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I Believe Spanking Is a Perfectly Fine Way of Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,010 People

    Yep ! We Should Be Spanked More Not Less

    Well maybe I shouldnt be spanked more because I get plenty already !! Had it since I was 9 or so (mid teen now).  It is brilliant - way better than shouting or grounding or stuff.  If I deserve it I just go and fetch the slipper and they spank my bottom, not nastily or...
    rachaelhughesuk rachaelhughesuk 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    A while ago I had to reintroduce spankings

    for my daughter Isabell (14). She was disobedient, had begun to smoke cigarettes, was wearing slutty clothes at school und spoke with me in an inappropriate manner. It was a pretty big step for me as i didn't want to consider myself as a strict mom. I also was a bit worried...
    Madeleine79 Madeleine79 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 16

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    But these days I would only recommend it

    for adults and for adults who choose that because it is good for them.
    peejaycee peejaycee 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    He Who Sineth Against the Bottom,

    Shalt Reapeth Fire on His bottom! My sister faith is two years older than me. As a child, at least on the surface, she was that proverbial goodie goodie that pleased her parents, but beneath the surface, a little devil who schemed against my bottom, often with success. Once...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    I believe in spanking

    and see nothing wrong with it at all. I was spanked periodically as a child. It did not destroy my way of life. In fact, it made me a better person when I was disciplined. If parents really loved their kids then they would discipline them with a few whacks on the backside...
    boobsandbrains boobsandbrains 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 9

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    You will say this experience is a fiction.

    It surely is not. It happened precisely as it is described below:I was in the second year at the university. As it usually happens to a 22-year-old college student escaped from a strict parental control, the parties came one after another, with girls, drinks, and fun. You...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 20

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    This was just one of those days back in the mid

    20th century.It happened on just about every street in every town or city in the part of the country where I grew up.This shows the progression of spankings on this day from the hand, then a slipper, then to the hairbrush, and finally the mom is using the wooden spoon. ...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I Was Spanked, And I'm Proud Of It!

    There were three of us kids in our household, complete with a mother and father who loved us more than anything in this world. We respected them, never acted out in public (and I can tell you right now, if we disrespected them or acted out, we knew what would happen next), and...
    Finesse00 Finesse00 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    An Innovative Spanking Implement Once,

    when our family was out horseback riding, I was acting up with my sisters. My parents repeatedly warned us to improve our behavior, or our bottoms would be sorry. Unfortunately, I crossed the line and was told to dismount from my horse for a spanking. My mom took me back into...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Mircea and I talked a long time about our

    corporal punishments. We were about 12 years old when we broached for the first time this delicate subject and to our surprise we found that the rules at our homes were totally different.In my case, while I was a child, my grandfather was he who was in charge with my punishments...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Apr 21

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    AND SO DOES THIS JUDGE IN CALIFORNIA - WITH AN

    ENDORSEMENT OF THE WOODEN SPOONJanuary 22, 2014, 4:26 amSAN JOSE, Calif. (AP) — A California court has sided with a mother who was placed on a state child abuse database after spanking her 12-year-old daughter.The mother, Veronica Gonzalez, was reported for child abuse...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I was spanked by my spirtual mother

    for telling my cousin i hated him, and she whipped my *** for 6 hours.
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 5

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10

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    To Spank, or Not to Spank…That is the

    Question!!! I'm at a total loss for what to do with my 16 year old daughter, Chloe. The last few months, I have seen an overall decline in her behavior, and an increasing standoffish attitude. My wife and I have tried to get to the bottom of it, to see if there is any underlying...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 5

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    Good But Not A Cure All

    This may not fit with what some people want to hear, but it is what I believe. I was spanked up until the age of 14. I believe it was an effective punishment for myself and my siblings. I am skeptical about other punishments such as time-outs and groundings (I remember being...
    keith2121 keith2121 51-55, M 8 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Two Girls Due For A Hard Spanking

    This happened several years ago when I was still living with my ex. Our 17-year-old niece had come to live with my ex and me about a year earlier after her very conservative parents had kicked her out of the house for promiscuous behavior and being a bad influence on their...
    Humbling1 Humbling1 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I need your advice. As I have mentioned in one

    of my previous blogs, I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all too well the do’s and do not’s of TPE. Please don’t misunderstand, I love everything about her and cherish her like none...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    Burn Cream?

    have you ever heard of this burn cream my friend was telling me about it it's good for if your kid is acting up in public you just take them in the bath room and make them touch there toes and rub it all over there bottom and it makes it burn like after a spanking what do you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    Hating Myself After A Spanking.

