I Believe Sex Should Always Be Consensual

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    I Said "no"

    I was hangin out w/a few friends of mine at my place having a few drinks. 1 by 1 people started to leave. A couple of my friends decided they wanted to stay over because they had drunk so much, I didn't mind because they're my friends and I want them to be safe. I lived alone so...
    2012TheN 2012TheN
    26-30, M
    Nov 11, 2012

    Never ever ever force another

    for sex or anything else. That just goes below being human.
    69thAvenue 69thAvenue
    56-60, M
    Aug 13, 2015

    No Means No

    Sex should never ever be forced. Thats a major no no. It hurts my heart to hear about the the women that get raped because some guy's gotta have it. How do you even do something like that? I could never imagine forcing myself onto a woman. Sometimes I still having trouble taking...
    groundshaker groundshaker
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    Otherwise it's not sex,

    it's rape. This shouldn't even need to be said but apparently it does.
    MxAlex MxAlex
    13-15, T
    1 Response Nov 13, 2015
    rsb97080 rsb97080
    41-45, M
    Dec 10, 2013

    If I have to "force" myself on someone,

    what's the point? It wouldn't feel good to me and obviously wouldn't feel good to her. Kind of the same principle about meeting women in bars. If they have to be intoxicated to find me desirable, that hurts almost as bad as being straight-out rejected.
    rsb97080 rsb97080
    41-45, M
    Dec 11, 2013

    Not Just Sex Itself. Conversations of a sexual

    nature should also be consensual, especially on EP.
    HStoner HStoner
    51-55, M
    Jan 30, 2014

    If someone is crying

    and begging for it to stop. How is it enjoyable ? I can only have fun when I look at whoever I'm with and can see their enjoyment
    TheDevilsSon666 TheDevilsSon666
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    It should always be consensual never against

    someones will, even in role play all should agree
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    3 Responses Jan 31

    No Is No

    WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO TO SEX THAT MEENS THEY DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY SAY STOP THEY MEEN STOP NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SAY IT MORE THEN ONCE I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 14 I SAID NO AND I SAID STOP BUT IT NEVER STOPED SO IF YOU ARE TOLD TO STOP OR NO THAT SHOULD BE THE END OF IT...
    PROUDGRANDMAOF6 PROUDGRANDMAOF6
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2012

    A L W A Y S !

    Plain and simple, rape is a crime.Sex should always be consensual with adults or late teens. No beasts or children because they are unable to give knowledgeable consent. Sex is a celebration of life, so do it sensually with someone who enjoys you.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid
    36-40
    Jan 18, 2013

    I lost my virginity being date-raped in my

    senior year of high school, my first time underage at a club in Quebec City. I never wanted to lose it in a one night stand, and I especially never thought that what happened would happen to me. It leaves you feeling hurt and alone, and I couldn't understand why anyone would go...
    JessieRose6 JessieRose6
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 30, 2015

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