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I Believed You When You Said You Wouldnt Hurt Me

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    He told me he was not going to hurt me,

    yet he hurt more than anyone. It kills me how one person can destroy me. I loved him and he made me feel like dirt. All I do is think about him being with her and how he's probably changed for her. He'll be the man for her, that he didnt care to be for me, And it breaks my...
    pgl88 pgl88 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I Believed That As Well As We'll Be Together Forever

    i guess they were both liesi've had atleast 20 betrayals in the past 5-6 yearsi dont believe int hings like that anymorethe second part we'll be together foreveri belived and in a way sitll doi no u'll always love mebut we cant be together so wuts the poin?
    jt1250 jt1250 13-15, F Dec 24, 2011

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    Feel Like Such A Fool

    I knew it wouldn't be easy. I knew things for you were hard, Nothing straightforward - no promises. I knew all of this. You said you had feelings for me, Strong feelings. You said you cared about me, Would never hurt me. You lied. You come and go when it suits you - talk is...
    PaleAngel PaleAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    Never Again

    i remember when my old friend Colin started talking to me a again and he said he was over thinking bad about me and that he would do it again he would never leave me alone that he would not hurt me like that and the thing i believed it so well and now he never talks to me...
    kaylatheanimegirl3 kaylatheanimegirl3 18-21, F Jul 7, 2012

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    Why Did I Even Bother?

    So many people say that they won't hurt you, and they do.  It is so easy to say that lie now, isn't it.  Now, since I have been through this so many times, I wonder who was more stupid, the people who say it or us for believing it!  At this point, I ...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Someone To Talk To

    Hi, I'm new here not sure how this works, but here goes. On Monday night I found the condom in her bathroom bin and discovered the woman I love had cheated on me. She wants to break up still loves me but because we we're going through a little rough patch she slept with...
    MrLbd MrLbd 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2013

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    Finally Safe

    To tell, write about, purge, vent, express.. Buuuut...mostly it's just to feel all better..hopefully...maybe...?? What you did...and what you said to me 3 months ago..you don't have a CLUE as to HOW FREAKIN MUCH those words, and your cold abrupt "exit" w/o ANY remorse, kills me a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 12, 2012

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    I Cant Believe I Let Trust Get In The Way

    When your best friends with his sister, you become part of this automatic trust circle I really should stop believing in happy endings. Theyre a waste of time. I should have realised that when I dated her brother, we dated for more than a year and he cheated on me. It took weeks...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Dec 24, 2011

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    But I Was A Fool

     i put all i had into our life together .i bought into your dreams.i planned our future.i dreamed of how we could be.but ,pain crept in.fears surfaced.then came blame.even then i tried to restore what was lost.but paranoia had taken hold.and it only got worse.what did i do...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Oct 31, 2009

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    You Promised Me Love Everlasting , Said Nothing Could Tear Us Apart.....

    Written by me 100 years ago Somehow this Group reminded me of this little poem i wrote that comforted me during my time of grief / confusion/ rejection / divorce. Hope it comforts or helps someone! You promised me love everlasting Said nothing could tear us apart, You broke...
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    I Believed You

    I believed you,You said,You wouldn't hurt me,Why is it,You turned out like the rest?Bloody liers!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Jul 4, 2012

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    I Was Such A Fool Back Then

    When I was still with my ex-girlfriend, she'd always go on about how she'd never hurt me in any way. The funny thing was that she was always afraid that I'd be the one that ended up hurting her, not the other way around. To make a long story short, she cheated on me. I was hurt...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Mar 24, 2011

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    I Was So Stupid....

    I believed you when you told me you weren't going to hurt me, yet here I am, tears rolling down my face, and my heart feeling very heavy, and hurting really bad, but you don't care, you don't realize how your words and actions effect me, and hurt me. You promised me, you would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 11, 2009

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