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I Believe Sex Should Always Be Consensual

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    Sex Should Always Be Consensual

    idc weather ur a man or a woman u should never feel pressured or uncomfortable with whomever ur with just remember "NO MEANS NO"
    sweetpea053190 sweetpea053190 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Forced Sex Isn't Right!

    I remember the first time I was forced into a sex act. It wasn't good at all... very demeaning, belittling. I didn't think I'd ever get over it but I realized I had to live through it and move on. I was a very young 13 yrs old and was forced to suck my lifetime (at that time...
    hbud055 hbud055 56-60, M Dec 22, 2012

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    Wish

    How I wish that some ep members are actually living in the philippines
    Arjayb Arjayb 51-55, M Nov 21, 2013

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    I Said "no"

    I was hangin out w/a few friends of mine at my place having a few drinks. 1 by 1 people started to leave. A couple of my friends decided they wanted to stay over because they had drunk so much, I didn't mind because they're my friends and I want them to be safe. I lived alone so...
    2012TheN 2012TheN 26-30, M Nov 11, 2012

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    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 10, 2013

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    If I have to "force" myself on someone,

    what's the point? It wouldn't feel good to me and obviously wouldn't feel good to her. Kind of the same principle about meeting women in bars. If they have to be intoxicated to find me desirable, that hurts almost as bad as being straight-out rejected.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M Dec 11, 2013

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    A L W A Y S !

    Plain and simple, rape is a crime.Sex should always be consensual with adults or late teens. No beasts or children because they are unable to give knowledgeable consent. Sex is a celebration of life, so do it sensually with someone who enjoys you.
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 Jan 18, 2013

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    Another Poem About My Rape:(

    i took the shaky weapon and i shot me in the head it musta took some courage to wind up somewhat dead you see events transpired that i took very badly didnt take too long to sadly wildly shag me you saw french-kissing ***** wanting to lick your wanton stick you felt my...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    No Means No

    Sex should never ever be forced. Thats a major no no. It hurts my heart to hear about the the women that get raped because some guy's gotta have it. How do you even do something like that? I could never imagine forcing myself onto a woman. Sometimes I still having trouble taking...
    groundshaker groundshaker 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Not Just Sex Itself. Conversations of a sexual

    nature should also be consensual, especially on EP.
    HStoner HStoner 51-55, M Jan 30

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    No Is No

    WHEN SOMEONE SAYS NO TO SEX THAT MEENS THEY DO NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY SAY STOP THEY MEEN STOP NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SAY IT MORE THEN ONCE I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 14 I SAID NO AND I SAID STOP BUT IT NEVER STOPED SO IF YOU ARE TOLD TO STOP OR NO THAT SHOULD BE THE END OF IT...
    PROUDGRANDMAOF6 PROUDGRANDMAOF6 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    Consensual Sex...

    Is the only real sex to have, one where it is meaningful and connected. Where you can enjoy the moment and the time together. It is possibly the best sex out there where you can give yourself to your partner and she to you full and open. She can tell you what she wants with out...
    Michael820 Michael820 41-45, M Dec 1, 2012

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    I truly believe Sex is pretty much like Music. They have to take you from the terrestrial to the celestial . If they don't , they are just useless, senseless , crass activities...
    rahulblr rahulblr 36-40, M Aug 19

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    I think kids get a lot of hangups about sex from society as a whole. They're told it's dirty, something they should be afraid of. It's a parent's job to push past all of that and...
    tienteaser tienteaser 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    How should sex education be taught at the house ? I mean is it all verbal or shown?
    jbeaver975 jbeaver975 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 13

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    Have many girls on had sex ed that begins at home? How old were you when it started?
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Any girls ever been taught about sex by their parents, inbox me
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M Aug 24

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    Have any girls ever been taught with hands on at home with parents?
    jbeaver975 jbeaver975 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I truly believe that a woman's purpose in life to go get pregnant often by her man. There is nothing better for me to get pregnant often my man. I absolutely love being pregnant...
    heatherinarizona heatherinarizona 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    you can fool some people sometime, but u can't fool ALL people all the time.In the past, media was only with those who have power and influence, the used it to guide societies to...
    Correctionway Correctionway 31-35, M Aug 6

