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I Believe That Sex Gets Better With Experience And Age

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,821 People

    Being Comfortable With Yourself

    For me and in my experience, when I was younger and with younger partners, it was about raging hormones and image. Trying to live up to a standard, a mental image of what I was supposed to be as far as a lover goes. There was an element of competition. To be seen as the best...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    I honestly believe this is true.

    If I could have done then, what I can do now..........I wouldn't have lived to see now!! No comparison in stamina, no comparison in knowledge, no comparison in mastery!!! What a great curve ball life will throw you if you just keep swinging!! LOL
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 10 Responses Mar 2

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    Like everything practice makes one better

    and age makes one wiser. So many ways to enjoy it. I rather savor it and take my time with a woman. There's a time and place for speed.To me taking the time to speed up the pace is the best and most rewarding to you and me. Enjoy it and be happy...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 24

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    I can't imagine how the reverse could be true,

    but I'm sure someone has a story for it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 15

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    Oh Yeah, It Does.

    But now the bad news. You get better and better, but you gradually lose interest in it....****, did I really just write that nonsense...Proove me wrong people.
    peeveesee peeveesee 41-45, M Jun 2, 2013

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    Tips To Improve Your Sex Life With Age (How To Enjoy More Fulfilling Sex.. )

    Key Ponts For Enjoying a satisfying sex life - Whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do to get your sex life back on track. - Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, availing yourself of some of the many excellent self-help...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 25, 2013

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    Oh Yesssss!

    Sex does get better with experience and age. You and your partners have a list of viable techniques. You're also connected on more than a hormonal level. And there are fewer inhibitions. You have figured out that someone else's opinion is BS. If something is pleasurable and all...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Hell Yeah!

    I have definitely had MUCH better sex in my 30s and 40s than I ever had before. Experience makes such a difference. I love being with men who know what they are doing. I love men who have taken the time to learn the female body and how to make it sing. :)
    LBVamp LBVamp 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    As we get older, we lost

    that shyness, that awkwardness that comes ( haha, comes. :P) with youth. I think that if you ever want sex advice, you should ask someone who is older and is frank about the subject, such as my mother. She never hesitated to tell me what I needed to know on the subject. So...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    as i have gotten older

    and my stamina has declined i have had to be more creative in my sex life. my fat **** may not always get the job done anymore so i have become very good with my tongue and fingers. i like to jocke that i can "breath through my ears" lol
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Ok here's the thing .

    Just had the most amazing afternoon and evening with my BF. Hadn't really had time with him till today , as you know he's a little older than me . And yes the title of this experience is so true . He is an amazing , sensual and sexy lover . Every touch he makes , makes me...
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Ha, I've found that of the couple of young guys

    I've enjoyed, their endurance is pleasing, but they lacked the expertise to truly pleasure me. It was a hole lot of frenzy, but most was wasted. I gave neither a chance for a repeat performance. Give me a fifty something guy who knows what to do and I'll choose him anytime...
    CharlotteBlue CharlotteBlue 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    From A Woman's Perspective

    As we get older, we become less selfish or rather that is how it should be. I would like to think that it is true in my case. When we overcome the selfishness of youth, sex becomes not only about self-gratification and we take greater pleasure in pleasing the one that we are with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Wish I Knew Now........

    I couldn't agree more with this group. When you're young and dumb and full of *** it's easy to pound away with just one thing in mind. Been there done that. With age comes experience and with the right person the experiences can be an endless sexual escapade reaching new heights...
    Gyummy Gyummy 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    I didn't realize what an ****** actually was

    until I hit my thirties and sexual prime.... The difference with age and experience is indescribable. All my younger friends are amazed when I tell them that it gets better.....
    TrueBecca TrueBecca 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    I definitely believe

    that sexual relationships get so much better with experience and with age too. When I was a young teenager, at age 15, I had sex and got pregnant from that because the moron did not pull out of me timey before shooting inside me. We did not know what we were doing and that...
    amandahill amandahill 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Wettest Woman I'Ve Known.

    Theresa was a preachers wife that I had a longer term association with during my first marriage. Older, tall, very lean with smaller sized breasts, nice legs and reasonably nice ***. She was in a higher position at the downtown headquarters of a bank here and always wore skirts...
    Cottondog Cottondog 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    Priceless

    Okey, guess I would also have to throw in some thoughts to this group. And it goes without saying that the older you get with the experience, the more you come close to perfection. To maneuver ones glides to with grace and confidence. And find fulfillment for each other's...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 11 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    If you are not open, then you will get passed

    by, right? Also, if you are not open to absolutely anything, then messaging me will be a complete waste of your and my time.
    FelixtheVirus FelixtheVirus 22-25, F 2 Responses May 31

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    Practice makes perfect

    and experience does help.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 May 5

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    At Least For The Males It Does,....

    ..., I mean I'm almost 55 year-very sexually active when I get the chance and the gals my age are all into scrap booking. Too bad there are not more younger gals that want to have a seasoned Male in their life, at least till they get their next "Minute Man". The younger gals are...
    bepuzzled bepuzzled 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    My First Experience Of Oral Sex...Fantastic!

