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I Believe In Traditional Roles Within Marriage

A group for those that believe the male should be the leader of the family and the head of the household while still realizing the importance of the f 785 People

    Traditional

    I want a traditional relationship like what my mother and father have. If not I don't want it any at all. Everybody say times have changed. I don't care if times have changed. I think the reason why the divorce rate is so high is because both men and woman have loose sight of...
    beccaBelize beccaBelize 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Soon To Be A Mrs.!

    My man proposed last night at dinner, kneeling on one knee and slipping my beautiful ring on my finger. Everyone in the restaurant clapped! In June, I'll be vowing to "love, honor and obey" and then I'll happily settle into the only career I ever want, a traditional, old...
    MrsAshleyR MrsAshleyR 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Are You Kidding Me

    you all actually want to be pushed around by your husbands? you can do anything you want to but you just let him tell you what to do thats crazy. I would never want anyone to tell me what to do exspecially not a stupid guy. I will never get married for that reason.
    Fireredrose Fireredrose 18-21, F 26 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    I Love Gay Marriage

    i'm also into women's rights. did i forget i believe in evolution? :o and i think there's nothing wrong with girls thinking another girl is cute. and there's nothing wrong with boys having crushes on boys. and i also see nothing wrong with a woman being just as dominent as a...
    osnapitzari osnapitzari 18-21, F 10 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Traditional Marriage When Your Husband Is Not Decisive? Why Yes, It Is Possible!

    I often hear women say that they like the idea of a traditional marriage, but their man isn't decisive enough to take the lead. Thoughts like that make me laugh, now sure men have changed in some ways (What the heck is a metro-sexual?) but all men have periods where they're not...
    AmoAngelus AmoAngelus 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    What I Want For Myself...

    ...isn't necessarily what is best for everyone, but when I am married I kind of want to stay at home or have a small job (teacher's aide, part time). I have very traditional values on marriage, but I realize it isn't for everyone. Still, I want nothing more than to be a housewife...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2012

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    25 Years Of Marriage

    I have been waiting for him to step up and take the lead. I am tired and frustrated and he is clueless.
    Solelyme Solelyme 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    What Happened?

    I want to know what happened to the traditional roles. Where the woman stayed home took care of the house and kids and even homeschooed them. I think women going out into the work force is what has ruined a lot of things. I know that I may get a lot of mad people on this because...
    LilMrs LilMrs 26-30, F 9 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Raising A Family The Traditional Way

    When I wed my lovely husband he told me how he wanted his children to be raised and said I must fully support him which I do. Some people have said we are old fashioned, others have fully supported us. DH comes from a very traditional family and he wants this to continue. He...
    jopearsonuk jopearsonuk 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Side By Side

    My husband is the head of the house, but we do walk side by side in the journey of marriage.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Educating Our Daughter On Traditional Marriage

    Over the last few months hubby and I have been educating our eldest DD about traditional marriage. We are a christian family so have references to the bible. She has openly said she wants "parts" of a traditional marriage. She struggles at school but does try very hard. She is...
    jopearsonuk jopearsonuk 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    A News Article On House Chores

    This is just a news article on house work that is running in my country, I think it provides a insightful approach and is encouraging to us women doing the housework that it is important to take note that we are appreciated and our husbands and it is for me a little morale...
    hhue hhue 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    Married...divorced...married Again Only Happy Now

    100 Years ago.........Ok maybe it wasn't that long ago. My husband and I hated each other. I was being strong and independent. I took total care of the kids, worked up to 3 jobs at a time. Got them all cell phones so they could call me at any time, and took them to a sitter if I...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I Believe

    That if men and women were truly made to be equal, then we would not need each other. If a woman can do everything a man can do and vice versa, where would we be? Having heterosexual relationships or relationships in general other than procreation would be null and void...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Ok, There I've Said It.... I Do.....

    I believe in traditional roles within marriage, the ideal of one half being the HOH (head of house to the uninitiated!!), of them having the final say, being the ultimate decision maker, and in some cases, disciplinarian, if you believe in moderate DD lifestyle like I do.  But I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F May 20, 2012

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    Preparing Our Daughter

    Our eldest step daughter struggles at school and is counting down the days to when she leaves. She does try hard at school but can't put things across when it comes to written exams. She has shared with me some of her thoughts and said she wants to be a mummy herself when she is...
    jopearsonuk jopearsonuk 31-35, F 11 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    I Love My Life

    I love my role. I know exactly what is expected of me in our marriage. There is no fighting or bickering, if I fail to do something I am suppose to do my husband will point it out and I will rectify it immediately. I stay home with our children, that is my job. I don't get to sit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    SweetMae SweetMae 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    The Man Of The House

    My husband and I have always been traditional in our roles. I am the woman and he is the man. I am the wife and mother. I will work outside of the house if it nessecary for our family, he is the main bread winner and decision maker. It has worked for us and our family for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 2, 2012

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    Couldn't Of Said It Better Myself.

