I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 86 People

    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970
    41-45, M
    Jul 24, 2011

    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941
    46-50
    Aug 29, 2012

    Looks matter a ton to me,

    but I would much rather have a chick by my side who knows how to handle and use guns and is good at hand to hand combat than a chick who "twerks" or "jiggles" her self or whatever people want to call it.
    Bladea1799 Bladea1799
    26-30, M
    Nov 23, 2015

    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2013

    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    2 Responses May 9, 2011

    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jun 27, 2009

    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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