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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

understanding the real purpose of discipline, away from sadistic causes or sexual arouses. 2,031 People

    Discipline Is Always There!

    Some may think that discipline within a marriage is just a kink. But, as I see it, every couple has a certain discipline dynamic. If you are a *****, your husband will punish you! One way or another. He may ignore you, come home really late, and so on... He could even cheat on...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 15 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    My First Spanking.

    I remember my first spanking like it was yesterday. I ran off from a discussion me and by husband Jason were having one night. I left in my car and went to the grocery store parking lot and just stayed there for a bit. Then I came home. My husband asked if I was ready to talk...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 4 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I am so sad today. I'd let things go.

    My weight was up and my house was a wreck. I just couldn't seem to get back on track. I want and need a DD (domestic discipline) relationship and was talking to a man thru EP who had experience in this type of relationship and offered to help. The difficult thing is that it...
    Looking4More26 Looking4More26 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    Humility

    I am not a spokeswoman for ladies in domestic discipline relationships, so I can only speak truthfully from my own point of view. So forgive me if you disagree. Being a volunteer wife in a DD relationship (I actually introduced this to my husband) there are many assumptions that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    A while back my bf and I broke up.

    The last couple months we have been going on dates again and trying to see if we can work things out. We decided that while we are dating we should practice dd as it was a part of our relationship and we want to see how things go as if we were back together. So anyways, the...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F Apr 20, 2014

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    Me And Dclovingdd

    After my x-wife and I divorced, I became an Adult Disciplinarian (AD). I love the responsibility of taking care of someone else. For me this involved teaching, instructing, guiding and when necessary punishing women. I would help ladies break bad habits, start good habits...
    christinasHOH christinasHOH 51-55, M 6 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10, 2014

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    Well since I have been away from my family

    for job training for the last 3 weeks, I have been able to do lot of thinking. This new job is going to require me to travel on a regular basis. Due to this fact I think I'm going to tell my wife that changes are going to happen with this new job and put my expectations down...
    Titan766 Titan766 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    A couple of days ago my best friend

    since elementary school called me up. "Jenn I really want to sit down with you and your husband and talk about the lifestyle you live!" I honestly never thought those words would escape from her mouth. She is my only friend that knows about our lifestyle. This was a huge game...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Email responses I'm posting this here

    because I normally post here. I am replying to the many messages i get about spanking my kids. I DO NOT SPANK MY CHILDREN! my husband was never spanked as a child. He grew up great! I was spanked and spanked often. To the point of not being able to walk. My parents spanked...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I just got caught speeding.

    The officer was kind enough to let me go with a warning. Should I tell my Husband about it and accept the consequences, or keep it to myself since I didn't get the ticket? Thank you ladies for your advice and comments!
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 26 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I Am Going To Spank My Wife Tonight

    Tonight my wife is going to be disciplined. I won't bore you with the details of her misbehaviour; suffice it to say, she has been disobedient. I have just sent her a text telling her she will be getting a spanking. I no longer feel angry. I am looking forward to putting her...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    One Of Many Conversations..................................................

    ''I don't want you to touch me. I don't want to have sex anymore. I think of you as just a friend.'' ~ These are words I told my husband a LONG while ago. I had nearly forgotten I've said them, than he recalled them to me this weekend with still a look of hurt in his eyes. My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I got disciplined this weekend

    for not paying enough attention when when my Husband is talking to me; I just kept doing what I was doing (cooking), instead of being focused on what he was saying. So my husband reactivated a punishment he had used in the past: whenever talked to, I must put my hands behind my...
    Amandine1982 Amandine1982 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    Looks like tomorrow I'll be getting a spanking.

    Would be tonight but I work tonight so Lue said we would wait til tomorrow. We finally decided on a wedding day and Lue insisted I call my dad and tell him. I argued with her over that then when I finally did call him I told him he could **** off and go to hell that I didn't...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 11

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    No Excuses

    I do not believe in, or tolerate excuses. To have a successful DD marriage, consistency is paramount. I will accept explanation, but an explanation is not the same as an excuse. When my wife gives me a reasonable explanation for something, my response is always the same...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 4 Responses May 11, 2013

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    The problem is his idea of moderate is a little

    different than mine. While being across his knee is something that I have agreed to I didn't think it would be so often or that the spankings would last so long. He doesn't stop until my bottom burning red. I also didn't think that it would be common knowledge among our friends...
    bobbyzzzzz bobbyzzzzz 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 4

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    SPANK HOLIDAY MONDAY.

    It was decided that Monday would be used as a maintanence spanking day, where I would have chores to do and hourly punishments. As usual with these days I placed the punishment chair in position in the lounge and prepared 'her' breakfast, non for me, and stood naked in the...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 5 Responses May 27, 2014

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    I've created a safe, private dd community on

    facebook, no aliases or fake profile pictures allowed. https://www.facebook.com/groups/privatedomesticdiscipline/
    girvingtree girvingtree 22-25, F Mar 20

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    Spankings By Definition

    I read this and wanted to share with others. It was of great help when we were new to DD and I have found it useful to share with others who are new and have questions.  I got it from C's Loving Domestic Discipline Blog. I know it is a tad long.Good Girl (GG) spankings are...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 49 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    For me it is about telling my wife to

    obediently wear slips and petticoats.
    byndr byndr 46-50 1 Response Feb 5

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    Matilda's Spankings By Definition

    I've read and re-read Jenna's spanking definitions, but when I read the names I think of something a bit different! So here is MY Spankings By Definition!!!!This in no way replaces the one that Jenna posted...this is just me being bored and instead of doing housework or being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    This is an older story from an old account

    but I thought I would re-post it. - Abby Accepting The Idea Of Domestic Discipline To find a reason why I believe in Domestic Discipline, I need only look to the happy and loving marriage of my parents. I think some people see our Christian family as very traditional, a...
    abigailc abigailc 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I have spanked my GF

    when she makes a bad grade for a year now, before you judge she asked me to do it to help her focus. This weekend was the first time I spanked for something non-school related.We were at the beach and she wanted to go on hike. So I got up early with her, loaded up the car and we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 31

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    My ,limits

    I have never been in a proper relationship like this but I think I would accept it as long as everything was agreed beforehand. I'd want to be able to trust him and respect him and he'd have to know my limits. It's OK if he goes over sometimes if its for something special and I'd...
    luvvinit luvvinit 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    My Friend Is Coming To Stay!

