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I Believe Men Should Be In Charge

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,986 People

    yes they should especially in a christain home.

    when i took my wedding vows i promised to honor and obey my husband. he promised to love and cherish me. id say as long as im the obiedant wife i promised to b than he will b the loving husband he promised to be.
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    24 Responses May 18, 2015

    Yes men are meant to be in charge

    but also have to think of theirs multiple men their needs a alpha and beta then the deltas well you don't need them since they are meant to just take over when alpha and beta are missing or are not able to supervise the group due to distractions their is always a clear rule and...
    devilsira devilsira
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 20, 2016

    I am a 18 year old boy growing up in the world

    of feminism. First of let me say **** FEMINISM. Woman are nothing more than a man's slave. They should do what a man wants, when they want it. So woman should not be leading the nation (**** Hillary Clinton) nor leading a company. Instead woman need to stay at home and clean the...
    Dhskz Dhskz
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    This is kinda taboo but.

    .. I believe men should be in charge of family affairs. Growing up, me and my mom were always quiet and obedient to my dad and brothers, but that doesn't mean that we just let them do anything. My brothers still got disciplined by my mom and I didn't have to obey my brothers and...
    MileyNova MileyNova
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014

    To My Very Core...

    I believe that men should be in charge, to my very core.  I need this from my husband, it makes me feel complete.  It has allowed me to become, who I've always wanted to be.   Jason keeps me on track, he keeps me from sabotaging things.  In past relationships, its been all...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho
    22-25, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    The idea of a man in charge gets me excited.

    Just as long as the man deserves to be. I'd love a tall, strong and handsome man making decisions.
    LilMsSubmissive LilMsSubmissive
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    Why is it so hard for girls to just sit back

    and let a man be a man. I believe a man should be in charge of the household and relationship. Our job is to stay home, cook, clean, raise the children, and be's not that hard. Girls that don't want to be obedient should be punished.
    OriginalBarbie OriginalBarbie
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    When I was younger I would have loved at every

    stupid girl saying that. But I have grown up and feel more relaxed now. I always loved my boyfriend, we are together since 4 years but since he started to be in charge our relationship is just so much better.
    warmsummernights warmsummernights
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    I Believe Men Should Be In Charge

    Being in charge means taking responsibility. Expecting women to not nag means undertaking responsibilities oneself, and reassuring them that what you DO offer is sufficient.   In order to maintain masculine authority a man needs to see what has to be done, and then do it...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2010

    Male Guardians

    I was raised in the age of women's lib, and believed much of it at the time, but the more I learn about women, including my experience as a husband and father of a teenage daughter, the more I believe that all women and girls need a male guardian. Women, and our world in general...
    epaster epaster
    56-60, M
    26 Responses Sep 23, 2012

    I love being in control honestly.

    But if I was to come across a man who is trust worthy enough with all aspects of our lives together, I would not taking a chill pill.
    Honorthycurves Honorthycurves
    22-25, F
    May 18, 2014

    What I Hope To Give

    I have : • Long brown silky hair to trail over your skin and caress your body, to use in the shower to easy you, to wear in styles that you like and allow you to use my hair as reins and a way of controlling me when you want to ride me, or attach to an anal hook for training or...
    hotlilhiney hotlilhiney
    26-30, F
    49 Responses Jul 28, 2011

    Many won't agree but personally

    for me I feel it's better to let my dom make the final choice I tend to over analyse my choices and fearing I've made the wrong one. My dom is smarter than me I'm not afraid to admit that and he's not indecisive like me.
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20
    22-25, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    I want to be used hard by men.

    I am property for them to play with
    littlemisspunishedxox littlemisspunishedxox
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2015


    I have always had a submissive nature since I can remember, even as a little girl I was always rather passive, going along with what others wanted. So now as a woman I have learned this makes me submissive. And you know what? I would change I thing. I think submission is...
    thisoldroutine thisoldroutine
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    When I talk about our marriage I often get

    critical responses especially because of the micro management. I think that is rather sad as it neglects my wife's strength and her as a person. No marriage where the wife obeys and submits to her husband can work for several years when it is based on force or threats. All she...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 24, 2015

    Responsibility can't always be shared

    and agreed on. Someone has to lead. Someone has to make the decisions. It's the boy's job. Let them do it.
    Haybaybee Haybaybee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    Some may of been confused about the wolf pack

    symbolic referencing i used well by that I mean like a clear structure the alpha keeps all in line and makes sure the pack is safe and he leads them yes men should be I charge but we should also understand limits and integrity to lead but not be to firm or unfair to be a good...
    devilsira devilsira
    26-30, M
    Feb 22, 2016

    I truly believe this.

