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I Believe Sex Should Always Be Consensual

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    Plain and simple, rape is a crime.Sex should always be consensual with adults or late teens. No beasts or children because they are unable to give knowledgeable consent. Sex is a celebration of life, so do it sensually with someone who enjoys you.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 Jan 18, 2013

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    Not Just Sex Itself. Conversations of a sexual

    nature should also be consensual, especially on EP.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jan 30

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    I Said "no"

    I was hangin out w/a few friends of mine at my place having a few drinks. 1 by 1 people started to leave. A couple of my friends decided they wanted to stay over because they had drunk so much, I didn't mind because they're my friends and I want them to be safe. I lived alone so...
    2012TheN 2012TheN 26-30, M Nov 11, 2012

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    Another Poem About My Rape:(

    i took the shaky weapon and i shot me in the head it musta took some courage to wind up somewhat dead you see events transpired that i took very badly didnt take too long to sadly wildly shag me you saw french-kissing ***** wanting to lick your wanton stick you felt my...
    vvhimper vvhimper 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Consensual Sex...

    Is the only real sex to have, one where it is meaningful and connected. Where you can enjoy the moment and the time together. It is possibly the best sex out there where you can give yourself to your partner and she to you full and open. She can tell you what she wants with out...
    Michael820 Michael820 41-45, M Dec 1, 2012

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    Forced Sex Isn't Right!

    I remember the first time I was forced into a sex act. It wasn't good at all... very demeaning, belittling. I didn't think I'd ever get over it but I realized I had to live through it and move on. I was a very young 13 yrs old and was forced to suck my lifetime (at that time...
    hbud055 hbud055 56-60, M Dec 22, 2012

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    Sex Should Always Be Consensual

    idc weather ur a man or a woman u should never feel pressured or uncomfortable with whomever ur with just remember "NO MEANS NO"
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Wish

    How I wish that some ep members are actually living in the philippines
    Arjayb Arjayb 51-55, M Nov 21, 2013

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    No Means No

    Sex should never ever be forced. Thats a major no no. It hurts my heart to hear about the the women that get raped because some guy's gotta have it. How do you even do something like that? I could never imagine forcing myself onto a woman. Sometimes I still having trouble taking...
    groundshaker groundshaker 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 10, 2013

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    No Is No

    WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO TO SEX THAT MEENS THEY DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY SAY STOP THEY MEEN STOP NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SAY IT MORE THEN ONCE I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 14 I SAID NO AND I SAID STOP BUT IT NEVER STOPED SO IF YOU ARE TOLD TO STOP OR NO THAT SHOULD BE THE END OF IT...
    PROUDGRANDMAOF6 PROUDGRANDMAOF6 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    If I have to "force" myself on someone,

    what's the point? It wouldn't feel good to me and obviously wouldn't feel good to her. Kind of the same principle about meeting women in bars. If they have to be intoxicated to find me desirable, that hurts almost as bad as being straight-out rejected.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 11, 2013

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    I truly believe Sex is pretty much like Music. They have to take you from the terrestrial to the celestial . If they don't , they are just useless, senseless , crass activities...
    rahulblr rahulblr 36-40, M Aug 19

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    I think kids get a lot of hangups about sex from society as a whole. They're told it's dirty, something they should be afraid of. It's a parent's job to push past all of that and...
    tienteaser tienteaser 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    How should sex education be taught at the house ? I mean is it all verbal or shown?
    jbeaver975 jbeaver975 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Have many girls on had sex ed that begins at home? How old were you when it started?
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Any girls ever been taught about sex by their parents, inbox me
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Have any girls ever been taught with hands on at home with parents?
    jbeaver975 jbeaver975 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I truly believe that a woman's purpose in life to go get pregnant often by her man. There is nothing better for me to get pregnant often my man. I absolutely love being pregnant...
    heatherinarizona heatherinarizona 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    you can fool some people sometime, but u can't fool ALL people all the time.In the past, media was only with those who have power and influence, the used it to guide societies to...
    Correctionway Correctionway 31-35, M Aug 6

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    Actually it's my ex. We remained as friends. Every time he calls me, something related to sex always pops up, and it's annoying. He's had sex many times, with many women, and I...
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    "Consensual sex" is just sex. To say that implies that there is such a thing as "non consensual sex", which there isn’t. That’s rape. That is what it needs to be called. There...
    Laur3n Laur3n 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 30

