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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 77 People

    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    3 months ago I took a 11 hour flight from China to Europe. During that flight I wore comfortable clothes and sneakers, no make-up, put on my glasses instead of my contacts. After...
    Cizzy Cizzy 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've had three girlfriends. The first one was the result of smoking during pregnancy, go ahead and picture that. But as "unattractive" as her looks were, her personality was the...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Lol, it is a thing I am used to hearing girls say. But really.. I think 95% of whom have started an conversation with me, with saying "You look good" has soon ended one way or...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Feb 21

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    Sometimes far better because they can't hate you or still your stuff, worst they can do is send your virus but if you're sensible and have a good antivirus software then it doesn't...
    thedimone thedimone 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Loss is such a unique feeling. All that once was, is forever lost and there are no more tomorrows left to share with that person. It eats into the realism of your soul so...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    It's so rare to find people that are actually willing to really show you who they are. I've always been afraid to be open with people because of the bare-ness and vulnerability...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    Every girl deserves a guy best friend, one who understands her, listens to her when she's sad, doesn't judge her when she's rude, supports her in hard times, and most importantly...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 33 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am saddened and overwhelmed by the fierceness with which people are fighting and pushing for mandatory vaccination. Not just for our children, but for adults, mothers to be...
    disastercupcake disastercupcake 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm starting to believe in twin flames . :/ Way too many weird signs for this not to be something. *I'm not even with this person. Even when we aren't together physically, we're...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    Why do some believe that the KJV is the perfect bible, only bible. And that it will be used in heaven for judgement. It's quit silly because when we look at the evidence, the KJV...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    How to Recite the Divine Mercy Chaplet:The Chaplet is recited using ordinary Rosary Beads of five decades. The Chaplet is preceded by two opening prayers from the Diary of Saint...
    Lushiro Lushiro 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I really believe in this to be honest. I think there has to be some kind of base-level attraction when you first see each other, but the personality is clearly what keeps solid...
    thenewboy87 thenewboy87 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 11

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    I have like a filter when I look at people, I don't see people as ugly. There was a boy I saw, who in the eyes of society and media was not good looking, he was overweight, and had...
    AlliLittle AlliLittle 13-15, F Feb 9

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    Personality vs Looks. Majority of us believe that personality is all what we look for; perhaps to sound more sensible, impressive, reasonable, logical among our social...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Don't be fooled by appearance... Why would you want something that looks good but ugly in the inside? Looks doesn't last long anyway! Personality does it lasts forever! Which is...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    no matter how much it upsets me to see people love beautiful faces so much, I can't blame them. I know it's human nature and kind of inevitable.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I can see past those looks and see whats inside! Looks doesn't influence my decision on a person and it doesn't have an impact on what i think! I don't judge a book by its cover...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Difference between looks and personality? You can feel warmth in personality :) I mean, it's not like your looks are so radiant that it can warm someone up..........can it?
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 13-15 1 Response Feb 22

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    I believe a child, especially a girl, should be seen and not heard. She should speak only when spoken to. My oldest is getting better at that. My youngest, she's 3, talks way too...
    Dadhas2girls Dadhas2girls 41-45, M 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Looks is a bonus but i will always fall for personality. Even though i have stumbled across physical attraction over personality before.
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Beauty of looks fade away .. But a beautiful Personality never dies :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Feb 11

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    I think most people want this...lol. I only joined this group, because I saw a guy have on his profile that he liked "Personality Not looks" as an experience. Pffft. I'd be lying...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    looks with time changes .. personality stays
    tigerbloodbaby tigerbloodbaby 31-35, M Feb 22

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I found this online and wanted to post it To see if it helps anyone "THE DISCOURAGED BORDERLINE – This subcatetory has personality traits similar to the dependent personality...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F Feb 9

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    If you are never sure when you are euphoric,you are actually happy,or when you are devastated you are actually devastated.Or that people in your life mean that much to you,or...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    When I was 20 years old I was in the DMV with my brother. I was miserable and getting over a break up of a relationship of 4 years. I sat next to an older gentleman. He was waiting...
    butterflyxhope butterflyxhope 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had a bad dream. I was crying in my dream so loud because my husband died. We are in a room w/ people. I saw my niece and on my dream she was the one who killed my husband by...
    Andrea0328 Andrea0328 36-40, F 11 hrs ago

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    Why do people lie regarding matters of the heart? They are not protecting you, they are only protecting themselves. I want to learn from all my experiences, good and bad. I feel...
    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 9 hrs ago

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    A beautiful appearance will only last a while but a beautiful personality will last a lifetime! “As if you were on fire from within.The moon lives in the lining of your skin...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Feb 8

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    It's true!!!.......I don't know why but I don't usually find them very attractive at first but once I get to know them and once I realize that I like their personality there's like...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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