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I Blame Myself For Things Gone Wrong

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    He said it's not my fault. I said it was. It's all because of my ****** up mind and my over emotional responses to absolutely everything. He said it's his fault. I said it wasn't.   He said no matter what it's not me this time. That's the one thing he wanted me to know...
    cookiecakes cookiecakes 18-21, F Oct 11, 2009

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    I Think Everything Is My Fault And Blame Myself For Everything

    I blame myself for anything that goes on around me, or that happens to the people around me. my dad left mom's favorite dish hanging off the table, the cat nocked it over, it broke, it was my cat must be my fault, and instantly i start shaking and wondering what the punishment...
    stoiccloset stoiccloset 18-21 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    My Friend

    My best friend has had a lot happen to her in the last few years and I've managed to blame myself for a whole lot of it. She was in a snowboarding accident a few years ago. I was the one who convinced her to go snowboarding that day. She and her boyfriend of 2 years reached a...
    BleedingMascara BleedingMascara 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15, 2008

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    I Was Abused......... Until I Reached The Bed

    I couldnt stop the abuse on myself inflicted by my family, and when things fell apart i blamed myself!
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 8, 2012

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    The Chains Of Habit Are Generally Too Small To Be Felt Until They Are Too Strong To Be Broken

    Blame…. It is such an ugly word, yet I get blame piled on top of me on a daily basis. If I were to be able to make it through an entire day without being faulted for someone else’s problem, I do not know if I would even recognize my own life. Having the finger...
    TypicalPisces TypicalPisces 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2010

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    Because Everybody Blames Me

    Anything that happens, that goes wrong, or anything. I get the blame. Even if I wasn't involved I get the blame. I do all the frikken hard work and I still get the blame! It's so annoying and frustrating. But now when something goes wrong I blame myself, even if I didn't do, I...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Oct 30, 2011

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    Life Fell Apart...

    April 1st 2007 - My life came crashing down around me.  My other half was taken away from me.  My husband was an immigrant from England.  He was brought over when he was 9 years old.  His family never got him his paperwork.  So when we married, I filed...
    IrishEyes IrishEyes 21-25, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2007

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    It's Not The Victims Fault.

    yet we all blame ourselves. what if i did this, or did that. screamed louder? resisted more? told sooner? told at all? cried more? begged more? pleaded more? ran? hid? fought back? fought at all? what did i do? what didnt i do? why did this happen? what wrong have i done? truth...
    monsterwithinme monsterwithinme 16-17, F Dec 20, 2011

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    Even Though I Know I Didn't Do It.

    It's so hard to get past the guilt of things gone wrong. Today I feel like I ruined everyones day....I asked to be left alone for a bit....that I just needed some space to deal....and he snapped at me and everyone else. He smashed the door and porch gate...he put a hole in the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 32 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    I Blame It All On Me

    i remember when i first went out with my ex it all went smooth till prob 3 weeks and then he tried to go to the next step i wasn't ready for that specially since hes brother was in the same room so i told him i have to go so i ran upstairs grabbed my bag and left after that he...
    meaglouait meaglouait 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2011

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    Life Gone Wrong

    I feel somtimes the way my life has turned out is my fault if I would of went school when I was 18 instead of getting involved in things I should have not.  I was lost at 18.  Now I'm a mom with 2 amazing wonderful children 5 and 6 I feel like i'm letting them down...
    Babygirl1977 Babygirl1977 26-30, F Jan 8, 2010

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    I Almost Lost My Arm From A Hena

    I went to Hong Kong Summer of 2012 for vacation as I've always loved my heritage and culture as a Chinese American. I spent the next 2 months staying with extended relatives and living with them. I spent everyday observing and interacting with people who live their lives vastly...
    bfung bfung 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    He Died

    My dad died a year ago, and I sometimes feel like it's partially my fault. It started when he had the stroke in September. My mom had went to check on him in their room, and saw that he'd fallen out of bed and wasn't acting right. I went in to see, and realized it was likely a...
    SagesBabie SagesBabie 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    Where Did I Go Wrong In Life?

    hello please hear me out please.where do i start this is tough... ok I am 43 Male i live in Britain.I live with my Mother and her boyfriend who drive me mad (she is 63 i love her)but we clash and old people do become annoying yes?(they love life) i hate every minute of mine.I am...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    Gone Wrong

    If it is my fault, then I will blame myself.  If it is not my fault, I will not.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Sep 30, 2011

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    So much is wrong and I can't fix it and I can't help it and I'm so sad by it and I just wanna be done with everything. 😣 I just wanna have a good thing for longer than a few...
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    So I took a psychology test today (hosted by seniors since I'm in high school) and i can't even believe that i did what i did. So i asked someone a question and they had to give an...
    lauren771 lauren771 13-15 Apr 9

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    I'm constantly telling myself "you really are pathetic." When i am in school, I can work. When I get home, all I do is fool around. I surf the internet, I text my friend, I draw...
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    How do I unlearn all these things? Waiting for you at night. The sound of the 11 o'clock chime, that means you have gotten off work and have the chance to talk to me. The elegant...
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    I once read an interesting perspective about the people you will encounter in your life, it states: "25% of people you meet: will never like you; 25% of people you meet: won't...
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    I was completely serious about calling you my soul mate. The only one I want forever. Why does it have to play out like this? I don't want to have to use my back-up plan. You've...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Apr 8

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    Seriously who's going to take me seriously my personality is too contradicting to one another. I have two separate personalities. Brightness : I wish everyone even ones I dislike...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Mzstruggle101 Mzstruggle101 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Dance090 Dance090 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Sometimes food just feels so nasty and I just have to try to chew it up enough just to get it to go down my throat 😣😩
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    It sucks when you want something more than the other person can give.
    SAN50 SAN50 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    You may have seen the anime, but the manga is more important... Kojika. She went through something too....
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Apr 8

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    I push everyone away and wonder why no one stays. I can't keep friends or intimate relationships. All my interactions are online. People at school assume I'm stupid or mute because...
    calicorex4 calicorex4 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel weak. And there is nothing I hate more in this world than feeling weak. I am not a weak person but I guess when he left he took a part of...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I hate the way I look I hate the way I sound they way I make choices the way I talk to people the way I think the way I am as me the way I breathe the way I walk the looks on my...
    Naty13 Naty13 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I guess I could come on here and complain about all the things gone wrong in my life but sometimes I feel like i have no right doing so when there are people in this world that...
    kae77 kae77 36-40, F Mar 30

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    kae77 kae77 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    It was thrown in my face today and i couldnt help but blame myself for having shared it in the first place. Im only human. I did not think this friend of mine would do this to me...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My ex gf and i got together about a week before my 31st birthday. Well jan 5 this yr she moved out. I was stupid and took her for granted. So i need to go back to last spring when...
    hopeandsorow hopeandsorow 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Things were okay until he came home from university. He decided to drop out a couple weeks into second semester because he hated it and it wasn't what he wanted to do with his life...
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    I do everything wrong. I have a friend, and she always blames others for every little thing. Ususally she's just joking, and she doesn't REALLY blame me, or someone else. But it...
    littlewolf1 littlewolf1 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Children of God; It upsets me when you blame God for the misfortunes in your lives (you know who you are). I hear it all the time "well, if there is a God then why does he let all...
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    My life is hard. I've been through hell for so many years. But somewhere deep inside i believe that life throws all these things at me. I've had every emotion, and gotten to know...
    MsLouise MsLouise 16-17, F Mar 28

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    For the longest time I have invested my time thinking about my friends and family and whether I have upset them. Whether I said something wrong. Whether I offended them. Whether I...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 4 days ago

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