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I Believe In The Intimacy Of Oral Sex

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    The video is always close at hand. It’s one I have watched so many times since that day.  Quickly stripping out of my summer “business casual” clothes, khaki’s a golf shirt and loafers.  Socks and undies tossed aside as well. Opening the sliding glass door from the...
    RKHunter RKHunter 51-55, M 7 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Intimacy is that closeness when your souls intertwine, when you look into your partners eyes and know how they feel and what their next words are going to be....that touch that...
    lemolemo lemolemo 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    One of the things I miss after my divorce is the intimacy I once had with my ex. We could cuddle in our underwear and watch a movie. We could hold hands or kiss or just talk about...
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    Intimacy is to feel your soul dancing together with another soul at the rythm of the same music simply looking into each others eyes...like two flames becoming one.
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    Listen stupid pervs. No one wants to see your nasty selfies of you man parts. Girls minds do not work like men's, girls are not enjoying random pics like that unless you are...
    ellielovesyou ellielovesyou 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    It is possible to be intimate without Sex. Just cuddling can be intimate.
    pardax pardax 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    This is my 2nd favorite form of sex I love to drive a woman wild hear her moan and taste her
    Kylookin4fun Kylookin4fun 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Need a female friend to talk openly
    kux22 kux22 41-45, M Jul 9

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    I want to give my gay friend a bl0wjob, however, I am a straight male. Weird yes, but i want to try the experience of giving a bl0wjob. Is this possible, how would I slip it into...
    martinandrews martinandrews 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm in a same sex relationship, we've been together for over a decade. Same sex marriage isn't legal in our state but we had a commitment ceremony several years ago and consider...
    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
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    Other than a quick hug when he leaves/comes home from work and a quick hug good night, my husband doesn't touch me at all. Are there any other women out there in this situation...
    reconnectlilly reconnectlilly 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I love giving women oral sex. I can't deny it. Sit on my face and I'm in heaven.
    shameful10 shameful10 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    It's been nearly four years now . My refuser does love me . I have a coffee made for me most mornings and my lunch is made to take to work . Never thought I'd be in a relationship...
    naughtybloke naughtybloke 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 12

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    I have a coworker that always feels me up when i pass her. We all are flirty at work but im not really attracted to her and shes too aggressive. Plus she has a bf and i have a gf...
    JayS5mooth JayS5mooth 26-30 Jul 1

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    Today is our five year wedding anniversary. Five years of virtually no sex, and no intimacy. Not a cause for celebration in my eyes. All week I've been expecting this day to play...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 33 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am the girl with a flower pattern dress that is reading a book while listening to music with a coffee in the park ^^ But I am reading "world war Z: an oral history of the zombie...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Love Addiction - OBSESSIVE LOVE & DEPENDENCY IN RELATIONSHIPS Love Addiction (some call it relationship addiction) is a compulsive, detrimental dependency in relationships that...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's all about symmetry how the circles are being made, by you, coming to her all around and all over again. And She will come to you from her world, the same way as you do...
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    It's all about symmetry how the circles are being made, by you, coming to her all around and all over again. And She will come to you from her world, the same way as you do...
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    This Saturday is a date night. Date nights are currently the only time that my wife will consider sex. The kids will be staying the night with grandma so the house is ours. Last...
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    SIX SIGNS OF A LOVE AVOIDANT (This is a Good read) 1. Evades Intimate and Emotional Connection In romantic relationships evading intimacy and getting too close emotionally is...
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    In any relationship intimacy is important. I mean if you can't be open within a relationship what good is it? That being said sex I don't find as important. You can have sex, but...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for 14 years. It started going down hill within the first year and I knew then something wasn't right. I've poured my heart out to him so many times...
    ABlueChristine ABlueChristine 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 29

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    So I am new to the Experience Project...new to talking about this in general. But I couldn't endure one more night of lying next to my husband in bed, feeling more alone than I...
    NaiveChica NaiveChica 26-30, F 17 Responses Jul 1

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    Someone on this site mentioned that living in a sexless marriage is like living in a bubble. Exactly, that is what i feel like. Inside the bubble is My marriage, My family, My kids...
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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
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    Tomorrow is T -1... so to speak. I have finally set up an appointment with my first attorney. Then Monday I have an appointment with a divorce mediator (who knows, maybe it can...
    inmytime inmytime 31-35, M 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Update from me....things are better! Counseling is going very well. I am proud of myself, first of all. The first day of marital counseling, I was so nervous and the weight of...
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    It's Complicated I'm in a sexless marriage, and it's complicated, probably not unlike a lot of people here. I've been married for 28 years, and the last eight years have been...
    LightAtNight LightAtNight 51-55 8 Responses Jul 3

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    So I'm about to completely pull the plug on sex with my wife, going from minimal and miserable intimacy to a state of married celibacy. No touch, no look, no talking about it, it's...
    nmau nmau 41-45, M 18 Responses Jul 9

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    I am so confused and upset right now... It's a lengthy story... But I need to get this out before it really does drive me insane!! This probably isn't the right place to post it...
    mm1357 mm1357 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 13

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    Well I'll try to share this...I know it's a familiar story based on those I've read here already, thank you all for sharing. Perhaps it'll merely be cathartic for me to tell a...
    don0063 don0063 51-55, M 22 Responses 3 days ago

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    Update from the Battlefield - Since notifying my H three days ago that I've hired a lawyer and we're getting divorced, he has launched a full scale verbal attack on my character...
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    What can I do to bring intimacy back into my marriage? I love my wife and I believe she loves me. We have been through some tough times in our marriage (including her having an...
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    I don't know if I like cops or not. I work with a lot of law enforcement and they are always so sexist. They joke about what they get away with and how they use their position...
    newdayrising newdayrising 36-40, M 44 mins ago

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    Sex, to me, is a byproduct of intimacy. I hope I find that. I don't want crazy affairs with nameless men. I won't be the other woman. I want a connection, even if it's not a long...
    coffeeflavoredkisses coffeeflavoredkisses 46-50, F 15 Responses Jul 3

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    I have been thinking on my married life (29 years) and how differently people see things. I wanted to cuddle he wanted to screw. I wanted to give him a kiss and hold his hand or...
    RMCG RMCG 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    ...In this time of desperation When all we know is doubt and fear There is only one foundation We believe, we believe In this broken generation When all is dark, You help us see...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    By my stepdad...I certain it started earlier but I place my first realization of what was happening to me around age 7 or 8. It went in thru my teen years. My mother didn't...
    graygrace graygrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Question: Have any of you discovered you had problems with intimacy now that you're older? For me, anything intimate is just.. Awkward, and uncomfortable and always has been for...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Intimacy is important in marriage..its a way to make you feel loved..marriage without sex is just friendship/companionship..
    luv4get luv4get 41-45, F a week ago

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    Intimacy is not who you let touch you. Intimacy is who you text at 3am about your dreams and fears. Intimacy is giving someone your attention, when ten other people are asking for...
    mik02 mik02 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    (Repost...EP BLOCKED my first story) I stumbled upon EP the latter part of last year, and I've been a fairly frequent lurker ever since. It has taken me quite some time to...
    Insearchofmenow Insearchofmenow 31-35 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been married for 28 years. On our honeymoon of 2 weeks, we had sex three times. Our sex life went downhill from there. The only time my wife had a strong desire was during her...
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