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I Bi-curious Male

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    Im Bicurious

             This is hard  for me as im now 42 i guess ive had fantasies about men when i was in my teens i was keen on a sports teacher that was just a passing thing , and turned on by guys, i love guys chests , but never did...
    Bicuriousdragon Bicuriousdragon 41-45, M 10 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Early Bi Experience

    Like most kids in the fifties we were all curious about sex and fantasized about getting laid with a member of the opposite sex, but that was before the pill and only girls considered to be ***** would allow themselves to be screwed or otherwise 'played with'. So then, boys are...
    oceaned37 oceaned37 66-70 Feb 25, 2013

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    I Do Not Know How To Have My First Bi Experience

    When I was a bit younger, I notice as I would watch **** I became turned on and attracted to the ***** I would see. I knew that I really wanted to try and suck a ****. I would identify with the women sucking a **** and would imagine that was me. I wondered what that would be...
    zoomin zoomin 31-35, M 2 Responses May 26, 2012

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    I Like Girls!

    WELL I HAVE A HOTT WIFE WHO IS OUT OF CONTROL WHEN WE HAVE SEX SHE HAS TOYS AND RECENTLY LIKE 6 MONTHS AGO WHEN WE HAVE SEX SHE GETS HER ***** OUT AND ENJOYS PUTTING IT IN MY MOUTH.TO BE HONEST I ENJOY IT...WHEN SHE IS GONE TO WORK I PLAY WITH IT IN THE SHOWER....SO LATELY WHEN...
    pancho2005 pancho2005 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    No Longer Just Curious

    I've had a couple of long-term relationships with other guys & now consider myself bisexual.
    Dragon56 Dragon56 56-60, M Nov 10, 2010

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    Would Love To Suck A ****

    We are sitting on the couch watching something on TV. You ask me if I would like to suck your ****. I would be very nervious because I have never done anything like this before but would very much like to try. I tell you that I would really love to try. I reach down and start...
    curiousbime curiousbime 31-35, M 14 Responses May 23, 2011

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    Really Confused

    I consider myself a straight guy as I have had a few girlfriends in the past but I have always had the same fantasies about sucking another mans **** does that make me bi? Think if I actually told anyone who knows me wouldn't understand anyone got any advice?
    johngi92 johngi92 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Just Had My 1st Bi-curious Experience Today

    Today, July 2nd, 2009 maybe about two and a half hours ago, I just had my first bi-curious experience with another guy.   I met him online last night.  I was chatting and mentioned I was a little curious and that I have been for quite sometime.  I told him I...
    jtx21 jtx21 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    NO Longer Bicurious

    THAT ENDED WHEN I WAS 14 I HAVE HAVE HAD MANY EXPERIENCES ALL THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL I DATED GUYS AND GIRLS I AM NOW MARRIED MY LOVE THE FACT THAT I'M BI WE ARE SWINGERS, ADVENTURERS, WE BOTH CURRENTLY HAVE MANY BI LOVERS AND WE SHARE..... IT IS PART OF US DON'T HOLD BACK AND BE...
    bispeedo bispeedo 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    I Think Therefore I Might Be.

    I am really having a hard time with this situation. I like girls but I think I might like guys too. When I look at pics of guys with nice bodies I get aroused, but the same can be said about girls. I'm having trouble, I haven't kissed a girl or guy and yea I'm still a virgin...
    idkwhat2do idkwhat2do 21-25 6 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    My Sexual Dilemma

    Recently i've come to terms with the fact that im a bi-curious(or possibly bisexual) male and that there's nothing I can do about it, but that's not the only part of the dilemma. I'm in highschool junior year and in love with a close friend of mine that ive known for a couple...
    Thatsadude Thatsadude 22-25, M Apr 4, 2013

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    My Fantasy World

    Well,...........My wife and I separated 8 years ago though we remain very good friends. I missed the intimacy though and had to 'Take myself in hand' so to speak to relieve the tension. this inevitably led to my fantasies, which soon began to have a sprinkling of same sex...
    lcars47 lcars47 56-60, M Apr 5, 2011

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    Bicurious But Too Scared To Try...

