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I Believe It's Still a Man's Place to Lead

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    Repost from 2013 from my old account

    that I can't access anymore. ------- Learning Our Roles When I was in my young teens I went through a stage where I thought it was unfair that my brother got treated differently than myself. He had more freedoms to do things than I did, he had authority over me, which even...
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    3 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Why In The World Is This Group In The "Adult Community"?

    Is it some form of politically-motivated censorship, since Adult Community groups get less exposure on this website? I think it belongs in Love & Relationships. I don't recall seeing erotic stories in this group. If there are any, they can be individually classified as Adult or...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity
    51-55, M
    10 Responses May 31, 2012


    the ****, this could mean so many things!!!! descriptions in groups are nice people.. it makes **** clearah!
    Doxtah Doxtah
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Sep 8, 2011


    I truly believe that that is the way we were made and that men were made to lead. I am a dominate male and truly believe that God made me to be the person I am, and that doesent mean to be arogant read my other experience and see what I truly mean here is the link EP Link
    deleted deleted
    Sep 9, 2010

    Old Fashioned Sub Vs. Bdsm Sub

    I am not submissive in the bdsm type of way. I am submissive in the old fashioned way ... the traditional sense that believes the man should be the head of the house hold and relationship and leader in all things(mind you I don't mean every man I men only three men 1) God...
    ssadorra ssadorra
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2009

    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho
    22-25, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    There Has To Be Order

    My bf and i are a recent item, but it feels like it's been a lot longer since we both want the same things out of life, and believe in the same things. We have had discussions and we both believe that it is a man's place to make the decisions in the household, to reinforce the...
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    2 Responses Nov 27, 2009


    There was a day when my MASTER had hired tow carpenters to come out and make changes to the barn...he wanted a beam put in the ceiling with cables and pulleys ( i think that is what they are called...lil wheels) I was in a pissy mood and he wasnt home...when they arrived..I...
    hotlilhiney hotlilhiney
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2010

    Man: The Leader God Made

    I believe that God made man to be the leader, not that women cannot be leaders also. Yet in a relationship, I believe that a man should take the lead. I am a very strong and intelligent woman. I am funny, brutually honest and humorous yet I desire a man that can allow me to...
    ladyminimah7 ladyminimah7
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2011

    Let The Man Be A Man So I Can...

    I believe it's still a man's place to lead.  A man should be head of his household and deserving of respect.  If he abdicates that authority, he loses some of the respect that he feels for himself and the partner loses some respect for him.  That being said, giving...
    L9119 L9119
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 26, 2009

    Especially Whilst Dancing And Making Babies

    Milky loves it when men lead.  She's a strong-willed and strong-minded woman, but she knows her proper role when she's on the dance floor.  She wants to be following her partner's lead.When it comes to some other things, though, she is willing to take the lead.  Like every...
    milkynips milkynips
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2011

    In A Marriage There Can Only Be One Boss

    The chain of command in any family should be God, Husband, Wife then children. Husband needs to make all decisions in love for his family, and at times it is a decision for correction. To be a good leader you need to be a good follower, and just like the Husband needs to follow...
    LD2112 LD2112
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2011

    What Makes A Man A Worthy Leader?

    A man should be a worthy leader.  Not every man is capable of leading well.  He should be kind, compassionate, thoughtful, he should have the desire to make you happy, and fulfill your needs.  He should love you more than he loves himself.  He needs to not only listen, but...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    7 Responses May 31, 2012

    It's just how I grew up.

    That doesn't mean that he treats me like a doormat, or that my opinions don't matter.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    It is the mans place to lead.

    ..a leader does so by example. If you want a wife to be submissive then the husband must first show that he is worth the wife following. If he does not lead by example she is not likely to follow. A wife should be submissive to her husband...the husband should love her first...
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    Feb 7, 2016

    My Master

    I do love my Master, hes been so patient with me & gave me more than i deserve from him. I did stray & i wanted to come back & my Master did take me back not fully but hopefully it will be fully. I am truly happy that i have a very understanding Master. I was kidding myself...
    kmn4 kmn4
    36-40, F
    Aug 14, 2012


    It is liberating in the finest sense, to submit to your husbands authority. I learned this from my parents, from being my father's dutiful and obedient daughter, and from my mother who was submissive and obedient wife. And my parents were emulating their parents as are my aunts...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 6, 2010

    Man Up Princess

    If I trust everything about you...I can follow you anywhere, everywhere in every way, in every thing. But I don't follow blindly. You must earn my willingness for you to be my everything. I have a mind of my own. I have opinions of my own. Any man I follow, needs to...
    32DDtits 32DDtits
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Aug 25, 2013

    I Very Much Think This.

