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I Believe That the Concept of Gender Is Totally Outdated

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    I guess it depends where your coming from

    and how you see things as they really are. I'll let the cat out of the bag, I'm a androgyne, a true androgyne. So I view things very much different than most people do. I didn't want to join any andrgynous groups because I see a great many men who wish to be androgynous due to...
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M Mar 11

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    My Squalk Is This....

    Now that women are equal in employment and every other way, let's make gender irrelevant in dating too. No more of this expectation that men will do all the work and take all the risks to start relationships. Atleast for nerds/intellectual eccentrics, this would help put the...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 6 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I Believe That Gender Is Out Dateed

    I believe but dose every one Else believe ,I truer believe that we as the human race is starting to make progress to equity by letting every one do what they can and what they what to do without being force to because of there genes .if some one what to live they life as a...
    ravennite44 ravennite44 46-50, T 1 Response Apr 14, 2009

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    2009....A Gender Odessy

    The times are a changin'   Not really!   We still have to be Gender Specific in the 21st Century   If I want to dress as a woman in public..I should be able to without any fear of  apprehension   Women wear men's clothes all the time!  ...
    mzdivine mzdivine 56-60 10 Responses Jun 12, 2009

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    Free Your Mind and Your Androgyny

    Man, A vision of Masculinity with his pants and chest hair tufting out of his flannel shirt as he's drinking a beer, holding a gun and talking about the chick he bagged the night before... Woman, Barefoot, pregnant, phone in one hand baby on the hip and a casserole in the oven...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 10 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Outdated

    I don't think it makes sense to tell children how they should act based upon one body part. We give them toys based upon gender, books, movies and different treatments based upon gender, it doesn't make sense. Instead of telling a child who they are supposed to be, we should...
    Angrygirlsilentboy Angrygirlsilentboy 18-21, T 8 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Let's Get With The Program Folks

    Gender is a psychological construct while sex is a physical manifestation. This is important to remember, regardless of what society continually tells us all. I am and always have been female, since I was a small child. I love feminine and female things, all my life. Females...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 9 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Aside From Being An "Innie" or an "Outie"...

    There's really a few variations - sure there are mood and hormones and other physiological issues, and of course nature/nurture and epigenetics, but as adults, is there really a difference  - does gender really matter?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    I Think Gender Is a Stereot...

    I think gender is a stereotype that we place on individuals sexuality.  They can't help being born with the sex they are born with yet we force individuals into neat little packages that say I'm a girl or I'm a boy based on what the world expects.  I think we should...
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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