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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 85 People

    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Of course they don't,

    it's ONLY bout personality didn't ya know!Yeah do that.
    LaAgente LaAgente 36-40, F Jun 11

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    That is not to say that I don't care about looks at all, because I do. I want to be able to actually look into the eyes of the person I love! He or She, doesn't have to be a 10...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It should always be about personality. I have three best friends who are complete opposites of each other in every way. Everyone is different and unique. Looks are just the package...
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    Personality comes first... I'd rather be with a guy who wasn't very good looking with a heart of gold and a great personality than a guy who looked like a model who was self...
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    I agree but to pinpoint someone's personality isn't easy
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    Please take your time with me, there's plenty to see. Especially inside of me. I'm far more beautiful inside then out. My personality outshines all of me. ( whoa, see what just did...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Meeting and loving someone who can accept, understand and think like me is way more important and enjoyable than someone who looks amazing but can't do any of those. Finding...
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    The looks are the initial catch you don't look at someone and instantly say what a marvellous personality she/ he has it's damn they're attractive I will try to get to know them...
    EdwardIX EdwardIX 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I will always make sure I do what I can to make someone feel better. I realize everyone is fighting some (at a small or great level) sort of daily battle in life. If you know me...
    aSagittarius aSagittarius 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    They say that just took make me feel better about myself when in reality, looks matter more than everything in the society we live in
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    I understand that "like" attracts "like", but I've always wondered why I attract all the people with different disorders when as far as I know I don't have any. Sometimes I wonder...
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    I personally care more about how people act and how their personality is than how they look, like honestly people's looks doesn't define who they are. For example, I wear all black...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I would rather be respected for my personality and heart than what I look like. Looks fade overtime but the kindness in someones heart is forever beautiful.
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    People will always tell lies, whether it is little white lies or more serious lies. I'd much rather hear the truth than be lied to, but the reality is people will always be...
    Naala Naala 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    even though I do spend alot of time on my looks - sorry I have to be honest - I dont pick friends based on looks - I do have a friend who wont be friends with anyone who isnt good...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    What's the sense in having a gorgeous body - which will be not so good-looking some day - and having your content in tatters? I always go for content instead of looks. it does not...
    TheFormerOne TheFormerOne 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I wanna met someone with the most amazing personality ever !
    kylee19 kylee19 18-21, M Jun 27

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    My experience of narcissistic personality is bitter sweet. It's sweet because I love the high from it. I'm proud of it. From being able to manipulate a person to adore me and do...
    porsia75 porsia75 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I love all gals for their personality. Everyone is beautiful and can be loved. But I dont want a gal thats beautiful on the outside. I want one thats beautiful on the inside. Looks...
    jackdragon22399 jackdragon22399 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I'd rather fall in love with a woman's personality than looks. There are only so many looks available and I think having personalities that work together is more important and rare...
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 26

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    About 10 years back a friend of mine's brother was in Prison was looking for someone equally stimulating to write to him for penthouse pass this time and we root for good 2 years...
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    To all the women out their that think all guys are after looks it's true to a certain extent. We're visual. But for me atleast I can't tell you how turned off I get (other guys as...
    skater322 skater322 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 25

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    As long as you have love you can block out all the hate in your life.
    chocolatecrazy9010 chocolatecrazy9010 13-15, F Jun 25

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    In light of the tragic massacre of 9 innocent souls in SC lets give the demented killer the exact opposite of what he wanted. The killer terrorist wanted a race war. Let's give him...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Personality is definitely the first things to look for when you are actually serious about fiding someone, if you are not then then those one night stand with random hot strangers...
    kyoshac kyoshac 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Yes, that's it, to judge the character of a person I don't use looks but what a person believe, the way that person behaves and the responsability they have for their own actions...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jun 23

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