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I Believe Spanking Is a Perfectly Fine Way of Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,383 People

    I Was Spanked, And I'm Proud Of It!

    There were three of us kids in our household, complete with a mother and father who loved us more than anything in this world. We respected them, never acted out in public (and I can tell you right now, if we disrespected them or acted out, we knew what would happen next), and...
    Finesse00 Finesse00
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Aug 29, 2013

    message me fast if you needs a good spanking

    which is gonna to make your bottom burn and cherry red.I believe and approve spankings as a fine way of discipline
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 29

    Each spanking that I got was memorable.

    The belt made me understand that I had to suffer the consequences of my faults, delivering pain into my body and remorse in my mind. “I’m not going to do it again, I promise,” I repeated ceaselessly, while the lashes reddened my ***. “Please, no more... I...
    Codrin Codrin
    46-50, M
    Dec 16, 2014

    I read about an early Christmas tradition in

    Holland which began in the 1600's.Sinter Klaus would come around to each house and leave a treat for boys and girls who had behaved during the year. But if they were naughty, he would leave a switch for the parents to give the naughty children spankings.These three kids all got...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3
    56-60, M
    6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

    A while ago I had to reintroduce spankings

    for my daughter Isabell (14). She was disobedient, had begun to smoke cigarettes, was wearing slutty clothes at school und spoke with me in an inappropriate manner. It was a pretty big step for me as i didn't want to consider myself as a strict mom. I also was a bit worried...
    Madeleine79 Madeleine79
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    I Am A Nanny

    I have made it a point to never take a job unless the parents give me the permission to spank their children. They respect me more. I never heistate to spank. Yes bare bottom and make it hard enough they know that you mean business. Once you do it the first time, the shock...
    OpenMindedNanny OpenMindedNanny
    22-25, F
    26 Responses May 15, 2011

    When used in moderation

    and after exhausting other methods. My parents did not go straight for a spanking, I was only spanked a handful of times growing up. We do not use spanking as our primary method either, its always as a last resort. But when the time does came, I have no problem with putting a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I sure do I don't know

    where my family would be without it. It's a big part of how I discipline my kids. This evening my 8 year old daughter wouldn't go go bed So I whooped her bare butt with a paddle until she peed herself. She hasn't come out of her room since lol
    MemesMama MemesMama
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jan 4

    Question: What was a common feature of the

    childhoods of Hitler, Stalin, Pol Pot, Saddam Hussein and Charles Manson? Answer: Each one was relentlessly, severely, physically punished.
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    It Is :)

    Spanking is a good punishment for children who misbehave. With my three daughters 17,14 and 12 I have tried a number of other methods but none has been effective like a spanking. Spanking is a perfectly fine way if there is no abuse involved. There is a big difference between...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jul 1, 2013

    Martha & Rita were sisters

    who had much in common. The one thing they didn't share was there ability to be a strict disciplinarian. Martha was weak and permissive. Rita was stern and strict. When Martha's son John needed discipline, she sent him to Aunt RitaJohn had experienced two previous visits.  ...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2015
    cobiba1975 cobiba1975
    36-40, M
    Mar 10

    Everyone needs to be held accountable

    for their actions (or lack of their actions). It's the people who acknowledge this that make themselves better people. That's the problem with this world, so many people would rather blame someone else or they expect someone else to do the work that is needed to be done. It's...
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    Mar 1

    Hating Myself After A Spanking.

    It wasn't as if I'd said to myself, 'I think I will deliberately disobey Mommy and read this book instead of cleaning my room!' Instead, I start to clean my room (bo-o-oring!) and pick up Little House In The Big Woods meaning to put it away and instead become engrossed in it (fun...
    kneesocksgurl kneesocksgurl
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Mar 6, 2014

    Two Girls Due For A Hard Spanking

    This happened several years ago when I was still living with my ex. Our 17-year-old niece had come to live with my ex and me about a year earlier after her very conservative parents had kicked her out of the house for promiscuous behavior and being a bad influence on their...
    Humbling1 Humbling1
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    If you would like to stay in contact

    now that EP is shutting down inbox me for my contact information and please leave me yours.
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    Mar 28

    Yep ! We Should Be Spanked More Not Less

    Well maybe I shouldnt be spanked more because I get plenty already !! Had it since I was 9 or so (mid teen now).  It is brilliant - way better than shouting or grounding or stuff.  If I deserve it I just go and fetch the slipper and they spank my bottom, not nastily or...
    rachaelhughesuk rachaelhughesuk
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Oct 29, 2009

    Yes, spankings hurt. That's the point.

