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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

understanding the real purpose of discipline, away from sadistic causes or sexual arouses. 2,137 People

    I Have Been Blessed

    With a delightful weekend with Sir Rod and MatildaEve. As you may have read in MatildaEve's amusing rendition of the weekend we Spent the Thanksgiving holiday with Sir Rod and Matilda. It was truly a wonderful break from the stress life has been throwing at us lately. The drive...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Starting back up up with discipline

    after a long break during pregnancy, but baby is 3 months old now and it's time to start again.
    girvingtree girvingtree 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2015

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    Deciding not to spank

    for the rest of my pregnancy. My HoH has been a little concerned for a while about spanking me while I'm pregnant as he is worried about what hormones and chemicals will be released in my body when I'm in that much pain and what affect it will have on our baby. I am a little sad...
    Jcat95 Jcat95 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    I believe that on the rare occasion

    that I do become rebellious, I should be re-taught a lesson; locked into a maids, or a sissy outfit, publicly humiliated, then given a list of domestic chores to do before I am forgiven. This will remind me that Iam only on this planet to serve my superiors & shouldn't have the...
    chloesiobhan chloesiobhan 56-60, T 4 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    “I have had many years of experience with

    spanking. I gave spankings at home to my younger sister until I was in my twenties. She can still expect a spanking or two from me a year. I give my wife weekly "tune up" spankings and when needed much longer punishment paddlings. I also spank my two daughters, who are now 20...
    Lomaz Lomaz 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    Burning Rubber Leads To A Burning Bottom

    I am the friend, lover and HOH to jonsgoodgirl. She is wonderful in so many ways and makes me happier than I ever imagined.  Happy, that is, unless she is testing me or doing things she knows she should not.  For example, excessive speeding is strictly forbidden.  Going a few...
    StrictSouthernHOH StrictSouthernHOH 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    This week has just been rough.

    2 nights this week I having stayed out past curfew and turned my phone off which is a BIG no no. I tried to tell my fiance my phone died but she took my phone turned it in and proved it wasn't dead. She says tonight I will be punished..... I hope its not that bad. How would you...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    Consistancy As HOH Is Key

    I write from out house in France where my wife and I have come to redefine out marital boundaries on a special holiday alone. I carried out an experiment in a run up to our "boot camp" holiday. My household expectations during this experiment remained the same as usual... BUT I...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    What DD Means To Me

    I truly don't care what people think of our lifestyle. It is not their life. I understand the desire of most women to define 'equality' as being the same. But my view is different. We are equal but not the same. When I was young, I had an eating disorder. For some reason I needed...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 6 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Humility

    I am not a spokeswoman for ladies in domestic discipline relationships, so I can only speak truthfully from my own point of view. So forgive me if you disagree. Being a volunteer wife in a DD relationship (I actually introduced this to my husband) there are many assumptions that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    No Excuses

    I do not believe in, or tolerate excuses. To have a successful DD marriage, consistency is paramount. I will accept explanation, but an explanation is not the same as an excuse. When my wife gives me a reasonable explanation for something, my response is always the same...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 4 Responses May 11, 2013

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    I'm wondering about other forms of discipline,

    besides spanking and restrictions. Can anyone share?
    LadyKaySmiles LadyKaySmiles 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 28, 2015

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    Recent Dd Publicity... What A Crock...

    I can't finish the phrase in the title of this story - I don't want to risk my first mouth soaping... (after a recent 'episode' I am on a zero tolerance bad language embargo. Does typing count? I don't think I'll test him to find out!) So DD, or more specifically CDD has been in...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    My ,limits

    I have never been in a proper relationship like this but I think I would accept it as long as everything was agreed beforehand. I'd want to be able to trust him and respect him and he'd have to know my limits. It's OK if he goes over sometimes if its for something special and I'd...
    luvvinit luvvinit 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    Nothing makes a woman feel safer

    than a dedicated man who will discipline her. Nothing at all
    AlbertFNewman AlbertFNewman 61-65, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    For me it is about telling my wife to

    obediently wear slips and petticoats.
    byndr byndr 46-50 1 Response Feb 5, 2015

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    2 Day Submission Refersher

    Last week I was spanked twice, for good reason. Yesterday I got another hiding. A short sharp shock my husband called it. It was for attitude, and he said in light of how recently I'd been spanked with a paddle brush, he had expected my attitude to be better. Now, as of Friday...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Well since I have been away from my family

    for job training for the last 3 weeks, I have been able to do lot of thinking. This new job is going to require me to travel on a regular basis. Due to this fact I think I'm going to tell my wife that changes are going to happen with this new job and put my expectations down...
    Titan766 Titan766 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    My First Spanking.

    I remember my first spanking like it was yesterday. I ran off from a discussion me and by husband Jason were having one night. I left in my car and went to the grocery store parking lot and just stayed there for a bit. Then I came home. My husband asked if I was ready to talk...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I just got caught speeding.

    The officer was kind enough to let me go with a warning. Should I tell my Husband about it and accept the consequences, or keep it to myself since I didn't get the ticket? Thank you ladies for your advice and comments!
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 27 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    New here and confused.

    Help? I'm new here and I don't even know what I'm doing so I could use some advice. I am not in a DD relationship, though I think it's something I'd like to try. I'm just so confused! I have a few questions and could use some help. I just found out about this lifestyle and it...
    notcliche notcliche 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    The problem is his idea of moderate is a little

    different than mine. While being across his knee is something that I have agreed to I didn't think it would be so often or that the spankings would last so long. He doesn't stop until my bottom burning red. I also didn't think that it would be common knowledge among our friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    I Am Going To Spank My Wife Tonight

    Tonight my wife is going to be disciplined. I won't bore you with the details of her misbehaviour; suffice it to say, she has been disobedient. I have just sent her a text telling her she will be getting a spanking. I no longer feel angry. I am looking forward to putting her...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    The DD lifestyle really interests me!

