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I Believe In The Intimacy Of Oral Sex

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    The video is always close at hand. It’s one I have watched so many times since that day.  Quickly stripping out of my summer “business casual” clothes, khaki’s a golf shirt and loafers.  Socks and undies tossed aside as well. Opening the sliding glass door from the...
    RKHunter RKHunter 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    I also believe intimacy isn't purely sexual. You don't need to have sex with someone to show them you love and care for them. Quite honestly, if I were in a relationship, I would...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Easy enough to have sex without intimacy...people do it all the time. Sex is physical. Intimacy is emotional. When the two meet it is the best of both worlds but certainly you...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    We can all agree that sex is an important part of the intimacy, but thank goodness is not everything!!! The trust, respect, the sharing thoughts,dreams & secrets and love comes in...
    newlifejuliana newlifejuliana 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 9

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    Sex is great but I would choose cuddling or hand holding or kissing over sex any day. I just love to wake up with my head laying on the chest of someone I love. And omg hand...
    TeenMomHannah TeenMomHannah 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I believe that intimacy is sharing. Sharing ur thoughts, feelings, and ideas with someone without being judged or evaluated. Sometimes my thoughts are just musings, not wishes to...
    boadiccearose boadiccearose 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Is it weird that i just prefer making out with people and snuggling more then sex and touching? Or am i weird
    cutiepatootie96 cutiepatootie96 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    I love giving oral it's a pleasure for me to satisfy my man like that .. So I would like to get better.. Is there any techniques to train my throat for being able up deep throat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 20

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    For a few moments this afternoon I spent time being a voyeur. From my poolside deck chair I observed the interaction between mother, father and the young boy in the hotel pool. The...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 4 Responses Mar 19

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    It's the closeness of knowing that the things you care most for are reciprocated, and some of the gaps you feel most harshly have been filled. It's growing, half-alone, but...
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    Just something men tell me I am very good at
    bendovergirl88 bendovergirl88 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My wife makes me do it to her every night and when her lover finishes with her
    bendoverman75 bendoverman75 36-40, M Mar 27

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    I CRAVE the taste of my man. I often daydream of kneeling before him; his hands in my hair, slowly pumping me as I **********. Last night I fell asleep with him buried deep in my...
    LillikoiSeed LillikoiSeed 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I love road dome ;) girls are the greatest <3
    mrhollingswortg1992 mrhollingswortg1992 22-25, M Apr 9

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    My **** is craving some sucking. I'm as hard as a rock.
    TheShadowMaster TheShadowMaster 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I love to please my wife. I want her to feel and experience feelings she's never had. I literally can spend hours between her legs pleasing her in every way possible. This time is...
    polishpower polishpower 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I love my wife and I know she is my soulmate. She's a wonderful wife, mother, friend, and partner in my life; of course less the sex. I can say that she made me a better man, more...
    TheWorks TheWorks 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    There are 2 whys in the sexless marriage. The first is: why does my spouse not want sex? This leads to a huge cycle of reason-chasing, smokescreening from the refuser, magical...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses Mar 26

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    I love having sex... I'm an Aries... I loving giving oral sex... I love getting oral sex... Aries the Sex Goddess.. That's What We Do.... WELL SOME OF US..LOL..
    mkenzi0924 mkenzi0924 22-25, M Mar 19

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    I just want to share some my astonishing findings with you guys. Yesterday one of my friend complained that her husband had been suspect her having an affair. Then we talked about...
    Raisingup Raisingup 26-30, F 12 Responses Mar 26

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    I won't say my marriage is sexless just not any where close to where I want it. No intimacy just sex. Talk to your blue in the face. Won't change nothing
    october004 october004 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I think every chick likes to be with other girls now and then, especially when you're going through an oral sex drought with the boyfriend. I cheated last weekend after some beers...
    Purplesloths Purplesloths 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Thank you to everyone who took the time to respond to my post yesterday. I was overwhelmed by the friendship and advice that you guys gave. As I think about the situation I am in...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    My marriage lacks affection, closeness and intimacy. We don't kiss, hug or hold hands....no date nights....the main priority is to raise our kids...we talk a lot, however, when it...
    DreamWing DreamWing 36-40, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    A Discovery of Self....When I first started coming to this website I had a typical everything was okay bar the sex attitude. I still wanted to divorce but I didn't want to hurt my...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Apr 10

