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I Blackmailed Into Sex

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    Blackmailed Into Sex

    As I wrote in the previous story, when I was 12 I accidentally walked onto a girl who was changing for the beach. And this is what happened as the result. At the resort where we were staying I had a buddy who was 2 years older. I was always hanging out with older guys because it...
    dlightman dlightman 36-40, M Jun 15, 2012

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    So, we're on vacation in a beautiful and exotic place. It should be very romantic, right? During an excursion in a scenic location, Husband and I had a quiet moment together...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 23 Responses Aug 26

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    Days 6 and 7 – reclaiming my bed – in conjunction with my previous stories. So, day 6 was ok. #3 had his first real cough and found it difficult to settle in bed, so, and as...
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    I am going to tell how trying to keep my husband in a sexless marriage turned into a terror. When my husband came back from the military his father and other wanted me to assist in...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    For men who find it painful to put their backs into it during sex, a new Canadian study suggests that some positions are better than others. Researchers identified certain sex...
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    The compromise promise. I ran into a former colleague yesterday. When I worked with him I got to know his wife and kids, and the couple seemed happily married, but got divorced a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Here goes...I found EP doing a search about sexless marriages so here I am, my first story. I've been married 15 years to a man who in the beginning had me believing he could not...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 15

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too tight or...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Aug 24

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    Here's to you, dad. You sicko. My first sexual relationship was with you. You thought I'd forget. You thought I was too little to remember. You knew I didn't know any better. You...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    well this is a story of when i was in 7th grade I liked this boy for a long time we started going out but he acted nothing like me he was really conservative, all about books...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    It was New Year's Day seven years ago when I got the message. My niece called me to tell me my Dad was on the way to the hospital. It seems she had found him in the garage in a...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 19 Responses a week ago

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    So, unravelling everything from the last 2 weeks postings, identifying the facts from the symptoms I think this is my story. My wife is very self-centred with a borderline...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 16 Responses 5 days ago

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    I woke up with a weird feeling down below my waist. And I saw him, looking at me with his lovely smile and deep dimples yet with eyes as hot as fire. He went back to doing his deed...
    msroguerighteous msroguerighteous 31-35, F 16 hrs ago

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    Bear with me because this may seem off topic, but it isn't. I've been recently thinking about death. Yesterday, my post sexless marriage lover had to put his beloved dog of 14...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses Aug 21

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    im in a sexless marriage And I need to talk with someone who can relate, and not judge me or my situation. because the random person would call a sex addict, but its not that.. I...
    ooomooo ooomooo 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 4

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    How do you know if you're sexually attracted to a specific gender? I get strong sexual desire and when I do sometimes to let off steam I fantasize, but it's never about any guy...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I think it’s about time I make a final decision. My 20 year anniversary is coming up in 2 short weeks. Normally this would be a time for great celebration. I see it as an...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    Through my failed marriage, I've concluded that, despite the already recognized different classification of personalities, humans fall into two main person types: Selfless and...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 17

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    As a male, I'm feel a little humiliated to even share this unpleasant experience here on a public website but I'll do it just for the hell of it and to let it out of my system. I...
    Incognito666 Incognito666 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I made a comment in another site, that I would like to get some replies to it here, as this site is more marriage focused. Here it is (small changes to reflect site lingo...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 16 Responses Aug 21

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    This morning I had stumbled into a bunch of those catch-22s that make this experience so crazy-making. This morning, she brought up sex and emotional intimacy, independently...
    Homewaters Homewaters 41-45, M 12 Responses Aug 21

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    I met my husband in the 7th grade but we didn't connect until high school. I became pregnant in our Senior year and we were married while still in school (a week to the day after...
    olderbutnotdead olderbutnotdead 51-55, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I have been with my now husband for four years, married just recently in May 2014. We have three daughters, (3,3, and 1 years of age)...we have been through a lot of ups and downs...
    beyondstars beyondstars 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    Well it's not exactly sexless, I guess we make love once or twice them there's nothing for 4 to 6 weeks or even longer. It has been this way for much of the past 22 years. Going...
    aardvark64 aardvark64 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 2

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses Sep 2

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    So I have made a decision and it's for what I hope good reasons. I have noticed that we seem healthy in our relationship. It's not completely toxic, I'm pretty sure we are just...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    Wow there are a lot of stories about this and yes I have written too. But in my own heart, I believe there is something under lying in the whole marriage and lack of. I think it...
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    Why Did We Get Married? - My STBX continues to struggle with my decision to divorce him, yet my conviction to break free grows stronger everyday since I triggered our divorce...
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    So thanks to some of the great advice here on the SM forum of EP, I decided not to wait and talk to my wife about my ongoing concerns. We did this two nights ago, after she had...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 13 Responses Aug 18

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    It's been sliding for years. It started out great, we had good sex often. Then as the years slid by the pace dropped. Not much, and it didn't bother either of us. Then my wife got...
    Leathlobhair Leathlobhair 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 19

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Here I am again. We haven't had sex in months. We actually aren't married, but engaged, and I post on here because the feedback is better than the other groups. He never wants...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 21

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    Well you guys know that me and joy share a room together, so this really isn't new to me at all, I have seen joy having sex more times then I can count, I don't all was write...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    You know I came to fully realize something this morning. My wife needs my love and support, she needs my protection, she needs to know I am here for her. But she does not need...
    Genertaylori Genertaylori 51-55, M 10 Responses Aug 23

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    It's got me into so much trouble in the past.... And recently destroyed my relationship (long story) but I've always been a very sexual person. I've always felt more so than my...
    Ladybuddha1 Ladybuddha1 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't just live in a sexless so-called marriage. I live in a dead and humiliating marriage. It's never been any more than what it is now. I need to learn to see my spouse as he...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 10 Responses Sep 1

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    So this is really really terrible. My bf and i have never been allowed to have sleep overs because my mom doesnt want use having sex. I think this is an ok rule but over the summer...
    yellowbelly23 yellowbelly23 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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