    This seems like a nice place to finally write out some of my feelings and get them out for comments from others... I have always loved women but when I was in the Navy back in the 80's I realized that I am also sexually attracted to men. I denied and suppressed those feelings...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Something New

    Looking to try something new, because its been on my mind for to long. Looking for someone around my age that live in the Orange California area
    kilmov kilmov 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 20, 2011

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    First Time Experience Was In A Park Mens Room

    My first bi experience was in the mens room of a park. i read about guys hooking up here from a website (squirt.org) and thought i would go and see what it was about. i drove over at lunch on a hot august day - i worked 10 minutes away from the park. I parked in a parking lot...
    jampa59 jampa59 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    Have Yet to Have the Courage

    Hi, I just kinda happened upon this site meerly because I was looking for random tidbits of info about being bi-curious. I haven't had an experience, but I thought I'd at least share a bit of my thoughts here since I have never really discussed my curiousity with anyone. I...
    raf512 raf512 22-25 4 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    First J.o. Experience

    The first first time I became bi curious was when I was a teenager. I never acted on it though. The closest I came (No pun Intended) was when my friend from down the street came to stay the night at my place and we jerked off in the same bed. My back was touching his and we just...
    dreamer420 dreamer420 31-35 1 Response Jun 9, 2009

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    Greenville Sc And Want To Meet Bi Males Or Bi Couples

    I am a clean MWM, but wife does not play.  I need playmates.  I want a woman to strap me while I satisfy her man.
    leaserdon leaserdon 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 29, 2010

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    Bi-sexually Curious

    I have woundered what sex would be like with another male. I have not been with another male. I don't look at other males on the street and find them attractive. But I do know that I would like to someday have sex with a male. I want to experience what it is like to suck a...
    bisexuallycuriousmale37 bisexuallycuriousmale37 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    What A Big Weight Lifted

    Have been orally bi curious for many years now,have never acted on any Thoughts or urges.(I'm married) and although I have a very understandng wife I really thought she would flip her lid if she ever found out. Latley these urges have Been getting very strong. Even went as far is...
    michiganman45 michiganman45 41-45, M 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Play Catch Ne1

    not to hurt anyones feelings but i would rather experience strap-on sex (heterosexually) with a woman. As a married man whos wife does not share the same desire as myself i am asking for help!  
    steellehammer steellehammer 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2007

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    So Many Close Calls....and Then It Just Happened

    golf tourney in reno...3 dayer...20 rooms were blocked in the hotel for players...a guy from colorado was put with me after a full day of a practice round...we had a few cocktails with other players...went back to the room to rest up for the banquet as i was showering i noticed...
    willywags willywags 66-70, M 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    First Experience

    I had always considered myself straight but in college I had a guy pay me to come clean his house twice a week. I ended up giving him a bj one night. That was the first time I had been with another guy and it started my interest in men and in serving men as a maid. Since that...
    johnsachs75 johnsachs75 36-40, M Aug 11, 2010

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    Only Partly Curious.

    OK, the reason I am only partly curious is that I have actually had a few experiences (oral only) and have discovered that I really like having another man's **** in my hands and mouth. And I just wonder why I waited until I was in my fifties to find that out although I had been...
    RayanneA RayanneA 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2012

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    First Time For Everything

    I have been bi-curious for many years and recently have begun to act on those urges. several weeks ago I had my first time gay experience which I wrote about before. last week I had a **** in my mouth for the first time and probably not my last. It happened with an older man I...
    bill534u bill534u 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    My Wife Tunred Me...

    I was married to a younger women, who after a while started to give certain hints to things she wanted to do. The first thing she did was to finger me while giving me head then it moved on to having me taste precum, then shooting *** in my mouth. It turned her on a lot, so the...
    lvcumluver lvcumluver 36-40, M 8 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    Hidding?

    I know there are many men out there who are also bi curious so how do I spot them or is it just we are all so well hidden?
    lifensf lifensf 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    I'd Like To Meet

    I'm bi-curious and I like to meet which another in Southern Arizona.  Simple as that
    stevejohns stevejohns 51-55, M Feb 25, 2010

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    Terrified

    I've been married for a long time. I dearly love my wife, but am bi-curious. She'd freak if she knew. Our sex life has never been great......and I'm scared. I don't think cheating would right.
    ShaverII ShaverII 41-45 3 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Scared To Let Those Feeling Out..