    Just a little piece from one of my favorite authors.  The following is from the book, Happy Housewives, by Darla Shine.  The luxury that our mothers had as girls was that they knew that even though they would go to college, most likely their main goal was to meet a man who...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 8 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    The Old Days

    Every so often I hear ladies saying they were born in the wrong time. They wish they had been born 300, or100 years ago or even 50 years before they were. Not me.  I don't think I would have been nearly as competent then.Number one reason.  I mess with stuff, and I forget...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 13 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Watching And Waiting

    Our 25 year old daughter will be married soon. Over the years she and I have had wonderful conversations based on her observations of my marriage to her dad. Since her engagement she is really weighing what will work in HER marriage while witnessing the marriages of her peer...
    todayisagift todayisagift 46-50, F 6 Responses May 2, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I have always loved the idea of someday finding the perfect guy for me and getting married in some fairy tale scenario. But as I got older and watched relationships around me fail...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    my husband left to US and he will be taking me in another 2 months....and his parents are forcing me ...taking me to all their relatives house..whom I dont even know and all these...
    needemotionalsupport needemotionalsupport 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    The Signs! Aries - Activity, initiative, leadership, impulsiveness, courage, bravery, independence. Or, arrogance, intolerance, selfishness and dominating behavior. Taurus...
    cycloneange cycloneange 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I believe I have an ungrateful wife.
    MatthewARamos MatthewARamos 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    I recently decided to go the outsource route, and although the thrill of it was exciting I only felt more alone afterwards. I didn't have sex but I think or know I probably would...
    LBiddy LBiddy 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My life is a sham. I am a 37 year old female and have been married to my husband for 2 years and together for 4. He has never been interested in sex with me but we did long...
    Pattycakey Pattycakey 36-40, F 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    I am a lesbian who wants a traditional wedding. I don't have a girlfriend yet, but when I get married, I want to have a wedding like my family members: church, ball gown dress...
    artist40 artist40 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    100% traditional, I love the Latin Tridentine Mass which I have been blessed growing up going to. I believe everything the Church has traditionally taught for centuries including...
    darkanddesolate darkanddesolate 16-17, F Apr 9

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    I have read many posts now, and I cannot claim to know what is the best route for others. I love my wife and I have amazing young kids, but our problem with sex goes back from...
    travelight travelight 41-45, M 8 hrs ago

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    WARNING: I Believe Jesus Christ is coming soon it's best to be ready! So if you want to get saved I suggest you do the following Do you believe you are a guilty sinner and...
    Neyagood Neyagood 18-21, F 12 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm not married but I was engaged and I had to break it off it did hurt because I really loved him but I'm a sex addict and I thought I could change that and he wanted me to...
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 13 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    People keep asking me whether i'm married. Why? 1, do i look like i should be married? Or,,look like im married? With kids maybe? 😕 2, Why would my status concerns u anyway? It...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have started living a selfless life. My son only has me and my husband (as a father figure) with whome I have a sexless marriage. The rest of his immediate family hv passed away...
    Mamta123 Mamta123 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am a traditional Catholic wife and mom. I was born into a Catholic family and all family members including my parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, nephews, and nieces. I do not...
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I believe in freedom of speech if it within reason. If someone wants to fight for gay rights, that within reason. If someone wants to end child labour, this is within reason. As...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 29

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    One month update on my one month update. My wife continues to try to fux me out of this group. The last 4 weeks (totalling 8 now if my math is good) we have been having a lot of...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 7

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't believe in gay marriage. I believe in marriage. And I think that's between any two people that love each other. Man and man. Woman and man. Woman and woman. Or whatever you...
    emilyv97 emilyv97 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    1 - I believe in love and the power of love. I believe love has the power to turn a life around, for both the one who gives it freely and the one who receives it. I believe love...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 14 Responses Apr 4

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Defense of Total Depravity and Its Effects on the Human Will ~ Total Depravity means that sin has touched all of what a person is. In the unbeliever this means that his...
    PMEWhite PMEWhite 31-35, M a week ago

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    Defense of Total Depravity and Its Effects on the Human Will ~ Total Depravity means that sin has touched all of what a person is. In the unbeliever this means that his...
    PMEWhite PMEWhite 31-35, M a week ago

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    I am curious, if a person is not Christian then where do the guidelines for what to do in marriage come from? This isn't meant to be antagonistic at all, it is a question I have...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 16 Responses Mar 20

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    You think you have all the time in the world. You don’t. I live in a sexless marriage. I made major decisions and made many choices to live alongside a man who found it...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 20

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    I've been in a marriage for quite some time, but fell away from sex within my marriage about one year ago. I had been the one attempting to encourage my wife to have relations with...
    AVisionary AVisionary 36-40, M 11 Responses Mar 20

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    Result of the “talk” Friday night & going to try to keep this as condensed as possible. But, Im going to preface this with….some ppl on here would NOT consider my situation...
    Neverthoughtit Neverthoughtit 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    These are some of my strongest beliefs and I am also going to recite song lyrics from songs I love that help with these self-beliefs. In the religious aspect, I am a Christian and...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 13 Responses Apr 10

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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