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I Believe In Obeying Husband Completely

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 718 People

    Who Is In Charge?

    In some areas, my CEO (the wife) is in charge, but in other areas I am in charge. It took a while for us to figure out how we wanted our relationship to be, and it is still evolving, just like everything else on earth-change is constant!We both like it that we can be dominant in...
    atpcliff atpcliff
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2011

    over my dead body. I grew up in an oppressive

    household where obeying the husband was the norm due the bible and its misinterpreted teachings. I did not want that misery when i got married. My husband and I are equal respectful partners. we each have a say with money, childrearing, time spent, careers, household chores, etc...
    jennyel jennyel
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 27, 2014

    I Believe In Obeying My Husband Completely

    There can only be one captian and I don't want to be it. My husband deserves my respect and devotion. It's nice to know there are other woman who Share this value.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    25 Responses Apr 6, 2011

    I Don't Belive

    I don't believe 50 people at least not 50 women said this. Not American women, no in this lifetime. No chance, none at all.
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Aug 29, 2010

    I Love My Husband Being In Charge

      So many women have this backward thinking that women who allow their husbands to be the head of the household are somehow weak.  Wrong-It takes alot of strength to stand by someone's side and support them no matter what.     It's not like my husband...
    biblesex biblesex
    26-30, F
    45 Responses Oct 24, 2008

    Love, Honor, And Obey

    How many folks out there see submission as weakness? it takes great strength to follow completly, without question, and in all aspects of married life. and yet, still be a strong woman in other areas of life. I may submit to him in all things, as I vowed on our wedding day, but i...
    blessedwithbreasts blessedwithbreasts
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jun 20, 2011

    I Am A Submissive Wife

    I met my husband at my 16th birthday party, I am now 33 and we are still happily married. We have 2 wonderful children. I have definitely come along way as a women and wife since then. My husband has always been dominate, controlling, and (for lack of a better term) man’s man...
    sawilke sawilke
    1 Response Sep 30, 2012

    I Am His,he Is Mine,and Together We Are One

    Long before my husband and I got married it was well established in our relationship what was expected and what our roles were to be so,when we decided to get married it was never a question for me as to what vows we would have read.I chose the traditional vows.why? because I...
    ktosello ktosello
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Oct 21, 2011

    Love, Honor, And Obey

    I am a 26 year old, strong, independent woman who is madly in love with my 36 year old fiance. He is smart, sexy, strong, capable, fearless, and loving. I can lean on him through any trial that comes our way. We actively practice domestic discipline in our relationship and the...
    ldhager ldhager
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    Wtf. Who would want to live this way?

    If that's what marriage has become (and many marriages fail these days) then I have no idea why any woman would want to be part of one. Woman have no thoughts for themselves in the marriage, and they pretty much become slaves. It's like we're going back in time. Ugh just the...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    Obeying Him

    I am not here to question I am not here to second-guess I am not here to backchat I am not here to disobey I am here as his wife When I said 'I do', I was saying that 'I do- give my life to him'- to with what he wishes He looks after me Clothes me Feeds me Loves me Teaches me...
    syengel syengel
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

    While I Believe...

    While I completely believe that feminism was a huge downfall of society.. my husband doesn't wish to take the control of our relationship. It's leading us down a fiscal road that isn't pretty and a difficult road in our marriage. How do I explain to an emasculated man that I want...
    lovingexpress lovingexpress
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 28, 2011


    Effin right in his wildest wet dreams. I'll tell him to shove it somewhere where the sun don't shine and stfu with that nonsense.
    Naughtynancy2007 Naughtynancy2007
    16 Responses Jul 1, 2010

    Why I Joined This Group

    The reason I "obey" my husband is not because religion says so. But there is a good example of how we feel about things in the Bible. I am his, and he is also mine. We address everything hand in hand, and obey each other completely. We make no demands of each other that are...
    tyedyegoddess tyedyegoddess
    26-30, F
    Jan 29, 2011


    Here is an excerpt, I found it very powerful and convicting. A sexually obedient wife must learn that her only role is to obediently please. She must identifier herself as a sex-object that is used simply to deposit *** into. She must submit to ****** control to ensure that her...
    hhue hhue
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2012

    i am currently regressing andnusing DD on my

    younger wife. she was caught cheating a few months after oir mareiage. Sydney is slowly adjusting to her status. There are many tantrums but I am alsonslowly seeing adjustments in her behaviour. I do not keep her new babyhood and diapers secret from anyone. She no longer...
    RegressingSydney RegressingSydney
    46-50, M
    Apr 14, 2015

    Yes She Does

    But it's mutual and respectful. Merely my word is final. By her consent I control the money, direct the housework and the choose the meals. For her it's a relief not having to make those decisions and hold those responsibilities. For me it's comfort knowing that the helpmate...
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 8, 2010

    He Wouldn't Want Me to

    If you enjoy obeyance, go for it, I wouldn't, but it's a matter of personal choice. But for my husband it wouldn't be a good thing. My husband is not a control freak and has no desire to have an obediant robot for a wife. We left the "obey" line out of our marriage...
    chovhani chovhani
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Sep 22, 2007

    Oops Wrong Group ....

