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I Blackmailed Into Sex

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    Blackmailed Into Sex

    As I wrote in the previous story, when I was 12 I accidentally walked onto a girl who was changing for the beach. And this is what happened as the result. At the resort where we were staying I had a buddy who was 2 years older. I was always hanging out with older guys because it...
    dlightman dlightman 36-40, M Jun 15, 2012

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    Oh Boy....for those who still don't believe that their deal is toast....here's a good read for ya. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/12/breakup-signs-_n_5649458.html...
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    When I was 15 years old my life was ruined when my drug addict mother and my meth abusing 12 year old brother decided to accuse me of sexually molesting my brother because I...
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