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I Believe Men Should Be In Charge

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    My Fiance

    Posted May 3rd, 2011 at 10:25PM I have not always been submissive. In fact, I used to be completely the opposite. I was never dominant nesecarily, but I would get rebellious when I was asked to do even the simplest of things. I have been with my fiance for 4 years. And he has...
    LeatherLacey LeatherLacey 22-25, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Our Bdsm Love Affair

    After 59 long years of being in control at all times, making all decisions, and leading the household, I finally discovered a Man who I thought I was going to enter into a "mild" Dom/sub relationship with. He recognized that I was capable and desired so much more. Sometimes...
    OTK3941 OTK3941 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    I truly believe this.

    I think men should lay down the rules and stick to them. I find it a huge turn on when told what to do. So it's a bonus for me. Lol Sometimes I like to be asked but with knowing he is just being nice and I know on the inside is a demand. But I also love to hear "get so and so...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Why A Marriage Works

    In a marriage there should only be one boss. Two bosses in a family just confuses children. I think men should be in charge (if they are a real man - a mans man), they are the less emotional, they make more sound decisions. I don't think it takes any power from me if i let my...
    LD2112 LD2112 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    The Hotel Manager

    On a business trip to Zambia last week, I was greeted by an enthusiastic young Dutch lady, who was managing the hotel I was staying in. She had been on the job only a few weeks, and she was all smiles and laughs, and very friendly and polite. Even though she had taken up a...
    drfessee drfessee 31-35, M Nov 15, 2013

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    Responsibility can't always be shared

    and agreed on. Someone has to lead. Someone has to make the decisions. It's the boy's job. Let them do it.
    Haybaybee Haybaybee 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    I Believe Men Should Be In Charge

    Being in charge means taking responsibility. Expecting women to not nag means undertaking responsibilities oneself, and reassuring them that what you DO offer is sufficient.   In order to maintain masculine authority a man needs to see what has to be done, and then do it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    The Natural Order

    Women has always been looking for the strong man in the pack, and they recognize the strong man by the fact that he doesn't take any crap from the women. That is probably the evolutionary reason why we see more and more women becoming increasingly unhappy when they are in a...
    magistermaximus magistermaximus 26-30, M 6 Responses May 19, 2013

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    Submissive

    I have always had a submissive nature since I can remember, even as a little girl I was always rather passive, going along with what others wanted. So now as a woman I have learned this makes me submissive. And you know what? I would change I thing. I think submission is...
    thisoldroutine thisoldroutine 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Male Guardians

    I was raised in the age of women's lib, and believed much of it at the time, but the more I learn about women, including my experience as a husband and father of a teenage daughter, the more I believe that all women and girls need a male guardian. Women, and our world in general...
    epaster epaster 51-55, M 37 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    When My Husband Is The Master, And I'm The Slave, Things Are Great!

    I've been in regular "normal" relationships, never last. Once I said " I do" to my husband, and a year later I recieved my collar, things are great. When the man feels he is complete control, and in charge, he will do his very best to to the right thing. I as a control freak...
    Nightnoice Nightnoice 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    For Me

    If you have read my other posts, you will understand why had someone told me half of my life ago that I would say this now, I would have freaked out. When I married my husband, I gave myself to him body, mind, and spirit. I took his name because he is the MAN, and I am the...
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    Help Me!

    I need someone to give me permission to pee please. Please give me permission my bladder is so full. Please!
    Littlemisssub Littlemisssub 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Hard To Find

    Been looking for the type of women I am finding on this site for literally years. I was raised in a household where the male was in charge. My father raised me to be a father, husband, and leader. What is missing now is a wife. But not just any women can be a mother and a good...
    Warbandit Warbandit 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 29, 2013

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    Large And In Charge

    I am a firm believe in equal right but in my world I'm the man in charge. I prefer my ladies submissive and willing to please. If I had my way I'd have the 1950's house wife who's a submissive *** **** in the bedroom. I am not sure those ladies exist now a days maybe it's just...
    stblackzz stblackzz 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    The Natural Way Of Things

    But it seems to be slipping away! The 'politically correct' people are trying to force both men and women into roles they're not meant to be in. Men are stronger, often (if not universally), I think often cleverer..it's certain they should be in charge. This is definitely what my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 4, 2013

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    I Need My New Daddy.

    I need my new Daddy.Why do I need him so much? It hurts me to need like this and to feel all alone inside. I know you all can see me and see through me. You know I am nothing but that is because I am alone. If my new Daddy would talk to me and see me and let me be his you would...
    JMint JMint 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    It Is A Man's World

    Women should show deference to all men, treat them with respect and admiration, but above all is her husband. A wife should be in submission to her husband. A wife should never try to control her husband or ever tell him what to do. Her husband should be in control at all times...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    Hey

    Just have to find a man first lol
    ketae ketae 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Thank God For Him

    When i was an independent woman my life was a disaster. Nothing was going right. i tried but i just could pull myself together and make things happen the way they should. Once i found the man of my life, He brought me security and stability. It is a man's place to take charge...
    belong2him belong2him 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    For Selfish Reasons.

    it just makes things easier for me it seems!
    tstreeter tstreeter 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    This is kinda taboo but.