    It wasn't as if I'd said to myself, 'I think I will deliberately disobey Mommy and read this book instead of cleaning my room!' Instead, I start to clean my room (bo-o-oring!) and pick up Little House In The Big Woods meaning to put it away and instead become engrossed in it (fun...
    kneesocksgurl kneesocksgurl 56-60, F 8 Responses Mar 6

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    My first beating with the belt I got it from my

    grandfather. One day, when I was seven years old, he brought out from a wooden trunk an old leather belt. He greased it and hung it on a nail in the bathroom.“You're a big boy now. At your age, some slaps are nothing but a breeze. You must learn to fear the belt,&rdquo...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M May 15

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    I've noticed that a lot of you pedop*iles use

    Proverbs 13:24 to justify your hitting helpless children. Just thought I'd make two observations: 1. The verse refers directly to "sons" - ie, male children. No mention is made of daughters or female children. Therefore, little girls and (women in general) are clearly exempt...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    3 Maintenance Spankings in 4 Days.

    My Wife has reinstituted what she calls "maintenance" spankings in the evening. I thought they would be a quick dozen spanks with one of her "implements" but they have turned out to be much more painful than i anticipated. All of them are given on my bear (sic) bottim (sic). The...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 17

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    There are countries where the folk strongly

    believe in the benefits of discipline and still impose it by CP's. Here are some wise, old Romanian proverbs about spanking:"The beating comes from Heaven""Whither a dad strikes, it [=the flesh] swells up.""The spanking is like a medicinal herb for a child.""It's better to say...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Apr 21

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    Spanking Is Good Therapy When Needed

    I am not against spanking, but there is a difference between spanking and abuse. Most people have wanted to smack child at one time or another, but the basic choice is between hitting them on the face or swatting them on the behind. The bottom is covered with a thick layer of fat...
    Southpaugh Southpaugh 18-21 16 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    To be a 16-year guy and to have a friend is not

    a big deal. I had not have sex with her, but only we had long walks together and chatted a lot. We chatted trying to see how the land lay with us. I put out a feeler. We had not even ever kissed. However, we had come to make confessions to one other. Thus, I was not too amazed...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Apr 13

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    ***** and go to the cornerMany of you remember

    these words for sure. Maybe you even were often asked to do it. As for me, I never had a corner time. I was belted without much ceremony. After a spanking I was allowed to cry in my room at will. My parents thought that having a well-tanned *** was a convincing argument, an...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Jul 9

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    Do not blame me. I am somehow decided to do it.

    I am more decided now than anytime. After all, why not? It should be useful and humane at the same time.To penalize an employee for a mistake with an amount of money drawn from his hire is horrible. He has children at home. He has a family to feed. How could he do it if I hold...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Apr 19

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    I Am A Nanny

    I have made it a point to never take a job unless the parents give me the permission to spank their children. They respect me more. I never heistate to spank. Yes bare bottom and make it hard enough they know that you mean business. Once you do it the first time, the shock...
    OpenMindedNanny OpenMindedNanny 22-25, F 23 Responses May 15, 2011

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    I spank my babygirl as punishment

    when she's been bad, talked back, been sulky, shown sassiness or broken a rule. But I also do on a weekly basis, as to set the tone between us. She loves and I love it. She needs it and I need her submission.
    Zabecki Zabecki 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 27

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    Some days ago, my neighbor paid us a visit.

    She was upset and needed an advice. The night before, her 16-year-old son had come late at home. She let him go to a party provided he would be back at home before midnight. At eleven o’clock, the brat called his mother to get permission to stay more. My neighbor told him...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 25

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    School Paddlings

    This past week numerous people have been SHOCKED to hear my Boy recently recieved a paddling at school. They were not shocked to hear he deserved discipline (lol), but that our school STILL uses paddling as a form of disciplinary action. Most people asked if I was Ok with the...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 99 Responses Feb 25, 2010

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    Each spanking that I got was memorable.

    The belt made me understand that I had to suffer the consequences of my faults, delivering pain into my body and remorse in my mind. “I’m not going to do it again, I promise,” I repeated ceaselessly, while the lashes reddened my ***. “Please, no more... I...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Spank As A Last Resort

    I have 4 kids, ages 18 days, 1, 2, and 4. i hate the idea of hurting my children, but sometimes it is needed to get the message across. For example, a few days ago the kids were all eating lunch and my 2 year old decided that she didn't want to eat, and that she was going to...
    marimommy marimommy 22-25, F 26 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Old School Spankings

    I seriously think that there's alot of kids out there today that needs a old fashioned spanking like alot of us has had growing up.  I don't believe in any of the time outs, standing in corners or anything like that.  Because think about it when you put a kid in time out and...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    My deputy is a guy with a sense of humor.

