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I Believe That Women Are In Their Sexual Prime At 30 And Ove

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    Yay For The Dirty Thirties

    Holy crap. I am like a teenage boy. I want it all the time, and I pleasure myself at least once a day. I am unable to deny myself new sex toys whenever I see something interesting. My husband can't keep up with me. I even injured his penis last week, which has been to my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 24 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Better And Better

    There were times when I was more interested in a man for what kind of life I could have with him, then there were times when I was interested in a man because of the amount of fun I could have with him.   As I have gotten older I have changed sometimes a little, but over time...
    geemack geemack 61-65, F May 27, 2011

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    Uh-huh

    I believe yes, just saying that I believe it to be true. *eyes rolls*
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Yet To Be Ravenous

    Im 39 and I don't think I was any hornier in my thirties than I was in my 20's. 23 sticks out as an age where I was wanting to get it on a lot. I hear that women reach their prime later in life. I thought it was more like 40 and over. Psshh. If that happens, it won't do me any...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    Not Sure What To Say

    if it would have ever been any better thebwe had fronm 12.5 years old on till she was killed at age 19 i do know those last 7 days in japan before i was hurt and she was killed the next day was the great we had ever shared
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 16, 2011

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    I Don't Think So Possibly

    I have been at my sexual peak since young age. It all depends if you act on it you maybe being tested busy being toyed with or played and that effects the peak prime as well. My ex peak was on he was older I was younger. Hormones can flucuate anytime. Of course now I am dealing...
    atsweet atsweet 31-35, F Mar 3, 2012

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    For Me It's True

    I have always enjoyed sex...but used to be more unsure of myself than I am now. I'm 43..which is still weird for me to say.LOL But I feel I'm a lot more into sex now than I used to be. I'm not afraid to ask for what I want & need. I'm not saying I still don't have body issues...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Sexual Freedom

    At 38 I have come into my sexual prime. I mean I have always had a very high sex drive and if possible it is even stronger and higher. The desire to always have sex is so strong,it's no longer a want but a need. However in my journey I have discovered some things along the way...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    I Love Mature Women

    I wrote about this once before but it never hurts to repeat my feelings. I have a wfe over 40 and a gf who is 43. My wife and I dont have sex any more. She wss hot when i married her but that wore off after marriage. My gf loves having sex with me. She lives in a nearby town...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M Apr 24, 2011

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    There Are Exceptions To Every Rule!

    By age 30 my wife had just given birth to our 2nd and last child. She also decided that sex was obsolete. No more need for it! So for every sexual woman over thirty, there are a few who could careless about sex. Hopefully guys...you chose well!
    abigguy4u abigguy4u 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    I Dont But Do....

    I also believe girls over 30 are hotter when it comes to wanting ****. but lil'r ones are sexyal too
    mywifeinurbed mywifeinurbed 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    Well... I Can Only Speak From Experience

    When I hit 29, my hormones went CRAZY, and they haven't stopped now that I'm 30. I STAY horny. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Older The Lady Golder The Honey

    Well yes just like the saying that goes "Older the Bull harder the horn" I am certain its similar as "Older the lady bolder the venture" It started out like this I live in an apartment where my neighbor is a divorcee with a kid of 03 yrs.She was 33 about 5ft 2" in height skin the...
    jonnylong jonnylong 36-40, M 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    I Believe That Women Are In Their Sexual Prime At 30 And Over Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . i am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    thisthatcurious thisthatcurious 56-60 Nov 28, 2013

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    Ptman - You Crack Me Up!

    Talk about stating the obvious!Are you just fishing for us more mature ladies (haha) to start flirting with you ... flattery will get you everywhere my dear! There was a question in Q&A the other day (along the lines of)  Can women still enjoy sex after 50?  Who writes this...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Women Sexual Peak

    Some people say it is in the 30's and other says it is in their 40's.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 27, 2011

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    I Agree

    Its just too bad men do it in their late teens and early twenties. It also means most women get cheated of really good sex.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Eager To Start, Quick To Finish

    After countless countless 15-20 minutes and then give me an hour and a half sandwich between my mid 20's to early 30's I came up with Young Men: Eager to Start, Quick to Finish. They recover faster but in most cases have not been around long enough to acquire the subtle nuances...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 1 Response Jun 27, 2011

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    A Chance Encounter!

    It was a Friday afternoon in Spring time. I had left work early for a Dental appointment. The appointment went well and I was out of there in less than 30 minutes. I was not expected home until 6pm. It was only 3:30, what to do! I decided to take the coast Highway home, a...
    abigguy4u abigguy4u 56-60, M 6 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    My Friends Will Judge Me... Dont You Judge Me Too

    So this is going to be lengthy, sorry. I started dating him Dec 5, 2011. I broke it off Dec 16, 2012. Why? he wouldnt commit and I was suspicious. He was less concerned with what I was doing on a day to day basis. He stayed glued to his phone. and words of affection less frequent...
    angiekalamazoo angiekalamazoo 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    Seriously??

    You mean I have yet to reach my peak??Holy hell the next guy better come with a fire extinguisher ready!
    Bleed Bleed 31-35, F 35 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Agreeed !!!

    Becasue they know what they want ! They know how to get it !! Plus they really know what they are doing !!!!
    just4fun11123 just4fun11123 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    30--you Kidding

    My wife& quite a few folks we've known didn't come into their own till pushing 50(&older)-Could have something to do with becoming empty nesters!
    jettys jettys 56-60 Mar 20, 2011

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    My beautiful wife and Mistress have decided to

    start our pages on here looking for friends and networking. I am 40 bi m who loves to be humiliated and made to dress up by my wife and suck **** and want to get ******. I would love to see my wifes sweet ***** ****** by a fat **** since I have such a small sissy **** ****. She...
    hersissycuck hersissycuck 41-45, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Definitely!!

