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I Believe People Come Into Your Life For a Reason

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    Reason, Season, Lifetime...

    Hi everyone! :-) I'm Antonia - 31 year old teacher in Stockholm, Sweden - originally from swedish speaking region (Ahvenanmaa/Alandia) in Finland. I joined this group just now as I agree with it's title and I expected a link and/or elaborations on the words of wisdom I like very...
    ToniaMV ToniaMV 31-35, F 34 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Not sure what the reason is sometimes

    but I am sure there is a reason.
    BeachAngelTami BeachAngelTami 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    An interesting person you have met.

    So a week back, I went to watch the movie Interstellar with one of my friend. As we went to purchase our tickets I felt a tap on my shoulder. I immediately froze and slowly looked behind; there was this guy with a goofy smile on his face and he awkwardly told me hi. I looked to...
    Girlwithbrains Girlwithbrains 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    People can be a blessing

    or a lesson ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
    Ngatt1 Ngatt1 13-15, F Feb 28

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    Dear Positive people Please convert me back

    into being a strong happy positive grateful ambitious person. I've been slacking a bit & lost my ground, and a bit of my confidence. Please share any advice you have. I would appreciate it so much. Thank you.
    FreeSpirit02 FreeSpirit02 18-21, F 20 Responses Mar 16

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    People Do Come Into Our Lives For A Reason

    Sometimes, we don't know why they come into and OUT OF our lives, and sometimes we don't find out until many years later when we can look back and finally see the whole painting, instead of just a few pixels. These moments are precious and enlightening and fill you with great...
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 13 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    This might be the internet

    and not "real life", but there are some people on here that I swear I know better than anyone in my real life. There are some people that just touch my heart. I can feel through their messages to me their true soul. I would be so lost without the love, the laughter and my...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 16 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I believe this. I believe

    that our destinies are already mapped out. People come into our lives and leave if for no reasons other than to make you arrive at your destination, to meet the people you are supposed to meet and make a part of your life. Some will leave because they aren't meant to stay...
    moonlightdancer1967 moonlightdancer1967 46-50, F 28 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 12 Responses Jan 26

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    You came with no announcement,

    no fuss and mass.... I was surprised and welcomed the experience..... I am able to make life out of anything... and you reminded me of that .....Good bye my friend!
    onitaly onitaly 41-45 Feb 28

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    either a blessing, lesson,

    or to show that you are worthy of love.
    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2014

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    Goodiegood Goodiegood 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 25

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    Someone came into my life.

    She was amazing and perfect, but she ended up leaving me after five months. Now that she's gone, I see no discernible difference in my life. It's like she brought a season of great happiness, a season of great sorrow, and now that she's gone she made no difference at all. It's...
    MadAsAHatterXII MadAsAHatterXII 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Maybe not in a cosmic way,

    but simply because we recognize or see something in them that we are longing for. It can be kindness, wisdom, humour, love or whatever else we are yearning to find and can see glimpses of in them. Sometimes they fulfill that need and move on, sometimes we discover we were wrong...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 15 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Each One Leaves Something Different

    There are those who touch your being so gently, that on the sand of your life, the only footprints to be seen are your own. Others trample and stomp so hard, they leave crushed deep footprints, and sand strewn everywhere, and all you can do is wait helplessly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 24 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    h i kath i always look forward to our talks i

    hope these talks are making you feel at ease with rachel she and you nave a great journey of exploration/hope and fulfillment of the hopes and dreams possible available to both of you it is a great journey of discover and will not be easy at times it will one or both to your...
    lenagnes lenagnes 66-70 Mar 14

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    Just Me to be- Again That was a nice

    conversation I don't know where the dishonesty was felt.I am Sorry any way.
    blinkingstarblinking blinkingstarblinking 31-35, M Mar 15

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    My head told me you were gone forever

    when you got married But my heart told me you'd still need ms when you needed to talk Is it very selfish of me to be so glad your heart won out?
    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Hugmybear Hugmybear 46-50, F 18 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    I found out my husband was cheating on me two

    years ago. Shortly after, I began dating someone but broke it off 6 weeks later because it was too soon and I was scared of getting hurt again, although feelings had developed. I've been alone ever since. Ten months ago, here on EP, I responded to some guy's post about being...
    Missgwenxo Missgwenxo 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    I think there is a design to life.

    I don't mean predetermination or anything, but I believe what we do now echoes in eternity. There is a reason man dominates the other species here on Earth. A design. So, people come into your life, and go out of it for a reason.
    Rovigatti Rovigatti 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Everyone Has Something to Teach Us ..

    The following was sent to me at work and I think its just wonderful. It is written by BRIAN  A CHALKER. People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is...
    Orangetas Orangetas 51-55, F 152 Responses Aug 21, 2008

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    Haters, Crazies, Trolls And Fakes... Can Totally Benefit Us!!