    Don't know how I ended up in this group, but I am not suppossed to be in here. This is not me.
    Kurlysue Kurlysue
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2013

    Started from our wedding day,

    Master ruled my daily time-table, and it was applied since after a month of wedding day. I have to obey completely, or will be punished. 4:55 AM - wake up 5:00-5:30 AM - exercise, weight, measure 5:30-5:45 AM - shade and shower 5:45-5:55 AM - prepare for Master to shade and...
    Daddyslavekhag Daddyslavekhag
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    when i get married, i want to completely obey

    my husband. i believe my husband should be in charge of our marriage, i feel naturally submissive
    Mackenzieeee Mackenzieeee
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    My husband is my leader

    and love. There is mutual respect for one another and our household rules. I am to keep the peace in our home with a respect for the cleanliness of our house and the paperwork. By paperwork, it means making sure appointments are made and kept, children's homework is completed...
    submitted2Him submitted2Him
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2014

    Have Always Said No Way...but Now...reconsidering

    In my marriage of nearly 20 years that recently ended in a big firey ball of pain.  There is just no way I could ever allow such a thing.  It made NO sense to me at all.  Had a best girlfriend who continually tried to convince me that it wasn't a choice. I said...
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    16 Responses Sep 23, 2007

    Any One Out There Like Me?

    I believe the bible says we should obey our husbands. This is why one should be very choosey about who they marry.
    Saucy50 Saucy50
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    Yes i do he overworks himself to pay the bills .

    Agreeing to his desires is the least I can do why should he leave one hostile environment to enter another?
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    What is it mean to be submissive

    and obedient to your husband?
    mrsjuarez1006 mrsjuarez1006
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    Obey Ha I Grew Up Obeying My Parents Forget My Spouse

    I do not believe that. Obeying the husband HAHAHA joke in my boke. A marriage is one. ONE you become one. That means you share and enjoy life together. When we got married the word obey was omitted. Forget that. Now you sound ya going by the bible. Women be submissive...
    Possmdillolady Possmdillolady
    56-60, F
    Aug 13, 2012

    I Don't

    I think I am pretty tolerant of the idea that a man "should be in charge blah blah blah" but that's only because I grew up in a home where that's how shitt was, it's just sad that it was taken to the extreme. And honestly, sometimes it really sucked. My mom would ASK my dad for...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    23 Responses Jan 26, 2011


    I would never obey anyone male or female. I have a mind of my own. I matter to. Am also important. I could not imagine being with someone who expected me to obey them I would have no respect for them or myself by allowing to be treated that way. Heck my dogs don't even obey. I am...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

    No Way

    Just the title of this group made me laugh.Obey?! Wow really. I will be married 2o yrs rhis year. And not one of those years did I obey. Am my own person. Noone will ever control me. Am noone's slave. My husband would never expect me to obey him. That's just too funny.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    I Can Finally Let Go Of The Power

    I am 25 and this is my first time living with a man, and from the very start, and despite all the love we had for each other, we wouldn't stop fighting. Then he started to hold these "crazy" talks about being the man and me being the woman. These words sounded terrible to my ear...
    ginaleecooper ginaleecooper
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2013


    I am surprised at the stories in this group. Why leave a story if you don't agree with it. Isn't that the whole point of this site, to find people who share the same experiences as you? Anyway, I submit to my husband because I believe that's what God has called me to do with my...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 28, 2012

    I Believe A Womans Purpose Is To Provide Pleasure And Obey Sweetly All Her Man's Wishes Without Question.

    I am a very loving submissive woman looking for a husband whose every wish desire and demand I will obey without question.I have large plump breasts with big nipples a very vulumptuous body ready to quickly lubricate and accommodatewhatever and whenever my husband orders me to...
    chanelle28 chanelle28
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Oct 8, 2012


    I think that being obedient to your husband makes for a successful mariage. You hear and read a lot of sories of women who finally comearound to submitting to their husbands and find that they and their husbands are happier and their relationship is free of tensions and they...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2010

    How I See It

    I am not weak. My husband listens to my point of view and takes me seriously. I am not a door matt. But in my view he is in charge. If he disagrees with me, I restate what I think or believe. But he makes the final decisions. He is in no way abusive or demeaning to me...
    Saucy2 Saucy2
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

    Lesson Learned

    The other day I lost my wedding ring. This made my daddy husband very upset. He has told me numerous times not to remove my wedding band ever but I take it off at night anyway. He has given me many warnings that he would spank me if I did not obey him on this but always gave me a...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    The world, and especially western society,

    would be a better place if more women were obedient to their husbands in every respect. Women who expected to obey their husbands would choose their partners much more carefully, and men would work harder to be worthy of being chosen. Feminism, which is inherently anti-male...
    misterarchie misterarchie
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    Old Fashioned Marriage

    I am 24 and my husband Sean is 28. We met in college and dated for 3 years before tying the knot. We had an old fashioned courtship. When I told him I was a virgin when we started dating, sex never came up. We did a lot of touching, and kissing... But nothing else! We were...
    Jessluv1989 Jessluv1989
    26-30, F
    Mar 7, 2013

    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho
    22-25, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    But I'M Nowhere Near That Point Yet

    I do believe in obeying my husband completely. Do I do it all the time? No. But I am striving towards that. My husband calls me his Queen. He treats me like one as well. And I'm a pretty spoiled queen... But sometimes I don't keep our "castle" very clean or I yell or completely...
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2013
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