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I Believe Spanking Is a Perfectly Fine Way of Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,455 People

    Martha & Rita were sisters

    who had much in common. The one thing they didn't share was there ability to be a strict disciplinarian. Martha was weak and permissive. Rita was stern and strict. When Martha's son John needed discipline, she sent him to Aunt RitaJohn had experienced two previous visits.  ...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 4 Responses Jan 22, 2015

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    A question for all of you pro-spanking

    "advocates" out there: does a man have the right to hit his wife against her will if she disobeys him?
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 3, 2015

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    My Opinion.

    I do. What's wrong with a few smacks to the bottom? I mean, I don't believe in sending your child to the corner naked or anything, like a bunch of people on here do. I think that's horrible and so embarrassing for the child? & I hate when people say, ''embarrassment is apart of...
    SexyTattedMom SexyTattedMom 26-30, F 15 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to time...my behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking 36-40, M Dec 31, 2015

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    passing out paddle ball paddles

    for Halloween once the ball breaks off its a gift for the mommies
    daddybuttspanker daddybuttspanker 26-30, M Oct 31, 2015

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    Yes, spankings hurt. That's the point.

    But that pain isn't damaging and it doesn't mean parents don't love their children. As far as a parent who spanks is concerned, not spanking a child is a good way to show them you don't love them
    lovingfatherofthree lovingfatherofthree 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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    I recently read an article about a white

    principal who applied a paddle to a PREGNANT sixteen year old black girl for being late to class. Let's leave aside the fact that striking a pregnant woman is one of the lowest and most cowardly acts imaginable. Let's also leave aside the fact that medical experts have since...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    A while ago I had to reintroduce spankings

    for my daughter Isabell (14). She was disobedient, had begun to smoke cigarettes, was wearing slutty clothes at school und spoke with me in an inappropriate manner. It was a pretty big step for me as i didn't want to consider myself as a strict mom. I also was a bit worried...
    Madeleine79 Madeleine79 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Yep no matter what age a person is they can

    always benefit from a spanking. Even in my adult years I find myself needing to be spanked once in a while. While I'm sure my behind doesn't like getting forcefully struck with someone's hand or another object my heart and brain overrule it every time :)
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Just thought I'd share this with all of you

    pro-spanking "advocates". Last week, I got a call from my b*tch of a mother. Apparently my father has a terminal case of prostate cancer. My reply? "Good. Tell him I hope he rots in hell for all eternity." LOL. One less child-beating piece of sh*t in the world. This is cause for...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F Nov 20, 2015

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    When Dad spanks well,

    the child grows properly.
    Codrin1 Codrin1 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2015

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    Good But Not A Cure All

    This may not fit with what some people want to hear, but it is what I believe. I was spanked up until the age of 14. I believe it was an effective punishment for myself and my siblings. I am skeptical about other punishments such as time-outs and groundings (I remember being...
    keith2121 keith2121 51-55, M 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Undisciplined Kids

    amount to nothing my parents beat my *** everytime i did something i knew was wrong once i got old enough to understand what consequences were they had a rule though, they would always send me to my room for 10-15 min before the spanking i asked my father why they did...
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses Nov 28, 2007

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    Chatting with an EP member,

    I understood how much knowledge and experience a teacher charged with CP’s on boys should possess. To choose the proper implement, to inflict a constant amount of pain, to justly distribute it on the fleshy surface of the b_ottom, to ensure the necessary embarrassment of the...
    Codrin1 Codrin1 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

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    I spank my boyfriend at regular intervals

    and also when I am displeased with his work . Spanking has made him more attentive to my needs. I have thick leather belt which leaves nice red mark on his butt . I make him count the hits and say aloud his wrong doing. Wrong count adds more. He has been punished in front my...
    sanyab sanyab 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 17, 2015

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    I Was Spanked, And I'm Proud Of It!

