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I Believe That Sex Gets Better With Experience And Age

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3,090 People

    Oh Yeah !!

    It really helps IF you know WHAT you are DOING !!................................ Keep comunication open..... find out the needs and preferences of who you are with and AIM to PLEASE !!!! The older the violin.......The SWEETER THE MUSIC !!! Now let's get it ON !!!!!!
    deleted deleted
    Mar 12, 2012

    This Is A Story From Indian Continent - A Teacher & Student In Love

    Delhi for all practical purposes is one place where power resides either in the echelons and corridors of politics, government or corporate. Powerful men and women also work and do what they like to do. Some of them are very powerful with their bodies. They perform more in Delhi...
    pamar pamar
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 25, 2012

    Wish I Knew Now........

    I couldn't agree more with this group. When you're young and dumb and full of *** it's easy to pound away with just one thing in mind. Been there done that. With age comes experience and with the right person the experiences can be an endless sexual escapade reaching new heights...
    Gyummy Gyummy
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2012

    Wettest Woman I'Ve Known.

    Theresa was a preachers wife that I had a longer term association with during my first marriage. Older, tall, very lean with smaller sized breasts, nice legs and reasonably nice ***. She was in a higher position at the downtown headquarters of a bank here and always wore skirts...
    Cottondog Cottondog
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

    I definitely believe

    that sexual relationships get so much better with experience and with age too. When I was a young teenager, at age 15, I had sex and got pregnant from that because the moron did not pull out of me timey before shooting inside me. We did not know what we were doing and that...
    amandahill amandahill
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    I never really understood

    why sex was so great until i was 30. i would have sex with my Husband and then wait for him to go to sleep so i could finish up what He started. I didnt fully understand my sexuality and was afraid to have an open discussion about my needs until one day after 13 yrs of marriage...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    Practice makes perfect

    and experience does help.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616
    May 5, 2015

    Hell Yeah!

    I have definitely had MUCH better sex in my 30s and 40s than I ever had before. Experience makes such a difference. I love being with men who know what they are doing. I love men who have taken the time to learn the female body and how to make it sing. :)
    LBVamp LBVamp
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    Experience Makes It Much Better......

    After my 1st divorce Iwas working at a call center, and I was friendly with a girl about 17 years younger, but it was obvious what we had was going nowhere. Then Dee told me her mom needed an escort to a dinner, so I agreed and called her mom & made the date. When I picked her up...
    chillsdavis chillsdavis
    56-60, M
    Jul 7, 2012

    I Feel It Should Get Better

    it is like any thing else youhave to talk excahnge ideas exchange feeling and learn about each otherif you love each other youhave to be willing to try different things with each other to explore different feelinswe loved hot bath with each otherwe loved make love on the gound...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Sep 17, 2012

    Ha, I've found that of the couple of young guys

    I've enjoyed, their endurance is pleasing, but they lacked the expertise to truly pleasure me. It was a hole lot of frenzy, but most was wasted. I gave neither a chance for a repeat performance. Give me a fifty something guy who knows what to do and I'll choose him anytime...
    CharlotteBlue CharlotteBlue
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2014

    As we get older, we lost

    that shyness, that awkwardness that comes ( haha, comes. :P) with youth. I think that if you ever want sex advice, you should ask someone who is older and is frank about the subject, such as my mother. She never hesitated to tell me what I needed to know on the subject. So...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2014

    I have both age and experience.

    Actually more experience than age as my Wife and I make love each morning. Last night she selected a simple Olga teddy, actually very similar to a leotard in black. Think about a classic one piece bathing suit with one twist being three hook and eye fasteners at the crotch...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1
    51-55, M
    3 Responses May 3, 2014

    I dont know if better per say

    but lasts much longer as we evolve. Knowing what a woman likes and cherishing every inch and totally satisfying her. Age brings experience
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    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    Ageing Gracefully

    I have noticed as the years have passed that I have become more in tune with my body and that of my partners. I can feel when he is close to the edge of desire and I know now how to please him every time we make love.Where to touch, how my hot breath sends him insanely wild. It...
    HowMuchCanaKoalaBear HowMuchCanaKoalaBear
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2012

    I believe that a younger man (me) have more

    stamina but with the experience of an older women is the best possible sex harder for longer. I think that would be the best sex combination
    Jack1230 Jack1230
    18-21, M
    Feb 16, 2015

     Ache For Sex and Candy.

     :) In that order, although sometimes sex, IS candy.  HmmI'm quite comfortable with my sexuality as am I equally comfortable with my appetite of epic purportions for the desire that lives in me.I am but a womana woman That answers the call of her basic instinct.Sex is...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter
    7 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    I Love To Find A Young Lady Who WANT TO LEARN The Art Of Love

    Ravens522006 Ravens522006
    41-45, M
    Nov 3, 2012

    Yes - No Doubt

    After all years of exposure of feminine beauty with close encounters and loving touch - is rich and when that person gives and share it with young women - who enjoys most is the younger one!
    pamar pamar
    56-60, M
    Oct 15, 2012

    Tips To Improve Your Sex Life With Age (How To Enjoy More Fulfilling Sex.. )

