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I Believe That the Concept of Gender Is Totally Outdated

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    Aside From Being An "Innie" or an "Outie"...

    There's really a few variations - sure there are mood and hormones and other physiological issues, and of course nature/nurture and epigenetics, but as adults, is there really a difference  - does gender really matter?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Gender, But Which One?

    The concept of the gender. One way is simple, but another way is so complicated... Generally speaking, if we say gender we think about it as male and female. Its not so simple. Which one gender we thought? Because it have a few. We can think about the regular used one, which...
    VivienXX VivienXX 26-30, T 2 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    I Think Gender Is a Stereot...

    I think gender is a stereotype that we place on individuals sexuality.  They can't help being born with the sex they are born with yet we force individuals into neat little packages that say I'm a girl or I'm a boy based on what the world expects.  I think we should...
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2009

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    2009....A Gender Odessy

    The times are a changin'   Not really!   We still have to be Gender Specific in the 21st Century   If I want to dress as a woman in public..I should be able to without any fear of  apprehension   Women wear men's clothes all the time!  ...
    mzdivine mzdivine 56-60 10 Responses Jun 12, 2009

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    Outdated

    I don't think it makes sense to tell children how they should act based upon one body part. We give them toys based upon gender, books, movies and different treatments based upon gender, it doesn't make sense. Instead of telling a child who they are supposed to be, we should...
    Angrygirlsilentboy Angrygirlsilentboy 18-21, T 8 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I Believe That Gender Is Out Dateed

    I believe but dose every one Else believe ,I truer believe that we as the human race is starting to make progress to equity by letting every one do what they can and what they what to do without being force to because of there genes .if some one what to live they life as a...
    ravennite44 ravennite44 46-50, T 1 Response Apr 14, 2009

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    Let's Get With The Program Folks

    Gender is a psychological construct while sex is a physical manifestation. This is important to remember, regardless of what society continually tells us all. I am and always have been female, since I was a small child. I love feminine and female things, all my life. Females...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 9 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Free Your Mind and Your Androgyny

    Man, A vision of Masculinity with his pants and chest hair tufting out of his flannel shirt as he's drinking a beer, holding a gun and talking about the chick he bagged the night before... Woman, Barefoot, pregnant, phone in one hand baby on the hip and a casserole in the oven...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 10 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    Hybrid

    'Totally', is a bit strong perhaps, but it looks as if the traditional concepts of gender are outdated indeed. People became persons lately. A man is not another man or another and women too all are different. A female mind may be trapped in a male body and vice versa...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M Sep 5, 2010

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    My Squalk Is This....

    Now that women are equal in employment and every other way, let's make gender irrelevant in dating too. No more of this expectation that men will do all the work and take all the risks to start relationships. Atleast for nerds/intellectual eccentrics, this would help put the...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 6 Responses Jun 11, 2009

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    I have only started truly believing in him for almost a year now, but when I think back to my childhood. I can remember a lot of things that happened to me that I can relate back...
    FrostedWillow FrostedWillow 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    I love traditional gender roles! We both know our place and our responsibilities and their are suited to us. He leads and has the final say in everything. While my opinion is very...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Can someone explain to me more about the genderqueer spectrum? I support it of course, but there's some things that I don't understand about it. thanks in advance!
    aphpan aphpan 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I am trans- I don't think I am. But sometimes I get incredibly bothered by my sex. I just don't feel like my gender. I have gotten to the point where in my head I...
    petrichoreographed petrichoreographed 16-17 1 day ago

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    Whats up? My birth given name is Jordan. I feel my gender is beyond male or female. I refuse labels. Wanna chat?
    Earthdaughter Earthdaughter 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I agree. I don't really think about my gender often unless it comes up in debate or discussion. In fact, I prefer to base my identity around other things that don't relate to...
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate it when websites or airline companies ask you for a gender pronoun. "Would you like to be referred to as ms, mrs or mr?" Now you are asking. Too bad nobody asked for my...
    aersibeth aersibeth 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    There is no gender. Its fiction. There is only soul. Caring Or angry. Why angry. Roles. Lol.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Ok. This is what happened to me in a nutshell this year. This is totally what I believe. This is why I'm at where I'm at. But as crazy as that seems, I believe with no doubt that...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For some reason...I'm totally capable of love and loving people who do not return it. I can give and give and give love...even when I feel like I have nothing left to give, I...
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1 26-30, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    whatishappening15 whatishappening15 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I totally believe in traditional marriage roles. The man should be in charge. He should be the one to make any big (and little too if he wishes) decisions. The wife's role should...
    Rscfm04 Rscfm04 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    my family believe in them so much but i don't at all, i just want to wear my hair a certain way and dress a certain way, but they have such a problem with it.
    aohana aohana 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    90% of the time i feel like a guy trapped in a girls body, but i dont fully hate how i look. the only time i feel like a girl is when im in my "little headspace" (im a little in...
    kydanks kydanks 18-21, T a week ago

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    To me it doesn't matter the color of your skin or your age or gender. I believe that everyone is equal and that everyone is deserving of having the utmost level of respect. It...
    laurenholliday laurenholliday 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Some days being gender fluid/a gender can be really annoying it doesn't help that no one knows. I'm not sure which I am either :/ Today I feel like a guy problem is I'm biological...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    I think my conception of social justice is different from that of SJW's and leftoids. To me, social justice means people have an obligation to protect the most vulnerable members...
    BlotOutTheSun BlotOutTheSun 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    A quote from Ra. If only more people believed this... “That which is infinite cannot be many, for many-ness is a finite concept. To have infinity you must identify or define the...
    universalsoul13 universalsoul13 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    While I have had but a simple taste of what the concept of Non-duality means and offers, through currently re-reading the book 'The Teachers of One: Living Advaita - Conversations...
    SolitaryFriend SolitaryFriend 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm married, and I love my wife very much. I don't make any secret of my love for girls clothes and shoes. I don't go out where men are found. I enjoy tanning and getting pedicures...
    prettylegs1968 prettylegs1968 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    as if every word that comes out of their mouth is from God. i believe in reading the Bible if you want and know the truth for yourself. i just am in a very irritable mood, and i...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F Aug 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    It's not a bad thing to not believe in God. People get so passionate over the beliefs of others. My only problem with religion is when people try to push their beliefs onto me or...
    elliemv elliemv 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    Sure! Although I am, maybe, 75% happy with my gender, I'd love to switch for as long as a month. I'm bisexual and sometimes fantasize about having straight sex with a female. Even...
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