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I Believe Women Should Obey Their Husbands

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    Old Fashioned Virtues

    I get a lot of crap from some of my female friends for being properly submissive towards my DH. Why is it so hard for women (and increasing numbers of men, as far as I can tell) to accept that men and women who are certainly all created equal still have entirely separate and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    Surrender

    My husband and I have been married for five years now. I wasn't always a surrendered wife, but thankfully my eyes have been opened. I try very hard everyday to be the type of woman I want to become, I'm still a work in progress.  I stopped nagging and instead gave my husband the...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 10 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    Respect

    I also believe that a wife should obey her husband and treat him with respect. In our house if I slip up and become disrespectful to him or disobey, I know my bottom is going to feel his wrath. Unfortunately for my bum that happened last night. I lost my wits for a moment...
    bent4him bent4him 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    I do beleive women should obey their husbands,

    BUT he has to communicate!! Let me explain. So last week was Rodeo week here. We went many nights. Friday night we had tickets, but he was running late at work. So he told me to bring his clothes, boots, hat, etc to his job site and he would meet me there. Fine no problem...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 1

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    I am 18 years old my husband is 39 some people

    think its crazy but I love him more than anything in this world. I was always raised that woman should be obedient to their parents and then husbands. I had no idea that their where woman out there that were not. I got my butt tore up by both of my parents until I was married...
    housewife4 housewife4 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    It is the way I was raised.

    It worked well for my parents. We had a happy home.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 5

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    The Only Time I Want My Wife To Obey Me

    Is when she's on her knees with a collar around her neck. Otherwise IMO there is no room for that word in a relationship. It may work for some but it would never work for me. I would like my future wife ( yeah like someone would ever marry me) to do three things: think for...
    sp3gold sp3gold 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I Obey My Husband

    So I'm a newbie lol I married my husband two years ago and we have had an amazing time together so far. I submit and obey my husband. He know what's best for us as a family and how to take care of us. He works hard everyday while I stay home and take care of the house. I do...
    Kimchigal Kimchigal 22-25 10 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend lives a couple of hours away from me. He makes me go on cam for him and do extremely nasty things every day. I absolutely love doing everything he asks of me. I can't wait to live with him and be able to serve him like a good ***** every day.
    secret0slut secret0slut 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Get rid of the big baby

    as soon as you can. he cannot stand up to criticism, doesnt know how to deal with it....so he picks you - because you keep on saying its ok for him to be the 'big boss'. If that's how you get your kicks, then stay with him. But be prepared to sacrifice yourself and your soul...
    ruinedcake1 ruinedcake1 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Am Not

    I am not married yet or even dating anybody right now but I want a man that knows he is in charge and should be obeyed.
    wheelchairchick88 wheelchairchick88 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    I know my mom is okay with it

    but I feel bad for my sisters. And I am scared what will be expected from me when I marry.
    wkenny99 wkenny99 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 2

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    When i married my husband i stood

    before God & promised to obey him. And that is exactly what my children & i do. My husband is the head of the household,he provides for us & looks after us. As his wife i am quite happy for him to make decisions,i don't need to be consulted,although i often am. We don't practise...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 28

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    Why This Is So Good

    women are a most special sensitive loving intelligent group. They feel things SOOO very deeply. This explains their capacity to love so intensely. But it also explains why they carry so much guilt or why they hold onto things for so long. For years amy and I fought and made up...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Punishment Earned

    I dont want to be a woman who is defiant, rude, untrustworthy or out of control. If I do something that deserves to be corrected then that is what I can expect. I am usually paddled and put in the corner with the ball gag naked. If this is what I know will happen, why would I...
    FlowingHoney46 FlowingHoney46 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2012

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    God Designed It To Be This Way

    My husband Jophiel is the spiritual leader, and head of my marriage just as God has ordained him to be. As all husbands are over wives. Here is a few scriptures to help you understand this. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the...
    LoveIsJesusChrist LoveIsJesusChrist 31-35, F 18 Responses Sep 2, 2011

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    Good Girls

    I was taught that little girls like me should stay in their place and obey their masters/husbands/daddies. Any girl who doesn't should be ashamed and punished... You should just be grateful that someone loves you and takes care of you and always have a smile on your face like a...
    ALittlePrincess ALittlePrincess 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I am sure it has everything to do with how I

    was raised and the experiences I lived through, but I strongly believe a wife should obey her husband and satisfy his needs. Even though I am not married, I have been living with a man for two years. I do everything I can to keep him happy and when i don't I am taken over his...
    sarah95w sarah95w 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 3

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    Things Keep Getting Messed Up!!!

