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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 87 People

    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    SIKE!!! Theres Soo many females That Take advantage of good Looks. If you are Very attractive, & think You can treat other ppl Different Or with a Curtain attitude, or If you...
    vaane vaane 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    American society has definitely grown decadent. We're not going to be able to sustain ourselves if we keep going the direction we've been going. Personal responsibility (as...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    ISTJ, I can relate to it soo much
    blessdontstress blessdontstress 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I enjoy the thrill of unknown and a build up of suspense; I enjoy the chase. Just because I may seem confident, doesn't necessarily make me so, I'm usually nervous and humbled...
    kevvy832 kevvy832 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I believe family is important but to me it's not the one I was born in that matters it's the one that will be in the close future that matters
    chelseybycroft901 chelseybycroft901 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    So do I. Nevertheless I had experienced a so called chakra opening during an LSD trip years ago. It has 3 stages: 1. A sudden explosive clarity and consiousness 2. A mental sliding...
    niezuweit niezuweit 26-30 8 hrs ago

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    I like the imperfections that make some woman uniquely beautiful. Sure perfect skin and silky hair,fit firm body is easy to make appear beautiful. I like real women ones proud to...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My dream started me going through a vortex. I don't remember much of what happen before then though. Once i got out of the vortex my ex boyfriend was there. He said how he was just...
    URSTRULYAngelina URSTRULYAngelina 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I believe in Love, and I believe in equal opportunity. Love equality. Everybody deserves a chance at love, its our hearts basic need. That's what we were born for, we spend our...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Tis nothing but an old human ritual without much value.
    Rarias Rarias 31-35, M 12 hrs ago

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    These three, and the Holy Bible. Not much more I need to believe in.
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Okay noe dont hate for this but it must be said. I care about looks but Im not saying I dont care about personality. People have to get it that we are sexual beings. We find love...
    AlphaSigmaFuror AlphaSigmaFuror 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well, it's obvious enough. I mean like, look at meh. I can be a sweetheart and a kawaii teen girl from the outside, but inside of me, things are differeeeeent.
    iTetraZazicII iTetraZazicII 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't think anything to "help" my disorder because I believe that will only silence them and I do not want that. I like talking to them, hearing what they have to say, and if...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm a twenty two year old slightly overweight single lesbian woman who is mainly looking for friends of older age. I battle borderline personality disorder, which makes...
    rainbowsmangos2015 rainbowsmangos2015 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really wonder what guys really see....
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Looks are a bonus, sure. But if you've got zero personality, you can be super hot and I won't care. I once (somehow) managed a date with a really beautiful woman who was very...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Well, I believe that women are beautiful its not only about their looks it's about souls .. not many people see that prospective 'soul's beauty' its more than it appears .. souls...
    amrhany amrhany 18-21, M a week ago

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    She's gotta look ok, but yeah mostly personality.
    Spidey0 Spidey0 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I do believe things happen for a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence in my opinion. Dealing with the painful waves of some of the things that happen can be unbearable at...
    DoveinMourning DoveinMourning 36-40, F Jul 21

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    So lately everyday has been a struggle. Everyday with some kind of episode and I can't snap out of it for long before I plunge back into it. My boyfriend is more than understanding...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    So lately everyday has been a struggle. Everyday with some kind of episode and I can't snap out of it for long before I plunge back into it. My boyfriend is more than understanding...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Because all the fu¢k people care about it looks and a good body on a woman. I know it, I feel it, and I even see it on my posts with photos of me. But if you only KNEW what's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 21

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    beauty always comes for. within I am a bug warm hearted guy. I care about people maybe too much. all my friends. are all amazing wonderful people cuz ive taken the time to get to...
    dgvb2448 dgvb2448 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I love to learn and I am a knowledge seeker. I didn't know how much I was going to learn when I got married. The hard way. Learning the hard way though, is very effective. You gain...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 12 Responses Jul 20

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    I truly do - it doesn't look good when an old man is dating a younger girl... It just looks really weird. Like a gold digger and sugar daddy being together. I had some older men...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F Jul 19

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    Nice skin, curves in the right places, and gender specific assets might compliment a person, but their personality defines that person. Face value is far too shallow of a concept...
    DominaturV DominaturV 22-25, M Jul 18

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    I want to fall in love with your personality, the galaxies I see in your eyes, the sound of music I hear when my ear is pressed to your chest. If I was ever to miss anything from...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    I can't stand when people call themselves ugly. No one, is ugly. Beauty can be shown in many ways. A personality trait, a smile- even the way someone eats could be seen as cute! No...
    cottoncamarilla cottoncamarilla 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Beauty radiates from the inside out. Physical appearance is a superficial thing that changes with age and frankly if you don't have the personality, your looks will mean nothing. I...
    nikaXo nikaXo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I finally left my BPD husband of 4 years a few months ago. Like many of you, I tried to hang in there and support him, believe in him, validate him, and have hope it will get...
    movingon6 movingon6 51-55, F Jul 14

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