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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 76 People

    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    At the same time.. I could never be attracted

    simply by looks. A good personality can change your feelings.
    debs73 debs73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I recently just cut all my hair off because it was bugging me. People have been assuming things and think I've gone lesbian... I mean I have nothing against lesbians or gays or...
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F Sep 7

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    I wish I could. We'd all have better relationships if physical appearance wasn't judged on a daily basis. On the other hand, finding a person with the looks and right personality...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Sep 4

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    I don't believe age matters unless it's like 12 and under with a ******* 20+ guy or girl. They're still a child. It's really ********** then. Thats my opinion tho~
    BustyLove BustyLove 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I cherish the soul of the woman more than her looks due to the fact her sweet persona is more priceless than any hotness can muster.
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    INFJ PERSONALITY The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF...
    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F Sep 10

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2 51-55, M Aug 22

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    I had a panic attack Friday night and was suicidal, I went to the hospital and the psychiatrist told me he thinks it's likely I have borderline personality disorder. If this is...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Truthfully I do believe that looks are not everything considering a person can be beautiful, but that does not mean they are a good person. Personality can go a long ways with some...
    Ahaizzy Ahaizzy 16-17, F Aug 25

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    When you're in love, looks don't matter. It's personality that matters. :)
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 9

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    Beauty is whats in your soul! Be kind to yourself<3 There is only one you! Show the world that you are so much more!!You all are beautiful! no matter what anyone tells you...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    despite a person's shortsighted and initial thoughts and how it will affect the person they love. That's why forgiveness exists. Even if you want them to be devoured by "rabid...
    endings endings 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    Those of us who suffer BPD know where hell really is. It's inside us. No escaping the agony, pain and torture. No reprieve. It's in every moment of our day, our dreams and our...
    AussieAZ AussieAZ 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 28

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    It's short and brief, I don't have a boy friend, and I believe love comes itself 😉😉 Looks don't matter for me, I do care about the personalities. I rather fall in love with...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    This is a sensative subject. Especially for women and they are made to feel like they are dirty and they done something wrong. I admit I have good personality but I have a sister...
    ColdAsIce104 ColdAsIce104 22-25 4 hrs ago

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    Well I didn't think much of it. I was in fact only about 6 years old. But I knew you were special, even then. Perhaps it was the drawings you drew for me and I thought you were...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 37 mins ago

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    In fact I do! I fall inlove with personality over looks everytime! I used to be the guy that would be like "Pics or I don't believe you are what you say you are" but now I just...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    i believe in god ,i used to follow krishna as a person from my childhood , i read about him so much till now .. i was inspired by him so much .i don't believe in things till...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I find this to be really true :) There was a time in my life when I was super shallow and only talk to the prettiest of girls or the guys that don't have ache and braces. However...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    When I first met you I never thought I'd develop feelings for you. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were kind annoying, you constantly bragged about yourself and...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I AM AN ENFJThe GiverYou strive to maintain harmony in relationships, and you usually succeed.Articulate and enthusiastic, you are good at making personal connections.Sometimes you...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I currently split with my partner of 4 yrs...he was cheating...i feel lost, sad, low..im drinking way to much, i just want the hurting to stop but it never does
    ginganut84 ginganut84 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I always go by a person personality when choosing friends. That and with the vibes I get from others.
    Custos1 Custos1 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Today. Oh today. I just figured I'd stop with trying and work on my marriage. If he wants me the way I am...help me...Be my best friend again....he can reach out. I'm tired of...
    skinfeeder skinfeeder 26-30 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have. His Nature and Personality if I have to say in words.. I could use the Whole Oxford, but will never be able to find the right artibutes that suit him. He is 99% close to my...
    BlueMah BlueMah 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Personality has so much more value than looks.
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    "THE MUD HOLE - The Story of a Premonition" Thursday evening to Friday morning, 1st November 2013 (after Halloween) I woke up, after a disturbing dream. In my dream, there was...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 1 day ago

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    When you're so in love with that person , looks doesn't matter anymore.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Take any journey for about an hour into a city and I can guarantee you will find a girl you think is good looking. It never ceases to amaze me just how common good looks are lol...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F Aug 31

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    This is very true, because I'll admit back in highschool, I was that "jerk" football player, stereotypical "jock". However, I've come a long way and have cleaned up my act and am...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Relationships based on personality and how much you love and care for each other last much longer and are much more meaningful.
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Who doesn't lol. The ability to laugh, and to make other people laugh if you can is a life skill that no matter where you are, or who you are with is appreciated. It can make...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    But older people tend not to listen because they claim to have been there. But have you actually live my personal life? No. You do not experience my emotions as I do not do you see...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    There has always been a big debate as to weather the historical Jesus existed or not , but does it really matter now ? And if it could be proven categorically either way that the...
    tazlow tazlow 51-55, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    As long as they're good parents it shouldn't matter what they are.
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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