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I Believed You When You Said You Wouldnt Hurt Me

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    I hate this so much, I hate

    that I was told this by numerous people who have done nothing but hurt me and I hate myself for believing such a thing. When I was younger I would look at couples and be so envious I thought that one day i would find someone who would truly care about me and make me happy....now...
    TheMorticiansDaughter TheMorticiansDaughter 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Why Did I Even Bother?

    So many people say that they won't hurt you, and they do.  It is so easy to say that lie now, isn't it.  Now, since I have been through this so many times, I wonder who was more stupid, the people who say it or us for believing it!  At this point, I ...
    compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 18 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    and this is why i have trust issues.

    I won't hurt you, I'll be there for you, seeing you cry would kill me....blah blah blah
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977 36-40, F Dec 19, 2014

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    Finally Safe

    To tell, write about, purge, vent, express.. Buuuut...mostly it's just to feel all better..hopefully...maybe...?? What you did...and what you said to me 3 months ago..you don't have a CLUE as to HOW FREAKIN MUCH those words, and your cold abrupt "exit" w/o ANY remorse, kills me a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 12, 2012

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    Someone To Talk To

    Hi, I'm new here not sure how this works, but here goes. On Monday night I found the condom in her bathroom bin and discovered the woman I love had cheated on me. She wants to break up still loves me but because we we're going through a little rough patch she slept with...
    MrLbd MrLbd 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Maybe I should stop being

    so stupid. Or so trustworthy , I'll just stop all at once.
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    I Was Such A Fool Back Then

    When I was still with my ex-girlfriend, she'd always go on about how she'd never hurt me in any way. The funny thing was that she was always afraid that I'd be the one that ended up hurting her, not the other way around. To make a long story short, she cheated on me. I was hurt...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Mar 24, 2011

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    Never Again

    i remember when my old friend Colin started talking to me a again and he said he was over thinking bad about me and that he would do it again he would never leave me alone that he would not hurt me like that and the thing i believed it so well and now he never talks to me...
    kaylatheanimegirl3 kaylatheanimegirl3 18-21, F Jul 7, 2012

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    He told me he was not going to hurt me,

    yet he hurt more than anyone. It kills me how one person can destroy me. I loved him and he made me feel like dirt. All I do is think about him being with her and how he's probably changed for her. He'll be the man for her, that he didnt care to be for me, And it breaks my...
    pgl88 pgl88 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    I hate when people say you know what I been

    through in the passed why would you hurt me? It drives me crazy. Someone broke your heart, get over it. It's a lot of fishes in the sea god damn. Unless you been married and had a divorce or got beaten by your man or women to the point where you needed ER don't use the...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Apr 23

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    I'm such an idiot. So many times I've trusted

    the wrong people. It's like I finally feel like someone understands me, like I finally have someone to talk to, and then they hurt me. Leave me broken on the floor, wishing I was someone else. That's it, no more trusting.
    SkinnyIsPerfect SkinnyIsPerfect 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    I believed you... Why did I believe you

    when everyone else that said so did? "I won't hurt you, I promise." You told me when I told you why I was so hesitant to get into a relationship. "I promise I won't hurt you." I repeated as we kissed for the first time. "This won't hurt." He whispered as we had sex for the...
    IDontThinkYouAreListening IDontThinkYouAreListening 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I Was So Stupid....

    I believed you when you told me you weren't going to hurt me, yet here I am, tears rolling down my face, and my heart feeling very heavy, and hurting really bad, but you don't care, you don't realize how your words and actions effect me, and hurt me. You promised me, you would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 11, 2009

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    I Believed You

    I believed you,You said,You wouldn't hurt me,Why is it,You turned out like the rest?Bloody liers!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Jul 4, 2012

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    Feel Like Such A Fool

    I knew it wouldn't be easy. I knew things for you were hard, Nothing straightforward - no promises. I knew all of this. You said you had feelings for me, Strong feelings. You said you cared about me, Would never hurt me. You lied. You come and go when it suits you - talk is...
    PaleAngel PaleAngel 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    rawerimadino rawerimadino 16-17, F Nov 9, 2014

