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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 69 People

    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    You can find a gorgeous boy with a **** personality or not so great looks and amazing personality. How often is it you find both!! I'm one of them lucky girls then!! When you get a...
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    ...In this time of desperation When all we know is doubt and fear There is only one foundation We believe, we believe In this broken generation When all is dark, You help us see...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    It's weird but...I had one relationship where we were completely in love(or I thought so...online relationship) he was always telling me that no matter Wut I looked like he would...
    xAllyBunny xAllyBunny 16-17, F Jul 29

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    Especially if someone who's avatar is not even of them, then you are both shallow and a coward. Those who judge others based on looks, deserve the trouble they get. For looks will...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    Personality is key. It should be the reason why are why you arent with them. Looks are honestly a bonus in my opinion and dont even matter because whats the point with being with a...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M Jul 28

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    I don't care how good looking a person is, after all looks fade with time. I think it is much more important to have a great personality. I am far more interested in someones...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    Happens in movies and it seems lovely and magical. It should be "Attract At First Sight" because their looks attracted us but it really isn't love since we don't know that persons...
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Its good to have a great personality but its also important to have good looks. Honestly, i think you cant like someone and be with them if you think they are "ugly". Its not fair...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I made my own quote actually: "Personality is the Gateway to you Soul, your looks are just looks, its who you are not what you look like." I think biased on society that we are...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Aug 8

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    i strongly believe in lord KRISHNA and his principle as they can apply always in real life ,i can't say he exist in what ,where ,and how he looks ,but i found so much believe on...
    rev414 rev414 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Humour is the best quality someone can have to me personally because I love to laugh and make jokes, this boy I liked was incredibly funny and always made me laugh with his weird...
    TargetAimShootKill TargetAimShootKill 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I think it is funny that according to this test, I really don't have much of a tendency towards any of them. They were all slight preferences towards one over the other. ISTJ...
    SolitarySummer SolitarySummer 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Of course looks aren't everything. The personality is what counts, if someone is caring and funny and intelligent that's more attractive than a six pack.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was never diagnosed with BPD but I feel I do have it. I have been reading about it and after reading many of your own testimonies I am convinced this is what I have. It's been a...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I have learned in my life that some of the most drop dead men are the biggest jerks and some of the dorky looking guys are the nicest. I have stopped judging on looks online and...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Once upon a time, There was a little girl. The little girl had a mummy and a daddy who said they loved her very much. One day, the little girl was hurt by something she shouldn't...
    NearAsFarCanBe NearAsFarCanBe 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    Tho looks arent everything, its 60% important to me. plus personality and the others are important to. Only attractive people attract me. David Beckham is kinda ugly to me. Anime...
    michiko michiko 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Looks are great, but if your personality is beautiful like your outside. I can hang with you! But society has become obsessed with "perfection" it's sad
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M Jul 29

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    Looks don't last forever but to love and be loved by someone who has an amazing personality and understands you that love does.
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    In all honestly I don't give a crap about how guys look. Yes it would be a plus if they were attractive but in the end it doesn't even matter. Honest, funny and respectful just sum...
    loneGmusic3 loneGmusic3 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Looks will fade as time goes by, but a persons personality is forever.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    It's not something that I admit easily because people instantly think that I'm a new Age lunatic or a dumb person. The truth is I'm kind of skeptic at first and I always study a...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I 100% agree with this. Personality lasts forever and looks fade away...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    It was the start of my freshman year. Deep into a depression, bipolar episodes, scars up and down my left wrist, suicidal thoughts screaming through my ears, sticking my finger...
    icecoldqueen613 icecoldqueen613 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I want to be more than a piece of meat I want to be looked at as the intelligent person I am and not the beautiful eyes or my gorgeous body or my delicate face or how my hair is...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I sometimes wonder if he does exist, that guy who has the same personality as mine, who has parents that can hardly understand him, and nobody listens to them except maybe few...
    ForeverSahour ForeverSahour 26-30, F Aug 10

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    Men and women are both as valuable as each other, but every single group no matter how big or small needs a leader mainly to keep order and keep the ball rolling in one direction...
    trafikmasta trafikmasta 36-40, M Jul 23

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    I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And if you're true and genuine, I think that's beautiful.
    ireallylikebacon ireallylikebacon 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 9

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    My Personality Type I have taken this test before, in the year 2010. I was an INTP in January that year, and then an INTJ the next month. Now, I am curious if there has been a...
    mareliberum mareliberum 26-30 3 days ago

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    Don't believe in you, believe in the you that believes in me.
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    The wager The philosophy uses the following logic (excerpts from Pensées, part III, §233): 1. "God is, or He is not" 2. A Game is being played... where heads or...
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    I allowed them to come very close to me. So close that i thought they were always gonna be there. So many times i told myself silently that i am lucky to have them in my life. We...
    Unlearn Unlearn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    All women are beautiful in their own way,Each is unique in how they share themselves with the one they care about.When you look for that beautiful womanyou must look deeper then...
    ashtonn40 ashtonn40 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    my boyfriend is 29 and I'm 19. a lot of people have told me that we probably won't last because of our age difference. but I find that to be completely false. I feel like despite...
    feoxy feoxy 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 22