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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 78 People

    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I fell in love with this guy who really isn't anything to look at. Like when I first met him I was put off by his looks but as soon as I fell in love with his personality it's like...
    tvdlover1865 tvdlover1865 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Don't Care About Popularity. I Live In Reality. based On Originality. Forget Looks. I Respect Personality :) Your looks may grab my eye, but your personality will hold my heart...
    ApacheKuruk ApacheKuruk 46-50, M 6 Responses Apr 18

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    I got let go from my job last Thursday. I feel somewhat relieved and very sad because of all the great people I use to work with that brought me so much joy and happiness into my...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Here's part 2 because it's making me get in my feelings lol. My friends were talking about how boys date girls who are ugly "she is too ugly for him." "Is he blind." And I'm like...
    nicoleahana nicoleahana 13-15, F Apr 13

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    Looks do not define a person the do not define you, looks are just a little of how special you are, you should never judge a person by their looks, they could be the kindest and...
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M Apr 6

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    For me, it's more a matter of maturity. I'm not interested in someone just because they are young....they need to also have a level of maturity.
    open2anything1976 open2anything1976 36-40, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Ages doesn't matter at all. My soon to be boyfriend is 6 years older then me. I don't give a flying ****. He treats me good and we have fun when we hang out or talk on the phone...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I got out. Best decision of my life. Every situation is different, and ending a marriage (particularly when there are children involved, which there are for me) is a serious...
    ericseviltwin ericseviltwin 31-35, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    "Falling in love" just because you like the way somebody looks is almost shallow in a way. It's like you won't accept somebody if they don't meet up to your expectations for the...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 9

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    Why is it about how bigg your butt is our thighs. What has the world come to. "You have to have a big butt to be with me." "Her butt is heaven" like really. Okay yeah it looks nice...
    nicoleahana nicoleahana 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    So if a guy finds a woman attractive he is all open arms and puckered lips and eager to have her , he doesn't give a hoot how the woman feels about him . Hey if you find me...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    It makes me sad seeing girls/woman beating themselves up for not feeling beautiful just because guys doesn't think they are. Appearance and looks is nothing it's the heart...
    Sw33love Sw33love 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Not that nothing can be gathered from it, or that it completely dont matter. But here are my reasons why (some may be termed "looks" instead). After 9/11, security personnel at...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I myself do not look all that great. I'm well over 200 pounds and weight is a big thing for a lot of people. But, there are a lot of people who can't get past my looks and prefer...
    Good4It Good4It 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    Indeed.. (See the photo attached) This world is full of monsters with friendly faces. So many two faces around us. And we often judge people by its cover, but we should know that...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I believe in a God, but not of the Abrahamic kind. For me, the idea of the all-loving, homophobic Tyrant-in-the-Sky God of Thou Shalt Not, waiting to cast all the unbelievers into...
    AnotherNightOwl AnotherNightOwl 36-40, M 13 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    is there really any other way to fall in love with someone? one doesn't fall in love with looks that is falling in lust. Noone has ever looked at a woman with curves in all the...
    geekygirl2 geekygirl2 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 3

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    Personality is where his true beauty is. Looks constantly change every moment, every day. Sometimes it's noticeable right away and sometimes it's not noticeable for a while...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm shocked and traumatised by the treatment I had by the mental health professionals in Middlesbrough ... What happened to me was beyond my expectations and imaginations and I did...
    Soullesss Soullesss 31-35, F Mar 27

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    And this is my story. We spent too much time together that without realizing it the strings became so twisted it seemed like it was impossible to be untangled. At that moment, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 4

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    The better the personality the more attractive they are. Looks as far as cleanliness are considered part of personality.
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm so scared, I've always believed in God and havent been the best at praying. Lately though in the past 6 months my girlfriend has got me into God more and I love her. But now...
    KeithK902 KeithK902 18-21, M 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Hi all, I want to share one of my experiences which has made me believe in this quote. On one fine sunny day, I met a guy at my working place. We had a normal healthy conversation...
    LifeIsAJourney25 LifeIsAJourney25 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Definitely, if you want your relationship to last and be as strong as possible. Looks fade overtime, someone's personality and whom they are will not.
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder jst as u'd see a thing nd hate it someone else would see the same thing nd love it. only u knw how u see things or feel them..things are...
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M Apr 15

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    I am different ,and I like many styles of people and I admire different style of people ! I sometime try to be sexy ..lol..But I end up just conservative ,bc I do not wanna make...
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Each and everyday we are faced with a choice, whether to carry on or to let go and each and everyday some people lose the strength to keep going, everyday somebody gives up because...
    nathchalk97 nathchalk97 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I don't see the point of judging someone based on something they can't change. Chose who you talk to based on their personality, not how cute they are. Because in the end, you have...
    Etherealrose Etherealrose 18-21, F Mar 27

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