    I am trying to so hard to get my crush out of my head and to think of only my husband. I still have resentment for what he did, and the fact that I she lives next door does not help. But I am trying. I have distanced myself from my crush, but I still see him almost everyday at...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Loving Husband

    I got married in June 2012, My husband knows i come from a bad past but I still believe that women should listen to husbands and they have final say no matter what. I also believe they should have final word, even though at times i fail at that. My husband is not the...
    ladbug ladbug 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Obedience and the Titanic In the movie Titanic,

    there is a scene where the men are ordering their wives to get into the life boats. Some women do as they're told, but others resist. If I am ever in a situation like that, I want my wife to obey me immediately, and not argue. The problem is, that obedience does not come...
    epaster epaster 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 27

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    My Husband Deserves My Respect...

    I stood before God, all of our family and friends and promised to Love, Honor, and Obey.... Now I expect him to lead the household, pay bills, take responsibility for providing insurance cars, etc. And like in any other partnership, business what ever someone has to have the...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Men And Women Are Different!

    I spank my wife whenever I think she deserves it and am not ashamed to say it. We are old fashioned and both believe that men are the head of the house and are in charge. She vowed to honor and obey me, so when she doesn't obey, I give her a spanking. I feel it's my right and...
    Lomaz Lomaz 61-65, M 24 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    My husband definitely leads,

    but he doesn't "demand" things from me, so I follow him, not "obey" him. Let me just add that we have a give and take relationship, I want my husband to be masculine and he prefers me to be feminine, he works very hard to provide for us, shows me love and keeps me safe. I like...
    tonyandjendaluz tonyandjendaluz 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 28

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    Marriage Vows In 2012

    A news article has been running in my country, I am sure you will find this a great read. To love and to submit: a marriage made in 2012 Kelly Burke BRIDES will be promising to submit to their husbands under a new marriage vow the Anglican diocese of Sydney is expected to...
    hhue hhue 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    My husband says I'm a beast of burden

    and that he is a good host because it makes me go into a trot rather than whip
    NewWoman76 NewWoman76 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    I have no problems submitting to

    and obeying a man who submits to and obeys God.
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014 41-45, F 35 Responses Jun 28

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    Your Loving Obedient Wife...

    feels like the happiest woman in the world because what my husband does and provides for me and our family.. No One ever has ever made me feel special and for that I dedicate my life to his happiness which is through my submission to him, trust in him and admiration for him...
    Kream19 Kream19 26-30, F 25 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    Gently Persuading Her To Obey

    It will never be that minor infractions will make me take my strap to her, but I do know that she needs reassurance spankings twice a week. Some people call them maintenance spankings, but whatever they are called they are necessary to the emotional well-being of my lovely bride...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    I have an issue with discipline.

    ..I have none! I hope my next relationship is with someone loving but dominant. A "Taken In Hand" relationship is my dream. Deep sigh...
    Looking4More26 Looking4More26 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I Think That I Deserve To Be Punished

    So the last few days have not been my best moments. My boyfriend doesn't allow me to swear and I have accidentally swore a few times. Also he has told me so many times how he wants our home to be and I have just forgotten and done things the wrong way. He has gotten angry with...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    It'S Pretty Simple

    I think if you can't find a man worth obeying, then why marry him? I didn't start my relationship off in a domestic discipline relationship. I didn't use to "obey" my husband. But I knew he was a strong, hardworking man who would earned every single speck of respect that he's got...
    girvingtree girvingtree 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Women have all power EXAMPLE 1 The Guy has to

    ask YOU out he has to drive to YOUR house take YOU out to dinner HE has to pay for the bill and if he nights still young HE has to pay for the entertainment then DRIVE YOU home and when its all said and dons YOU decide wether he gets a goodnight kiss or not we 're not even at...
    canadianbacon0 canadianbacon0 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I do believe that women should obey their

    husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer followed by a large percentage of women. I am not religious, therefore no Bible quotes from me. I try my hardest to look to my husband for guidance...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Obedient Wives Make A Happy Marriage

    They were simpler times... they were happier times... There was no confusion back then. The man was the undisputed king of His castle, the master, the provider, the disciplinarian and the wise adviser The mother was the caregiver, the cook, the cleaner, the maid, the supporter...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I believe this in a sense,

    I'm married to my best friend, he's amazing. I "obey" him, not in a crazy way but he is my man, I do believe that husband have some authority over their wives. But it's a two way street as well, you can't tell us we can't do something and then do it yourself, you must lead by...
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    Why do trolls post & then block you

    when you comment on their trolling? Lame!
    cwred523 cwred523 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Obeying

    I didnt obey my bf he was really mad and is going to leave me he said if I took break my spirit classes at our church he will stay should I I'm conflicted I want to please hi. Big I'm scared
    lovethishouseimin lovethishouseimin 13-15, F 13 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    I am not in any form of "discipline"

    relationship but I do believe that the husband / father is the head of the family and that his wife and children should respect and honour his leadership.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 48 Responses Jun 23

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