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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 78 People

    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Being kind and polite costs nothing If your one of those people who are rude Then get a grip of yourself already !!!
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    Rate my face 1-10 im curious of what you guys think lol
    shekilledit shekilledit 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    It isn't about what you see on the outside, it all comes out from the inside. If your mean nasty and selfish inside, it will show up on the outside. Your actions will give you away...
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    A beautiful woman is someone who believes in herself. She has this amazing wit and personality. She is overflowing and oozing with sexuality and yet doesn't really intend to act on...
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    As an honest person that I am and tell things how they are, I would always appreciate and respect someone for telling me the truth back no matter how bad or hard it would be, i don...
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    Having a person who loves you like you are the best, the most beautiful, the smartest and the most amazing girl in the world is something that can be bought. Yes, it is wonderful...
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    I'm not an atheist. I'm not interested in convincing people there isn't a god. What other people believe about God just isn't important to me. There might be something out there...
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    Well I'm not gonna be one of those people that say looks don't matter, because honestly they do. You can not completely be with someone unless you're attracted to their physical...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 18-21, F Nov 29

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    7Questions 7Questions 16-17, M 7 hrs ago

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    I refuse to feel insecure about my looks. What matters most is that I'm happy with myself. However, mom keeps saying that I need to do something about my face. Her exact words...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    You can say what you want, I believe no one is an accident and were born into this world for a purpose... No matter what that reason is
    monaroyalty monaroyalty 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    Looks don't last for ever. Personality last for ever. This young generation is all about looks and I blame it on them watching way to much free **** on the net. The want a woman...
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 11

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    It's not only important, it's true. Looks attract, personality gets them to stay. so all you girls who think you're hot ****, yet have a nasty attitude, don't expect your man to...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    There's so, so much more to a person than appearance. Attraction from looks is just a bonus, but they will fade, it's just chance that they happen to appear beautiful. Looks fade...
    EternalShy EternalShy 16-17, F 10 Responses Dec 10

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    Looks are not important to me. I'd much rather be with someone who has a beautiful personality than one with a beautiful face and terrible personality.
    foreversmiling14 foreversmiling14 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    my boyfriend is a chubby guy..its not a health risk currently. he isn't fat, just bigger. I love him dearly and could care less if he had a six pack or not( I wouldn't argue if he...
    taylormorgan2113 taylormorgan2113 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 10

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    Personality is the person, their looks just add to it. The personality makes them beautiful. <3
    iambatman998 iambatman998 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't care if you're no hot magazine model, all I look for when meeting new people is a good personality :) I love talking to people who are care free, open minded, nice, and...
    Gabsters05 Gabsters05 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A time not so long ago A much younger me once wrote Love letters describing devotion Poetry with abundance of promise and hope With such an innocence regrettably lost It seems...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I mean if we are being honest a healthy relationship requires some attraction. When I was in high school I was very picky about who I chose to date. They had to be something...
    groundcraze groundcraze 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    I am neither a leader, nor an eloquent speaker or a special person. Though not a native English speaker, I am just a person like you. A heartbroken person plagued by confusion...
    Daolaeden Daolaeden 36-40 Dec 16

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    My mother used to say..."Looks may bring them to you, Susan, but your personality is going to keep them, so you better stay cool." Thanks again, ma. You rock.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Something I've learned over the years... Looks are worthless without a strong personality :)
    Missmini5 Missmini5 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Here's what you need to know about me. "The INTP personality type is fairly rare, making up only three percent of the population, which is definitely a good thing for them, as...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    So my buddy wanted to chill and smoke today. After having family over for dinner, which gets annoying as always, I picked him up. We ended up going to his girl's place like 45...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    There are a whole lot of very attractive ****** up people. Sometimes the more attractive a woman is, the more likely she is to be crazy. Personality and character last longer than...
    Sexaddict4u Sexaddict4u 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 18

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    I think that good looks are a bonus but personality is what makes or breaks it in my mind.
    Zoekosmopoulos Zoekosmopoulos 18-21, F a week ago

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    Minky28 Minky28 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    why should we only judge a book by its covers,what really matters is inside
    Noobdemolisher19 Noobdemolisher19 16-17, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    i havent ever been one to judge someone soley on looks, however i feel you should have some type of physical attraction... but personality is more important.
    SelinaKyle1 SelinaKyle1 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    The young get older and looks change but personalty pretty much stays the same. So instead of falling in love with someone just because they are pretty really get to know them...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 12

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    DaydreamerLegacy DaydreamerLegacy 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15