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I Believe That Looks Arent Everything

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 484 People

    So often do I meet a girl/boy

    who looks hot as hell but they're dumb or we just dont click.
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie 16-17, M May 29

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    Of course I want the initial attraction.

    But if the inside isn't matching the outside, (and I know that sounds cliché) then what's the point? ? We could just sit and stare at each other maybe.
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F May 5

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    Physical beauty is enchanting

    but who a person is is more important. You don't fall for a face or body but a persons heart.
    micmer micmer 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Beauty Is Nothing

    especially when you have an ugly heart. Beauty fades..no matter how many cosmetic procedures you get. It is what's inside the heart that matters most... Because once you have a pure heart, no matter what you look like, you are definitely beautiful inside and out. :)
    fluffybunny87 fluffybunny87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    Looks Aren't Everything

    I do not look at a persons face or the way they dress. I want to know their heart. I like to sit and chat with folks and get arroused by some stories depending on the content. But pretty much I care nothing about looks.
    dawgirl dawgirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Of course looks aren't everything.

    The personality is what counts, if someone is caring and funny and intelligent that's more attractive than a six pack.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My Thoughts.

    Yeah, I hear this a lot from people. They say that looks aren't everything, they only focus on personality and a connection. Well, I think half those people are just liars. I agree, looks aren't "everything", but they sure are important. I'm not shallow, nor will I ever judge...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Just Love Yourself And Others

    I hate those situations where one person gives up somebody amazing for someone better looking. I hate how people have to feel insecure and less of a person because their genes didn't make them attractive. I hate being part of those categories. But I've learned to accept myself as...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    More Than Looks

    I have to say that, as I get older, my ideas about beauty have changed. I love women of all shapes, sizes, colors and what have you. Women with a great brain are a turn on. I love talking to women who understand what I'm talking about. I love history, geography, writing...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I Really, Really, Really Hope They're Not...

    ...otherwise I'm screwed. :P
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 9 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Dress Pretty On The Outside To Hide The Ugly Thing On The Inside

    People quite commonly call me beautiful. I feel awkward during such instances. Because exteriorly, I feel that I just am average. I spend a lot of time as of late putting on makeup and keeping attention to fashion. I think its something to channel my energies towards, to help me...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F Nov 27, 2011

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    Funny Story

    when i was young I was the ugly member in the family that everyone make fun of.i looked weird and very thin ppl used to think that im sick or something.but when i turned into a teenager i turned to be pretty girl.first it was nice but i got used to it easily.for me being...
    fafitalicious fafitalicious 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    They Sure Aren't !!!

    I believe that no matter what someone looks like their true character is what makes them beautifiul. Regardless of someone's race, sexual orientation, beliefs, height, or weight, their true beauty lies within. I honestly don't care what someone looks like. If you are nice to me...
    NiaNicolee NiaNicolee 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Decieving

    Someone once said looks are decieving and I thinl they were right. Looks arent everything. Looks can and will get you into trouble. Beauty is only skin deep. Real beauty lies beneath the surface and you can be the ugliest person but if you have a warm heart your beauty will shine...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2008

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    I Wish Everyone Thought Like This..

    I struggle with my own confidence. I know I am not attractive and a little overweight. I think there is immense pressure for people to loose their virginity and conform to one of society's 'looks'. This just mounts to me feeling even worth about myself. I would never dream of...
    Airion Airion 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Not to be rude but good looking girls are easy

    to find. My bus journeys to uni take an hour and a half and we go through some busy towns, your guaranteed to see a few good looking girls. Hell at uni with over 2000 people your bound to see some good looking girls, so looks cannot be solely what you base your love or whatever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 9, 2013

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    The Other Guy

    There is just something about getting older that makes you realize the truth behind this phrase. I have never been the type of girl who was attracted so much to the pretty boys. DON'T get me wrong, they are pretty to look at, but more often than that THEY already know that for...
    wonderingkitten wonderingkitten 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Beauty Is Perception.

    i've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now and today he finally met my family. Everything went great, but my sister told me later today that our other sister was like "Is she desperate?" (aka she being Me) It astonished me how rude she was....of course she said this behind my...
    GreyDaze GreyDaze 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Most Always..