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 16 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I believe that it takes a lot of patience to continue to feel ignored, feel less then a equal partner, and not have our sexual desires fulfilled. I believe that marriage is a...
    kay0122 kay0122 46-50, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Inspired by the conversation i had earlier There is NO scenario where rape is right. And rape is every act where someone is assaulted without their verbal consent. If the girl...
    ThatBlueOwl ThatBlueOwl 16-17, F Aug 10

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    Well, I hope the third discussion about our state of non-sexual married life is the charm. The first talk resulted in a short spurt of Saturday morning efforts that petered out...
    debbiedee623 debbiedee623 51-55, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I truly believe that holding hands is the most intimate thing you can do. You will kiss a one night stand, you will sleep with a one night stand but unless their is a connection...
    Tealonly Tealonly 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure what it is. I don't define because I don't want to. It makes things complicated, like if I tell you right off the bat that I like guys, girls, non-binaries you can't...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I believe they share a bond and connection that will create chaos if one of them is disobeyed or destroyed. No matter what region you're from, how you dress, your nationality...
    untitledboy untitledboy 13-15, M 18 hrs ago

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    10 BETTER BODY AFFIRMATIONS 1. Your body is in flux for the rest of your life. Think of your body as fluid instead of static — it’s always going to change. So get comfortable...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Yes! I have internet friends :) they are from Dubai and Japan :) the three of us are really close :) i am from the Philippines. I met my friend from Dubai through a mutual friend...
    tsukiyomi07 tsukiyomi07 18-21, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Live with my roomate, we are always in our underwear and think it would be sexy to explore with eachother. Grab and suck his **** would be fun
    user225822 user225822 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    "For Better or For Worse" I have been thinking about this particular vow. As someone who was brought up from birth in the church, I was always taught that divorce is not optional...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I recently got a little naughty with her and she responded positively. We have been married 38 years, but the last 5 were sexless and we separated. She is coming back into town...
    Kasper1826 Kasper1826 61-65, M 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    As long as they are of legal age and it's consensual date away!
    justaguy3515 justaguy3515 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    ... But I am no longer a weekly church attendee as I had been raised and I don't think I ever will be. My parents and younger sister and their black and white beliefs and...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I disagree that everyone should believe in God. I believe that it does not matter if someone believes that there is a God as long as one believes in something. In my opinion, as...
    AlliterationAnonymous AlliterationAnonymous 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    The extent to which I do and do not believe in God is a 50/50 thing in my eyes, mainly because I believe in reincarnation and other dimensions. To all religious people, I do...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 5 hrs ago

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    I have always had a problem with the Christian idea of heaven , I don't understand how it could be a perfect place ? What exactly will anyone do in a perfect place ? If it's...
    mickyfin mickyfin 61-65, M 17 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Impossible It's been four months since I graduated from College yet I still don't have a job, while majority of my friends and batch mate who graduated in our university are now...
    camille18 camille18 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    After I brought my first baby home from giving birth, I had laid her down in her crib and set up the baby monitor and went into the living room with my best friend and we just...
    dandylions4 dandylions4 22-25, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Hold-on here! I stand corrected! I am living and learning that this quote, these words are not always true!!!! I have met many souls that "act" and if this or that is true. The...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    It it always ****** me off when i get judged from what she i am rather from what experience i have. We are in a time where a 5 year old can use an iPad better then a 21 year old...
    hmoussa hmoussa 18-21, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I feel lke i am so annoying.. And i sometimes tell them and they say no of course not but i dont believe them and because im a very woried person all the time ask them again or...
    ep1093 ep1093 13-15, F 31 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Yes so much!!! In summer school I was friends with a boy and ppl always thought we lover eatch other :/
    forders forders 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I had a tumultuous childhood and probably should have not even survived several times except by some sort of miracle, or paranormal influence. Every home I went to, there always...
    dannygirl89 dannygirl89 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Me and my girlfriend had been dating for like a few months and we decided we both wanted to have sex blah blah. She was about to have the house to herself one night because her mom...
    Adilluminati Adilluminati 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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