    I'm a married man and think my wife would never understand if I told her about this, but it's there and I can't hide it from myself. I have had two or three men hit on me at different time of my life but always thought it was the wrong time or place to act. but one of these days...
    LTR1948 LTR1948 61-65, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2012

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    I Have Been Bi-Curious For A Long Time

    Yes I have been bi-curious for a very long time and did something about it. I had a marriage split in 2009 and needed to get away from everything and everybody. I searched on the internet and found a men's only nudist resort and thought I could do that - couldn't I? I rang up...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Bicurious Coloradoan

    Hi. I have been bi curious since adolescence. I am 30 y.o. now and would enjoy meeting other men who are conflicted and immobilized by similar feelings. If you live in or around Denver, and would be interested in chatting online or in person, let me know.
    448CO 448CO 31-35 1 Response Aug 8, 2010

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    My First Time And Now I Have The Itch

    When I was 27 and married to my first wife we had a free sex marriage. We would both have other partners and also enjoyed each other very much. We had had 3 way trysts before with both guys and girls. This one time was a little different. Our third companion, of course a guy...
    MKent010305 MKent010305 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 2, 2010

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    Curious For A While

    Straight male been thinking about trying being with another man for a while
    surfrider22 surfrider22 22-25 2 Responses Sep 12, 2010

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    Would Like To Try...

    I come over to your place to watch your favorite team on the TV. I reach over and start to massage you through your jeans. I can feel how rock hard your **** is though your jeans. I zip down your pants and take your **** out and begin to stock it with my hands using your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    Moment Of Truth

    While I was at grad school (age 30) I started thinking seriously about finding local couples for sex so I purchased a membership to a popular swingers site. My school was small and located in the middle of nowhere so I was pleasantly surprised when I saw that there is a couple...
    da1992 da1992 36-40 May 12, 2011

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    Curious

    hi , i,ve   always been curious to try out my fantasies with a guy , but  i,m married and the guilt troubles me. only once i had a bit of a encounter but not much happened as he shyed away, thats cool i say, these days i think a lot about it but its hard to try and find...
    jewelguy jewelguy 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    I'Ve Wanted To Try For Some Time...

    I've been married for a long time and I've got urges that aren't being fulfilled in the bedroom. I think I'd enjoy bringing another man into the bedroom with my wife and I. Shed loose her mind if I ever suggested such a thing. But I'm sure I'd enjoy a guy/guy experience. I do...
    ananimous ananimous 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    My name is Zack. I'm 15. I didn't come to EP to meet gay teen boys. I came to EP to seek advice on whether to get hormone shots for my delayed puberty. I had a gf, but she dumped...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    i want to suck my own **** and blow in my own mouth...
    AlkemikReaction AlkemikReaction 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I can't wait till sexuality isn't black and white and anyone can hookup with anyone. :)
    afsteven2 afsteven2 26-30, M Aug 20

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    Looking to teach another younger teen!!!
    blainerodgers19 blainerodgers19 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    To be honest I consider myself Bi-Curious, I would date another girl if sparks started to fly, I feel like you shouldn't base love on your gender or sexuality, if you like someone...
    DayzEvenden DayzEvenden 16-17, F Aug 13

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    Idk why but all of the sudden I've had the urge to talk to girls in a different way. Ive fantasized about them doing different things to me and now im really curious. I'm a mixed...
    UsagiSnow UsagiSnow 18-21, F Jul 29

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    I'm bi. And I love older men ;$
    RecklessXO96 RecklessXO96 18-21, M Aug 4

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    I love when girls hit on me and I don't think I would be opposed to have a one night thing with a girl either... Maybe even a few times?
    leahhansil leahhansil 16-17, F Aug 3

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    Looking to talk dirty with other girls
    sexyteen90 sexyteen90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    My name is Zack. I'm 15. I didn't come to EP to meet gay teen boys. I came to EP to seek advice on whether to get hormone shots for my delayed puberty. I had a gf, but she dumped...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    My name is Zack. I'm 15. I didn't come to EP to meet gay teen boys. I came to EP to seek advice on whether to get hormone shots for my delayed puberty. I had a gf, but she dumped...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M Aug 14

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    Can anyone help me? Are there ways to tell besides stereotypical gay tests? Am I gay? Please comment!
    JoshIsGay23095 JoshIsGay23095 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I just want to meet up with a guy and do something... Or have a relationship... I don't know... I've been like this for a while, it's driving me insane. I know I'm picky with the...
    patrickd138 patrickd138 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Ok we'll I'm only 14, and I'm skinny as hell. It's kinda hard knowing that I will never get a bf, all people talk about are women with curves!!! And I'm now accepting this fate...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 20