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I Broke Up With Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 37 People

    Did I Do The Right Thing?

    i'm sitting here in tears, struggling to see the computer screen because me and my partner have just split up. he's a compulsive gambler and wants to stop but is stuck in a job he hates in a town full of bookies. when he should be a work, he gambles because he just doesn't want...
    sianny sianny 22-25 Sep 3, 2012

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    Same Thing Again And Again... I Need Your Support I'm Shattered

    hello people ....i would like to share my story with you people. I met this girl about two years ago and instantly we became really good friends..and eventually best friends back then she was in a messed up relationship i used to constantly cheer her up and help her in every...
    ankit9031 ankit9031 22-25 Oct 6, 2012

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    His feelings for me changed somewhere along the

    way. I stayed very much in love with him and he started just wanting to spend less and less time with me. He became more distant gradually. It started with fewer phone conversations a week to none, then it went from a couple text messages every day to not hearing from him for a...
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F Aug 26, 2014

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    I Just Ended A 2 Year Relationship...

    We were friends at first and it was all great.... he was very easy to talk to and was very nice to me. We then fell in love and that's when everything got complicated. Anyway, I won't tell the whole story, but I recently ended the relationship because we reached a dead end, there...
    puzzles100 puzzles100 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I will give you a little background knowledge

    on him and I. I've known him since I was twelve. He was my best friends crush back in the 8th grade and I was the awkward friend of his that never saw us ever being a thing..ever. Over the years we stayed in touch and were pretty good friends. When I was about sixteen and...
    P9aceful P9aceful 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    Thank God!

    Miserable years of my life and time spent with this suckubiss! The worst kisser I have ever kissed, a kiss-***, and a liar. Good riddance buddy!
    absofabo absofabo 41-45, F Jun 18, 2011

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    I Ended Things.

    Yes I ended things with him,I will always say this was for the best.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings 26-30, F 2 Responses May 15, 2011

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    And He Still Doesnt Understand Why

    He's a good person. But, he's controlling. He wanted me to always have my phone on. He wanted me to change my clothes, my personality, and also my denomination, "for my good." What's worse is that he denies this as being controlling. After a deep discussion about our...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    I Had No Choice...

    I'm not a selfish person. I'm the complete opposite but I had to do this for me. He wasn't giving me what I wanted and I wasn't giving him what he wanted. Everything was all about sex and $$ with him and it was all about love and fun with me. We couldn't meet each others needs so...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Jul 9, 2010

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    Once Again

    I broke up wif him. It was probably the best relationship i had ever been in since....ever. ahaha. it barely lasted a month, but sometimes it's not the length that really matters. he and i met in the most extraordinary way. ahaha... so one day i read this book called The...
    joetehgirl joetehgirl 16-17, F Dec 19, 2008

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    It Hurts

    I've been with this guy for four years. I even have a son with him. On tuesday, I decided I had enough of him trying to live off of me and I broke up with him. It hurts, though. Not because I miss him but because he's making my son suffer for my decision. He has not called...
    mybaby07 mybaby07 21-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2008

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    He left me here. In a city

    that I don't even know -- miles away from home! Granted, I told him to, but it is going to be 7pm, who does that? Thank God for friends. Today has just been a roller coaster. I felt that he was being a bit different (a bit distant and inconsiderate, to be exact) today, but I...
    SweetinaNutshell SweetinaNutshell 18-21, F Apr 26, 2014

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    I've never posted anything on here before, but at this point I simply don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 2.5 years now, and both of us are in...
    makitath makitath 18-21, F Jan 14

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    i love him cus we had each other for like 6 years.. but im not in love with him. i cannot feel the feeling of being "in-love". in fact, i never did experience that. i felt so sad...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    He always comes back and I always go out of my way to reach him. I need to let him go. I'm only hurting myself talking to him. There's been too much time between us now... Just let...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    my 3 year relationship just ended. and its because my exbf cheated on me with a guy. ive known him as a straight guy since college, i dnt know what to do. i love him so much, but...
    orangeKiatkiat orangeKiatkiat 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a 5 month old baby. he works during the week so i understand that hes tired but he does nothing around the house or to help with...
    beccih90 beccih90 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    we spent time together he bought me coffee we went out to a house he's building since he hasn't done things in a year he was a minute man but he's big i have a dancers body so he...
    carolinespecht4 carolinespecht4 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I FINALLY got my Visa and will travel in 10 days :) I just can't wait to start my new life with my love !! Yaaay !!!
    Beyrouth Beyrouth 22-25, F Jan 7

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    Laying here listening to music with my headphones on. I start to hear screams, scream that sounds from outside, there coming from a far, outside... I decide to pause the music so I...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F Jan 18

