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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 75 People

    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    I won't lie and say that what someone looks like is completely irrelevant I have very particular and uncommon tastes in that regard. But I'm a firm believer that someone's...
    EvieE53 EvieE53 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    At the end of the day- looks attract , but personality is what makes it last.
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    This is really for girls (and some boys). So many people on here post experiences that makes them doubt themselves. Either they hate their looks, or their personality. Everyone...
    BookWonderer BookWonderer 13-15, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Not really a parallel Universe but I believe dreams are much more reality than we think. Opinions?
    MissIronMan MissIronMan 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 27

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    Looks fade with time. People change with time and the environment around them but with the right combination of personality and values, two people can exist together and last. The...
    starlightwonder starlightwonder 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    I see a lot of objectification of humans in the world the way we look is such a small part of who we are to base your self worth on your looks is very demeaning and degrading...
    femininespirit femininespirit 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Yesss! I approve of this 100% I remember this one time when I confessed to my cousin that I was crushing on this guy she said "Eeeew! He's ugly!" I told her that his looks didn't...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15

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    On social websites, especially dating sites, I often make an initial judgment based on the picture. Appearance is much more than hair color and cup size though. At a short glance I...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 44 mins ago

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    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M 1 hr ago

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    It mostly depends on the person. You have immature 40 year olds and mature 20 year olds. A person that went through a lot of hardship mentally, physically or emotionally will...
    ozarktrail ozarktrail 36-40, M 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I got out. Best decision of my life. Every situation is different, and ending a marriage (particularly when there are children involved, which there are for me) is a serious...
    ericseviltwin ericseviltwin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Personality is what matters most to me. If you look good but have a ****** personality, that automatically makes you ugly in my eyes....dating someone with good looks but a...
    emylauren27 emylauren27 18-21, F 4 Responses May 16

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    Not saying looks don't matter have to be attracted in some way but to me the sexiest thing about a person is personality sense of humor kindness they can be. Handsome but have ugly...
    KindridSoul KindridSoul 36-40, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    "Been there, done that." How did it work? Failed. Yet, it wasn't love. It was, as one could imagine, attraction to their looks. Never doing that again. It was a huge waste of my...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    sometimes i hate being on her enot you guys i have to force myself to i feel like crap nothing helps so much pain i want to give up i feel lost and i dont know waht im tired of...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    A beautiful tale for adults who wander and dream . The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams HERE was once a velveteen rabbit, and in the beginning he was really splendid. He was...
    birdsrestingonabranch birdsrestingonabranch 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    why does a persons appearance outweight their personality when we all are uniquely beautiful in our own way. i dont understand y ppl are so shallow and just care about blue eyes or...
    heavenlytouch heavenlytouch 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    True Story: There was this guy name Josh I went to school with, he was really quite, nobody liked him, everybody picked on him or bullied him. He was the nerd, the geek, the...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8

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    i think looks are 40% and personality in 60%. the looks draw people in but the personality keeps them interested- thats how i think:)
    Carrrie Carrrie 16-17, F May 8

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    people spend so much time worried about looks that they forget to work on there inner beauty and it's sad because one day there looks will fade away with age and they will realize...
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 6 Responses May 9

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    Sometimes, looks help, BUT, someday we'll all get old, and we won't look as good as we do now. But in my opinion, I'd choose personality over looks any day
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 14 Responses May 9

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    This will be focused on Astral and oobe's. I consider oobe's when I remember either getting out or in to my physical body. Astral is when I am in the higher realms and don't...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's just sad to me that a person will choose looks over personality that's just stupid in my opinion if you have some body with a absolute Beautiful Personality you are lucky it's...
    TedDoesntCompare TedDoesntCompare 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I care about personality yes but for me it will need to be something about you I'm attracted to as well , I don't care if the world finds you attractive , it's what I think it...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    personality shows the core of your heart not your looks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 29

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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 4 Responses May 3

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    I like personality more than looks. :)
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 4 Responses May 6

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    Doesn't matter what you display on the outside; I define you on what's inside- where it really counts.
    AnimusOwen AnimusOwen 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It's not what's outside but in. Time isn't always kind to us. Time and experience. I once met a guy who I had heard of as warm and loving, and self sacrificing, empathetic, kind...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think this is a lie when a girl say that she don't care about looks ..... she. ... i don't know why they lie too much. .?
    armaan90 armaan90 22-25, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    churinga churinga 70+, M Apr 30

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