    But that pain isn't damaging and it doesn't mean parents don't love their children. As far as a parent who spanks is concerned, not spanking a child is a good way to show them you don't love them
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    I just saw a newly published video on YouTube

    called, "That girl got whipped for being a thot," and can't decide whether it is a legitimate spanking, or abuse. In it, a teen girl is made to lie on her bed, has her bottom exposed, and then whipped by her mom for being a "thot." I don't even know what a "thot" is, and hence...
    phillysteve phillysteve
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    Undisciplined Kids

    amount to nothing my parents beat my *** everytime i did something i knew was wrong once i got old enough to understand what consequences were they had a rule though, they would always send me to my room for 10-15 min before the spanking i asked my father why they did...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    29 Responses Nov 28, 2007

    A Christmas Message for all of you pro-spanking

    "advocates:" don't hit your children, you filthy ped*philes.
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    AND SO DID MY MOM!Her main spanking system was

    the hairbrush rapidly applied to my bare hiney! 
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Mar 1

    I have something to say

    but whatever stupid reason, EP won't let me say it, so read my comments here ...
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2015

    I spank my boyfriend at regular intervals

    and also when I am displeased with his work . Spanking has made him more attentive to my needs. I have thick leather belt which leaves nice red mark on his butt . I make him count the hits and say aloud his wrong doing. Wrong count adds more. He has been punished in front my...
    sanyab sanyab
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    "For what the mind does wrong,

    the @ss should suffer damage."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    their is a user named daddyoftwins5 he will msg

    you and ask if you are willing to spank his girls and asks to see naked pics of your little kids he's a pedo file please report him and avoid him and spread the word
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2015

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle to show him, who is his place. I'm often out of control and really need to change it.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Mar 20

    I believe in spanking

    and see nothing wrong with it at all. I was spanked periodically as a child. It did not destroy my way of life. In fact, it made me a better person when I was disciplined. If parents really loved their kids then they would discipline them with a few whacks on the backside...
    boobsandbrains boobsandbrains
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    Especially For Boyfriends!

    They all need it. Most would like it. Some even ask for it.  
    SabrinaNYC SabrinaNYC
    26-30, F
    23 Responses Jun 10, 2009

    My Opinion.

    I do. What's wrong with a few smacks to the bottom? I mean, I don't believe in sending your child to the corner naked or anything, like a bunch of people on here do. I think that's horrible and so embarrassing for the child? & I hate when people say, ''embarrassment is apart of...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Nov 20, 2013

    I Believed In Spanking When I Was Getting It, and I Still Believe

    When any kind of punishment, including spanking, is done out of love, and is handled calmly and deliberately with adequate discussion of the behavior and consequences, it is not harmful in any way.  On the other hand, when any kind of punishment (even time-outs or grounding...
    JamieW JamieW
    51-55, M
    12 Responses Mar 4, 2008

    To all you morons out there

    that say they are a "mentor" to naughty girls or boys, and will spank them, do me a favor and go back under the rock from where you came from. You have no idea what you are talking about. A mentor is someone that gives advice. It is defined as a wise and trusted counselor or...
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    Jun 24, 2015

    The Right Way Is The Only Way

    I realize that I am probably in the minority with my view but I am living breathing proof that one can be spanked and turn out to be a happy, productive friendly and caring individual. I was spanked often and hard as a child but never sadistically and never for any reason that...
    spankedjenny spankedjenny
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2011

    A question for all of you pro-spanking

    "advocates" out there: does a man have the right to hit his wife against her will if she disobeys him?
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Dec 3, 2015
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    I told my two boys they needed to remember to

    behave in the grocery store this morning. I brought them a donut to eat while we were shopping and had them help me. They started throwing boxes of cereal and bouncing the balls in the toy aisle really high and hit a man walking by I took them both into the bathroom and spanked...
    jamietwoboys jamietwoboys
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to time...my behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    Just thought I'd share this with all of you

    pro-spanking "advocates". Last week, I got a call from my b*tch of a mother. Apparently my father has a terminal case of prostate cancer. My reply? "Good. Tell him I hope he rots in hell for all eternity." LOL. One less child-beating piece of sh*t in the world. This is cause for...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    Nov 20, 2015

