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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 94 People

    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    Looks matter a ton to me,

    but I would much rather have a chick by my side who knows how to handle and use guns and is good at hand to hand combat than a chick who "twerks" or "jiggles" her self or whatever people want to call it.
    Bladea1799 Bladea1799 26-30, M Nov 23, 2015

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Me and my boyfriend have been in a LDR for coming up to a year and while it's been hard I honestly believe it's been completely worth it. In 6 months time he is moving over to...
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Everything is changing continuously in a pace hardly imaginable. I'm almost nothing like the person I was two years ago, finances changed drastically (and thereby my lifestyle and...
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    omg sometimes I get so fukin tired of my choices in life. but no matter how hard I try I can never seem to not make the same choices. it's just the personality disorder at work...
    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    There is no deepness to it, but when the small talk is what you look forward to, it says a lot about the person on the other side. I can only hope that person wants to hold on...
    DesiredUserNameandStuff DesiredUserNameandStuff 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    I think its 3.5 or higher or its like pretty much not going to work out.
    CaitlynNorth60 CaitlynNorth60 22-25, F 15 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Apart from sheer love and caring, people of all genders need a physical and pleasurable feeling of one another, so its very much required .
    Newbie2401 Newbie2401 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm a Swedish Finn, well into my 60s but with the same zest for life I always had as a teenager. I'm happy to answer any questions you like, no matter the subject nor how personal...
    Rhapsodyforever Rhapsodyforever 61-65, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    It comes not from arrogance, not from misogyny, sexism or narcissistic beliefs. It comes from confidence, love, self assurance, mutual respect and support, dedication to my...
    OwnedByDaddy OwnedByDaddy 41-45, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My life has been quite unusual; starting from the fact that my parents were separated even before I was born. I was the eccentric boy in school, who got sent to a military school...
    Kurecca Kurecca 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I'm a INFP personality.I have this complex mind and I get frustrated way easily.I'm much a thinker than a talker.I hate small talk but I'm very good at talking what I'm passionate...
    felicia123angel felicia123angel 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Im not perfect and nor do i want to be. . . . . im crazy cooky spontanious fun and bubbly often the person my friends turn to for support because im honest and reliable . . . i try...
    212panda 212panda 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I would rather know a person from the inside out. I believe that understanding the person deeply can result to longer lasting relationships. Long distance relationships may help...
    orangeattic orangeattic 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You told me how I mattered right to my face, and how there was no way I'd ever be replaced. Well your words have etched out disgrace. BS. And I wonder how it tastes? Repeating it...
    Taynkbot Taynkbot 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It All Makes Sense Now. A chance encounter and some independent research resulted in my realization that for the last 5 years my behavior, experiences, and relationships would...
    Missluhvlee Missluhvlee 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met someone like that once. His name was Randy. He knew I struggled with mental illnesses and rook advantage of it every moment I spent with him. He would always say I was the...
    Nmetb Nmetb 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've found that for people that would be classed as attractive by society, if they have an ugly personality I am not attracted to them and don't find them good looking. But I've...
    Princesslauryn Princesslauryn 16-17, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    The things we observe superficially are just that; they are false impressions that don't tell you anything about the person until you get to know them. People aren't as beautiful...
    JadeScarlet JadeScarlet 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Personality= #1.... With me.
    Kitty72013 Kitty72013 31-35, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    i get sick of people and their lies looks dont matter really come on i know looks matter i say it out loud when i see a girl i dont know about her personality i approach...
    lostpagesofM lostpagesofM 18-21, M a week ago

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    One day I asked the DBT therapist to lead a mindfulness activity as a repair for showing up to the previous group late. My individual therapist encouraged me to give an explanation...
    allinlove allinlove 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Rebirth, and Rediscovery. It's been a year since we met, an amazing year of two people coming together and becoming a couple. And as with all relationships there have been ups and...
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ 1 Response a week ago

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    "I think too much" is an understatement. Each day, my mind is a whirlwind of activity and I can't turn it off, ever. I can't remember the last time I had a full night of sleep...
    SacrificeMe SacrificeMe 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    A good conversation is way more attractive than good looks. I think people forget that sometimes.
    Sim90 Sim90 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 30

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    I love meeting a plain looking person (as myself lol) and their personality makes them the most beautiful person. Every flaw turns into a unique quality. Inner beauty makes your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Everyone is beautiful in their own way but there's nothing comparable to the attractiveness of a good personality. Just the liveliness and warmth of their personality is enough to...
    GoldenRoses GoldenRoses 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    At 9:45am i attend work and deal with teasing. They would talk bad about my facial features to friends. Many would blatantly look at me and laugh for a good minute with their...
    DeadlyArsenic DeadlyArsenic 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Above, is a picture of what pure Love looks like. A beam of Hope, shining in a dark world, to show the way. Can you see it?I want to share with you this morning, a very odd and...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F Jan 27

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    I found this silly personality test on Rutterman's profile and thought it was kind of interesting...and just fun to do, since I found myself answering the questions for myself...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I believe age defines very little in fact. Age is merely a number allotted to us by ourselves as a means of division. Like "oh you're 18. You are so young, still have so much to...
    ToughLoveKitten ToughLoveKitten 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 26

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