    ...people are judged by their looks, clothes, cars etc... They will judge how much money you have and your standing and worth as a person... I had an uncle who since passed away..truly a businesman and showman...incredibly rich...but he always wore mismatched clothes and...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 12, 2010

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    Why are we so obsessed with how we look,

    as if beauty is all we have to offer? I doubt a man will stay just because you're beautiful. And vice versa. Because .. Uhh, There are beautiful women/ men E V E R Y W H E R E. 💙😱 What else is special about you? What makes you stand out ? What do you love ? What do hate...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    Related Experiences

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    Helloirrelevant Helloirrelevant 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    At the same time.. I could never be attracted simply by looks. A good personality can change your feelings.
    debs73 debs73 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Truthfully I do believe that looks are not everything considering a person can be beautiful, but that does not mean they are a good person. Personality can go a long ways with some...
    Ahaizzy Ahaizzy 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I feel so depressed, i haven't felt like this in my life. There is pain, depression, fear of losing everything i have earned in past 2 years.. my life, love everything.I don't know...
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    My friend, knowing how self-conscious I am about my looks, had the audacity to say she wishes she wasn't so pretty because she's fed up with guys breaking her heart. She has...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2 51-55, M Aug 22

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    My family settled down for some years in that house. At the time when I was about 15 y/o my relationship with my stepfather was not at all good. He had always been generally very...
    Anrymci Anrymci 46-50, F Aug 30

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    I believe that it is only right and proper that before anyone dispenses with the bible as untrue or at best not the word of got it is only right that you should read it and also...
    mickyfin mickyfin 61-65, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    There is this girl. She isn't perfect, but she is perfect for me. She isn't a model, but she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. We have never met but I believe that...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I don't believe that god is a man in the sky who created the world. I believe that god is everything around us. god is nature, god is the tree's , the flowers, the sky, god is...
    silentgirl1234 silentgirl1234 13-15, F Sep 4

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    Thank u for my children, I adore every moment with them. I'm so blessed to have such wonderful, smart, beautiful children. Thank u for my spouse, who works hard every day and is...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F Aug 16

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    Love Peace Marriage Relationship Will all be victorious in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ I will not tell you my name But I will tell you my age I am 23 years old If you and...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Its good to have a great personality but its also important to have good looks. Honestly, i think you cant like someone and be with them if you think they are "ugly". Its not fair...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Before you comment, i'm not trying to stereotype anyone. I don't believe ALL girls are a certain way, likewise with guys. I guess i'm a person who views the lines between genders...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    I believe that without a shadow of a doubt. I have experienced it in this past yr. A certain person suddenly appeared in my life and they have helped me to see more than ive ever...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    I believe in god but I feel lost in the dark I need to know he's there
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 6 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Personally, I struggle to find what I'm specifically interested in. I keep an open mind, and I believe I can like both a man or woman. It just really depends on the person...
    CaitlinDiane CaitlinDiane 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    By Faith...... Nothing more than that, I Believe in God by Faith.....
    Feelslikealoser Feelslikealoser 31-35, M 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    broken heart, pain, disappointment, but i still believe in love;)
    Serenita Serenita 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    Hope springs eternal, they say. They say it but do they believe it? It's not easy to comprehend.
    Mstroig Mstroig 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    i strongly believe in lord KRISHNA and his principle as they can apply always in real life ,i can't say he exist in what ,where ,and how he looks ,but i found so much believe on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 17

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    The human mind is so complex and beautifully complicated. So many different angles and shades, so much to learn about someone. I'll never be able to understand how some people are...
    carolinefp carolinefp 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    This is very true, because I'll admit back in highschool, I was that "jerk" football player, stereotypical "jock". However, I've come a long way and have cleaned up my act and am...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a believer and don't consider myself a snob. I respect your right to believe as you want. I choose to believe. I have been a scientist, of sorts, all my adult life. I believe...
    hancockian hancockian 66-70, M Aug 25

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    i believe in god ,i used to follow krishna as a person from my childhood , i read about him so much till now .. i was inspired by him so much .i don't believe in things till...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 28

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    So, this is what I think. From some of my other posts, you may know why I believe so strongly in these separate realities. If you don't, then whatever- it's not that important. I...
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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