    Nothing bugs me more then to waste a perfectly good day on being all upset about some mean thing someone said. I'm pretty good at avoiding it too but being a flawed Human and all... sometimes I crash and burn right in the middle of some other persons rottenness and yesterday was...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 22 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    I am a firm believer

    that everyone who comes into your life is there for a reason! It may be a simple encounter in the street. It could be a more intimate connection you never expected. Heck, even the people you communicate with here on EP...everyone you meet is there in your life for some reason...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 13 Responses May 14, 2014

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    We may not understand why,

    it may take a long time for the story to unfold. But I do believe that some people are meant to be part of our life, that there is a reason our paths crossed. Sometimes the person is only in our life for a brief moment, but long enough to change us, to make a difference...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    They Come & They Go

    The title speaks for itself. I believe people come into one's life in order to push them to the next level, even if it's only a small favor, when you're down they pick you up, if you need help with the smallest task, you get assistance. Others are there to influence you either...
    Lushiro Lushiro 18-21, M 18 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    A friend shared a song with me from their

    teenage years, a song that inspired them, that lead them in a direction in life.Then they asked me to share a song from my younger days…………..what (panic setting in)??!! I was so caught up and touched by their story…...nothing came to mind at...
    dancingWATERz dancingWATERz 51-55, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I also believe ppl leave

    for a reason! I just ended my affair recently, or he ended it for me but if it weren't for that I would have never found the wonderful man I am talking to now! One chapter ends and another begins! The universe knows what it's doing you just have to have patience and trust in the...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    People are merely a bunch of atoms

    and cells that replicate a pattern over and over again to form this body called you. But you are not the same you tomorrow as you are now. In 7 years every single part of you is replaced by new atoms and cells. Yet we still hold this recognisable pattern, our face, our name, our...
    R0GUE R0GUE 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Life Has Seasons

    I was passed 27 years too old..too ugly and fat. Stopped looking at myself too. my husband never wanted to take me to any public placea...I was not in perfect shape :) Then it was the year 2008...my brother send me an invitation to join facebook. Having no one to talk to, I...
    Perksplayhot Perksplayhot 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    Bad or Good people come in your life to teach

    you something. The lessons we learn from our relationships help us grow as a person.
    dean70 dean70 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Its just randomness how you could go all day,

    hoping to run into someone you really wanna see and talk too. With knowing the chances are super slim that you will see that person. Still your hopeful. And when you finally give up on that idea. There they appear infront of you out of nowhere....Is It A Sign?
    xHI5x xHI5x 22-25 5 Responses Mar 8

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    I dont know What is life,

    i just know that i am here and i have consciousness. I thank for this creator universe that gave me the gift of existence and reality. I will live my whole life contemplating this mistery and miracle, nothing more i've got to do. This should be the main focus of people's lives...
    DiegoSMarinho DiegoSMarinho 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Isn't That The Beauty Of Life?

    When you least expect it people come into your life. Some stay, some go, but you can't deny that if you watch and listen closely, many will have a profound impact on your life. The best are the ones who stay for the long haul and begin to understand the darkest crevices of your...
    privatelyanonymous privatelyanonymous 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    True thing, some people come & teach you few

    things & some people come into your life to learn something from you :)
    TherRock90 TherRock90 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    And they exit for a reason.

    So don't chase after them. God has a better plan.
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    There are times in your life

    when your path crosses with someone who is exactly what you were looking for. Another person who knows who you need them to be to bring out your own best you. I am lucky enough to have someone that makes me better, SOMEONE who I belong to. Than you Sir.
    SouthernBelle81 SouthernBelle81 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    They came for a reason,

    they left for one too.. moments are built for the reasons to emerge, and the reasons are destined to show us the real picture of life.. the infinite wisdom.. but live the moment while the moment is dancing with you, as moment came with such grace and sweetness.. when you're...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 6 Responses Mar 3

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    last year my wife of 25 years asked

    for a divorce. I was not surprised but still heart broken. I felt as if i would never fall in love again. Then I met someone here on EP, who I fell madly in love with. It didn't work out, but that's ok, I learned that I can love again, that I can survive the heart ache and I can...
    Slartibart Slartibart 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    Me Being Me

    It may be an online meeting or a soul you bump into at a store. But I honestly believe that I carry a little part of everone I've ever met with me daily. Its gotten me through tough times or maybe just given me a smile or a laugh. But I can never say that anyone I've met is not...
    MobiusStorm MobiusStorm 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    some stay, and some leave

    as quickly as they came into it. I have been here just a very short time. most all here seem pretty real. we all know if we have been here it's also a breeding ground for psycho's. so I shared an experience and someone had to make it their own and rant about the crap in their...
    smillyboy smillyboy 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Nightdude55 Nightdude55 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Are there any woman in my age group

    that live in or near Stratford Ontario that would like to chat??
    Tufster65 Tufster65 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 21

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    “I no longer believed in the idea of soul

    mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 22 Responses Feb 9

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    Milesfromyou Milesfromyou 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 9

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    My niece, Sarah is one of those people.

    I was so shocked when I got a call from my sister, Gemma's husband that she had arrived. On my birthday, none the less. And I was even more surprised that Gemma and David named her Sarina, after me. It was the best birthday gift I have ever gotten.She was always so sweet, but...
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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