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 5 days ago

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    I had reset sex with my husband last night. I'm not sure if I did it to try to wipe out my memory of the married ******* who ****** me a couple of weeks ago and then dumped me, or...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    This is a little scary, posting about such private matters to people I've never met, but here goes. I googled sexless marriage for the first time today. What triggered it was the...
    TCKat TCKat 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 10

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    I have been married for 8 years. The sex was just alright in the first couple of years and then basically dwindled off into never ever land. I thought I could accept her lack of...
    ll2live ll2live 41-45 9 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm a 39-year-old woman, married for 11 years I have not had sex with my husband in more than three years. My story is so pathetic. At first it was only a few months and then it...
    Roxie1130 Roxie1130 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been with women since my first real girlfriend at age 11. (Damn..I'm old!) Anyway, there have been a fling here and there, but my best relationships by far have always been...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    The most important thing in order to flourish and succeed in life, I believe is the belief someone places in you. An individuals strong sense of wanting to please themselves or...
    greenpebbles greenpebbles 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Many prey on those who lack intimacy....not knowingly. Or knowingly. Many confuse sex and intimacy.
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Progress. I've realized a lot. One of the biggest things: I THINK I may be a counter refuser, because I'm the one who cares! (Metta called this one I think...) True refusers...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 24

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    I recently took the PAIR or Personal Assessment of Intimacy in Relationships. These are some of my results 1) My partner listens when I need someone to talk to Yes, for the most...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    It would be nice to find a woman that is as passionate about intimacy as I am. Someone that does not give a dam about who might see them or where they are. Someone that loves...
    Blazen71 Blazen71 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Its a litle strange talking about my sexless life but i dont have anybody in my life to talk with. Im sorry if my english is not spelled right but its not my first language. I...
    easylistener easylistener 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 19

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    I am married (8 years) and I have two young children. Over the last perhaps six years our sex frequency has plummeted which has results in sex approximately four times a year over...
    redindiantenttour redindiantenttour 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 11

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    I'll be married for 10 years in November. We have been together 14 years. I am 35 and my husband is 40. We dated 4 years before we got married.We had sex very few times when I was...
    sweetwoman34 sweetwoman34 31-35, F 30 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been separated 6-months after being in a sexless marriage. I didn't stay in one place much during the separation. But after being overseas for a while (spent time in Australia...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    WOW. Never thought there would be an entire group dedicated to this topic/lot in life. Well me too. Kind of glad I found this, maybe its nice to find other people are in the...
    jc316 jc316 41-45, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a very sexual person. I am not intimidated to try new things if it sounds fun to me. When I'm not thinking about sex, I'm having sex, and when I'm not having sex, I'm thinking...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Im in a six year relationship with the last three years being without sex of anykind. She has menoposed out of wanting sex. In respect to her feelings I don't push the issue. I...
    peepntom11 peepntom11 56-60, M 6 hrs ago

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    What to do? Good man. Friends are jealous of what they think we have. He would do anything for me, but we haven't had sex in so long (so many years), I can't even remember the...
    Imyourhoney2 Imyourhoney2 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 19

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    You think you have all the time in the world. You don’t. I live in a sexless marriage. I made major decisions and made many choices to live alongside a man who found it...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 20

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    I am married but yet feel so alone, our sex life is very minimal and I have cravings that are so intense yet ignored.. I am a very sexual female and I live think and breathe it! I...
    TandT0420 TandT0420 36-40, F 27 Responses Mar 21

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    Just a quick update, its been 2-3 weeks since I refused the "reset sex" and has definitely ramped up affection (not sex, but hugs) and now makes a point to say she loves me and...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 21

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