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I Believe In Obeying Husband Completely

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    I Can Finally Let Go Of The Power

    I am 25 and this is my first time living with a man, and from the very start, and despite all the love we had for each other, we wouldn't stop fighting. Then he started to hold these "crazy" talks about being the man and me being the woman. These words sounded terrible to my ear...
    ginaleecooper ginaleecooper 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 15, 2013

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    I Love My Husband Being In Charge

      So many women have this backward thinking that women who allow their husbands to be the head of the household are somehow weak.  Wrong-It takes alot of strength to stand by someone's side and support them no matter what.     It's not like my husband...
    biblesex biblesex 26-30, F 48 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Yeah,

    Effin right in his wildest wet dreams. I'll tell him to shove it somewhere where the sun don't shine and stfu with that nonsense.
    Naughtynancy2007 Naughtynancy2007 22-25 17 Responses Jul 1, 2010

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    Oops Wrong Group ....

    Don't know how I ended up in this group, but I am not suppossed to be in here. This is not me.
    Kurlysue Kurlysue 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    He Wouldn't Want Me to

    If you enjoy obeyance, go for it, I wouldn't, but it's a matter of personal choice. But for my husband it wouldn't be a good thing. My husband is not a control freak and has no desire to have an obediant robot for a wife. We left the "obey" line out of our marriage...
    chovhani chovhani 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 22, 2007

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    What is it mean to be submissive

    and obedient to your husband?
    mrsjuarez1006 mrsjuarez1006 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    How I See It

    I am not weak. My husband listens to my point of view and takes me seriously. I am not a door matt. But in my view he is in charge. If he disagrees with me, I restate what I think or believe. But he makes the final decisions. He is in no way abusive or demeaning to me...
    Saucy2 Saucy2 46-50 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    I Believe In Obeying My Husband Completely

    There can only be one captian and I don't want to be it. My husband deserves my respect and devotion. It's nice to know there are other woman who Share this value.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 23 Responses Apr 6, 2011

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    Any One Out There Like Me?

    I believe the bible says we should obey our husbands. This is why one should be very choosey about who they marry.
    Saucy50 Saucy50 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I Respect Those That Chose This Path, But Not For Religion's Sake.

    Wives that choose to be submissive because they want to is something I really respect and admire because I know I'd never be able to do that.But when it comes to being pressured into submission by the church, I severely disagree with it. God loves his children equally; he does...
    Emokitten Emokitten 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I Don't Belive

    I don't believe 50 people at least not 50 women said this. Not American women, no in this lifetime. No chance, none at all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Why I Joined This Group

    The reason I "obey" my husband is not because religion says so. But there is a good example of how we feel about things in the Bible. I am his, and he is also mine. We address everything hand in hand, and obey each other completely. We make no demands of each other that are...
    tyedyegoddess tyedyegoddess 26-30, F Jan 29, 2011

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    My Submission And Surrender

    I posted this in another group too but it seemed appropriate here too... I do submit completely to my husband. I have an awesome marriage. I couldn't't be happier. He loves me and would never ask me to do something that would be wrong or hurt me. On the day I made my wedding vows...
    hannah24 hannah24 22-25, F 45 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    Have Always Said No Way...but Now...reconsidering

    In my marriage of nearly 20 years that recently ended in a big firey ball of pain.  There is just no way I could ever allow such a thing.  It made NO sense to me at all.  Had a best girlfriend who continually tried to convince me that it wasn't a choice. I said...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 19 Responses Sep 23, 2007

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    My Submission, Surrender And My Rights And Equality

    This is following up on my story called "My submission and Surrender." I received a comment that made me think about my rights and my choice to surrender to my husband. I decided to post this in response. After pondering it for the past day, I find no connection between my...
    hannah24 hannah24 22-25, F 14 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    over my dead body. I grew up in an oppressive

    household where obeying the husband was the norm due the bible and its misinterpreted teachings. I did not want that misery when i got married. My husband and I are equal respectful partners. we each have a say with money, childrearing, time spent, careers, household chores, etc...
    jennyel jennyel 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Obeying Him

    I am not here to question I am not here to second-guess I am not here to backchat I am not here to disobey I am here as his wife When I said 'I do', I was saying that 'I do- give my life to him'- to with what he wishes He looks after me Clothes me Feeds me Loves me Teaches me...
    syengel syengel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Just In Right Stuff

    just in right stuff*to be continued*
    listenup listenup 26-30, M 2 Responses May 22, 2011

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    I Am His,he Is Mine,and Together We Are One

    Long before my husband and I got married it was well established in our relationship what was expected and what our roles were to be so,when we decided to get married it was never a question for me as to what vows we would have read.I chose the traditional vows.why? because I...
    ktosello ktosello 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    I Don't

    I think I am pretty tolerant of the idea that a man "should be in charge blah blah blah" but that's only because I grew up in a home where that's how shitt was, it's just sad that it was taken to the extreme. And honestly, sometimes it really sucked. My mom would ASK my dad for...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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