    Hello to all my new friends and anyone reading this, I just want to ask you a question and please can you answer with honesty? We have a friend that we have known for many years and is coming to stay for a short time. She has treated us badly and my husband has threatened to...
    Susanthespanker Susanthespanker 51-55, F 32 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Consistancy As HOH Is Key

    I write from out house in France where my wife and I have come to redefine out marital boundaries on a special holiday alone. I carried out an experiment in a run up to our "boot camp" holiday. My household expectations during this experiment remained the same as usual... BUT I...
    Jameshoh Jameshoh 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    With all the HOH I see here I don’t know

    if I am in the proper forum. I am posting this because although Dianne and I started out with the Spenser Spanking Plan almost two years ago she has only received a few spankings while I have received an average of one a week. I am 37 and she is four years my senior and...
    appolinaire appolinaire 66-70, M 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I Have Been Blessed

    With a delightful weekend with Sir Rod and MatildaEve. As you may have read in MatildaEve's amusing rendition of the weekend we Spent the Thanksgiving holiday with Sir Rod and Matilda. It was truly a wonderful break from the stress life has been throwing at us lately. The drive...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    my wife and I enjoy a great domestic discipline

    lifestyle, it is totally concentual and we both get a lot out of it. I get a good deal of bare bttom spankings, over her lap, being treated like a naughty boy. sometimes the punishments are more severe and more adult where she will use a paddle and occasionally 'the cane'. for...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2014

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    My latest spanking was on Wednesday.

    I had forgotten we were supposed to be going to our daughters house that evening and stopped for a quick drink on the way home. This is normally allowed and not worthy of punishment but tonight I had made us late!. My wife had already rung our daughter and told her we were...
    openmind48 openmind48 46-50, M 3 Responses May 17, 2014

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    Hi. My husband and I are looking

    for like minded couples to befriend in the Atlanta Georgia area.
    emma5713 emma5713 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I Was Spanked Hard Last Night

    So he finally punished me. I was sent to the bedroom at about 8pm, nose in the corner. He left me there for 15 minutes before I heard him coming into the room, going into the drawer and taking a few things out. I was dying to turn around but didn't quite dare. He then came up...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 10 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Most Em-bare-***-ing Spanking Ever

    So my boyfriend came up with a cruel and unusual spanking position. It is so humiliating to have to do this. Anyways, for bigger offenses when an implement that is going to be bad is needed my boyfriend will handcuff me to keep me from reaching back. Now he found this new way...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 8 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I did something really bad

    and I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend. She's not gonna be happy and I'll get a big spanking.
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Nothing makes a woman feel safer

    than a dedicated man who will discipline her. Nothing at all
    AlbertFNewman AlbertFNewman 61-65, M 4 Responses Jan 5

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    Tantrums And Paddles

    Yesterday was not my day. For whatever reason I was in a really bad mood and just feeling needy I guess. I had to go out to run a fast errand and I asked my boyfriend if he would come with me because I was afraid to drive due to weather conditions. He on the other hand is a...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Starting back up up with discipline

    after a long break during pregnancy, but baby is 3 months old now and it's time to start again.
    girvingtree girvingtree 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Recent Dd Publicity... What A Crock...

    I can't finish the phrase in the title of this story - I don't want to risk my first mouth soaping... (after a recent 'episode' I am on a zero tolerance bad language embargo. Does typing count? I don't think I'll test him to find out!) So DD, or more specifically CDD has been in...
    LittleSally LittleSally 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Medical Insight Into Why Wives Love To Be Spanked

    http://www.news-medical.net/news/2005/03/29/8788.aspx Smack that bottom - it can cure everything !! Published on March 29, 2005 at 7:01 PM Russian scientists at the Novosibirsk Institute of Medicine are claiming a beating on the naked buttocks with a cane is the perfect way to...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 31 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Saturday night we had a discussion about our

    relationship, where is was, is and where it's going. After a period of almost ending it, followed by an okay but not what it was, we have decided to do a 6 month trial period of domestic discipline. With the amount of traveling I do, we are going to start of slowly, to allow...
    Titan766 Titan766 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    christian0539 christian0539 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Prolonged Delayed Discipline

     We live in a world of instant gratification. I agree that delaying discipline can be a tool in itself. Giving a person time to think and achieve a proper mind set. I also understand that there are often circumstances that will make delays impossible to avoid. Lately I have...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I met a woman who needs to be spanked to keep

    herself level. she gets bratty when she has been to long without a spanking. I still remember the first real spanking I gave her, she lied to me and about me. I spanked her bending her over my knee until she submitted to me. after she submitted I comforted her and held her in my...
    caer caer 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 4

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    The Many Ways He Shows His Love For My Own Good.

    I love my domestic dominate husband. His rules and regulations make me feel warm and safe. I know I have boundaries I can not cross. It helps me discipline myself and keeps my temper under wraps. I have always had unconditional love for him but my respect for him wavered. Now, I...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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