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I Believe In The Intimacy Of Oral Sex

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    The video is always close at hand. It’s one I have watched so many times since that day.  Quickly stripping out of my summer “business casual” clothes, khaki’s a golf shirt and loafers.  Socks and undies tossed aside as well. Opening the sliding glass door from the...
    RKHunter RKHunter 51-55, M 6 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    It's definitely all in the breathing, methinks. Restrained oral is a new turn-on for me, and deepthroat is kind of second nature, by now.
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    It seems the humans of today's world are determined to tear meaning and moral out of everything that was once considered sacred. Man's lust for pleasure is going to leave life a...
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    When you take something that is meant to be special between two people, and make it a casual thing that you would do with anyone. It ruins the meaning of it completely, losing the...
    IRequireAssistance IRequireAssistance 18-21, F Aug 13

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    Well well well I started sleeping with this guy 3 weeks ago we had been talking platonically for about 2 months before that, the sex was GREAT and we always have lots of fun...
    twelvesquare twelvesquare 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    sometimes the most softest of touches from him tells me the depth of his love more than words.
    colorfullcolorado colorfullcolorado 18-21, F Aug 11

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    Message me and find out what happen when I was 5yo
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    She was very very happy the whole time
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    I think there is something wrong with me to enjoy *********** so much. I mean, is this unusual? I have done this many many times, not just once.
    Vladtheimpaler69 Vladtheimpaler69 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I would love an older woman to teach me exactly how she likes it and spend a lot of time practising on her,
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 20

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    Would be very interesting !!!!!!!!!
    BeauteFloue BeauteFloue 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Oh Boy....for those who still don't believe that their deal is toast....here's a good read for ya. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/12/breakup-signs-_n_5649458.html...
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    If you have a relationship that is entirely based off sex then it is one useless relationship! Intimacy and sex are two entirely different things. Intimacy is very important...
    Keespanker Keespanker 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Haha, I feel weird writing this but, I've always wondered this. Obviously I know what it feels like to women, but I've always been curious as to what guys feels when they're having...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I always found myself into guys and I was always raised that way. My first anything was a guy when I was 15, we dated for 4 years. But before that I kinda had a little crush on my...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F Jul 29

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    U know what's annoying? When someone comes into this group who really doesn't belong and starts asking questions/giving advice as if we having tried EVERYTHING to have intimacy...
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    I can't remember my childhood, I barely remember anything that happened before I hit age 7. I've been to therapy a lot since I was in 3rd grade. I started hating myself in 3rd...
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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
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    Can someone tell me about reset intimacy. What are the telltale signs? Is it just a waiting game to see if it was one off or just to placate the refusee? How did you respond...
    Flotsam101 Flotsam101 41-45, F 12 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My Marriage No hugs not even a kiss, no intimacy everyday is like this. I try so hard, but what can I do, he's not interested, it makes me blue. I sigh and cry as sadness takes...
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    I am 65 and my wife is 62. We have been together for over twenty years and married for six. I love my wife very much and tell her so frequently. We are compatible and agreeable in...
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    Why Need Emotional Intimacy - Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy...
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    hi all I am a 54 male an d have been married for 30 years my wife had a hysterectomy about 10 years ago and sex along with intimacy have gone down since now it is at zero my wife...
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    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Zoltan314 Zoltan314 36-40, M 17 Responses Aug 14

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    I love intimacy so much. I like foreplay more than sex. But then when i become intimate with te guy, naturally sex follows. I dont rly enjoy sex because it is hard to ****** and...
    emzem emzem 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    This is how much is missing when sex is missing from one's marriage. "“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so...
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    Homewaters Homewaters 36-40, M 12 Responses a week ago

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    mssanguine mssanguine 46-50, F 17 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sex isn't everything in a romantic relationship but without it, there is a deeper layer of intimacy that isn't achieved. Without sexual connection, the romantic feelings fade to...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I met my husband in the 7th grade but we didn't connect until high school. I became pregnant in our Senior year and we were married while still in school (a week to the day after...
    olderbutnotdead olderbutnotdead 51-55, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 5 years, he is a great person and I really love him however, intimacy is the last in his list. Yes, we have sex every other day when he's not...
    mypinkrose mypinkrose 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 15