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I Believe That Looks Arent Everything

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    Why are we so obsessed with how we look,

    as if beauty is all we have to offer? I doubt a man will stay just because you're beautiful. And vice versa. Because .. Uhh, There are beautiful women/ men E V E R Y W H E R E. 💙😱 What else is special about you? What makes you stand out ? What do you love ? What do hate...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    The Other Guy

    There is just something about getting older that makes you realize the truth behind this phrase. I have never been the type of girl who was attracted so much to the pretty boys. DON'T get me wrong, they are pretty to look at, but more often than that THEY already know that for...
    wonderingkitten wonderingkitten 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Decieving

    Someone once said looks are decieving and I thinl they were right. Looks arent everything. Looks can and will get you into trouble. Beauty is only skin deep. Real beauty lies beneath the surface and you can be the ugliest person but if you have a warm heart your beauty will shine...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2008

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    Physical beauty is enchanting

    but who a person is is more important. You don't fall for a face or body but a persons heart.
    micmer micmer 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    Looks Aren't Everything

    I do not look at a persons face or the way they dress. I want to know their heart. I like to sit and chat with folks and get arroused by some stories depending on the content. But pretty much I care nothing about looks.
    dawgirl dawgirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    They Sure Aren't !!!

    I believe that no matter what someone looks like their true character is what makes them beautifiul. Regardless of someone's race, sexual orientation, beliefs, height, or weight, their true beauty lies within. I honestly don't care what someone looks like. If you are nice to me...
    NiaNicolee NiaNicolee 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Just Love Yourself And Others

    I hate those situations where one person gives up somebody amazing for someone better looking. I hate how people have to feel insecure and less of a person because their genes didn't make them attractive. I hate being part of those categories. But I've learned to accept myself as...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    So often do I meet a girl/boy

    who looks hot as hell but they're dumb or we just dont click.
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie 16-17, M May 29

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    Beauty Is Nothing

    especially when you have an ugly heart. Beauty fades..no matter how many cosmetic procedures you get. It is what's inside the heart that matters most... Because once you have a pure heart, no matter what you look like, you are definitely beautiful inside and out. :)
    fluffybunny87 fluffybunny87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    Beauty Is Perception.

    i've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now and today he finally met my family. Everything went great, but my sister told me later today that our other sister was like "Is she desperate?" (aka she being Me) It astonished me how rude she was....of course she said this behind my...
    GreyDaze GreyDaze 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    I Really, Really, Really Hope They're Not...

    ...otherwise I'm screwed. :P
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 9 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Funny Story

    when i was young I was the ugly member in the family that everyone make fun of.i looked weird and very thin ppl used to think that im sick or something.but when i turned into a teenager i turned to be pretty girl.first it was nice but i got used to it easily.for me being...
    fafitalicious fafitalicious 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I Wish Everyone Thought Like This..

    I struggle with my own confidence. I know I am not attractive and a little overweight. I think there is immense pressure for people to loose their virginity and conform to one of society's 'looks'. This just mounts to me feeling even worth about myself. I would never dream of...
    Airion Airion 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Most Always..

    ...people are judged by their looks, clothes, cars etc... They will judge how much money you have and your standing and worth as a person... I had an uncle who since passed away..truly a businesman and showman...incredibly rich...but he always wore mismatched clothes and...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 12, 2010

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    My Thoughts.

    Yeah, I hear this a lot from people. They say that looks aren't everything, they only focus on personality and a connection. Well, I think half those people are just liars. I agree, looks aren't "everything", but they sure are important. I'm not shallow, nor will I ever judge...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    More Than Looks

    I have to say that, as I get older, my ideas about beauty have changed. I love women of all shapes, sizes, colors and what have you. Women with a great brain are a turn on. I love talking to women who understand what I'm talking about. I love history, geography, writing...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    Not to be rude but good looking girls are easy

    to find. My bus journeys to uni take an hour and a half and we go through some busy towns, your guaranteed to see a few good looking girls. Hell at uni with over 2000 people your bound to see some good looking girls, so looks cannot be solely what you base your love or whatever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 9, 2013

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    Of course I want the initial attraction.