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    My friends said that's because I've had nice men in my life before so I didn't recognize this one was the top echelon of dirtbags. I've never met anyone like him before, lies...
    FeistyMe FeistyMe 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    its 1 feb 2015 today and its his birthday again. for the past 6yrs together i had never failed to be with him on his birthday but today and the past 1 year im unable to be with him...
    sherisha sherisha 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    It's been almost a year now. I started last year at my birthday. We were really drunk and we hugged and I actually never thought about him that way. And a few weeks later, I...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm in love with my Law Enforcecment Instructor. He's 38, I'm 17. He's been my instructor since last year, and will be until I graduate next year. And it's so hard to resist him...
    TheEnigmaLEIT TheEnigmaLEIT 16-17 36 mins ago

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    I just broke up on New Year's day. I had been with him since Oct 9, 2013. He had been my unbelievably very good friend since Feb 2007. He's very intelligent and sensitive...
    UN1V3RS3 UN1V3RS3 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    I cut it.. I cut him, I cut his ties.. I'm regretting it so much, It's hurting too much. Why did I have to fall so hard for him? why couldn't it have been a happy ending? It felt...
    xRiax xRiax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I had this idea in my head that seemed brilliant at the time. Break up with him, and he will begin to understand my feelings more. "You'll get back together after like 3 days and...
    melisa1211 melisa1211 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I been wanting to find someone that I can care for ..my first marriage I was with him for 13 years with in those years I was told I was fat ugly and worth less he would beat me in...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    So I've broken up with my bf 3 times. The first time the next day I regret it and we ended up taking a break for 2 weeks then got back together. Then we broke up again and then got...
    Kru24 Kru24 16-17 Jan 17

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    I feel very silly and awkward to post this, but it has been bothering me for a while now and when I found this group I was overjoyed. You all seem like such nice people and it...
    xCrowSong xCrowSong 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I had/ have a boyfriend of two months shy from being three years. I don't know if I love(d) him.. I don't know what love is to be honest. I used him.. maybe not at first but as...
    Gardengnome55 Gardengnome55 16-17, F Jan 20

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    I've known him since freshman year..and we dated for awhile. back then we were better as friends than we were as a couple so we broke up. he moved and I got with another guy and...
    imateenagewasteland imateenagewasteland 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    About two years ago I met a most wonderful guy at school who everyone avoided. No one would talk to him, maybe because during the summer he went to a mental hospital. I was new to...
    jasperbites jasperbites 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I've never been one of those girls that get too into a guy and fall in deep passionate love. I'm a realist. I know everyone hurts everyone even if it isn't actually deliberate, it...
    cmlgx cmlgx 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    its been 2 weeks since we've split up. We were together for four years and it was a long distance relationship. It was working out so well and we were so happy! I graduated from...
    ambi1991 ambi1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I had to break up with my boyfriend this week. He was so insecure and you didn't trust me all even though I repeatedly proved my loyalty to him. He hacked into all of my social...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 26-30, F Jan 14

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    I'm in love with an alcoholic. I always have and always will love him.. despite the nasty things he said when drunk.. he done believe rumors.. I know he loves me I never question...
    missjdragon20 missjdragon20 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    We broke up 5yrs ago. You loved drinking more then us.. Then you come around 3yrs later when I finally moved on.. Tell me you want to be a better daddy to our daughter... So over...
    missjdragon20 missjdragon20 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    How do you help those who can't seem to help themselves? I have always been really in tune with my siblings ever since I can remember, whenever they are feeling upset or hurt, I...
    jerzshorecoll21 jerzshorecoll21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I need help with something. I cannot decide if my teacher likes me back or not, so Im going to go through all the events that have happened with me and him, and I would really...
    SilencesLullaby SilencesLullaby 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    We broke up because he cheated on me when I went to college and I was super heart broken and did some destructive behavior(only hurt me)and ended being his friend and hooked up...
    BlahItsM BlahItsM 18-21, F Jan 11

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    I was raised Mormon, left the church shortly after my little brother experienced a nervous breakdown whilst serving a mission. I had always had a fear of the mentally ill and...
    eviec7 eviec7 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    From 17 to 23, I was never alone for long, a 'serial monogamist' of sorts. When I and my most current ex broke up in 2013, I decided that it was time for me to work on myself. I...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Wouldn't actually say I'm in love with 2 but I love one very dearly. And I like the other a lot. The one I'm in love with (Matt), I have been with for almost 2 years. He's been...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F Jan 1

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I'm having a hard time thinking about him..everynight, every time I'm alone I can not help myself to think of him.. I wanna forget him cause I know that he can't love me like I...
    magebricks magebricks 18-21, F a week ago