    Key Ponts For Enjoying a satisfying sex life - Whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do to get your sex life back on track. - Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, availing yourself of some of the many excellent self-help...
    nivanvc nivanvc
    41-45, M
    Jul 25, 2013

    as i have gotten older

    and my stamina has declined i have had to be more creative in my sex life. my fat **** may not always get the job done anymore so i have become very good with my tongue and fingers. i like to jocke that i can "breath through my ears" lol
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Aug 10, 2014


    Okey, guess I would also have to throw in some thoughts to this group. And it goes without saying that the older you get with the experience, the more you come close to perfection. To maneuver ones glides to with grace and confidence. And find fulfillment for each other's...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Mar 12, 2012
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2014


    The title of the groupe is so right. I believe that as we mature and explore our bodies and our fantasies, things become much better. As we mature, the things we love will become even more intense, the know how is achieved also. That is why some people prefer older partners...
    dragonstarr00 dragonstarr00
    41-45, M
    Aug 23, 2012

    At Least For The Males It Does,....

    ..., I mean I'm almost 55 year-very sexually active when I get the chance and the gals my age are all into scrap booking. Too bad there are not more younger gals that want to have a seasoned Male in their life, at least till they get their next "Minute Man". The younger gals are...
    bepuzzled bepuzzled
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

    I can't imagine how the reverse could be true,

    but I'm sure someone has a story for it.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    I think all the sexual encounters we experience

    create lifelong memories & interesting stories..... I found sex much more exciting in my 20's before I settled down, when I could explore my sexuality & desires without hurting anyone...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    My First Experience Of Oral Sex...Fantastic!

    I was 17, and I was with my first real girl friend; her name was Christine and I will never forget her. She was a cute, bubbly, intelligent, sexy, fair haired, and only about five feet four inches; she had a lovely pair of breasts, firm and a really nice handful. I knew her...
    SquadronLeader SquadronLeader
    66-70, M
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    What Many Do Not Know,....

    ..., and till I had met her, I really didn't either. A few years back I had he most wonderful lover. She was coming out of a bad marriage and moved to the area and we met on Yahoo. Personals. Well we really hit it off and she was a very open Female. We became lovers and she was...
    bepuzzled bepuzzled
    51-55, M
    Sep 16, 2012

    Being Comfortable With Yourself

    For me and in my experience, when I was younger and with younger partners, it was about raging hormones and image. Trying to live up to a standard, a mental image of what I was supposed to be as far as a lover goes. There was an element of competition. To be seen as the best...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 30, 2012

    Sexy Mature Fun

    I guess I have always been a rogue. There's no denying the past when you start to reflect. I work with th public on a daily basis and in my younger years I rarely missed an opportunity. Marge worked at a local plant and saw her often. The first time we ventured out we enjoyed a...
    Cottondog Cottondog
    41-45, M
    Apr 14, 2013

    Got a question for the ladies.

    Do women typically prefer submissive or dominate men? In my experience I get better results being dominate, I wonder if that is because the women I have been with think that is what I prefer. Just curious. I enjoy both.
    jusumguy jusumguy
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    Sex and romance is more fulfilling with women

    who know who they are and what they want.
    padraig17325 padraig17325
    56-60, M
    Jan 23, 2015

    From A Woman's Perspective

    As we get older, we become less selfish or rather that is how it should be. I would like to think that it is true in my case. When we overcome the selfishness of youth, sex becomes not only about self-gratification and we take greater pleasure in pleasing the one that we are with...
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Mar 24, 2012

    Oh Yeah, It Does.

    But now the bad news. You get better and better, but you gradually lose interest in it....****, did I really just write that nonsense...Proove me wrong people.
    peeveesee peeveesee
    41-45, M
    Jun 2, 2013

    God And All The Saints

    i lost It when i was 13. just a bumbling kid supriesed i was doing it at all. but as circumstances plyed out, being snowed in by a blizzard at her house for nearly 2 weeks, we had plenty of chances to experiment and work on our techique and stamina. that when i began to realize...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda
    46-50, M
    May 9, 2012

    I didn't realize what an ****** actually was

    until I hit my thirties and sexual prime.... The difference with age and experience is indescribable. All my younger friends are amazed when I tell them that it gets better.....
    TrueBecca TrueBecca
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 21, 2014


    when i was Virgin prolly wasnt so great lucky for me she wasnt virgin then with time and age now i put it down like a champ so the answer to this is yes time age and experience woman would agree why you think date older guys and why you think guys 18 and up have to try so hard...
    AngelTrey AngelTrey
    22-25, M
    Oct 11, 2012

    Ok here's the thing .

    Just had the most amazing afternoon and evening with my BF. Hadn't really had time with him till today , as you know he's a little older than me . And yes the title of this experience is so true . He is an amazing , sensual and sexy lover . Every touch he makes , makes me...
    LT167 LT167
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

    The kids are in bed. Have to work early in the

    morning. It is planned...anticipated.  Spontaneity is bullshit, I've been thinking about what I'm going to do to you all day. We know each others bodies like nothing else in the world. We know what every moan means, where every muscle shift is going. We can ask for exactly what...
    Sif42 Sif42
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Dec 9, 2013
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