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I Believe People Come Into Your Life For a Reason

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    I have someone who knows everything about me,

    good and bad and we've only know each other a year. .he is my best friend. .I am his. .we bounce ideas off one another. .he is the best. .I just hope he sees this so he knows what he means to me. .
    m4389 m4389 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 18

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    I am around death quite frequently.

    working in a retirement community full of people who are waiting to die doesn't help. so today was my first time to find someone who was unconscious and unresponsive. the lady is 94. I'll find out tomorrow if she is still with us. and it made me think about all the ones I have...
    2batinman 2batinman 46-50, M 1 Response May 14

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    They Come & They Go

    The title speaks for itself. I believe people come into one's life in order to push them to the next level, even if it's only a small favor, when you're down they pick you up, if you need help with the smallest task, you get assistance. Others are there to influence you either...
    Lushiro Lushiro 18-21, M 12 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Milesfromyou Milesfromyou 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 9

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    i am very thankful they do come in my life.

    but why do they leave to?why cant they just stay to in your life,i do believe that god put them in your life to befriend. you .and it is all good.
    muggs45 muggs45 41-45, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I finally made it home totally beating to a

    frazzle I lost 2 dear friends this weekend one to death and one to a mistake in my life wish I could regain a friendship with my friend on here
    clym3378 clym3378 36-40, M 1 Response May 10

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    true love eliminate pain.

    passion may increase pain.
    veganmeditates veganmeditates 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    ' Dear life

    when i said things cant get worse , it was not a challenge . '
    StillVentilate StillVentilate 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    The challenge is knowing

    when to let go of these individuals who crossed your path for a reason, if only for a moment. It's not easy but letting go must sometimes be done. Accept the reason, add the story to the repertoire of your life, and move on down your chronological timeline.
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Monday morning....Dreading the thought of

    having to go back in to work. I already had 2 meetings that I knew of for the day plus a lunch date with some old friends both to catch up and explore possible business opportunities. Was getting ready to make my way off to lunch when I received a whatsapp message from a young...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 25 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Everything merely happens

    for a reason. You have people that become distanced to uncertainties or for a reason but there are times where new people are introduced - there is no such thing as isolation :)
    deadpooled deadpooled 22-25, M 1 Response May 6

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    I do believe they come into your life

    for a reason, I just wish I could figure out the reason. You are an enigma to me. I can not figure out your life, your priorities, your motivation. Just when I feel I have a grasp on you, the logic and reasoning slips through my fingers. From one horrible man to one who is...
    SunAgain SunAgain 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you keep on thinking

    that every person that will come in your life will hurt you(so you stay away), then you'll always have yourself. And if that's the case, I hope you treat yourself right.
    insiignify insiignify 16-17, M 4 Responses May 12

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    An interesting person you have met.

    So a week back, I went to watch the movie Interstellar with one of my friend. As we went to purchase our tickets I felt a tap on my shoulder. I immediately froze and slowly looked behind; there was this guy with a goofy smile on his face and he awkwardly told me hi. I looked to...
    Girlwithbrains Girlwithbrains 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I believe every cross paths is

    for reason. I also believe that for every person that you come in contact with in life you have the choice of Gaining or Losing....Becoming More Or Becoming Less. Divine Deliverance is what I'm speaking on. Most don't understand the whys or reasons for strange encounters...Yet...
    MrKnowledgeable MrKnowledgeable 31-35 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Haters, Crazies, Trolls And Fakes... Can Totally Benefit Us!!

    Nothing bugs me more then to waste a perfectly good day on being all upset about some mean thing someone said. I'm pretty good at avoiding it too but being a flawed Human and all... sometimes I crash and burn right in the middle of some other persons rottenness and yesterday was...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 21 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Take The Good And Forgive The Bad.

    "There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to...
    climber1 climber1 66-70, M 20 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    Each One Leaves Something Different

    There are those who touch your being so gently, that on the sand of your life, the only footprints to be seen are your own. Others trample and stomp so hard, they leave crushed deep footprints, and sand strewn everywhere, and all you can do is wait helplessly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 24 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    Daydreaming2 Daydreaming2 41-45, F Apr 24

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    Maybe not in a cosmic way,

    but simply because we recognize or see something in them that we are longing for. It can be kindness, wisdom, humour, love or whatever else we are yearning to find and can see glimpses of in them. Sometimes they fulfill that need and move on, sometimes we discover we were wrong...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 14 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    People Do Come Into Our Lives For A Reason

    Sometimes, we don't know why they come into and OUT OF our lives, and sometimes we don't find out until many years later when we can look back and finally see the whole painting, instead of just a few pixels. These moments are precious and enlightening and fill you with great...
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 13 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    I need to say something about my mom here.

