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I Believe Sex Should Always Be Consensual

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    No Means No

    Sex should never ever be forced. Thats a major no no. It hurts my heart to hear about the the women that get raped because some guy's gotta have it. How do you even do something like that? I could never imagine forcing myself onto a woman. Sometimes I still having trouble taking...
    groundshaker groundshaker 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Consensual Sex...

    Is the only real sex to have, one where it is meaningful and connected. Where you can enjoy the moment and the time together. It is possibly the best sex out there where you can give yourself to your partner and she to you full and open. She can tell you what she wants with out...
    Michael820 Michael820 41-45, M Dec 1, 2012

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    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Not Just Sex Itself. Conversations of a sexual

    nature should also be consensual, especially on EP.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jan 30

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    No Is No

    WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO TO SEX THAT MEENS THEY DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY SAY STOP THEY MEEN STOP NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SAY IT MORE THEN ONCE I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 14 I SAID NO AND I SAID STOP BUT IT NEVER STOPED SO IF YOU ARE TOLD TO STOP OR NO THAT SHOULD BE THE END OF IT...
    PROUDGRANDMAOF6 PROUDGRANDMAOF6 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    Another Poem About My Rape:(

    i took the shaky weapon and i shot me in the head it musta took some courage to wind up somewhat dead you see events transpired that i took very badly didnt take too long to sadly wildly shag me you saw french-kissing ***** wanting to lick your wanton stick you felt my...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    A L W A Y S !

    Plain and simple, rape is a crime.Sex should always be consensual with adults or late teens. No beasts or children because they are unable to give knowledgeable consent. Sex is a celebration of life, so do it sensually with someone who enjoys you.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 Jan 18, 2013

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    This is most important.

    I'm all for having a good time but even fantasies require consent at some point beforehand.
    timsmith88 timsmith88 26-30, M Dec 18

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    If I have to "force" myself on someone,

    what's the point? It wouldn't feel good to me and obviously wouldn't feel good to her. Kind of the same principle about meeting women in bars. If they have to be intoxicated to find me desirable, that hurts almost as bad as being straight-out rejected.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 11, 2013

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    Consent is probably the most important part of

    living my lifestyle. Everything from what names to call, how and when I can touch, sex, and what kind of sex. Everything needs to be consensual.
    PoliteDeviance PoliteDeviance 31-35, M Dec 18

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    I Said "no"

    I was hangin out w/a few friends of mine at my place having a few drinks. 1 by 1 people started to leave. A couple of my friends decided they wanted to stay over because they had drunk so much, I didn't mind because they're my friends and I want them to be safe. I lived alone so...
    2012TheN 2012TheN 26-30, M Nov 11, 2012

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    Some women feel proud of themselves for paying services rendered to them or goods they buy with sexual favours to men who render those services... It seems it is something nice...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have had the biggest crush on my brother in law (husbands brother) for the longest time now. It's not something I want to pursue, it just feels good to flirt and play around with...
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      I'm new to this, so this is my first post, my marriage is failing and I'm on the verge of separation, things haven't been right with my wife for a long time, we used to be...
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    Pennylane04 Pennylane04 26-30, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Im frustrated as in a sexless relationship, soon to be splitting up from as I have a girlfriend i want to be with, who sends me sexy pics of herself while im at work, then im hard...
    stevehollis stevehollis 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    A beautiful woman is someone who believes in herself. She has this amazing wit and personality. She is overflowing and oozing with sexuality and yet doesn't really intend to act on...
    MsDemeanorMe MsDemeanorMe 31-35, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So I'm 17. I've ALWAYS been turned on by middle aged men. I thinks it's the fact that they have more sexual (I guess) experience than I do. I absolutely love the thought of an...
    RaynaRoseChildGrim RaynaRoseChildGrim 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Since high school, my friends had always been prettier than me. They fix their hair cutely and put on some powder every now and then. But then there I was, powders once a day and...
    ayamesan16 ayamesan16 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 8 Responses Dec 18

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    I'm a pretty shallow person I guess, but I think looks are important, not just personality. I've always found older men to be super attractive, almost dangerously sexy, and when I...
    indecisivewitch indecisivewitch 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Talking about your sex life is disrespectful for your partner.
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    'A man's weakness and strength, purity and impurity, are his own, and not another man's; they are brought about by himself, and not by another; and they can only be altered by...
    Philonous Philonous 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    A few times here in Norway, and once in England when visiting a beach in Hampshire with my long ex boyfriend there. It's almost always more satisfying because of the public nature...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    Matthew Chapter 13. The chapter starts really nicely Jesus went out and sat by the sea! I like to go out for walks, I enjoy walking in fields and woodland. I also like sitting by...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 16 hrs ago

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    I want to be introduced to K9 sex by other women! I am completely fascinated by the idea of large dogs and sex and the differences between how they have sex compared to guys. They...
    ilianbi ilianbi 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I haven't said my bedtime prayers in a long time. Im sorry Jesus. I've been so busy. I'm gonna go back to my prayers. I have so much to pray about. I believe He hears me when I...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I believe in my lord God and I believe in the son of God Jesus Christ who died for our sins. I don't know about you but I go to church every Sunday to praise and worship lord God...
    SoulofLight SoulofLight 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Hi everyone, I guess I'm a refuser, and I found this forum because my partner has told me about how she's been reading these postings for solidarity. She says that when I touch...
    badger2blue badger2blue 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    YES, I WANT YOUR OPINION. ;) ...It seems to me that by the time most people get here, we are at the point of ranting...or, at least, to the peak of frustration. Today, right now...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I have always believed in true love, realizing my soulmate was out there somewhere at age 12! Everyone one knew my search for him while growing up. I imagined what he would be like...
    Moonstar7 Moonstar7 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I totally believe in this one. The success of being married is working together, communicating and being contented that you have each other back. My husband cheated on me for years...
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F Nov 29

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    Yes; a man got up the courage to report me, a woman. It hurt my feelings. A few years later, he says to my mother, "she's taking it personally." He's not supposed to talk to me...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Anyone want to be friends? I already have a boyfriend and I don't want any friends who send me inappropriate messages. Just actual people I can talk to! I didn't join this site to...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Alright - I've got quite a story here. I have just recently met my biological grandmother for the first time. She has a mental illness - schizophrenia, among other small things...
    7Questions 7Questions 16-17, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    You can say what you want, I believe no one is an accident and were born into this world for a purpose... No matter what that reason is
    monaroyalty monaroyalty 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    I believe however I am starting to doubt my faith.
    Callistowed Callistowed 16-17, M 7 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am a femanist and proud of but I hate radical feminists because they give famanism a bad name. True famanists believe in equality for BOTH genders.
    mwiltshire mwiltshire 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Because He is a Good God...... Lord, help me to trust that You are a good God no matter what is going on in my life. Help me to believe without any doubting that even if bad...
    sunnycaramelo sunnycaramelo 46-50, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I believe that there is more than one soul mate you can have . It doesn't have to be romance.
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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