    When Dad spanks well,

    the child grows properly.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    passing out paddle ball paddles

    for Halloween once the ball breaks off its a gift for the mommies
    daddybuttspanker daddybuttspanker
    26-30, M
    Oct 31, 2015

    3 Maintenance Spankings in 4 Days.

    My Wife has reinstituted what she calls "maintenance" spankings in the evening. I thought they would be a quick dozen spanks with one of her "implements" but they have turned out to be much more painful than i anticipated. All of them are given on my bear (sic) bottim (sic). The...
    kent1973 kent1973
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    Yep no matter what age a person is they can

    always benefit from a spanking. Even in my adult years I find myself needing to be spanked once in a while. While I'm sure my behind doesn't like getting forcefully struck with someone's hand or another object my heart and brain overrule it every time :)
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

    After The Spanking

    I've been reading for sometime now and thought it was about time I shared something. I must have read hundreds of posts on spanking but very few of them say anything about what happened afetr the spanking, which in my view is just as important, if not more than the spanking...
    Andy2142 Andy2142
    46-50, M
    10 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2015

    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Aug 21, 2015

    Burn Cream?

    have you ever heard of this burn cream my friend was telling me about it it's good for if your kid is acting up in public you just take them in the bath room and make them touch there toes and rub it all over there bottom and it makes it burn like after a spanking what do you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 12, 2013

    hey guys I am searching

    for a online experienced mentor who can give me spanking lessons.I will send audio of spanking to confirm dat I have done it properly and some photos also
    domslaveboy domslaveboy
    18-21, M
    Feb 26

    I just joined www.answermug.

    com What a nice site. Over 200 fellow EP members are already there. This is me over there ... http://answermug.com/profile/Bob248
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 31

    All you people are idiots .

    .. mentor noun 1. an experienced and trusted adviser. A mentor is someone that advises. They do NOT spank. If you want someone for that, get a Disciplinarian or get a Daddy or Mommy. I wish you people would find out the facts before you text.
    brewster1234 brewster1234
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    Good But Not A Cure All

    This may not fit with what some people want to hear, but it is what I believe. I was spanked up until the age of 14. I believe it was an effective punishment for myself and my siblings. I am skeptical about other punishments such as time-outs and groundings (I remember being...
    keith2121 keith2121
    51-55, M
    8 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    Dictionary Definition of Beating: "A punishment

    in which the victim is hit repeatedly." Dictionary Definition of Hitting: "To bring one's hand or a tool or weapon into contact with (someone or something) quickly and forcefully." Synonyms common to both: strike, slap, smack, spank, swat, thrash, cane, belt, whack, tan...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    Dec 12, 2015

    Chatting with an EP member,

    I understood how much knowledge and experience a teacher charged with CP’s on boys should possess. To choose the proper implement, to inflict a constant amount of pain, to justly distribute it on the fleshy surface of the b_ottom, to ensure the necessary embarrassment of the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    I recently read an article about a white

    principal who applied a paddle to a PREGNANT sixteen year old black girl for being late to class. Let's leave aside the fact that striking a pregnant woman is one of the lowest and most cowardly acts imaginable. Let's also leave aside the fact that medical experts have since...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    Hello, my name is May,

    i'm a mother of 6, between the ages of 7 and 17. Annie is 17, Ryan is 16, Ellie is 13, Louise is 11, Zach is 10 and Aaron is 7. My husband and I spank all of our children when it's warranted, we mostly use the paddle and my husband has made each child their own, but sometimes...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    Found on-line in "In Culture Parent"Posted by

    Gail | Thursday, 19 September 2013 at 8:51 pmI recently visited a friend in France who has 4 kids, ages 3 – 10. They spanked in a way I thought was quite severe, but after giving it some thought I’ve decided it’s actually a good way of disciplining children...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2014
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