offered to help. The difficult thing is that it...
    Looking4More26 Looking4More26 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    So this week I forgot to take my lunch to work

    with me, used my cell phone twice while driving, and then today asked hubby to run home (a 30 min drive each way) to get something for me which I later discovered was in my pocket the whole time. Ladies, how would your HoH typically deal with these infractions?
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 13

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    Spanked for a full day of infractions.

    .. Well my started out with me not being on top of laundry and my hoh had no clean pants for work. Once he came home he decided to go into town to do some shopping and I had an attitude for no real reason in the car the hole way there and when we got there I got out and slammed...
    Monkeybut63 Monkeybut63 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    my wife and I enjoy a great domestic discipline

    lifestyle, it is totally concentual and we both get a lot out of it. I get a good deal of bare bttom spankings, over her lap, being treated like a naughty boy. sometimes the punishments are more severe and more adult where she will use a paddle and occasionally 'the cane'. for...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 26

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    I Have Been Blessed

    With a delightful weekend with Sir Rod and MatildaEve. As you may have read in MatildaEve's amusing rendition of the weekend we Spent the Thanksgiving holiday with Sir Rod and Matilda. It was truly a wonderful break from the stress life has been throwing at us lately. The drive...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    SPANK HOLIDAY MONDAY.

    It was decided that Monday would be used as a maintanence spanking day, where I would have chores to do and hourly punishments. As usual with these days I placed the punishment chair in position in the lounge and prepared 'her' breakfast, non for me, and stood naked in the...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 4 Responses May 27

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    So very happy... I've never felt happier

    or more treasured in my life. Our marriage was wonderful before we entered a dd relationship. Now? I can't believe how much better it is. He makes me feel safe, loved, cherished. *happy, content sigh*
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I Am In Trouble Again...

    Friday night I lost my temper. I went on line and payed for a program that would let me look up personal information on someone I was angry with. I knew my Hoh would never allow me to do it. Just my luck he not an hour later went on line and checked out bank account out ...Yup...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Why I Am Grateful When You Spank Me... A Wifes Confession To Her Husband

      It makes me think of you for hours, it obviously excites me, but there's so much more.  The warmth spreading across my bottom reminds me of the woman I want to be, makes me want to show you how much I love and desire you.  I feel your strength and I know that I can come to...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 13 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I have an agreement

    and have chosen to live the domestic discipline life style. I believe it makes for the best relationships because it allows both of us to b so open with each other. We haven't been together that long but I've already experienced my first punishment spanking. I'll post that...
    Monkeybut63 Monkeybut63 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Perfect Card!

    So this is a card I saw tonight in the grocery store! I loved it :) Actually I couldn't believe I saw it here.(sorry the pictures aren't that good, I was in a rush. I was already late getting to a birthday party and trying to pick out a card)To my dearest husband, :)     (it...
    dclovingdd dclovingdd 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    My First Spanking.

    I remember my first spanking like it was yesterday. I ran off from a discussion me and by husband Jason were having one night. I left in my car and went to the grocery store parking lot and just stayed there for a bit. Then I came home. My husband asked if I was ready to talk...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2013

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    2 Day Submission Refersher

    Last week I was spanked twice, for good reason. Yesterday I got another hiding. A short sharp shock my husband called it. It was for attitude, and he said in light of how recently I'd been spanked with a paddle brush, he had expected my attitude to be better. Now, as of Friday...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I got disciplined this weekend

    for not paying enough attention when when my Husband is talking to me; I just kept doing what I was doing (cooking), instead of being focused on what he was saying. So my husband reactivated a punishment he had used in the past: whenever talked to, I must put my hands behind my...
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is an older story from an old account

    but I thought I would re-post it. - Abby Accepting The Idea Of Domestic Discipline To find a reason why I believe in Domestic Discipline, I need only look to the happy and loving marriage of my parents. I think some people see our Christian family as very traditional, a...
    abigailc abigailc 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 17

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    Prolonged Delayed Discipline

     We live in a world of instant gratification. I agree that delaying discipline can be a tool in itself. Giving a person time to think and achieve a proper mind set. I also understand that there are often circumstances that will make delays impossible to avoid. Lately I have...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Over the weekend when it was time

    for maintenance my husband asked me if there was anything I needed to tell him. I am behind on my student loan debt. That is not a huge issue by itself but I had told him I would call and make arrangements with them during the week. When it came time to answer his question I had...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Ok, so does any body have thoughts about

    equality and mutual respect in a dd relationship? Are they possible? Are they important?
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Tantrums And Paddles

    Yesterday was not my day. For whatever reason I was in a really bad mood and just feeling needy I guess. I had to go out to run a fast errand and I asked my boyfriend if he would come with me because I was afraid to drive due to weather conditions. He on the other hand is a...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Reluctant Domestic Discipline

    i have a woman that i'm proud to call my own. she is also does me the honor of calling me hers. at the beginning of our serious relationship, i told her that the only thing that i would expect of her was her, "best." in turn i offered my best effort to her. i have me one of them...
    daguid daguid 61-65, M 21 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    So the night came and went

    that I was supposed to recieve the cleansing spanking I had asked for and he came home exhausted from work and said it would have to be delayed to the next night (which was last night). Today I am sitting very gingerly ;-) but I am a very happy and contented wife. I feel like...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 11 Responses Jun 10