    There were three of us kids in our household, complete with a mother and father who loved us more than anything in this world. We respected them, never acted out in public (and I can tell you right now, if we disrespected them or acted out, we knew what would happen next), and...
    Finesse00 Finesse00 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Dictionary Definition of Beating: "A punishment

    in which the victim is hit repeatedly." Dictionary Definition of Hitting: "To bring one's hand or a tool or weapon into contact with (someone or something) quickly and forcefully." Synonyms common to both: strike, slap, smack, spank, swat, thrash, cane, belt, whack, tan...
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F Dec 12, 2015

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    The Right Way Is The Only Way

    I realize that I am probably in the minority with my view but I am living breathing proof that one can be spanked and turn out to be a happy, productive friendly and caring individual. I was spanked often and hard as a child but never sadistically and never for any reason that...
    spankedjenny spankedjenny 51-55, F 6 Responses Jun 8, 2011

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    I Believed In Spanking When I Was Getting It, and I Still Believe

    When any kind of punishment, including spanking, is done out of love, and is handled calmly and deliberately with adequate discussion of the behavior and consequences, it is not harmful in any way.  On the other hand, when any kind of punishment (even time-outs or grounding...
    JamieW JamieW 51-55, M 12 Responses Mar 4, 2008

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    I Believe In Spankings.

    A friend and I were talking on the phone.  We were talking about children being spanked.  We were both spanked as children, SPANKED not beat.  I had a problem with it at the time.  Now that I look back ,I deserved it.  I said, "Damn you," to my...
    TexasLily TexasLily 56-60, F 27 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    The Whippen of Mass Destruction I hesitate to

    tell this story. So severe was this punishment, that I fear it will motivate some parent to implement it when they feel they have no other choice, no other option. A year before receiving it, I had shoplifted a bottle of beer from a convenient store after a Friday night...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 4 Responses May 17, 2015

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    Even though I have run into quite a few fakes

    and perverts during my nine months on EP, I have still not given up the hope of getting in touch with real spanking parents here! I have met a few believable ones, but sadly, they have been forming a minority! I still hope to meet more real parents, though, preferably mothers...
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 3 Responses May 11, 2015

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    "For what the mind does wrong,

    the @ss should suffer damage."
    Codrin1 Codrin1 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2015

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    Each spanking that I got was memorable.

    The belt made me understand that I had to suffer the consequences of my faults, delivering pain into my body and remorse in my mind. “I’m not going to do it again, I promise,” I repeated ceaselessly, while the lashes reddened my ***. “Please, no more... I...
    Codrin Codrin 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    I believe in spanking

    and see nothing wrong with it at all. I was spanked periodically as a child. It did not destroy my way of life. In fact, it made me a better person when I was disciplined. If parents really loved their kids then they would discipline them with a few whacks on the backside...
    boobsandbrains boobsandbrains 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 9, 2014

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    I Am A Nanny

    I have made it a point to never take a job unless the parents give me the permission to spank their children. They respect me more. I never heistate to spank. Yes bare bottom and make it hard enough they know that you mean business. Once you do it the first time, the shock...
    OpenMindedNanny OpenMindedNanny 22-25, F 27 Responses May 15, 2011

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    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking 36-40, M Aug 21, 2015

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    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 25, 2015

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    I read about an early Christmas tradition in

    Holland which began in the 1600's.Sinter Klaus would come around to each house and leave a treat for boys and girls who had behaved during the year. But if they were naughty, he would leave a switch for the parents to give the naughty children spankings.These three kids all got...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Hubby is going to punish me hard tonight!

