I Believe There Is Only One Person To Blame For Abuse

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Effects Of Abuse on me>>>>>>> We Are Not Always What We Seem

    Ghost I am one of those people many are going to say they know but really very few do, 7 years as a navy SEAL black ops 2 man teams on 19 th birthday got 10 primary 12 secondary Kills with a total kills of 350 and still had a little over 45 days till I would be shoot down and 15...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Jan 10, 2011


    Think to me the problem is while we have no real blame for the abuse. Other’s look at us like it was our faults, they say why did you not tell others. How could you let that happen to you, well I would have killed myself first? We did try to tell other what was going on, but...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Dec 14, 2010

    The Other Side

    The other side These part deals basic with me. If you have read the stories, on going you see a lot of love and expectance from others. in all the years we never had a fight we never really even got mad at each other, no one ask us to do anything as it was already done, we knew...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Jan 7, 2011

    The Truth

    the only person to blame for abuse is the abuser.  period.  not yourself, not someone else, them.  its their fault for what they did to you.
    sexxystarrbabyx sexxystarrbabyx
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    It Happend To Me Wheh I Was At Work And When I Was Sixteen

    a man at my work was trying to grab my ball some time he did I was ashamed I got my self in that posison I thingn peopel do this tipe of thin because you seem timed they think you wont tell any body I dident wont to tell anybody be cause I would cause trubel he use to grabe my...
    David752 David752
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2011

    And It's Not The Person Who Survived Abuse.

    I will add a link to my site soon.
    sherry123456789 sherry123456789
    46-50, F
    21 Responses Dec 14, 2010

    Thank You For This Group

    To be completely honest, I don't always believe this, and I blame myself for what happened to me ... or what was done to me. But as a first step, I'm joining this page and hoping that I can change this thinking pattern.
    sgrace sgrace
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2011

    Takeing Ownership Of My Life

      I've been abussed since I was a baby thou in a nut shell I feel taht if we keep looking for someone to blame, we are vicimizing ourself and caught in limbo, I wa abused since a Very early age and to the point that I had a tumour inmy brain because of it thou I've come to the...
    prenglish70 prenglish70
    36-40, M
    13 Responses Jan 9, 2011
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