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    Spankings By Definition

    I read this and wanted to share with others. It was of great help when we were new to DD and I have found it useful to share with others who are new and have questions.  I got it from C's Loving Domestic Discipline Blog. I know it is a tad long.Good Girl (GG) spankings are...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 39 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    No Excuses

    I do not believe in, or tolerate excuses. To have a successful DD marriage, consistency is paramount. I will accept explanation, but an explanation is not the same as an excuse. When my wife gives me a reasonable explanation for something, my response is always the same...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 5 Responses May 11, 2013

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    "Looks like the good old wooden spoon is still

    considered okay for spankings"January 22, 2014, 4:26 amSAN JOSE, Calif. (AP) — A California court has sided with a mother who was placed on a state child abuse database after spanking her 12-year-old daughter.The mother, Veronica Gonzalez, was reported for child abuse...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M Jan 23

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    Today was pretty bad

    for me, especially when for the last two days we have decided that “we” should become stricter on my training. First of all, I got a snotty, bratty attitude and made a snappy comment…something along the lines of I really don’t give a damn. I got a look, a look that makes...
    SgtsLittleGirl SgtsLittleGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    I Was Spanked Hard Last Night

    So he finally punished me. I was sent to the bedroom at about 8pm, nose in the corner. He left me there for 15 minutes before I heard him coming into the room, going into the drawer and taking a few things out. I was dying to turn around but didn't quite dare. He then came up...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I don’t think I have shared the story

    as to how I got here, how I believed in the power of such a thing. I am naturally the submissive one in the relationship. When I was 13 I met M (17) and we had a normal relationship of teenagers. When he was 19 he got his own place and I found myself over there a lot. I got into...
    SgtsLittleGirl SgtsLittleGirl 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Email responses I'm posting this here

    because I normally post here. I am replying to the many messages i get about spanking my kids. I DO NOT SPANK MY CHILDREN! my husband was never spanked as a child. He grew up great! I was spanked and spanked often. To the point of not being able to walk. My parents spanked...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I need to vent. We had

    such a wonder day, why did the night have to unravel? Church was delightful and inspiring, Dinner was casual and fun. As a family we played board and card games and watched an old movie. Then my attitude kicked in. After slamming a few cupboard doors and abusing the dishwasher...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    My husband told me to post this.

    He would like all the submissive women and Dom men's opinion on this. He believes that when I continue to act out, that it is foreplay for me. I explained that it is not in anyway foreplay. When I initially act out it is just a slip, however, when I am allowed to act this way...
    lover70 lover70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Me And Dclovingdd

    After my x-wife and I divorced, I became an Adult Disciplinarian (AD). I love the responsibility of taking care of someone else. For me this involved teaching, instructing, guiding and when necessary punishing women. I would help ladies break bad habits, start good habits...
    christinasHOH christinasHOH 51-55, M 8 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10

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    Matilda's Spankings By Definition

    I've read and re-read Jenna's spanking definitions, but when I read the names I think of something a bit different! So here is MY Spankings By Definition!!!!This in no way replaces the one that Jenna posted...this is just me being bored and instead of doing housework or being...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Wife's Mouthsoaping

    Wives are like parrots. They will repeat what they hear. I've had to wash my wife’s mouth out with soap many times, and she still hasn't stopped swearing. I diligently remind all my guests to watch their language around her and I never ever swear even when in the house alone...
    Lomaz Lomaz 61-65, M 17 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    Medical Insight Into Why Wives Love To Be Spanked

    http://www.news-medical.net/news/2005/03/29/8788.aspx Smack that bottom - it can cure everything !! Published on March 29, 2005 at 7:01 PM Russian scientists at the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine are claiming a beating on the naked buttocks with a cane is the perfect way to...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 33 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Well since I have been away from my family

    for job training for the last 3 weeks, I have been able to do lot of thinking. This new job is going to require me to travel on a regular basis. Due to this fact I think I'm going to tell my wife that changes are going to happen with this new job and put my expectations down...
    Titan766 Titan766 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    What DD Means To Me

    I truly don't care what people think of our lifestyle. It is not their life. I understand the desire of most women to define 'equality' as being the same. But my view is different. We are equal but not the same. When I was young, I had an eating disorder. For some reason I needed...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 7 Responses May 11, 2013

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    My latest spanking was on Wednesday.

    I had forgotten we were supposed to be going to our daughters house that evening and stopped for a quick drink on the way home. This is normally allowed and not worthy of punishment but tonight I had made us late!. My wife had already rung our daughter and told her we were...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 2 Responses May 17

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    Humility

    I am not a spokeswoman for ladies in domestic discipline relationships, so I can only speak truthfully from my own point of view. So forgive me if you disagree. Being a volunteer wife in a DD relationship (I actually introduced this to my husband) there are many assumptions that...
    MatildaEve MatildaEve 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    A couple of nights ago I was having a very

    difficult time. Sir asked me if I was okay for him to go to sleep and I didn't want to bother him with my problems so I said yes and then proceeded to stay up most of the night with very self destructive thoughts and behaviors. Last night as we were discussing how to deal with...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm confused. What is a domestic discipline marriage??
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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