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    I am always thinking about sex. If only I was having sex now.
    petstrains petstrains 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Inspired by the conversation i had earlier There is NO scenario where rape is right. And rape is every act where someone is assaulted without their verbal consent. If the girl...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F Aug 10

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    i believe in all kinds of chemistry , it just strikes with someone and some people just repel .....
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Almost two months ago, I had THE moment when life hit me in the head with a brick. A rude inconsiderate comment the STBX made to something I said when he and I were having a...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm not sure what it is. I don't define because I don't want to. It makes things complicated, like if I tell you right off the bat that I like guys, girls, non-binaries you can't...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Should I panic when my wife of two years marriage start demanding I use condom before sex? In between I have never cheated on her and she has not caught me in any silly act.
    jydorydo jydorydo 26-30, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Whenever I'm horny, I'm always up for anything. I'm straight but I get the urge to do many things that I wouldn't usually think of doing
    deany311 deany311 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    I heard yesterday that you make a 1st impression on someone within the 0.33 of a second. One way to make a good impression is to smile. I realize we all have our fair share of...
    SirLaughalots SirLaughalots 36-40, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    How did this happen? Where did I go wrong? I made every effort to keep my teen happy but with discipline too. Always showed them love and affection. Why would my teen mumble the...
    ImFoolish ImFoolish 41-45, F 8 hrs ago

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    I was going to high school a while after we moved into the old brownstone when my mother decided to let me take the bedroom on the third floor and gave the other room to my brother...
    Anrymci Anrymci 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    In over 40 years of being involved in Christianity IV noticed that there has always been a battle raging between the fundamentalists ( the unintelligent ) and the more liberal...
    ardentizzy ardentizzy 61-65, M 8 Responses 1 hr ago

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    PLEASE PLEASE READ THIS TOO!!!Because of the number of people who have read and responded to my previous post, I've decided to add an addendum to my initial story. I am quoting...
    medicalimpossibility medicalimpossibility 36-40 Aug 1

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    i want sex ,but it's only because i have not done enough t ,i did just twice ...but i can't do with every lady ..i can think about them ,can fantasy but i can't in real ... lol i...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    Well I believe that Their has to be a after life after Death, we can't just die and that's it, were gone for good. I Believe in God because he is the Lord of Love, he loves us all...
    MaryBek MaryBek 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    How do you know if someone really believes in God? Not by what they say, but by what they do. When Moses announced a hailstorm, the Egyptians who believed in God rushed to get...
    brinahU brinahU 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I had a tumultuous childhood and probably should have not even survived several times except by some sort of miracle, or paranormal influence. Every home I went to, there always...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I told my husband I would like to have sex. It's been over 4 months since the last time. He picked a fight and is not talking to me now. Took me a day to link it to me asking for...
    dyingalittleeveryday dyingalittleeveryday 41-45, F 23 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Letter from Diane in Duluth Several of my friends are involved sexually. They kid me because I'm still a virgin. Is premarital sex wrong?
    brinahU brinahU 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    We have often talked about having a young (but of legal age) au pair. She would undertake the normal roles of an au pair, but part of her role would be to sexually satisfy us...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 6 hrs ago

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    I don't believe in it. However in some ways I do. I don't believe you can automatically be in love with someone just by looking at them, you don't even know the person. Sure, you...
    BoLostTheSheep BoLostTheSheep 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Hello everyone. I've not been here in over a year. If you read my other two post then I can tell you that nothing has changed. Same S different day as they say. It is now my...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 14 Responses Aug 6

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    Moving on: I am packing up my office and my home this week. I am moving out of state and starting a new job. ( I have posted part of this update a little earlier.) But a posting...
    katzlaw katzlaw 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    My parents divorced when I was 7. About the time i got married (26) I learned that my father rejected my mother sexually once she became a mother. He had an affair and she divorced...
    Butitsallovernow Butitsallovernow 46-50, M 7 Responses Aug 8

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    Oh Boy....for those who still don't believe that their deal is toast....here's a good read for ya. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/12/breakup-signs-_n_5649458.html...
    lycheechan lycheechan 31-35, F 13 Responses Aug 13

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    I don't think I believe in love at first sight. And I think that before there is love there is almost always a sexual desire that draws you closer to the person, not love. Does...
    meloDed meloDed 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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