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    The person tht i trusted

    and love as a friend and never expect them to hurt me so bad is the ones tht hurt me and now is killing me and have to deal it with it for the rest of my life and I just I wish I never met tht person!...
    Anabe1995 Anabe1995 18-21, F Nov 10, 2014

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    Is there something known

    as forgiveness or do people just don't remember it for long enough?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 23

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    It's funny because i'm over it now

    and over you. You were a piece of **** that i gave the benefit of the doubt. I trusted you and you were the first person i let my walls down for. But i found someone better. You can burn✌️😂👊
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 19, 2014

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    You Promised Me Love Everlasting , Said Nothing Could Tear Us Apart.....

    Written by me 100 years ago Somehow this Group reminded me of this little poem i wrote that comforted me during my time of grief / confusion/ rejection / divorce. Hope it comforts or helps someone! You promised me love everlasting Said nothing could tear us apart, You broke...
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F Dec 21, 2012

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    I always fall for that.

    you would think I would learn...
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99 16-17, F Nov 10, 2014

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    But I Was A Fool

     i put all i had into our life together .i bought into your dreams.i planned our future.i dreamed of how we could be.but ,pain crept in.fears surfaced.then came blame.even then i tried to restore what was lost.but paranoia had taken hold.and it only got worse.what did i do...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Oct 31, 2009

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    I guess I don't understand why this group exists. Why would anyone say this to someone if it wasn't true? To get what you want and then hurt them? Some people in this world are...
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    I don't get it with some people, they only love you when you're whole and when everything is perfect, but when you're broken they give up, they let go even though they're the one...
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    I am grape: You are bold and a true individual. You are very different and very okay with that. People know you as a straight shooter. You're very honest, even when the truth hurts...
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    I have no idea why some men just scream and talk and especially when a man talks non stop. He has no clue how his words are hurting the person receiving it. And then comes sorry...
    deceptiveoutofcloset deceptiveoutofcloset 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Even though we are over, I still read your love letters. I don't like lying to you when I don't say I am over you.
    EmmaLouBronze EmmaLouBronze 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    ‘"Maybe we will meet again when we are better for each other" No, that line is such ******* bullshit I loved you with every inch of my ****** up heart and you couldn’t love...
    juju027 juju027 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I got hurt, again. The weakness of a girl who feels attached easily : you still like that person even if he hurts you. when will I stop crying over stupid things. My head knows...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'll stop looking when I can no longer see, and I will stop writing when I can no longer feel, and I'll stop saying I love you when I can no longer speak. I'll stop doing all of...
    adamw adamw 36-40, M a week ago

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    I hate the feeling so I like to help others I don't like to see people in pain
    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Just hold me and say you'll never let go. I wanna be able to show you the ugliest side of me and you still love me through it all and just hold me even tighter.
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 16-17, F a week ago

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    Like many others here have stated, the person asking wants to hear you say "ok" in spite of reality. So, they are only asking how you are in order superficially appear to care...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    8 yrs old... she was my best friend at the time and we snuck off all the time! but our parents found out and she moved...
    savindasak savindasak 31-35, M Aug 27

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    i care about you guys but sometimes i need someone to just be there for me when i am hurting.... i hate to say this....but i miss you tamara...you turned out to be such a &itch...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    That moment when you realize the person you're speaking to hasn't heard a word you've said as they stare at you blankly while you're waiting for a response.
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I shut people out when I get hurt..
    cashetty69 cashetty69 51-55, M Aug 25

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    I don't like to look sad or mad or scared in front of people so I hide those emotions. I give people a smile and say I'm fine. I walk around like I feel great. I talk to people...
    ajofawesome ajofawesome 16-17, M Aug 25

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    I'm sorry I used you. I'm sorry I ripped you apart. I'm sorry I didn't care. I'm sorry for it all darling. I wish I could take it all back. I wish I could take it all away. I felt...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I hate that I'm clingy >.<. I miss you all the time no matter what. I know you say you don't mind but I feel like I bug you when I text you. You always tell me I don't and I...
    AwkwardTomboy AwkwardTomboy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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