    My husband does spank me, but only as foreplay. I feel like if I received punishment spankings it would really help my attitude sometimes. Any advice? Also, can anyone recommend blogs on DD? Thanks!
    briteyediva22 briteyediva22 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 16, 2015

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    Saturday night we had a discussion about our

    relationship, where is was, is and where it's going. After a period of almost ending it, followed by an okay but not what it was, we have decided to do a 6 month trial period of domestic discipline. With the amount of traveling I do, we are going to start of slowly, to allow...
    Titan766 Titan766 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    I hope when I find the right woman

    for me I hope to enter a DD relationship, I'm sure it will help me straighten out. But how does DD exactly work?
    spankedmedboy spankedmedboy 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2015

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    Looks like tomorrow I'll be getting a spanking.

    Would be tonight but I work tonight so Lue said we would wait til tomorrow. We finally decided on a wedding day and Lue insisted I call my dad and tell him. I argued with her over that then when I finally did call him I told him he could **** off and go to hell that I didn't...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    I met a woman who needs to be spanked to keep

    herself level. she gets bratty when she has been to long without a spanking. I still remember the first real spanking I gave her, she lied to me and about me. I spanked her bending her over my knee until she submitted to me. after she submitted I comforted her and held her in my...
    caer caer 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    This is an older story from an old account

    but I thought I would re-post it. - Abby Accepting The Idea Of Domestic Discipline To find a reason why I believe in Domestic Discipline, I need only look to the happy and loving marriage of my parents. I think some people see our Christian family as very traditional, a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    Matilda's Spankings By Definition

    I've read and re-read Jenna's spanking definitions, but when I read the names I think of something a bit different! So here is MY Spankings By Definition!!!!This in no way replaces the one that Jenna posted...this is just me being bored and instead of doing housework or being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    I got disciplined this weekend

    for not paying enough attention when when my Husband is talking to me; I just kept doing what I was doing (cooking), instead of being focused on what he was saying. So my husband reactivated a punishment he had used in the past: whenever talked to, I must put my hands behind my...
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    I had been with my ex

    for a long time before our first spanking. One night she received a phone call and politely asked me to turn down the radio so she could hear the telephone better. Selfishly, I only turned it down slightly so I could still hear the music. After her call, she returned with my...
    whitebirch999 whitebirch999 66-70, M Nov 11, 2015

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    I Was Spanked Hard Last Night

    So he finally punished me. I was sent to the bedroom at about 8pm, nose in the corner. He left me there for 15 minutes before I heard him coming into the room, going into the drawer and taking a few things out. I was dying to turn around but didn't quite dare. He then came up...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Prolonged Delayed Discipline

     We live in a world of instant gratification. I agree that delaying discipline can be a tool in itself. Giving a person time to think and achieve a proper mind set. I also understand that there are often circumstances that will make delays impossible to avoid. Lately I have...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    What can I say? Naughty girls deserve spankings.

    And I give them! If any of you naughty young ladies need a man to put you over his knee and tan your little bottom, feel free to leave a comment or message me. I also write spanking-related stories. If you pm me you may ask for one if you'd like. I have a no pouting rule as some...
    BruceWained BruceWained 26-30, M a week ago

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    The Many Ways He Shows His Love For My Own Good.

    I love my domestic dominate husband. His rules and regulations make me feel warm and safe. I know I have boundaries I can not cross. It helps me discipline myself and keeps my temper under wraps. I have always had unconditional love for him but my respect for him wavered. Now, I...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    Why I Am Grateful When You Spank Me... A Wifes Confession To Her Husband

      It makes me think of you for hours, it obviously excites me, but there's so much more.  The warmth spreading across my bottom reminds me of the woman I want to be, makes me want to show you how much I love and desire you.  I feel your strength and I know that I can come to...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 13 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    I did something really bad

    and I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend. She's not gonna be happy and I'll get a big spanking.
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2015

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    In a DD relationship how long should a

    discipline spanking last? I understand watching the color of bottom change but wondering if others could expand on amount of time it should last?
    Iastateyepyep Iastateyepyep 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

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    I've created a safe, private dd community on

    facebook, no aliases or fake profile pictures allowed. https://www.facebook.com/groups/privatedomesticdiscipline/
    girvingtree girvingtree 22-25, F Mar 20, 2015

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    I have spanked my GF

    when she makes a bad grade for a year now, before you judge she asked me to do it to help her focus. This weekend was the first time I spanked for something non-school related.We were at the beach and she wanted to go on hike. So I got up early with her, loaded up the car and we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 31, 2015

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    With all the HOH I see here I don’t know

    if I am in the proper forum. I am posting this because although Dianne and I started out with the Spenser Spanking Plan almost two years ago she has only received a few spankings while I have received an average of one a week. I am 37 and she is four years my senior and...
    appolinaire appolinaire 66-70, M 4 Responses Apr 4, 2015

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    I too believe in Domestic Discipline,

    the discipline of the male, I believe I should be held accountable for my transgressions and actions. I have yet to find a woman that believes the same way though, but I keep hoping and searching. I know that one day I will find her, or she will find me. It doesn't have to be...
    IronButtBob IronButtBob 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 30, 2015

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    A couple of days ago my best friend

    since elementary school called me up. "Jenn I really want to sit down with you and your husband and talk about the lifestyle you live!" I honestly never thought those words would escape from her mouth. She is my only friend that knows about our lifestyle. This was a huge game...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16, 2015

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    Hi. My husband and I are looking

    for like minded couples to befriend in the Atlanta Georgia area.
    emma5713 emma5713 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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