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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 79 People

    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that Iā€™m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    At the same time.. I could never be attracted

    simply by looks. A good personality can change your feelings.
    debs73 debs73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Unpopular opinion, I know, but I'm cutting through the bullshit. Looks matter. Are they the only thing that matter? Good god no! But there's a minimum level of physical attraction...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M Sep 23

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    I recently just cut all my hair off because it was bugging me. People have been assuming things and think I've gone lesbian... I mean I have nothing against lesbians or gays or...
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Well this is so unfair cuz guys have no control over it , I mean seriously do you have control over your features your any of them . I cant imagine it should become an issue but...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wish I could. We'd all have better relationships if physical appearance wasn't judged on a daily basis. On the other hand, finding a person with the looks and right personality...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Sep 4

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    Is there a group "I believe looks are everything". I shall go and create one if there isn't already, just for fun.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    I don't believe age matters unless it's like 12 and under with a ******* 20+ guy or girl. They're still a child. It's really ********** then. Thats my opinion tho~
    BustyLove BustyLove 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 19

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    What's the use of beauty? It just makes us forget what really matters. I don't care what you look like, I just care what you think, how you act and how you love. That's all that...
    peonys peonys 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Yes, I am a Robot. --- You are 100% Rational, 0% Extroverted, 14% Brutal, and 14% Arrogant. Robot You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have taken this Jung typology test now on at least 3 different sites in slightly different formats on different days just to double check. I thought maybe a mood change or...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    INFJ PERSONALITY The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF...
    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F Sep 10

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    Real love is letting go no matter how much it hurts you. Love is selfless.
    JustBeingMeInCA JustBeingMeInCA 41-45, F 23 hrs ago

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    When you're in love, looks don't matter. It's personality that matters. :)
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 9

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    It's short and brief, I don't have a boy friend, and I believe love comes itself šŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰ Looks don't matter for me, I do care about the personalities. I rather fall in love with...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M Sep 19

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    In fact I do! I fall inlove with personality over looks everytime! I used to be the guy that would be like "Pics or I don't believe you are what you say you are" but now I just...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 18

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    I believe in looking for the good in every situation. The cup is half full kind of thinking. But the truth is, I was upset. I have only received a quarter an hour raise in the...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 8 hrs ago

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    I find this to be really true :) There was a time in my life when I was super shallow and only talk to the prettiest of girls or the guys that don't have ache and braces. However...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 12

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    When I first met you I never thought I'd develop feelings for you. To be honest when I first met you I thought you were kind annoying, you constantly bragged about yourself and...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I have. His Nature and Personality if I have to say in words.. I could use the Whole Oxford, but will never be able to find the right artibutes that suit him. He is 99% close to my...
    LIFECHECKUNDERTHEIRTHREAT LIFECHECKUNDERTHEIRTHREAT 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Personality has so much more value than looks.
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 14

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    "THE MUD HOLE - The Story of a Premonition" Thursday evening to Friday morning, 1st November 2013 (after Halloween) I woke up, after a disturbing dream. In my dream, there was...
    TNTandCHOCOLATE TNTandCHOCOLATE 31-35 Sep 20

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    true it is that personality last long than the physical appearance but as for now a days people are giving much important of how a person look.. And it's just; personality is the...
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Hi, I'm Maryam.. Now i believe that coz i just today i knew that there is more than painness in the whole world, i used to thinking about suicide alot ,there are alots of pain in...
    maryam75 maryam75 26-30, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    When you're so in love with that person , looks doesn't matter anymore.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Your personality type: "Reliable Realist" Serious and quiet, interested in security and peaceful living. Extremely thorough, responsible and dependable. Well-developed powers of...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    This is very true, because I'll admit back in highschool, I was that "jerk" football player, stereotypical "jock". However, I've come a long way and have cleaned up my act and am...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Relationships based on personality and how much you love and care for each other last much longer and are much more meaningful.
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 15

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    Yeah I feel like personality really does counts. Looks are not always going to be everything
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    When you are young and daft you are always lead by your eyes. Especially if you're a guy. But. Over time. You learn that the most beautiful women(in your own opinion) rarely have...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 24

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    I have met too many people who have beautiful faces and repulsive personalities. I cannot describe how much it detracts from their physical beauty. No one's pretty face can save...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate when guys want women to be 'sexy' or whatever it is they want all women's are shouldn't be judged on there looks it's best on there personality just how men should be...
    romamerica romamerica 13-15, T 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I am so ******* exited! (excuse the f word) I'm graduating high school this year and in our last year we have to choose one big (like you can easily write 25 pages on it...
    RianneK RianneK 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I've observed over the years that the most successful people tend to also be the happiest. One might say they are happy because they are successful but I suggest the reverse...
    jinglesmountjoy jinglesmountjoy 41-45 13 hrs ago

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    I have a peaceful phlegmatic temperament, I found this description after taking an online personality test. It is me almost to the letter. It explains why I'm so forgiving and able...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    how do you love your self as i loathe myself i need love but cant receive my kid parts super angry at my parents as when i was younger i needproper parents and it so affected big...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    I read the article you posted and it was a great piece of writing. It was right on and can be used for both sexes not just towards men. After reading the article, I realized I am...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 36-40, M Sep 23

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    have you ever stayed in a relationship because you're afraid of being alone? I don't know if I am.. I don't think I am staying in it for that reason.. I love someone so much but...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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         Our society has created this perfect image that we all idolize like its something we all have to be. And look what has become of it. Eating disorders, Anorexia...
    MKM18 MKM18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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