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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 78 People

    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    There is NO ONE that can say

    that looks don't matter and they only care about "personality" because that is a damn lie, you know for a fact that if you're hot as **** and the nicest most sweetest person talks to you and likes you but they're ugly as **** you will not give them a second glance. Every one on...
    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    At the same time.. I could never be attracted

    simply by looks. A good personality can change your feelings.
    Dotty73 Dotty73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Unpopular opinion, I know, but I'm cutting through the bullshit. Looks matter. Are they the only thing that matter? Good god no! But there's a minimum level of physical attraction...
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M Sep 23

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    That's what I call them when my dad blows up at me: Judgment Calls. It all started, according to him, last week. I ran into my mother's hope chest in my room. I ran into it hard...
    CatalinaVanilla CatalinaVanilla 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Well this is so unfair cuz guys have no control over it , I mean seriously do you have control over your features your any of them . I cant imagine it should become an issue but...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 29

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    Please don't add me to your circle or message me if you are in your teens. Am sure you are lovely but it creeps me out
    ilovemybed ilovemybed 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    Is there a group "I believe looks are everything". I shall go and create one if there isn't already, just for fun.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    About three years ago I met someone who changed my life. She was funny,smart and the most wonderful person to be around. We talked through the summer and started getting close. I...
    GingerInTheForest GingerInTheForest 18-21, M 1 Response 50 mins ago

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    people always say beauty, beauty, beauty...but i believe a persons personality is far more important. My partner is a wonder person, beautiful personality and I love her to bits...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    V The Universal Presence Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence?—Psa. 139:7 In all Christian teaching certain basic truths are found...
    Cootamundra Cootamundra 70+, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I wish I could say that I have 100% faith but I can't. It's just so hard to believe in when I'm the type of person who "has to see to believe". There's so much evil in the world...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Your personality type: "Sensitive Doer" Quiet, serious, sensitive and kind. Do not like conflict and not likely to do things which may generate conflict. Loyal and faithful...
    MrsDuckx3 MrsDuckx3 16-17 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Basically, if you have the intelligence and laid back personality then that seals the deal. I don't care if you're purple or male or female, whatever. I look at someone's...
    cheyenne0 cheyenne0 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    And I have lol I'm going to be honest my bf is not the hottest but he's pretty hot but he's hot a great personality and that's why I love him I could really care less about his...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    true it is that personality last long than the physical appearance but as for now a days people are giving much important of how a person look.. And it's just; personality is the...
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F Sep 26

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    That's the beauty of online friends, things like looks and age, it just doesn't matter, it's what lives inside their souls that I fall in love with. That is a pure love, and pure...
    SRayne SRayne 41-45 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Personality>looks anyway. Looks are simply a bonus feature :) your personality defines how attracted you are to the person. It sets the groundwork for success or failure.
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M Oct 12

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    In my life... I have had a lot of things taken from me, or have been hurt by people that was suppose to be there to protect me, has a lifetime of hurt with trusting the wrong...
    Qwert143 Qwert143 22-25 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    What's the use of beauty? It just makes us forget what really matters. I don't care what you look like, I just care what you think, how you act and how you love. That's all that...
    peonys peonys 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Part 1 God bless everyone. Have you talked to god? Tell him all your worries and don't be afraid. He wants to help so call him. He loves you. I want to share with you guys...
    MarGuz5334 MarGuz5334 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Yeah I feel like personality really does counts. Looks are not always going to be everything
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    When you are young and daft you are always lead by your eyes. Especially if you're a guy. But. Over time. You learn that the most beautiful women(in your own opinion) rarely have...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 24

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    Yes, I am a Robot. --- You are 100% Rational, 0% Extroverted, 14% Brutal, and 14% Arrogant. Robot You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is...
    outsidewitness outsidewitness 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    I've always believed in karma. I believe when I'm helping depressed people, someone will be there when I need them. I believe giving a homeless guy money, that someone will be...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I have met too many people who have beautiful faces and repulsive personalities. I cannot describe how much it detracts from their physical beauty. No one's pretty face can save...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    When I was younger my home environment wasn't the best, and I thought I knew everything that I wouldn't end up in the same scenario. In fact I did start of differently I had a "I...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Not gonna lie, looks can be important too. But people who take one look at someone and say "they are ugly, why would anyone date them?" are stupid. I would rather date an ugly guy...
    iiCHARLIii iiCHARLIii 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Personality is all that matters to me.
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I simply love to humiliate women much older than me!
    KerryThornton KerryThornton 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hate when guys want women to be 'sexy' or whatever it is they want all women's are shouldn't be judged on there looks it's best on there personality just how men should be...
    FemRomano FemRomano 13-15, T 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Actually, I'm awfully superficial, I like really good looking men. But, but...... wait for it, I want a man with the same personality as Ace Ventura! Yes! He's hilarious. Okay, so...
    OlicityForever OlicityForever 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I read the article you posted and it was a great piece of writing. It was right on and can be used for both sexes not just towards men. After reading the article, I realized I am...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 36-40, M Sep 23

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    Title~ Seeing Is Believing... So I decided to title it since I love titling things you know especially when they're stories.. o.O Because stories unlike confessions actually kinda...
    SpoiledKingPotatoePop SpoiledKingPotatoePop 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sib232228 Sib232228 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I have taken this Jung typology test now on at least 3 different sites in slightly different formats on different days just to double check. I thought maybe a mood change or...
    wraithorn wraithorn 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Love no object of Gods creation like you would God Himself. He sent us to serve him and that is where it ends. Thank Him for letting you simply live another day. It matters not if...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Oct 8

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    I want to speak, from my heart, about the very complicated topic of abortion. I realize that most people will read this with their beliefs and not truly hear what the Spirit would...
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