    I like I chew the fat together with him and I like also he strongly believes in the benefits of the corporal punishments, just because I believe the same. Unlike me, however, he tested many punishment implements in his childhood so it could be said that he has a wider knowledge...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M Apr 14

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    First Whipped by Girl,

    Then Whipped by His Old Man When we were in 11th grade, I and several of my friends were assembled in gym class, talking about the coming weekend. Kurt was telling us his parents were going out of town to visit his older sister at Texas A&M, and had decided he was old enough to...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    My Opinion.

    I do. What's wrong with a few smacks to the bottom? I mean, I don't believe in sending your child to the corner naked or anything, like a bunch of people on here do. I think that's horrible and so embarrassing for the child? & I hate when people say, ''embarrassment is apart of...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom 26-30, F 13 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    When i was young , my sisters

    and me were regularly disciplined . My parents were very strict ! but loving and right . We knew the rules .... and we never were surprised to be punished.... There was a room just near the living room where we were sent when misbaving . Generally we had first to unzip skirt or...
    rv101010 rv101010 46-50 8 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Especially For Boyfriends!

    They all need it. Most would like it. Some even ask for it.  
    SabrinaNYC SabrinaNYC 26-30, F 25 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    It Is :)

    Spanking is a good punishment for children who misbehave. With my three daughters 17,14 and 12 I have tried a number of other methods but none has been effective like a spanking. Spanking is a perfectly fine way if there is no abuse involved. There is a big difference between...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Court rules wooden spoon spanking not child

    abuseSan Francisco ChronicleOctober 9, 2013 by Janeen CapizolaOld Italians across the land are rolling their eyes after learning that a California appeals court unanimously ruled Tuesday that its not abusive to whack your child with a wooden spoon.In all seriousness, the Sixth...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 1 Response May 16

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    The Right Way Is The Only Way

    I realize that I am probably in the minority with my view but I am living breathing proof that one can be spanked and turn out to be a happy, productive friendly and caring individual. I was spanked often and hard as a child but never sadistically and never for any reason that...
    spankedjenny spankedjenny 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    There are women who need a more physical

    structure for discipline than just talk. Some talking or even scolding comes off like a drop of water off of a duck's back or in one ear and out the other. Discipline is important in this life in order to be successful and become more fulfilling. I believe in spankings to...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 1 Response May 25

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    I Believed In Spanking When I Was Getting It, and I Still Believe

    When any kind of punishment, including spanking, is done out of love, and is handled calmly and deliberately with adequate discussion of the behavior and consequences, it is not harmful in any way.  On the other hand, when any kind of punishment (even time-outs or grounding...
    JamieW JamieW 51-55, M 12 Responses Mar 4, 2008

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    Undisciplined Kids

    amount to nothing my parents beat my *** everytime i did something i knew was wrong once i got old enough to understand what consequences were they had a rule though, they would always send me to my room for 10-15 min before the spanking i asked my father why they did...
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Hello, my name is May,

    i'm a mother of 6, between the ages of 7 and 17. Annie is 17, Ryan is 16, Ellie is 13, Louise is 11, Zach is 10 and Aaron is 7. My husband and I spank all of our children when it's warranted, we mostly use the paddle and my husband has made each child their own, but sometimes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 12

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    I Believe In Spankings.

    A friend and I were talking on the phone.  We were talking about children being spanked.  We were both spanked as children, SPANKED not beat.  I had a problem with it at the time.  Now that I look back ,I deserved it.  I said, "Damn you," to my...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 27 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Found on-line in "In Culture Parent"Posted by

    Gail | Thursday, 19 September 2013 at 8:51 pmI recently visited a friend in France who has 4 kids, ages 3 – 10. They spanked in a way I thought was quite severe, but after giving it some thought I’ve decided it’s actually a good way of disciplining children...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 5 Responses Apr 4

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    After The Spanking

    I've been reading for sometime now and thought it was about time I shared something. I must have read hundreds of posts on spanking but very few of them say anything about what happened afetr the spanking, which in my view is just as important, if not more than the spanking...
    Andy2142 Andy2142 46-50, M 12 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Bringing Them Back On The Path Of Good Behaviour

    Our youngest Nadine is 10 years old and she has often problems with her attitude. Talking back, rolling eyes, walking away when talking to her and other inappropriate behaviour happens way to often. At first we just gave her some slaps on the back of the thighs with the hand but...
    claudiamumofthree claudiamumofthree 36-40, F 32 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    A Veteran Nanny Weighs In...

        None of you in here, are not going to like this, but I disagree.  Most people in this forum, have only raised their own kids.  I've raised everyone else's.  I started "nannying" when I was only 12; I am 40, now.  And, although I no...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 14 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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