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I Believe That Fat Is Not Meant To Cause Depression

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    But On Occasion, It Does

    I think fat is beautiful. Whether it's in art, or in real life, whether the person is top-heavy, bottom-heavy, or perfectly round... I just find it so soft, pleasing to the eye, and touchable.Even throughout history- fat was looked upon as quite favorable, not hated as it is...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 15, 2012

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