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I Blackmailed Into Sex

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    Blackmailed Into Sex

    As I wrote in the previous story, when I was 12 I accidentally walked onto a girl who was changing for the beach. And this is what happened as the result. At the resort where we were staying I had a buddy who was 2 years older. I was always hanging out with older guys because it...
    dlightman dlightman 36-40, M Jun 15, 2012

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