    My Master (Husband) went out with friends tonight. He instructed me to be asleep by 10pm. He's due to arrive home between 1am-2am. The first thing he'll do is penetrate me. If I'm not fast asleep when he enters me, he'll know I disobeyed his orders! Unfortunately I'm still...
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 3 Responses May 29, 2015

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    After The Spanking

    I've been reading for sometime now and thought it was about time I shared something. I must have read hundreds of posts on spanking but very few of them say anything about what happened afetr the spanking, which in my view is just as important, if not more than the spanking...
    Andy2142 Andy2142 46-50, M 11 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    It is with the love and care always the hug

    afterwards. It can be either a short sharp shock or with more serious matters prolonged with some measure of scolding and lecture as well.
    6boys1dad 6boys1dad 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2015

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    It Is :)

    Spanking is a good punishment for children who misbehave. With my three daughters 17,14 and 12 I have tried a number of other methods but none has been effective like a spanking. Spanking is a perfectly fine way if there is no abuse involved. There is a big difference between...
    strictsinglemum strictsinglemum 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Burn Cream?

    have you ever heard of this burn cream my friend was telling me about it it's good for if your kid is acting up in public you just take them in the bath room and make them touch there toes and rub it all over there bottom and it makes it burn like after a spanking what do you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    "A Call to the Neighbor" As I entered my teen

    years, my mom not only continued spanking, but she believed it needed to be enhanced by the prospect of shame. Hence, I was told that future spanking would be administered in front of female witnesses. If my sisters or there friends were over visiting when I committed a...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    A Christmas Message for all of you pro-spanking

    "advocates:" don't hit your children, you filthy ped*philes.
    AngieHolbrook AngieHolbrook 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2015

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    All you people are idiots .

    .. mentor noun 1. an experienced and trusted adviser. A mentor is someone that advises. They do NOT spank. If you want someone for that, get a Disciplinarian or get a Daddy or Mommy. I wish you people would find out the facts before you text.
    brewster1234 brewster1234 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 6, 2015

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    3 Maintenance Spankings in 4 Days.

    My Wife has reinstituted what she calls "maintenance" spankings in the evening. I thought they would be a quick dozen spanks with one of her "implements" but they have turned out to be much more painful than i anticipated. All of them are given on my bear (sic) bottim (sic). The...
    kent1973 kent1973 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    their is a user named daddyoftwins5 he will msg

    you and ask if you are willing to spank his girls and asks to see naked pics of your little kids he's a pedo file please report him and avoid him and spread the word
    mistreszmayhem mistreszmayhem 18-21, F Jul 1, 2015

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    Hating Myself After A Spanking.

    It wasn't as if I'd said to myself, 'I think I will deliberately disobey Mommy and read this book instead of cleaning my room!' Instead, I start to clean my room (bo-o-oring!) and pick up Little House In The Big Woods meaning to put it away and instead become engrossed in it (fun...
    kneesocksgurl kneesocksgurl 56-60, F 9 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I have something to say

    but whatever stupid reason, EP won't let me say it, so read my comments here ...
    brewster1234 brewster1234 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2015

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    I just saw a newly published video on YouTube

    called, "That girl got whipped for being a thot," and can't decide whether it is a legitimate spanking, or abuse. In it, a teen girl is made to lie on her bed, has her bottom exposed, and then whipped by her mom for being a "thot." I don't even know what a "thot" is, and hence...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

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    To all you morons out there

    that say they are a "mentor" to naughty girls or boys, and will spank them, do me a favor and go back under the rock from where you came from. You have no idea what you are talking about. A mentor is someone that gives advice. It is defined as a wise and trusted counselor or...
    brewster1234 brewster1234 51-55, M Jun 24, 2015

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    Yep ! We Should Be Spanked More Not Less

    Well maybe I shouldnt be spanked more because I get plenty already !! Had it since I was 9 or so (mid teen now).  It is brilliant - way better than shouting or grounding or stuff.  If I deserve it I just go and fetch the slipper and they spank my bottom, not nastily or...
    rachaelhughesuk rachaelhughesuk 18-21, F 15 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    School Paddlings

    This past week numerous people have been SHOCKED to hear my Boy recently recieved a paddling at school. They were not shocked to hear he deserved discipline (lol), but that our school STILL uses paddling as a form of disciplinary action. Most people asked if I was Ok with the...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 95 Responses Feb 25, 2010

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