    my heart is so heavy today I woke up crying :'-(. my mom came into my life when I was 2 months old. she chose to have me despite the Dr's saying that I was a premie baby and would need extra attention and love. she didn't care, she always felt I am the one from the moment they...
    2batinman 2batinman 46-50, M 3 Responses May 10

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    “I no longer believed in the idea of soul

    mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 21 Responses Feb 9

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    last year my wife of 25 years asked

    for a divorce. I was not surprised but still heart broken. I felt as if i would never fall in love again. Then I met someone here on EP, who I fell madly in love with. It didn't work out, but that's ok, I learned that I can love again, that I can survive the heart ache and I can...
    Slartibart Slartibart 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    This morning I woke up not feeling all

    that great.. Tired and bleary eyed. My thoughts were pretty gloomy. Just another day.. But then I read a post on Facebook from a friend who's birthday is today. There were the usual sentiments, thanking others for the birthday wishes and so forth. But then he went on to say how...
    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Some people come into your life in

    such a profound way. Critical things changed to allow each element align, and two people meet in the right time, right place. I want to follow each of these to the end - see where that road leads.
    Elbellzi Elbellzi 36-40, F a week ago

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    I love you because when I look into your eyes I

    can see you're scared shitless, same as me. I can see your scars and I can feel your pain just like I feel my own. I love you because you always leave. You draw me in and then you push me away. You make me so mad I could punch you in the forehead, you love me too though. I know...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I am a firm believer

    that everyone who comes into your life is there for a reason! It may be a simple encounter in the street. It could be a more intimate connection you never expected. Heck, even the people you communicate with here on EP...everyone you meet is there in your life for some reason...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 13 Responses May 14, 2014

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    Some come to stay for

    but a little while, leaving a lasting impression or a gentle lesson, Others come passing like a whirlwind through, destructive, chaotic, and reckless fools... Few are the ones who remain for even the ones who stay one can outgrow as friendship, whittled down by time and...
    Prykat Prykat 26-30, F 4 Responses May 7

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    Hugmybear Hugmybear 46-50, F 18 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    StillVentilate StillVentilate 22-25, F 3 Responses May 8

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    Life Has Seasons

    I was passed 27 years too old..too ugly and fat. Stopped looking at myself too. my husband never wanted to take me to any public placea...I was not in perfect shape :) Then it was the year 2008...my brother send me an invitation to join facebook. Having no one to talk to, I...
    Perksplayhot Perksplayhot 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Some come into your life

    and change you in a profound way. I've been focusing lately on negative aspects of that because it involves heartache but tonight I'm beginning to see that anything, any person that causes your heart to smile is worth the change! To live in the moment is always a blessing!
    joyfulcloudofsorrow joyfulcloudofsorrow 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Communication and spending time together can

    help build a good relationship.... However, understanding our needs can help build a good life !
    KAREEM77 KAREEM77 36-40, M 5 Responses May 14

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    What if we are all props in life's huge movie,

    spontaneously operating to change each others lives by nearly interactions, wether brief or the long haul... used for good or evil depending on the moves of the last person encountered. Outcomes are so random because people's interactions with one another correspond to one...
    foofoo2 foofoo2 36-40, F 5 Responses May 7

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    the world is small, and others do suffer in

    similar as we, therefore I don't believe certain people come into your life for a reason. I think we find that one person by chance and settle. There are others around, look at support groups for example. Don't trick yourself.
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    Consider

    Some people have had tragedy in their lives. Truly hard events that shake their world. But for many the things that hurt us, the things that cause us distress are the smaller things. The things that in the grand scheme of things are small...and perhaps petty. But it's funny how...
    djtiger djtiger 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    And they exit for a reason.

    So don't chase after them. God has a better plan.
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    We may not understand why,

    it may take a long time for the story to unfold. But I do believe that some people are meant to be part of our life, that there is a reason our paths crossed. Sometimes the person is only in our life for a brief moment, but long enough to change us, to make a difference...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    I totaly believe that,

    some may even be angels!
    Elisef Elisef 51-55, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Reason, Season, Lifetime...

    Hi everyone! :-) I'm Antonia - 31 year old teacher in Stockholm, Sweden - originally from swedish speaking region (Ahvenanmaa/Alandia) in Finland. I joined this group just now as I agree with it's title and I expected a link and/or elaborations on the words of wisdom I like very...
    ToniaMV ToniaMV 31-35, F 34 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Everyone can teach us something new.

    We just have to find what it is
    NoPostOnSundays NoPostOnSundays 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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