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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 75 People

    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    At the same time.. I could never be attracted

    simply by looks. A good personality can change your feelings.
    debs73 debs73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I wish I could. We'd all have better relationships if physical appearance wasn't judged on a daily basis. On the other hand, finding a person with the looks and right personality...
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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
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    Truthfully I do believe that looks are not everything considering a person can be beautiful, but that does not mean they are a good person. Personality can go a long ways with some...
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    When you're in love, looks don't matter. It's personality that matters. :)
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    Family are the people i trust the most and would be willing to help them through tough times. However, i do believe that ppl can lose the right to be a family member, no matter...
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    I find this to be really true :) There was a time in my life when I was super shallow and only talk to the prettiest of girls or the guys that don't have ache and braces. However...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Its good to have a great personality but its also important to have good looks. Honestly, i think you cant like someone and be with them if you think they are "ugly". Its not fair...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    When I first met you I never thought I'd develop feelings for you. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were kind annoying, you constantly bragged about yourself and...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i strongly believe in lord KRISHNA and his principle as they can apply always in real life ,i can't say he exist in what ,where ,and how he looks ,but i found so much believe on...
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    I have. His Nature and Personality if I have to say in words.. I could use the Whole Oxford, but will never be able to find the right artibutes that suit him. He is 99% close to my...
    BlueMah BlueMah 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Personality has so much more value than looks.
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    When you're so in love with that person , looks doesn't matter anymore.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think it is funny that according to this test, I really don't have much of a tendency towards any of them. They were all slight preferences towards one over the other. ISTJ...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer 22-25, F Aug 16

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    Of course looks aren't everything. The personality is what counts, if someone is caring and funny and intelligent that's more attractive than a six pack.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I have learned in my life that some of the most drop dead men are the biggest jerks and some of the dorky looking guys are the nicest. I have stopped judging on looks online and...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Take any journey for about an hour into a city and I can guarantee you will find a girl you think is good looking. It never ceases to amaze me just how common good looks are lol...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F Aug 31

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    This is very true, because I'll admit back in highschool, I was that "jerk" football player, stereotypical "jock". However, I've come a long way and have cleaned up my act and am...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Relationships based on personality and how much you love and care for each other last much longer and are much more meaningful.
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The small, crucial, moment-by-moment choices we make have a huge impact in our lives. These series of small choices and decisions are what shape our character, the results we...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My 21 favorites song mix # 4: 1 Reflections Of My Life- Marmalade 2 Good Riddance(Time Of Your Life)- Green Day 3 A Heart in New York- Simon And Garfunkel 4 I Can't Make Music...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 9 hrs ago

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    >I have a Torrent of Love that blazes through me...He defys darkness and wintery pain....His warmth never leaves me ...He burns through my shame no matter how many times I wrap...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    "Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. The ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile, and who...
    JenZ10 JenZ10 18-21, F 2 Responses 29 mins ago

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    I would like to rename this: "We All Have ****"😂 No...but seriously I just want to say something just about some of my experiences with people esp in the last few months... I am...
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I 100% agree with this. Personality lasts forever and looks fade away...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    How much is too much of an age difference between couples? I'm 23 yet I can't even date 18 year olds. The maturity level is just too imbalanced.
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Society has morphed us into thinking that the women with the best looks and figure triumphs. Witnessing the truth happening around me and my friends just double confirmed my belief...
    ohmaimama ohmaimama 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    I have a peaceful phlegmatic temperament, I found this description after taking an online personality test. It is me almost to the letter. It explains why I'm so forgiving and able...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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