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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 71 People

    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that Iā€™m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    You can find a gorgeous boy with a **** personality or not so great looks and amazing personality. How often is it you find both!! I'm one of them lucky girls then!! When you get a...
    Mollou Mollou 18-21, F Aug 6

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
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    A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Truthfully I do believe that looks are not everything considering a person can be beautiful, but that does not mean they are a good person. Personality can go a long ways with some...
    Ahaizzy Ahaizzy 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Especially if someone who's avatar is not even of them, then you are both shallow and a coward. Those who judge others based on looks, deserve the trouble they get. For looks will...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    i believe in god ,i used to follow krishna as a person from my childhood , i read about him so much till now .. i was inspired by him so much .i don't believe in things till...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Happens in movies and it seems lovely and magical. It should be "Attract At First Sight" because their looks attracted us but it really isn't love since we don't know that persons...
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Its good to have a great personality but its also important to have good looks. Honestly, i think you cant like someone and be with them if you think they are "ugly". Its not fair...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    I made my own quote actually: "Personality is the Gateway to you Soul, your looks are just looks, its who you are not what you look like." I think biased on society that we are...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Aug 8

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    for me everything happened in my life a disaster. firstly cuz of my bestfriend long long time ago? I remember I was so little that time. I got raped by him. I know nothing bout...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    i strongly believe in lord KRISHNA and his principle as they can apply always in real life ,i can't say he exist in what ,where ,and how he looks ,but i found so much believe on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 17

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    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I think it is funny that according to this test, I really don't have much of a tendency towards any of them. They were all slight preferences towards one over the other. ISTJ...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer 22-25, F Aug 16

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    Of course looks aren't everything. The personality is what counts, if someone is caring and funny and intelligent that's more attractive than a six pack.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I have learned in my life that some of the most drop dead men are the biggest jerks and some of the dorky looking guys are the nicest. I have stopped judging on looks online and...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Take any journey for about an hour into a city and I can guarantee you will find a girl you think is good looking. It never ceases to amaze me just how common good looks are lol...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have never ever judged a person by their looks. I always believe their attitude and heart are most important.
    LadyNienna LadyNienna 36-40, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Once upon a time, There was a little girl. The little girl had a mummy and a daddy who said they loved her very much. One day, the little girl was hurt by something she shouldn't...
    NearAsFarCanBe NearAsFarCanBe 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Looks don't last forever but to love and be loved by someone who has an amazing personality and understands you that love does.
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    In all honestly I don't give a crap about how guys look. Yes it would be a plus if they were attractive but in the end it doesn't even matter. Honest, funny and respectful just sum...
    loneGmusic3 loneGmusic3 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Looks will fade as time goes by, but a persons personality is forever.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    It's not something that I admit easily because people instantly think that I'm a new Age lunatic or a dumb person. The truth is I'm kind of skeptic at first and I always study a...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I 100% agree with this. Personality lasts forever and looks fade away...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I want to be more than a piece of meat I want to be looked at as the intelligent person I am and not the beautiful eyes or my gorgeous body or my delicate face or how my hair is...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I sometimes wonder if he does exist, that guy who has the same personality as mine, who has parents that can hardly understand him, and nobody listens to them except maybe few...
    ForeverSahour ForeverSahour 26-30, F Aug 10

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    I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And if you're true and genuine, I think that's beautiful.
    ireallylikebacon ireallylikebacon 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 9

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I allowed them to come very close to me. So close that i thought they were always gonna be there. So many times i told myself silently that i am lucky to have them in my life. We...
    Unlearn Unlearn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    All women are beautiful in their own way,Each is unique in how they share themselves with the one they care about.When you look for that beautiful womanyou must look deeper then...
    ashtonn40 ashtonn40 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Time to share my story of Multiple Personality Disorder(MPD). I know, in my case, this is more commonly known as a Teenage Identity Crisis, but I'd like to refer it as MPD. So...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I thinking judging people based on their looks is bias. We don't judge people by their height as they can't help their genetics so why do others judge others based on their...
    BriGrace BriGrace 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I've noticed that I can be attracted to hot guys and that's usually as far as it goes. But I really fall hard for guys with an amazing personality. Attractiveness is really just a...
    OwlishL OwlishL 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I like people based on personality rather than looks. And its a good thing too, because I'm all about getting to know someone and falling in love. Most of the time I like guys, and...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Because I'm not really that attractive myself. But then the real answer would be because if you fall in love with a personality that person will become the best looking person in...
    staticdreams staticdreams 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I always thought appearance was kind of like a bonus to someone's level of attraction. Most people don't look at it that way because they unknowingly judge them by their looks...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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