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I Believe Other Lovers Are Not Always "Home Wreckers"

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 302 People

    No Home to Wreck?

    OK, I am prepared to lose  a few friends over this. What if:       The "home" was already on fire and burning down?     Every word the "adulterer" uttered was twisted into an excuse not to come home...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    I Was A 13 Year Old Home Wrecker............

     The man was the father of my two best friends in 7th grade.   His wife found out and was so angry at me !   A child, who was taken advantage of by a 41 year old grown man !   Threatened to sue me for Alienation of Affection.    Now...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 16, 2009

    The Home Is Already Wrecked...

    ...if someone starts looking for another lover. It's not all about sex either.
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    I Believe This To Be True!!!

    I was the lover, but it wasn't always that way, we were very good friends and were there for each other at the worst point of our lives. Helping each other to pick up the pieces and be a stronger person. We became a pillar in each other's lives. As he was going through a tough...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2010


    My first marriage ended when my wife ran off with my sisters boyfriend.  He broke up with my sister so he could **** my wife more often (in our bed no less) and finally she left me so he could **** her all the time.I have read a number of stories where  the man wants...
    gettinsum1 gettinsum1
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2010

    Not Sure I Should Even Comment

    Some, if not most of you, will think I only feel this way because I am the dreaded "other woman" and I couldn't possible understand the damage I do to marriages being the other woman but I'm speaking from conversations I've had with married men; some of which I was/am involved...
    theellewoods theellewoods
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2013

    Home Enhancers

    I have always had a higher sex drive than my wife. This makes our relationship very unbalanced. She does not like me when I am desparate for sex. When I have an girl friend, even if I don't see her very often the balance returns to my home and we are much happier.
    MarkFree MarkFree
    51-55, M
    Sep 22, 2010

    It's All About Consent.

    Really, consent is all that matters. We're adults. We can make that decision. We don't have to listen to a society that says we have to be monogamous or listen when it tells us how our relationship should be. It's ours, it's between the people involved, not outsiders who aren't...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers
    22-25, T
    Nov 4, 2013

    I Am the Other Woman

    i am a 23 yr old woman who is dating a 28 yr old man who is married, we met 5 months ago at a swingers club at first it was just about the sex and now  in the beggining  i was ok with that i have been in **** whole relationships my whole life so i figured why not. i...
    msbrook msbrook
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2009

    Gigolo For Ten Years.

      I was a Gigolo for ten years. My sponsor was a very beautiful and sophisticated upper class lady who had an arrangement with her husband. He had affairs and there only rule was they be kept discrete.    Every one seemed happy with the arrangement. ...
    Dewduster Dewduster
    66-70, M
    11 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    My Wife Dates Other Men

    It's difficult to explain to some the excitation of watching another man united with my wife. A man taking her for his first time is particularly thrilling, not just my the wife, but for me as well. When a guy is inside her, his penile assault drives...
    combook combook
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2009

    Starting Slowly

    Some of my hottest memories are with a married couple I dated for a year and a half. They both enjoyed playing a submissive role in the bedroom, and I prefer the dominant role. This means we had a grand old time kinking it up together. I deeply enjoyed many aspects of this...
    altarcornucopia altarcornucopia
    36-40, M
    Sep 16, 2013

    My View ...

    The concept of cheating on a spouse assumes that once we hook up with a partner, with or without ceremony and official pieces of paper - that we shut ourselves away from all other men or women.  Marriage seeks to tie women and men together for the sake of property and...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    33 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    More and more I'm starting to think we

    as humans were not meant to be monogamous. So another lover would just be there to help a relationship out. Just strictly a physical thing. That's what would help my relationship out.
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2014

    The Home Was Already 'wrecked'

    They weren't even living together. So, no, Im not a home wrecker
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 13, 2009
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