    I was 17, and I was with my first real girl friend; her name was Christine and I will never forget her. She was a cute, bubbly, intelligent, sexy, fair haired, and only about five feet four inches; she had a lovely pair of breasts, firm and a really nice handful. I knew her...
    SquadronLeader SquadronLeader 66-70, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Oh most definitely. When I was a young pup,

    it was all about getting my nut. Now? I looooooove the slow buildup of anticipation as I gradually arouse my lover. When you wait to actually begin intercourse until she is literally begging for it, you know things are going to end well for all involved ;)
    ThirtySevenX ThirtySevenX 46-50, M 1 Response May 11

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    I think all the sexual encounters we experience

    create lifelong memories & interesting stories..... I found sex much more exciting in my 20's before I settled down, when I could explore my sexuality & desires without hurting anyone...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    Oh Yes It Does!

    As you get older and older you have learned and experimented enough to find out how to please your partner as well as your self. I totally agree, and I would sub jest that you keep an open mind to learning and experimenting with your lover to keep things fresh, new, and exciting...
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Mar 18, 2013

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    The kids are in bed. Have to work early in the

    morning. It is planned...anticipated.  Spontaneity is bullshit, I've been thinking about what I'm going to do to you all day. We know each others bodies like nothing else in the world. We know what every moan means, where every muscle shift is going. We can ask for exactly what...
    Sif42 Sif42 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    I believe that a younger man (me) have more

    stamina but with the experience of an older women is the best possible sex harder for longer. I think that would be the best sex combination
    Jack1230 Jack1230 18-21, M Feb 16

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    Wisdom!

    The title of the groupe is so right. I believe that as we mature and explore our bodies and our fantasies, things become much better. As we mature, the things we love will become even more intense, the know how is achieved also. That is why some people prefer older partners...
    dragonstarr00 dragonstarr00 36-40, M Aug 23, 2012

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    Then And Now

    No doubt about it, no matter what the task is everyone gets better with experience!
    braap40 braap40 31-35, M 1 Response May 28, 2013

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    I have both age and experience.

    Actually more experience than age as my Wife and I make love each morning. Last night she selected a simple Olga teddy, actually very similar to a leotard in black. Think about a classic one piece bathing suit with one twist being three hook and eye fasteners at the crotch...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1 51-55, M 3 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I think as young married couples we are

    so busy with careers and raising children that forget about sex ! As we grow older we learn to appreciate the value of sex in a marriage. Giving and receiving in the bedroom is vital to a good relationship. Couples need to learn to communicate their sexual needs and desires...
    petite44 petite44 51-55, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    God And All The Saints

    i lost It when i was 13. just a bumbling kid supriesed i was doing it at all. but as circumstances plyed out, being snowed in by a blizzard at her house for nearly 2 weeks, we had plenty of chances to experiment and work on our techique and stamina. that when i began to realize...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M May 9, 2012

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    Sex and romance is more fulfilling with women

    who know who they are and what they want.
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M Jan 23

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    Got a question for the ladies.

    Do women typically prefer submissive or dominate men? In my experience I get better results being dominate, I wonder if that is because the women I have been with think that is what I prefer. Just curious. I enjoy both.
    jusumguy jusumguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 2

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    If you are not open, then you will get passed

    by, right? Also, if you are not open to absolutely anything, then messaging me will be a complete waste of your and my time.
    FelixtheVirus2 FelixtheVirus2 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    Sexy Mature Fun

    I guess I have always been a rogue. There's no denying the past when you start to reflect. I work with th public on a daily basis and in my younger years I rarely missed an opportunity. Marge worked at a local plant and saw her often. The first time we ventured out we enjoyed a...
    Cottondog Cottondog 41-45, M Apr 14, 2013

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    Ageing Gracefully

    I have noticed as the years have passed that I have become more in tune with my body and that of my partners. I can feel when he is close to the edge of desire and I know now how to please him every time we make love.Where to touch, how my hot breath sends him insanely wild. It...
    HowMuchCanaKoalaBear HowMuchCanaKoalaBear 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Experience Makes It Much Better......

    After my 1st divorce Iwas working at a call center, and I was friendly with a girl about 17 years younger, but it was obvious what we had was going nowhere. Then Dee told me her mom needed an escort to a dinner, so I agreed and called her mom & made the date. When I picked her up...
    chillsdavis chillsdavis 56-60, M Jul 7, 2012

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    It definitely does because I know what I want

    and I know how to make a woman glad that I know I want her....
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    It should get better

    as long as the juices keep flowing and you can actually keep going. Otherwise it can be hurtful and like screwing a roll of sandpaper with the lubricating oils
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2014

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    Oh Yeah !!

    It really helps IF you know WHAT you are DOING !!................................ Keep comunication open..... find out the needs and preferences of who you are with and AIM to PLEASE !!!! The older the violin.......The SWEETER THE MUSIC !!! Now let's get it ON !!!!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 12, 2012

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