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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 68 People

    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    I think women get judge on how they look, which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the...
    1kz3l 1kz3l 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Let's start a circle today let's compliment someone we don't know and put a smile on their face we don't know what people go threw at home or the pain they have inside a smile can...
    Fire143 Fire143 22-25, F Jul 5

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    You cant change everyone but once in a while you can do something kind or compassionate for someone and it will make them a kinder person.
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    Finding midlife years very confusing everything I thought I knew And held dear to me seems to be slipping away anyone feel the same
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    Dare to be a blessing to someone today!
    dotclombia dotclombia 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    trafikmasta trafikmasta 36-40, M 13 hrs ago

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    Well, this is me. I dont know i just don't fall for physical attributes. Recently i was very different, i liked seeing guys who are much older than me. I like role playing, I...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 13 hrs ago

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    Revelation, how can we understand the end?, If we don't know what went on in the beginning? As Jesus stated in, (Matt 24:37 )" But as the days of Noah were, so shall also the...
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    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I mostly care about the persons personality, but I can't say I don't care about looks. People always say that they don't care about looks at all and it doesn't matter.. But really...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    After all, looks fade with time, no matter how much they nip tuck and suck away, but personality, is forever.
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
    Powederedtoastman Powederedtoastman 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not about other people... it's about YOU! It's your life to live nobody elses! No one got the right to judge you and if they do well stand up for yourself and don't let them...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I am not married, however I view my partnership with as much weight as a typical marriage and resources on the topic are limited, so here I am. While I at least have the benefit...
    opheliasodyssey opheliasodyssey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    This will probably end up upsetting & offend some one. To those people, I would like to say: TO FREAKING BAD!!! This experience is My own person belief. You don't like it, I don't...
    Ronin1369 Ronin1369 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't care how good looking a person is, after all looks fade with time. I think it is much more important to have a great personality. I am far more interested in someones...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    This is a post by someone who's profile was deleted for whatever reason, and sine it has helped so many while it was on here, but since it was deleted I'll re-post it so it can...
    joshwilburn1017 joshwilburn1017 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    Honestly, love is love. As long as the ages are appropriate, I believe it's okay! For instance, when I was 14, I was in "love" with an 18. It doesn't matter how old, or how young...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    All my life i used to just walk around and look at all the beautiful women with great bodies and say, " Wow. How could someone ever get married? There are so many women to choose...
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Oh yeah,big time.Looks do play a part,but when you add an extraordinary personality to a face,he/she becomes more than what the eye can see.As for the girls who are looking for...
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I'm one of those girls who goes for the personality first but u have to admit, when u see a really hot guy you aren't the slightest bit attracted? Id rather date someone with a...
    welluhm5678 welluhm5678 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Everything Happens for a Reason (Part 2) On January 29, I met someone on EP that has become an integral part of my life (I’ll refer to him as “D”). We had many great...
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    Everything Happens for a Reason (Part 2) On January 29, I met someone on EP that has become an integral part of my life (I’ll refer to him as “D”). We had many great...
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    How many times do we come across statements like, "I don't care about looks and I only care for what's inside." At the same time, you come across statements like, "I looked at her...
    finitenessofinfinity finitenessofinfinity 22-25, M Jun 30

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    If your looking for looks it'll get you nowhere. Because love sides with personality than looks.
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Yeah me too there is a story my mum always tell me there is two women one of them is so pretty but her personality not and the other is not looking good but her personality is soo...
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was never diagnosed with BPD but I feel I do have it. I have been reading about it and after reading many of your own testimonies I am convinced this is what I have. It's been a...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm learning to love my body shape... I have a curvy figure which most girls wish to have but I can't get myself to agree that I'm not fat... Curvy looks good on so many girls...
    SimplyBeingMe94 SimplyBeingMe94 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    Hello, I have been an empath with E.S.P. since birth but had a hard time getting my elders to acknowledge my gift. After a while I gave up on trying to get anyone to believe me...
    Brydem Brydem 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Honestly, I would fall for someone for their personality before even considering their looks. Personally, I have liked people because of who they arenas what they stand for, rather...
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    ...like I understand people have preferences and ****...but like c'mon, looks fade...some worse than others...your personality stays :) plus...who wants a cake without the flavour...
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I wish society was less centred on looks, I wish that people didn't ridicule others because they don't match up with their definition of "perfect" and I wish people got to know you...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I'll be honest....I've always been ok with being chubby! The only time it gets to me is when I see pretty skinny girls. Everyone likes a skinny girl right. Well I think it's all...
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 12

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    Why? Because, looks aren't everything. A person might be lovely to look at if they're beautiful or sexy, but that doesn't mean that person is kind or sweet. Same goes if you're not...
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    You will come across many men in your life and you will be tempted to fall in love. Don’t be lured into giving your heart to a man just because he is handsome, popular and good...
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 4 Responses