    But if the inside isn't matching the outside, (and I know that sounds cliché) then what's the point? ? We could just sit and stare at each other maybe.
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F May 5

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    I Dress Pretty On The Outside To Hide The Ugly Thing On The Inside

    People quite commonly call me beautiful. I feel awkward during such instances. Because exteriorly, I feel that I just am average. I spend a lot of time as of late putting on makeup and keeping attention to fashion. I think its something to channel my energies towards, to help me...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F Nov 27, 2011

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    I am the girl with a flower pattern dress that is reading a book while listening to music with a coffee in the park ^^ But I am reading "world war Z: an oral history of the zombie...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F a week ago

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    Tho looks arent everything, its 60% important to me. plus personality and the others are important to. Only attractive people attract me. David Beckham is kinda ugly to me. Anime...
    michiko michiko 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    PLEASE PLEASE READ THIS TOO!!! Because of the number of people who have read and responded to my previous post, I've decided to add an addendum to my initial story. I am quoting...
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    say a little prayer In every moment in our life we experience different situations, it maybe easy to handle or it can be hard. Each one of us has it’s own path and for that we...
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    Journey We take what we think we know and try to define or describe what we cannot see or want to know. All of my assumptions, definitions, descriptions of the unseen are of...
    monarchman monarchman 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Personality is key. It should be the reason why are why you arent with them. Looks are honestly a bonus in my opinion and dont even matter because whats the point with being with a...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I do have a father and a mother but i just dont beleive that he is my father because we arent even the same color. Also i have some of the qualities that make Apollo a god. I love...
    Harmonyblood Harmonyblood 13-15, M Jul 6

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    I kindly ask for you all to pray for my family. My grandpa and great grandma aren't doing too good. Doctors say they might be on their last days on this earth. My family is very...
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Well... as I must admit... I’m not the most religious man in the world... I do have faith.... but my faith rests on many aspects of different religious texts beliefs and...
    gottofindabalance gottofindabalance 26-30, M 25 mins ago

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    I can't believe I'm writing this..but, it'swell here it goes: He is... God I don't know where to start. This man, to me is imperfectly just Perfect. How can a man be so...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I born to atheist parents, and although their upbringing was not always amazing by my standards, they have tolerated my freedom to a great degree, and actually they have done their...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F Jul 16

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    This is just something I came up with through my own thinking, study of the bible and various other sources. God is the consciousness of the universe in all dimensions and...
    pompeaj pompeaj 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    Scenario/Question: True story: I went to a routine physical last year on my birthday, which is on Halloween. My doctor, a young female doctor, was dressed as a housewife with...
    biggunsatx biggunsatx 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Oh God PLEASE dont do this to ME! .... TO US!! with an IQ average of 110 and 7 billion people ( and up)..... WE MUST FOREVER TOLERATE 4 billion idiots?! O_o *heavy breathing...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I believe the eyes language is more powerful than words could ever be.. Have you ever felt shaken by someone solely by the look of their eyes? Felt a connection even though you...
    layla911 layla911 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of Heaven and Earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, Born of the virgin Mary, Suffered...
    LyttleKelvin LyttleKelvin 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I never did believe in it until 3 months ago. My mom brother and dad are all passed and at night I was having on visit me every night it scared me then my brother that's alive...
    harleysue harleysue 56-60, F 1 hr ago

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    It's not that i hate the way I look, it's rather, why can't I be prettier like all these other girls I see. I'm not here to fish for compliments or ask for sympathy or whatever I...
    champagneroses champagneroses 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm learning to love my body shape... I have a curvy figure which most girls wish to have but I can't get myself to agree that I'm not fat... Curvy looks good on so many girls...
    SimplyBeingMe94 SimplyBeingMe94 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    Scenario/Question: True story: I went to a routine physical last year on my birthday, which is on Halloween. My doctor, a young female doctor, was dressed as a housewife with...
    biggunsatx biggunsatx 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So, it looks like 'all powerful god' either doesn't believe in Genesis, or doesn't care to have the story 'illustrated' by Ken Ham. Looks like Answers in Genesis is going to...
    bitlord bitlord 51-55 4 days ago

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    I can't visually see them, but I can definitely feel them. I've had two encounters with supernatural powers. First when I was a young lad, about 10-12 years old. I can't remember...
    Truromantic Truromantic 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 2

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    So I had finally move and by this time I moved I figured I had a grasp on relationships/love so I told my self I wasn't going to get into relationships till the time was right, I...
    Jitsallgood Jitsallgood 18-21, M Jul 4

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    I believe in the cosmos: “all that is, all that was, and all that ever will be”. I believe that everyone and everything in it are interconnected and this informs the way in...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    It's already August now~ I can't believe how fast the time goes~jeez~ and feel over speeding~
    kentlim00 kentlim00 13-15, M 20 hrs ago

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    I've actually got more guy friends that girl friends! I really do believe that a guy and a girl can just be friends. But I guess that's just my opinion; I've got brothers, and then...
    SilverEyedWolf SilverEyedWolf 13-15, F 19 hrs ago

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    I really need one today. I need a hug. I need to shout. I wanna die. My last message for him: As what the song goes, i will just put your poison in my veins until im okay. I feel...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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