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I Believe In Obeying Husband Completely

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    Yeah,

    Effin right in his wildest wet dreams. I'll tell him to shove it somewhere where the sun don't shine and stfu with that nonsense.
    Naughtynancy2007 Naughtynancy2007 22-25 17 Responses Jul 1, 2010

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    How I See It

    I am not weak. My husband listens to my point of view and takes me seriously. I am not a door matt. But in my view he is in charge. If he disagrees with me, I restate what I think or believe. But he makes the final decisions. He is in no way abusive or demeaning to me...
    Saucy2 Saucy2 46-50 2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Have Always Said No Way...but Now...reconsidering

    In my marriage of nearly 20 years that recently ended in a big firey ball of pain.  There is just no way I could ever allow such a thing.  It made NO sense to me at all.  Had a best girlfriend who continually tried to convince me that it wasn't a choice. I said...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 23, 2007

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10

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    I Respect Those That Chose This Path, But Not For Religion's Sake.

    Wives that choose to be submissive because they want to is something I really respect and admire because I know I'd never be able to do that.But when it comes to being pressured into submission by the church, I severely disagree with it. God loves his children equally; he does...
    Emokitten Emokitten 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I Can Finally Let Go Of The Power

    I am 25 and this is my first time living with a man, and from the very start, and despite all the love we had for each other, we wouldn't stop fighting. Then he started to hold these "crazy" talks about being the man and me being the woman. These words sounded terrible to my ear...
    ginaleecooper ginaleecooper 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    Who Is In Charge?

    In some areas, my CEO (the wife) is in charge, but in other areas I am in charge. It took a while for us to figure out how we wanted our relationship to be, and it is still evolving, just like everything else on earth-change is constant!We both like it that we can be dominant in...
    atpcliff atpcliff 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I Love My Husband Being In Charge

      So many women have this backward thinking that women who allow their husbands to be the head of the household are somehow weak.  Wrong-It takes alot of strength to stand by someone's side and support them no matter what.     It's not like my husband...
    biblesex biblesex 26-30, F 47 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    I Don't Belive

    I don't believe 50 people at least not 50 women said this. Not American women, no in this lifetime. No chance, none at all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I Don't

    I think I am pretty tolerant of the idea that a man "should be in charge blah blah blah" but that's only because I grew up in a home where that's how shitt was, it's just sad that it was taken to the extreme. And honestly, sometimes it really sucked. My mom would ASK my dad for...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 23 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    Oops Wrong Group ....

    Don't know how I ended up in this group, but I am not suppossed to be in here. This is not me.
    Kurlysue Kurlysue 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    Equals

    I would never obey anyone male or female. I have a mind of my own. I matter to. Am also important. I could not imagine being with someone who expected me to obey them I would have no respect for them or myself by allowing to be treated that way. Heck my dogs don't even obey. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Just In Right Stuff

    just in right stuff*to be continued*
    listenup listenup 26-30, M 2 Responses May 22, 2011

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    I Am His,he Is Mine,and Together We Are One

    Long before my husband and I got married it was well established in our relationship what was expected and what our roles were to be so,when we decided to get married it was never a question for me as to what vows we would have read.I chose the traditional vows.why? because I...
    ktosello ktosello 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Why

    I am surprised at the stories in this group. Why leave a story if you don't agree with it. Isn't that the whole point of this site, to find people who share the same experiences as you? Anyway, I submit to my husband because I believe that's what God has called me to do with my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 28, 2012

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    While I Believe...

    While I completely believe that feminism was a huge downfall of society.. my husband doesn't wish to take the control of our relationship. It's leading us down a fiscal road that isn't pretty and a difficult road in our marriage. How do I explain to an emasculated man that I want...
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    No Way

    Just the title of this group made me laugh.Obey?! Wow really. I will be married 2o yrs rhis year. And not one of those years did I obey. Am my own person. Noone will ever control me. Am noone's slave. My husband would never expect me to obey him. That's just too funny.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    He Shares My Body

    I completely obey my husband in everything he say's and do'es to me, i am a total submissive for him and he is my dom, my body is shared with others as this is what he likes to do and i comply with his orders and the orders others want of me; male/female its make no difference...
    LLIL LLIL 46-50, F 13 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    Obey Completly---oh Yea

    What if your husband felt bad for his brother, friend ect & said you must have sex with him(them)?
    jettys jettys 56-60 10 Responses Sep 1, 2010

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    He Wouldn't Want Me to

    If you enjoy obeyance, go for it, I wouldn't, but it's a matter of personal choice. But for my husband it wouldn't be a good thing. My husband is not a control freak and has no desire to have an obediant robot for a wife. We left the "obey" line out of our marriage...
    chovhani chovhani 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 22, 2007

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    over my dead body. I grew up in an oppressive

    household where obeying the husband was the norm due the bible and its misinterpreted teachings. I did not want that misery when i got married. My husband and I are equal respectful partners. we each have a say with money, childrearing, time spent, careers, household chores, etc...
    jennyel jennyel 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Why I Joined This Group

    The reason I "obey" my husband is not because religion says so. But there is a good example of how we feel about things in the Bible. I am his, and he is also mine. We address everything hand in hand, and obey each other completely. We make no demands of each other that are...
    tyedyegoddess tyedyegoddess 26-30, F Jan 29, 2011

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    Wtf. Who would want to live this way?

    If that's what marriage has become (and many marriages fail these days) then I have no idea why any woman would want to be part of one. Woman have no thoughts for themselves in the marriage, and they pretty much become slaves. It's like we're going back in time. Ugh just the...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 6

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    He Shares My Body

    I completely obey my husband in everything he says and does to me, i am a total submissive for him and his sister and they are my dom's, my body is shared with others as this is what they like to do and i comply with there orders and the orders others want of me; male/female...
    LLIL LLIL 46-50, F 5 Responses May 30, 2011

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    What is it mean to be submissive

    and obedient to your husband?
    mrsjuarez1006 mrsjuarez1006 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    Any One Out There Like Me?

    I believe the bible says we should obey our husbands. This is why one should be very choosey about who they marry.
    Saucy50 Saucy50 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Obeying Him

    I am not here to question I am not here to second-guess I am not here to backchat I am not here to disobey I am here as his wife When I said 'I do', I was saying that 'I do- give my life to him'- to with what he wishes He looks after me Clothes me Feeds me Loves me Teaches me...
    syengel syengel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Obedience And Apology...

    Cross posted in a couple submissive experiences... Apologizing stems from a realization of wrong-doing. This has not always been obvious to me. In all seriousness, it has only been in the past four years or so where I realized that deflecting criticism or disharmony by blaming...
    laserx laserx 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2011

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    I Believe In Obeying My Husband Completely

    There can only be one captian and I don't want to be it. My husband deserves my respect and devotion. It's nice to know there are other woman who Share this value.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 26 Responses Apr 6, 2011

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    Love, Honor, And Obey

    I am a 26 year old, strong, independent woman who is madly in love with my 36 year old fiance. He is smart, sexy, strong, capable, fearless, and loving. I can lean on him through any trial that comes our way. We actively practice domestic discipline in our relationship and the...
    ldhager ldhager 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    Yes She Does

    But it's mutual and respectful. Merely my word is final. By her consent I control the money, direct the housework and the choose the meals. For her it's a relief not having to make those decisions and hold those responsibilities. For me it's comfort knowing that the helpmate...
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2010

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