    I think men should lay down the rules and stick to them. I find it a huge turn on when told what to do. So it's a bonus for me. Lol Sometimes I like to be asked but with knowing he is just being nice and I know on the inside is a demand. But I also love to hear "get so and so...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    I personally wouldn't mind,

    being in a relationship where my Love is the Head. I wanna belong to someone who can/Will Love, Accept, Respect, Value, Adore, Cherish me, I want to be by his side all day, night, laying, sitting next to his feet, just gazing on him BC he treats me ENDLESS like Iam Grand. I...
    Patricia5577 Patricia5577
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2015

    When My Husband Is The Master, And I'm The Slave, Things Are Great!

    I've been in regular "normal" relationships, never last. Once I said " I do" to my husband, and a year later I recieved my collar, things are great. When the man feels he is complete control, and in charge, he will do his very best to to the right thing. I as a control freak...
    Nightnoice Nightnoice
    41-45, F
    Dec 17, 2012
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    Definitely agree with that.

    I know my place
    HereThereBeMonsters HereThereBeMonsters
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2016

    It's a mans job to protect

    and provide and it's a women's job to clean, take care of the man of the house and obey if they choose not to well that's what bottoms where made for.
    strictman2726 strictman2726
    36-40, M
    Jan 16, 2014

    Fluttering Fingers

    He put his fingers inside my **** and fluttered them lightly. I squirmed into them...such a lovely warm wet feeling...sent shivers up my spine and directly into my head. He does so well and i love him inside my head and ****. What a lovely passionate experience moving into his...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    Amen!!! Just lay back

    and relax and let your man breed all your holes keep you barefoot and pregnant leaking seed all day long and full of his breast milk to drink whenever he pleases, serve him love him and be his c dump!
    WarmMilk4Me WarmMilk4Me
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    this is one of the groups my boyfriend said i

    should be part of. so i'm here to learn.
    Melanie447 Melanie447
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    Men have been in charge

    for thousands of years and look at the current state of the planet.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 18, 2015

    For Me

    If you have read my other posts, you will understand why had someone told me half of my life ago that I would say this now, I would have freaked out. When I married my husband, I gave myself to him body, mind, and spirit. I took his name because he is the MAN, and I am the...
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    Taken In Hand Relationship

    A Taken In Hand relationship is a wholehearted sexually exclusive marriage in which, to the delight of both spouses, the man actively controls the woman. The degree of control and the way the husband retains control vary from Taken In Hand couple to Taken In Hand couple, but in...
    debasree debasree
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2012

    Not Necessarily. I really don't believe one sex

    should have superiority over another. I believe people that people should be able to live as they please and not force their beliefs onto other people. However, I found this rather interesting. We are closely related to the chimpanzees, specifically the species know as the...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    Put Me In My Place

    You can grab my hair and put me in my place. I want to feel a man's strength shoving me to my knees. I want him to tell me to clean the house or cook for him or whatever he wants.
    sweetsubgirl sweetsubgirl
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 13, 2012
    deleted deleted
    May 17, 2015

    I love being submissive to my boyfriend

    and pleasing him any way I can. After all he does for me, he deserves it :)
    deleted deleted
    Sep 26, 2015

    Recently moved in with my boyfriend

    and his 6yo daughter. I am so in love with this man because of how he keeps his house in-order and the amount of respect he demands from us. I believe a true man keeps his home well disciplined.
    IgobyMandy IgobyMandy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2016

    I've created a private,

    safe domestic discipline community on facebook, no aliases or fake names allowed.
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    Mar 20, 2015

    So why can't I find one to put me in my place?

    ?? I am tired of being the one to make decisions. I am tired of feeling like I am 2nd place to my husband. It does not matter what or who is around, neighbors, friends, family, hunting, what ever it is, I am 2nd. I shower every day, do my hair and make up, wear nice clothes...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl
    46-50, F
    8 Responses May 18, 2015

    That's just the way I need it to be.

    I'm quite capable of taking charge myself when necessary though, but for me, the ideal situation is for the man to be in control. I know other people think differently, and I respect that - it's a matter of personal opinion and choice - so don't criticise me for my beliefs, and...
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2014
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    lvycc11 lvycc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 8, 2015
    babyslave17 babyslave17
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    i have married for 3 years now

    and since we decide to bring bdsm into our marriage i put myself in my Hubby's hand. He is the one who is in charge in our marriage even in many cases he orders me to do lots things but still he is the one. he makes working list, schedules and reward punishment. after 3 years...
    suni148 suni148
    41-45, F
    Apr 2, 2015
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