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I Believe Looks Matter As Much As Personality

Don't act like you'd reproduce with someone who makes you gag. 68 People

    Hate To Say This...

    I don't want to fully believe this. But, I mostly do. Don't worry, I'm not attracted to "conventionally good-looking" people. I don't like blond hair, extremely talkative, fake tans, fake lightning, or big muscles. I like unconventionally good-looking people with medium-long dark...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    As Much As I;m Denial, Its The Truth. Looks Do Matter

    okay so i have been posting stories lately about how i think i will never find the love of my life, simply because i am not physically attractive. and lots of people are saying to me that its the inside that counts and personality matters. but when i saw those people, i...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    Boooo.

    I'm sick of these people who attack anyone who posts a question inquiring about what other people like, physically, about the opposite (or same, I guess, in some cases) sex.  I've been seeing this in forums for ten years, and my answer has always been similar to the...
    HumanOddity HumanOddity 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    Unfortunately

    It is something that is unfortunately true for me. Some may say that personality is everything, but deep down we all know that it is bullshit. If you sit back and think about it, appearance makes up part of our first impression. We see the person before we talk or get to know...
    carmenello carmenello 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Ugly And Scared

    I tried on-line dating. I filled out the profile, but I did not send a picture to them. I started talking to this women for a couple of weeks, and she started to insist that I send a picture to her. I am scared to do it. I know that I’m ugly, and if I send a picture she will...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 Aug 29, 2012

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    It's True

    Go ahead call me vain BUT i believe that personality and looks go hand and hand. Lets face it people NO ONE who is horrid looking gets alot of attention (trust me i know). Pretty people get all the attention. And dont think just because a person is pretty they have a bad...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    It Is A Sad Truth

    I know this from experience. Unless you are incredibly lucky, most times unless you are good looking, most of the time you're SOL. We've all heard the fairy tale "it's on the inside that counts." It's a shame that isn't true. Looks do matter, trust me. I know because I don't have...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Physical Attraction

     Its the first thing that most people notice and feel. Most won't try to get to know you and be with you like that if you don't have looks. Let's face it, most people won't get to see how great your personality is if you are fugly. The media had affected society. Its vain...
    reset reset 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    One Can Trump The Other In A Heartbeat.

    I firmly believe this. Both must be in place. If I'm not attracted to a woman's appearance (her body, face, her hair, the way clothes hang on her frame, how she looks without clothes on, etc.) as much as her inner life (her heart, mind, intellect, spirituality, etc.) it's just...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M Jul 24, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I wake up and go to work and come back. I have a girlfriend and she is lovely. We don't do much on our days off just sleep and watch movies. Half the time I feel like I am half of...
    More2lifethanthis More2lifethanthis 18-21, M Jul 1

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    I am the girl with a flower pattern dress that is reading a book while listening to music with a coffee in the park ^^ But I am reading "world war Z: an oral history of the zombie...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I think women get judge on how they look, which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the...
    1kz3l 1kz3l 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Let's start a circle today let's compliment someone we don't know and put a smile on their face we don't know what people go threw at home or the pain they have inside a smile can...
    Fire143 Fire143 22-25, F Jul 5

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    You cant change everyone but once in a while you can do something kind or compassionate for someone and it will make them a kinder person.
    karenmbrown karenmbrown 51-55, T Jul 5

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    Finding midlife years very confusing everything I thought I knew And held dear to me seems to be slipping away anyone feel the same
    julespw julespw 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Dare to be a blessing to someone today!
    dotclombia dotclombia 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    ...In this time of desperation When all we know is doubt and fear There is only one foundation We believe, we believe In this broken generation When all is dark, You help us see...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I thinking judging people based on their looks is bias. We don't judge people by their height as they can't help their genetics so why do others judge others based on their...
    BrainnahGrace BrainnahGrace 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    My personality type: ISFJ (Introversion, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) ISFJ Strengths Very supportive. ISFJs are always willing to help other people, sharing their knowledge and...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I mostly care about the persons personality, but I can't say I don't care about looks. People always say that they don't care about looks at all and it doesn't matter.. But really...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    It's weird but...I had one relationship where we were completely in love(or I thought so...online relationship) he was always telling me that no matter Wut I looked like he would...
    xAllyBunny xAllyBunny 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    After all, looks fade with time, no matter how much they nip tuck and suck away, but personality, is forever.
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
    Powederedtoastman Powederedtoastman 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Jul 17

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    Personality is key. It should be the reason why are why you arent with them. Looks are honestly a bonus in my opinion and dont even matter because whats the point with being with a...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    My aunt has a very large dog. It just annoys me because it drools all over everything, knocks things over/breaks things with its tail, and barks at anything and everything very...
    movince movince 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    It's a weird feeling to feel obligated to help someone. I don't know why I feel that way but I do. It's not as simple as saying I see someone and want to help them. No it's a...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I am not married, however I view my partnership with as much weight as a typical marriage and resources on the topic are limited, so here I am. While I at least have the benefit...
    opheliasodyssey opheliasodyssey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    This will probably end up upsetting & offend some one. To those people, I would like to say: TO FREAKING BAD!!! This experience is My own person belief. You don't like it, I don't...
    Ronin1369 Ronin1369 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I don't care how good looking a person is, after all looks fade with time. I think it is much more important to have a great personality. I am far more interested in someones...
    jmc39 jmc39 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    All my life i used to just walk around and look at all the beautiful women with great bodies and say, " Wow. How could someone ever get married? There are so many women to choose...
    UnMuro UnMuro 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    It's true no matter how beautiful you are it won't matter as much as your personality and there is no such thing as ugly we are all beautiful on the outside just need to work on...
    freedom16 freedom16 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Oh yeah,big time.Looks do play a part,but when you add an extraordinary personality to a face,he/she becomes more than what the eye can see.As for the girls who are looking for...
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I'm one of those girls who goes for the personality first but u have to admit, when u see a really hot guy you aren't the slightest bit attracted? Id rather date someone with a...
    welluhm5678 welluhm5678 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Humour is the best quality someone can have to me personally because I love to laugh and make jokes, this boy I liked was incredibly funny and always made me laugh with his weird...
    AnotherTomboyGamer AnotherTomboyGamer 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    If your looking for looks it'll get you nowhere. Because love sides with personality than looks.
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F Jul 17

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    Yeah me too there is a story my mum always tell me there is two women one of them is so pretty but her personality not and the other is not looking good but her personality is soo...
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I was never diagnosed with BPD but I feel I do have it. I have been reading about it and after reading many of your own testimonies I am convinced this is what I have. It's been a...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm learning to love my body shape... I have a curvy figure which most girls wish to have but I can't get myself to agree that I'm not fat... Curvy looks good on so many girls...
    SimplyBeingMe94 SimplyBeingMe94 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    Hello, I have been an empath with E.S.P. since birth but had a hard time getting my elders to acknowledge my gift. After a while I gave up on trying to get anyone to believe me...
    Brydem Brydem 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    ...like I understand people have preferences and ****...but like c'mon, looks fade...some worse than others...your personality stays :) plus...who wants a cake without the flavour...
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I wish society was less centred on looks, I wish that people didn't ridicule others because they don't match up with their definition of "perfect" and I wish people got to know you...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I'll be honest....I've always been ok with being chubby! The only time it gets to me is when I see pretty skinny girls. Everyone likes a skinny girl right. Well I think it's all...
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 12

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    Why? Because, looks aren't everything. A person might be lovely to look at if they're beautiful or sexy, but that doesn't mean that person is kind or sweet. Same goes if you're not...
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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