    .. I believe men should be in charge of family affairs. Growing up, me and my mom were always quiet and obedient to my dad and brothers, but that doesn't mean that we just let them do anything. My brothers still got disciplined by my mom and I didn't have to obey my brothers and...
    MileyNova MileyNova 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3

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    Ice Queen

    What a Woman really Desires Most men spend their lives trying to figure out what every woman wants. Sadly if given the opportunity without judgement most women will gladly share their innermost desires regardless of what they are. This is a story about one woman's desires...
    beginer4u2012 beginer4u2012 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 16

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    Like My Grandparents Marriage

    Growing up my Grandpa was always in charge. He was fair and very giving. He loved my Grandma and would have gave her anything she wanted. She respected him as the head if household and did what she knew kept him happy. They called it marriage. Not taken in hand or Domestic...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Sexual Belief System

    Most of my sexual 'beliefs' stem from the simple inherent feeling that men are the naturally dominant gender. Men are dominant -- they're supposed to be dominant. It's that simple. No explanation, no justification. That's just what feels right. (I suppose one could make a case...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 26, 2013

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    True

    A man should be able to do what he wants.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 11, 2013

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    To My Very Core...

    I believe that men should be in charge, to my very core.  I need this from my husband, it makes me feel complete.  It has allowed me to become, who I've always wanted to be.   Jason keeps me on track, he keeps me from sabotaging things.  In past relationships, its been all...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 4 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    Have Any Of The Ladies Here Experienced This And If So What Did You Do?

    For over a month now I have been talking to someone and we have met face to face before but because of his job he has to travel and I haven't seen him in 2 1/2 weeks (but now it is going to be longer because of what happens now.) I was told by him to say something to someone, so...
    cddgirl cddgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Women are mentally incapable of being in charge,

    they are genetically fixed for service to men, and there are no exceptions. The world has turned to waste in the last 100 years as women have wrongly been placed in positions of independence or responsibility. Be true to your purpose, women, be the support to a man you were...
    masterblackrose masterblackrose 70+, M 5 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Your ******* Kidding

    this had to be a joke and any man looking to me to be a sub can go **** themselves
    canadiansappholover canadiansappholover 18-21, F 5 Responses May 1, 2013

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    I love being in control honestly.

    But if I was to come across a man who is trust worthy enough with all aspects of our lives together, I would not taking a chill pill.
    ConfidentLee ConfidentLee 22-25, F 2 Responses May 18

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    Using Myself In The Bathroom

    i have been ordered many times, when my owner knows i need grounding and he is unavailable to use me, to go to the bathroom and do myself...it is good and i am happy he understands me so well
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14, 2012

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    Taken In Hand Relationship

    A Taken In Hand relationship is a wholehearted sexually exclusive marriage in which, to the delight of both spouses, the man actively controls the woman. The degree of control and the way the husband retains control vary from Taken In Hand couple to Taken In Hand couple, but in...
    debasree debasree 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    Yup The Man Is The Boss!

    Men should always be incharge of their women! A woman should always let the man have full control especally during sex. Her boobs, *****, and butt belong to the man and he needs to be allowed to do as he pleases with her body. A woman telling a man no is wrong! She belongs to him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 4, 2013

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    0silence0 0silence0 18-21, F 3 Responses May 23

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10

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    It's a mans job to protect

    and provide and it's a women's job to clean, take care of the man of the house and obey if they choose not to well that's what bottoms where made for.
    strictman2726 strictman2726 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    What I Hope To Give

    I have : • Long brown silky hair to trail over your skin and caress your body, to use in the shower to easy you, to wear in styles that you like and allow you to use my hair as reins and a way of controlling me when you want to ride me, or attach to an anal hook for training or...
    hotlilhiney hotlilhiney 26-30, F 57 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    Even In Absence

    I have been in a relationship with a married man for about two and a half years. He is the only man I have ever met that I would truly feel I could submit to and let be in charge of the decisions in my life. I am also married and we are both quite bound to our marriages. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 20, 2013

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    Letting My Husband Be In Charge

    My husband grew up in a family full of girls (with one brother but many sisters). Of course, in this day age (since he's only 21), and he was not raised in a husband led home, it's taken about a month of telling him he DOES deserve to be treated this way. He DOES deserve to be...
    girvingtree girvingtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Divine Male

    I have come around to see the truth of the Bible's teaching that men are the image of God while women are the image of men. I am in a marriage in which I am required to obey immediately my husband's commands. I have never been so much at peace and so happy as I am now. I think...
    blackbabe30 blackbabe30 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Put Me In My Place

    You can grab my hair and put me in my place. I want to feel a man's strength shoving me to my knees. I want him to tell me to clean the house or cook for him or whatever he wants.
    sweetsubgirl sweetsubgirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I Agree

    All women should be subordinate to man It is her natural situation. Because of that the most of the women enjoys to be humiliated by man, being spitted, choked, pissed, cummed during sex… because they want their men to be powerful and to serve him. Woman's body should be at the...
    beastfucker beastfucker 31-35, M Apr 7, 2013

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    I Believe men Should Be In Charge Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 Nov 28, 2013

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    How Do You Show Your Submission?

    Women, how do you show your submission to your men in everday life? Which is the action that makes you feel a real woman who recognises he's in charge?
    jackdicuori74 jackdicuori74 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    Fluttering Fingers

    He put his fingers inside my **** and fluttered them lightly. I squirmed into them...such a lovely warm wet feeling...sent shivers up my spine and directly into my head. He does so well and i love him inside my head and ****. What a lovely passionate experience moving into his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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