    At 18, I discovered sex. It was good, but "on the run". In my early twenties I tried to act like "in the movies", wich meant I insisted on every cliche and common place available at the time. In my late twenties I wanted to get pregnant, so all I had in mind was the need to...
    anonimacy anonimacy 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    What Can I Say....

    this is what I have seen.....not just with the woman in my life, but with most of the women i know. They are into happiness and pleasure and don't play games or use guys.
    river05 river05 56-60, M 8 Responses May 13, 2011

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    I Have To Admit,

    I gave PTman grief for making this group 40 and over.   I barked at him saying it should be 30 and over.  In our 20's, those are the years of exploration for us women.  WE explore, we have fun, we get to know bodies in a way we've never explored before.  But it is in our 30's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Even At 50 Women Can Still Rock Your World

    when i was in my 20's , i ran into a women in a fetish club event who was 50. young people where not milling around her. i was curious as to how long she was into the fetish scene, so i walked over and proceded to talk. we had some common interests we chatted about and she asked...
    freefloater freefloater 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    Last Night

    Do u know after wild passionate sex...the type that brings the animal in u?....the type there is the hard nibbling, the rough playing..the rolling around on the floor..the ******* with toys....the finger *******...the tongue *******...then the moaning....the heavy breathing...the...
    blondelady64 blondelady64 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Oh Yes

    I really couldn't agree more. Young women don't have the depth of experience and knowledge of themselves and their own sexuality. Women 30 and above know what is sexy and what makes themselves and their men tick. Nothing sexier than that in my opinion.
    Mysteryman6652 Mysteryman6652 36-40, M Oct 9, 2012

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    Women In Their 30s And 40s Are Hornier And Bonk More

    Excerpts from : http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,2002838,00.html The Science of Cougar Sex: Why Older Women Lust By John Cloud Friday, Jul. 09, 2010 “...University of Texas psychologist David Buss wrote the article, which appears in the July issue of Personality...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    My First Cougar

    I don't know if I could really call her that, but she was 10 years older than me. I was 22 at the time.  I met her at a bar I frequented when I was in college.  This was the kind of local hole in the wall dive that really embraced diversity.  It was kind of unusual for a...
    budrojr budrojr 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Women Become Truly Beautiful After 30

    She's in her 30s, but she's stayed in shape. Maybe it's natural, maybe she glues herself to a treadmill all day. It doesn't matter. What's important is that she's slim enough for you to pick her up, throw her over your shoulder, and give her a little spank on the butt while she...
    Pinballs Pinballs 31-35, M Jun 13, 2012

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    Heck Yeah!

    Most of the women that I know who are over thirty are among the sexiest women I've ever met. Simply put, not only are they aggressive (in bed), confident, and sexy, but also skilled. I don't know why, but I find it hard to breathe when I'm around a gorgeous, older woman. One of...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Better With Age!

    I am 39 and I can honestly say that I want and need sex more now than I did when I was in my 20's!! Over the years and through different experiences, I've come to learn that there is more to it than just getting off. These days I really really enjoy the PASSION, the long slow...
    NightOwl39 NightOwl39 36-40, F Jul 14, 2013

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    A Fine, Fine Line

    Kate Monster:There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend;There's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend;And you never know 'til you reach the top if it was worth the uphill climb.There's a fine, fine line between loveAnd a waste of time.There's a fine, fine line...
    milkynips milkynips 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    Every woman is beautiful in there own way ! Don't let anybody tell you different .
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Women are beautiful in their own way, they have their beauty within them, and how they want to show it in their own ways. You do not have to be thin, pretty, the perfect body...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    They say women are multifaceted. Like a diamond that had been abusively cut.. Then where should a man put his trust? As he believes that every side of hers are amazingly divine...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M Jul 9

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    It doesnt matter if you have a white, brown , or even black skin. All women are beautiful and they deserve to be treated that way.
    sukkiteiinayo sukkiteiinayo 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I believe there are only two types of beauty the kind that is solely on the outside and the kind that is both on the inside and outside. You can't just be beautiful on the inside...
    LoganAdele LoganAdele 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I see younger guys checking out my 52 year old wife. I know it's most likely they've only been with women about their own age, and I'll think, "You have no idea how good she is in...
    Micfly Micfly 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    They run us, they rule every fibre in us.... we hate them, we love them, we need them to make us human... We try to shut them out, close them out, turn them off or just push...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jul 15

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    Older women are sexy to I can talk to you however you want
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I believe in aliens. I think it would be way too selfish of us as mankind to believe we are the only lifeforms in the universe- Demi Lovato
    Error404nameunknown Error404nameunknown 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I do beleive women should obey their husbands, BUT he has to communicate!! Let me explain. So last week was Rodeo week here. We went many nights. Friday night we had tickets...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I made myself not trust women again. Before all of my romantic encounters were with whomever. Then I got married and that was also quite ordinary. But after I came to Afghanistan...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I really believe all the women in this world are beautiful. Because god made mother and mothers are the most beautiful creation of god. I respect women.
    jasonjohn88 jasonjohn88 26-30, M Jul 15

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    Every woman is beautiful in their own way, no matter their shape size or race. Every woman is beautiful, and anyone who makes them try to believe otherwise needs to be bitchslapped...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 16

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    I really honestly do think this is true. I draw a lot of female figures and the form, the body of a female is so easy and beautiful to draw. But the thing is, when I say that I...
    maliciousMartyr maliciousMartyr 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why do trolls post & then block you when you comment on their trolling? Lame!
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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