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I Believe In the Code of Chivalry

Members iof this group should live their lives by a code of virtue and honour. 101 People

    Where Have Our Manners Gone?

    When i was growing up a man always held the door open for a woman; car or building. Today i do not see it very often. Last night I was leaving a restaurant in the city. The couple in front of us kissed outside the door and parted company. He left her to go to her car by herself...
    climber1 climber1 66-70, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    The Code Has Note Been Forgotent

    to some people the code has not been forgoton but as far as following it they do not do as they swear.  a man will always defeand the defeanfensless and never use a weapon aginst a unarmed man.  if a friend asks you to help in a fight that is 1 on 1 don't but as soon as it is 2...
    unclesmokeyslongbong unclesmokeyslongbong 31-35, M Apr 1, 2011

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    Coat of Arms

    I could nae think of a better logo for this group than the Coat of Arms o my family. I am the Chieftain of the Clan Cathcart-USA and I live as much as possible by a code of honour that incorporates that into every facet of life. I encourage others tae do the same and  join...
    Raibeart Raibeart 51-55, M Apr 26, 2008

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    I am currently involved with a recovering

    alcoholic and I have been torn apart by AA and Al anon saying I am an enabler, martyr and hugely co dependant. I believe what they are referring to is the fact that I open the door for my wife and pay some of her bills, and pick her up when she has an emotional downfall and...
    loveisalwaysthecure loveisalwaysthecure 41-45, M Jun 25

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    I Rememeber....

    Back in 2006 a year i lost my cousin and a year later i lost a close friend times were pretty simple for me compared to now. i was working and i had a crush on this guy name Darcy. he was a pretty boy and  a nice guy, his best friend's name was Canon(who was the...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 22-25, F Nov 4, 2009

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    Oh, Really?

    Many things in life have been witnessed by myself personally that have made me appreciate chivalry. I'm a girl, but the things men do to women sicken me. Rappers babbling about their hoes is plain old degrading. And one time, I watched as a 12 year old boy hit a girl of the same...
    miserystrengthenme miserystrengthenme 22-25 6 Responses Jul 1, 2008

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    An Updated Take On Chivalry

    In the Middle Ages, of course, much of the codes of conduct were based on religion. Since I'm not religious, I have had to change the focus of some of the rules in a code such as this:   From Chivalry by Leon Gautier I.  Thou shalt believe all that the Church teaches...
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    July 14. We Are Lovable. "Even if the most important person in your world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay." —Codependent No More Do you ever find...
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    The symptoms of codependency are so broad and widely applicable. The primary symptoms associated with codependency may be people-pleasing behaviors and the need for the validation...
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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
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    I am Old Fashioned in some ways it seems Today , with this new Weeny Generation. I believe in Not Only Country Flag Freedom and Forces , but in individual Freedom , minding ones...
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    I used to, i don't anymore. I mean not in the way or a form i used to. If you can understand... You see, i am a pagan, so i believe there is a force (no pun intended ) or such...
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    People are going to have different beliefs or thoughts about god. I choose to believe. Those who are in favor and love christ. Continue to do so. Don't let people discourage you...
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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
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    Here is 25 Manners you should know and do almost everyday. Manner #1 When asking for something, say "Please." Manner #2 When receiving something, say "Thank you." Manner #3 Do not...
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    July 15. Self-care with Family Members. "I was thirty- five years old the first time I spoke up to my mother and refused to buy into her games and manipulation. I was terribly...
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    July 15. Self-care with Family Members. "I was thirty- five years old the first time I spoke up to my mother and refused to buy into her games and manipulation. I was terribly...
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    July 15. Self-care with Family Members. "I was thirty- five years old the first time I spoke up to my mother and refused to buy into her games and manipulation. I was terribly...
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    July 16. Insisting on the Best. We deserve the best life and love has to offer, but we are each faced with the challenge of learning to identify what that means in our life. We...
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    July 16. Insisting on the Best. We deserve the best life and love has to offer, but we are each faced with the challenge of learning to identify what that means in our life. We...
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    July 16. Insisting on the Best. We deserve the best life and love has to offer, but we are each faced with the challenge of learning to identify what that means in our life. We...
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    July 22. Learning to Trust Again. Many of us have trust issues. Some of us tried long and hard to trust untrustworthy people. Over and again, we believed lies and promises never...
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    July 22. Learning to Trust Again. Many of us have trust issues. Some of us tried long and hard to trust untrustworthy people. Over and again, we believed lies and promises never...
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    July 22. Learning to Trust Again. Many of us have trust issues. Some of us tried long and hard to trust untrustworthy people. Over and again, we believed lies and promises never...
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