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I Believe That Looks Arent Everything

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    Beauty Is Nothing

    especially when you have an ugly heart. Beauty fades..no matter how many cosmetic procedures you get. It is what's inside the heart that matters most... Because once you have a pure heart, no matter what you look like, you are definitely beautiful inside and out. :)
    fluffybunny87 fluffybunny87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    When you are young and daft you are always lead

    by your eyes. Especially if you're a guy. But. Over time. You learn that the most beautiful women(in your own opinion) rarely have the personality you seek to go with the looks.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 24, 2014

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    The Other Guy

    There is just something about getting older that makes you realize the truth behind this phrase. I have never been the type of girl who was attracted so much to the pretty boys. DON'T get me wrong, they are pretty to look at, but more often than that THEY already know that for...
    wonderingkitten wonderingkitten 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Not to be rude but good looking girls are easy

    to find. My bus journeys to uni take an hour and a half and we go through some busy towns, your guaranteed to see a few good looking girls. Hell at uni with over 2000 people your bound to see some good looking girls, so looks cannot be solely what you base your love or whatever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 9, 2013

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    Physical beauty is enchanting

    but who a person is is more important. You don't fall for a face or body but a persons heart.
    micmer micmer 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 19, 2014

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    Of course looks aren't everything.

    The personality is what counts, if someone is caring and funny and intelligent that's more attractive than a six pack.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Decieving

    Someone once said looks are decieving and I thinl they were right. Looks arent everything. Looks can and will get you into trouble. Beauty is only skin deep. Real beauty lies beneath the surface and you can be the ugliest person but if you have a warm heart your beauty will shine...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2008

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    They Sure Aren't !!!

    I believe that no matter what someone looks like their true character is what makes them beautifiul. Regardless of someone's race, sexual orientation, beliefs, height, or weight, their true beauty lies within. I honestly don't care what someone looks like. If you are nice to me...
    NiaNicolee NiaNicolee 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Most Always..

    ...people are judged by their looks, clothes, cars etc... They will judge how much money you have and your standing and worth as a person... I had an uncle who since passed away..truly a businesman and showman...incredibly rich...but he always wore mismatched clothes and...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 12, 2010

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    Just Love Yourself And Others

    I hate those situations where one person gives up somebody amazing for someone better looking. I hate how people have to feel insecure and less of a person because their genes didn't make them attractive. I hate being part of those categories. But I've learned to accept myself as...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    It is sad to say that

    for many people looks are everything. What they fail to see is that as you age where does that external beauty go it fades away with age in most cases. People tend to shy away from the caring, loving individuals, the smart and intelligent ones and choose a big booty and big...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    My Thoughts.

    Yeah, I hear this a lot from people. They say that looks aren't everything, they only focus on personality and a connection. Well, I think half those people are just liars. I agree, looks aren't "everything", but they sure are important. I'm not shallow, nor will I ever judge...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    So often do I meet a girl/boy

    who looks hot as hell but they're dumb or we just dont click.
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie 16-17, M May 29, 2014

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    Yeah I feel like personality really does counts.

    Looks are not always going to be everything
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    Beauty Is Perception.

    i've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now and today he finally met my family. Everything went great, but my sister told me later today that our other sister was like "Is she desperate?" (aka she being Me) It astonished me how rude she was....of course she said this behind my...
    GreyDaze GreyDaze 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Why are we so obsessed with how we look,

    as if beauty is all we have to offer? I doubt a man will stay just because you're beautiful. And vice versa. Because .. Uhh, There are beautiful women/ men E V E R Y W H E R E. 💙😱 What else is special about you? What makes you stand out ? What do you love ? What do hate...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    More Than Looks

    I have to say that, as I get older, my ideas about beauty have changed. I love women of all shapes, sizes, colors and what have you. Women with a great brain are a turn on. I love talking to women who understand what I'm talking about. I love history, geography, writing...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I Wish Everyone Thought Like This..

    I struggle with my own confidence. I know I am not attractive and a little overweight. I think there is immense pressure for people to loose their virginity and conform to one of society's 'looks'. This just mounts to me feeling even worth about myself. I would never dream of...
    Airion Airion 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    I Dress Pretty On The Outside To Hide The Ugly Thing On The Inside

    People quite commonly call me beautiful. I feel awkward during such instances. Because exteriorly, I feel that I just am average. I spend a lot of time as of late putting on makeup and keeping attention to fashion. I think its something to channel my energies towards, to help me...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F Nov 27, 2011

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    Is there a group "I believe looks are

    everything". I shall go and create one if there isn't already, just for fun.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23, 2014

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    I Really, Really, Really Hope They're Not...

    ...otherwise I'm screwed. :P
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 9 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Funny Story

    when i was young I was the ugly member in the family that everyone make fun of.i looked weird and very thin ppl used to think that im sick or something.but when i turned into a teenager i turned to be pretty girl.first it was nice but i got used to it easily.for me being...
    fafitalicious fafitalicious 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    ATTENTION EVERYONE: Looks are not everything.

    I'm sorry but if your the type of person that thinks looks are everything then shame on you for making people think that they need to look better or look perfect just for you to notice them. You should be happy just the way you are don't change yourself to fit in to society. Be...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    Of course I want the initial attraction.

    But if the inside isn't matching the outside, (and I know that sounds cliché) then what's the point? ? We could just sit and stare at each other maybe.
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F May 5, 2014

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    Looks Aren't Everything

    I do not look at a persons face or the way they dress. I want to know their heart. I like to sit and chat with folks and get arroused by some stories depending on the content. But pretty much I care nothing about looks.
    dawgirl dawgirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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