I Blame Myself For Things Gone Wrong

I blame myself for anything that goes on around me, or that happens to the people around me. my dad left mom's favorite dish hanging off the table, the cat nocked it over, it broke, it was my cat must be my fault, and instantly i start...

Blame…. It is such an ugly word, yet I get blame piled on top of me on a daily basis. If I were to be able to make it through an entire day without being faulted for someone else’s problem, I do not know if I would even...

hello please hear me out please.where do i start this is tough...
ok I am 43 Male i live in Britain.I live with my Mother and her boyfriend who drive me mad
(she is 63 i love her)but we clash and old people do become annoying yes?(they...

Anything that happens, that goes wrong, or anything. I get the blame.
Even if I wasn't involved I get the blame.
I do all the frikken hard work and I still get the blame!
It's so annoying and frustrating.
But now when something goes...

My dad died a year ago, and I sometimes feel like it's partially my fault.
It started when he had the stroke in September. My mom had went to check on him in their room, and saw that he'd fallen out of bed and wasn't acting right. I...

April 1st 2007 - My life came crashing down around me.  My other half was taken away from me. 
My husband was an immigrant from England.  He was brought over when he was 9 years old.  His family never got him his...

i remember when i first went out with my ex it all went smooth till prob 3 weeks and then he tried to go to the next step i wasn't ready for that specially since hes brother was in the same room so i told him i have to go so i ran...

He said it's not my fault. I said it was. It's all because of my fucked up mind and my over emotional responses to absolutely everything. He said it's his fault. I said it wasn't.
 
He said no matter what it's not me this time...

If it is my fault, then I will blame myself.  If it is not my fault, I will not.

I feel somtimes the way my life has turned out is my fault if I would of went school when I was 18 instead of getting involved in things I should have not.  I was lost at 18.  Now I'm a mom with 2 amazing wonderful children 5...

yet we all blame ourselves. what if i did this, or did that. screamed louder? resisted more? told sooner? told at all? cried more? begged more? pleaded more? ran? hid? fought back? fought at all? what did i do? what didnt i do? why did...

I couldnt stop the abuse on myself inflicted by my family, and when things fell apart i blamed myself!

My best friend has had a lot happen to her in the last few years and I've managed to blame myself for a whole lot of it.
She was in a snowboarding accident a few years ago. I was the one who convinced her to go snowboarding that day...

It's so hard to get past the guilt of things gone wrong. Today I feel like I ruined everyones day....I asked to be left alone for a bit....that I just needed some space to deal....and he snapped at me and everyone else. He smashed the...