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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 88 People

    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Some time ago I posted a story called paying for love. There was a woman in my life. I saw her several weekends a year. We live in different States over a thousand miles apart. We...
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    Everything I see I cry. Everything on TV. Doesn't matter if it's happy, sad, fact, or fiction. I cry. Not huge sobs...just a continuous flow of tears. I'm beyond emotional. Does...
    denvyl denvyl 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    If you're going to ask me to send you a picture of myself then you should go first. Don't expect me to do something you're not willing to do. I am not going to ask for pictures...
    Starsatnight1 Starsatnight1 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    Friendship/relationship wise, you don't need to be smart or respectable to be good with what's in between your legs 😋. As long as you're hot. But seriously though, the worst...
    TheSturgeonGeneral TheSturgeonGeneral 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    It was 4 years back when i wanted to conquer the world. I started drawing as a kid and at 12 discovered my artistic abilities when i would create something and be appreciated for...
    Bllahblah Bllahblah 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    I hate it when people look at women and say they're pretty just because they look a certain way. anyone can be pretty, no matter what they look like and people need to realise this...
    isolatedgirl123 isolatedgirl123 13-15, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why do I hate U.S. Conservatism? There are so many reasons, but I will try to keep this brief and expand on it later. I'm not writing this from the perspective of a post modern...
    BlotOutTheSun BlotOutTheSun 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Behind my smile is everything you'll never understand.
    YourNewObstacle YourNewObstacle 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Does anyone here struggle with finding people who won't victim blame or attribute everything you think or do to borderline personality? It just makes it harder to trust one's self...
    rainbowsmangos2015 rainbowsmangos2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    American society has definitely grown decadent. We're not going to be able to sustain ourselves if we keep going the direction we've been going. Personal responsibility (as...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I believe in Love, and I believe in equal opportunity. Love equality. Everybody deserves a chance at love, its our hearts basic need. That's what we were born for, we spend our...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Okay noe dont hate for this but it must be said. I care about looks but Im not saying I dont care about personality. People have to get it that we are sexual beings. We find love...
    AlphaSanctusFuror AlphaSanctusFuror 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    "So if you're out there I swear to be good to you But I'm done lookin', for my future someone Cause when the time is right You'll be here, but for now Dear no one, this is your...
    svetlanadavina svetlanadavina 22-25 3 days ago

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    Human Logic = If you can't be a good pathetic slave to society you automatically have a mental illness. I'm a borderline personality and I just want to be with the person I love...
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The sole believe that participants will endure a complicated piece plus a few subplots ESO Gold PS4 who's utes entertaining. And luckily, your melee key battle can be delightful...
    a253561005 a253561005 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Well, it's obvious enough. I mean like, look at meh. I can be a sweetheart and a kawaii teen girl from the outside, but inside of me, things are differeeeeent.
    iTetraZazicII iTetraZazicII 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't take anything to "help" my disorder because I believe that will only silence them and I do not want that. I like talking to them, hearing what they have to say, and if they...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm a twenty two year old slightly overweight single lesbian woman who is mainly looking for friends of older age. I battle borderline personality disorder, which makes...
    rainbowsmangos2015 rainbowsmangos2015 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I really wonder what guys really see....
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Looks are a bonus, sure. But if you've got zero personality, you can be super hot and I won't care. I once (somehow) managed a date with a really beautiful woman who was very...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Well, I believe that women are beautiful its not only about their looks it's about souls .. not many people see that prospective 'soul's beauty' its more than it appears .. souls...
    amrhany amrhany 18-21, M Jul 22

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    She's gotta look ok, but yeah mostly personality.
    Spidey0 Spidey0 26-30 1 Response Jul 22

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    I do believe things happen for a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence in my opinion. Dealing with the painful waves of some of the things that happen can be unbearable at...
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F Jul 21

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    So lately everyday has been a struggle. Everyday with some kind of episode and I can't snap out of it for long before I plunge back into it. My boyfriend is more than understanding...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    So lately everyday has been a struggle. Everyday with some kind of episode and I can't snap out of it for long before I plunge back into it. My boyfriend is more than understanding...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I strongly believe I have DPD. I haven't been diagnosed yet, and I assume I might be diagnosed in a few months. The way this came about was that, my best friend was reading an...
    popgirlll popgirlll 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Because all the fu¢k people care about it looks and a good body on a woman. I know it, I feel it, and I even see it on my posts with photos of me. But if you only KNEW what's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 21

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    beauty always comes for. within I am a bug warm hearted guy. I care about people maybe too much. all my friends. are all amazing wonderful people cuz ive taken the time to get to...
    dgvb2448 dgvb2448 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I love to learn and I am a knowledge seeker. I didn't know how much I was going to learn when I got married. The hard way. Learning the hard way though, is very effective. You gain...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 20

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    I was recently diagnosed with dependent personality disorder, major depression, and anxiety disorder in the middle of a separation that is now in the process of divorce. My wife...
    iddependent iddependent 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I truly do - it doesn't look good when an old man is dating a younger girl... It just looks really weird. Like a gold digger and sugar daddy being together. I had some older men...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F Jul 19

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    Nice skin, curves in the right places, and gender specific assets might compliment a person, but their personality defines that person. Face value is far too shallow of a concept...
    DominaturV DominaturV 22-25, M Jul 18

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