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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 77 People

    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    romel4747 romel4747 41-45, M Jan 19

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    It's what about what's inside a person and the size of there heart ... It's a deeper then beyond the looks...
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F Jan 2

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    Over the pass few months I've been back going to the gym and trying to get in shape.Also I chat on this site and yahoo IM at times and I've come to know many women who don't think...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I see so many non-believers attacking believers and throwing the word religion around. I see believers attacking non-believers just as much. Often times, it seems to be that they...
    1alwaysdreaming 1alwaysdreaming 18-21, F 23 Responses Jan 1

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    I have been thinking, am not sure why ppl get to care so much about age when the situations have nothing to do with how old are u... some ppl just see you as a young man or woman...
    Mahyou Mahyou 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I can't believe when I see the young people these days.They are becoming so oriented to their wants and needs that what others think does not matter to them .
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Earlier this year I saw a movie, a romantic comedy, about a divorced couple that reunites. There is a scene where the wife is giving advice to a soon to be married young women who...
    ttbridge ttbridge 36-40, F 39 mins ago

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    Personality is overlooked these days, and people are judged mostly on their appearance. Personality is what actually matters, because it is usually the one thing that never changes...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Of course I do. I would be a liar if I said otherwise. Personalty (compatibility, values, ETC) indubitably, is what will make or break a relationship. However, if there is...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 1 Response Jan 8

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    Of course they matter. If you didn't like the look of the person you wouldn't date them because you wouldn't be attracted to them. It doesn't matter with friends certainly, but...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Jan 14

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    Deep down I have never felt this way before. I can't believe how me and my boyfriend met (online) and how connected we feel with each other. It's so amazing. The distance sucks...
    moonskull moonskull 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I never thought I would care about my age. I was never one to shy away from the question or even look at myself differently in the mirror. Now that I ts my husband to leave our...
    Tinker515 Tinker515 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Like tonight, I have so much on my mind no way can I go to sleep. Then to make matters worse loneliness rears it's ugly head, starts gnawing at my insides,,, just had to vent
    bikeriam bikeriam 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I just can't cope at the moment. I'm having counselling and "personality" has been mentioned, and, now I really think about it, perhaps my having a personality disorder would "fit...
    Chaleureuse Chaleureuse 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I mean yeah to me, they go hand in hand for instance, if you are cute, yeah okay but your personality will easily move you up, down, our keep you right when you are. you could be a...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    What I believe is that attraction based on looks can create a relationship, while personality can cause it to be amazing or collapse under you.
    OrionWolfe OrionWolfe 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I always felt like i was alone on this matter. I know there are a lot of men that appreciat various types of women but i still feel like my preferences are so wide that i can...
    BogdanBolinski BogdanBolinski 18-21, M Jan 1

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    What I think should matter is their personality. The amount of years someone has been alive has nothing to do with anything. Someone could be old and immature, while someone could...
    Dagymislife Dagymislife 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 22

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    I was just thinking back about 9 years ago. I went to Paris with my boyfriend. Now I'm not trying to brag but here me out. It was amazing. I had so much fun and love. I got to fly...
    Socal73 Socal73 41-45, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    it takes a life time to find. but can appear to you in a matter of seconds. true love is falling for someone but slowly start to realize theyre even more perfect for whats on the...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Your result for The Personality Defect Test ... Robot You are 71% Rational, 43% Extroverted, 29% Brutal, and 14% Arrogant. Robot You are the Robot! You are characterized by your...
    myzterieboy myzterieboy 41-45, M Jan 3

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    Looks can fade. Looks can be manufactured, modified, or deceive you into thinking that they are also beautiful inside. Well I'm not falling for that again. You maybe handsome and...
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    There is this fantasy that follows us. A fantasy that love matters. That saying those three magic words "I love you" changes something, means something. We have this fantasy that...
    laurisilva laurisilva 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I'd really like to know if my story is similar to anybody else's. I was diagnosed with BPD at 14, after being told it was Depression, then Bipolar, etc etc. Almost as if it was a...
    skyworm skyworm 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I am have been diagnosed as with borderline personality disorder last year.Such a relief.I think I have had it for 10 years and have inherited it from my mother.Who I forgive,If...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I've met some stunningly beautiful people in my life. Some, even fairly interesting! But I've nearly always found that 'pretty people' don't always have a personality to match. In...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M Jan 19

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    i wish guys liked girls because of their personalities not because of their looks... I wish a guy liked me for my personality and not looks cus ive been told i have a amazing...
    itsstephybitxh itsstephybitxh 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My love is like a flame .. Burning strong and bright ... See how it Dances around the room Flickering shadows on the walls Like a heart beating soft and gentle Tis you my...
    mintybear2 mintybear2 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend. He isn't exactly the best looking fellow compared to todays media standards. He is 6'0 and skinny and lanky as slender man. He never brushes...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I was always relying my fate on the situation im in.. on the people im with.. ive always depend my attitude.. my personality.. on them. sometimes i even blames my situation for the...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    God and me (Nothing but the truth) Every time I find evidence, I end up doubting if its true evidence. But theres always someone telling me its true, I was made this was. I...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 22