    Although many of my peers disagree. So my lifestyle is a secret. But my husband is definitely the leader of the household. Whatever he says goes, he makes the rules. When he leaves for the day he will always leave me with a task or two. When he comes home, he will add some more...
    LeatherLacey LeatherLacey
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2012

    I Am A Firm Believer In It's Still A Man's Place To Lead.

    To submit and surrender and to place all of your faith and trust in a man, is a natural and very relevant instinct for any woman. Contrary to society's view that submission equals uneducated weakness, it is a role in a relationship.  Human history relationships have been...
    kuriousgyrl kuriousgyrl
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Feb 6, 2010

    How Much Easier It Would Be...

    To let you husband make all the decisions. I THINK IT WOULD MAKE THE WORLD A MUCH BETTER PLACE!
    sucklemeSC sucklemeSC
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jul 20, 2009

    Only If He Knows How To Lead.

    I grew up the old fashion way. My mom did everything for my dad. Even if they were mad at each other, she always served him. At the time I didn't find this trait admirable but now I do. I learned from my mom's example but I'm not a door matt and I will only follow a man who is...
    slavebunny slavebunny
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2010

    Man Up

    westsideblues1 westsideblues1
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2012

    Just Me

    Just because a man leads dose not mean he is a bully!
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Feb 16, 2013

    What It Means To Be A Woman

    This is a topic I have struggled with for some time. And why wouldn't I? It is fundamental to my very identity. I cannot consider it objectively or in the abstract. I live and breathe it and it affects me every day of my life. Accordingly, it is difficult to gain perspective on...
    ValeriaAppia ValeriaAppia
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2011


    I was raised in a very traditional home.  The man takes care of certain things.  He makes sure that his wife always feels secure and is secure.  In order to have a strong house one that is one that honors God, I was taught that a man leads.  He leads when he dances with a...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2011

    To Lead, A Man Needs A Woman Who Is Willing To Follow

    I feel that  men in today's society, get a bad rap.  I'm referring to the hardworking, dedicated, family orientated type of man.  The all around, "good guy".   I grow tired of seeing these men work hard for their families, return home after a trying day at work, only to be...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    5 Responses May 2, 2011

    A father to lead his children

    and an husband to lead his wife and family.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas
    36-40, F
    Jul 9, 2015

    Call me old fashioned.

    When you are born a man, you have responsibility. It is because of your gender. Sorry. But you have responsibilities,
    lifelifeishard lifelifeishard
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    I Am A Dom Author Unknown

    I am a Dom. I did not say brute. I did not say harsh. I am a Dom, not a cold-hearted chauvinist who cares little for, and respects even less the woman in his life. No, I revere my beloved, for I realize that without I do not exist. Without her I am a mere disassembled puzzle. Yet...
    herMaitre herMaitre
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 26, 2010

    Nature Vs Nurture

    It's no longer the PC thing to believe, but nature doesn't give a damn about PC. A man's instinct, and right place, is leading. The societal pressure on men to abdicate this, and on women to step up and assume it, is bad for both. There are bad leaders, but it doesn't...
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    1 Response Jun 27, 2009

    I Do

    I wonder why I still believe in such an old fashioned view point, but its true, I still believe its the mans place to lead.  Now don't get me wrong, I am not some anti-feminist, nor am I a weak-willed virgin, no, I am an independent self-confident woman of the 21st century; and...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 16, 2012

    My Man Leads

    My husband is the head of our household just the way God is the head of our lives, I joyfully submit and obey my husband in every way. He leads in the bedroom and he controls every aspect of our lives in this life. I love it! I am happily married to a dominant husband. Love him...
    hhue hhue
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 3, 2010

    Not Such Thing As Two Leaders

    Despite the massive efforts of the feminists movements throught out the last decades,  I believe it's still a man's place to lead.  Don't get me wrong,  I want equal rights, my voice and my opinion to be heard, too.  Come on in many areas, we woman can do way better...
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    2 Responses Feb 7, 2011

    When I talk about our marriage I often get

    critical responses especially because of the micro management. I think that is rather sad as it neglects my wife's strength and her as a person. No marriage where the wife obeys and submits to her husband can work for several years when it is based on force or threats. All she...
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    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    Leadership Equals Dominance

    Unfortunately, I was married to a Narcissist for 16 years. There is a reason they call them crazy makers. But they also are ball busters. My second marriage was better but i was still carrying a lot of baggage. Some 8 months ago I took the lead in our marriage after having...
    stocksthatgoup stocksthatgoup
    61-65, M
    Jun 19, 2013

    Too Much Pressure, For Too Long

    I had to lead my last relationship for the most part. While I am quite dominant in most situations, I do need a guy (Creeps: read-boyfriend) who will put me in my place, and steer me in the right direction. For five years, I had to make most of the decisions in the relationship...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2011
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