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I Broke Up With My Boyfriend

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    It had to be done. The reasons aren't important right now. I was putting it off because I know I would miss talking to him on the phone, sharing our day with each other. When I...
    Badina Badina 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm hurt and mad. He disappointed me. Hard. But.... I joined plenty Of fish and I've had a full day of praise. A stark difference to what I've been getting the last 3.5 years. I...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    After a year and a half I broke up with him. I'm devastated. But he needs to realize what he has. And how he treats his gf. I love him and will never stop. But I was tired of being...
    Lex222 Lex222 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I Blame Myself - I should've never broken up with you in the first place. I ruined everything. EVERYTHING! We were perfect. I loved you so much, and I still do. I don't know why I...
    Epikk Epikk 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I cant stop crying i cant fall asleep i loved him so much and i still do. I have to keep telling myself to stay strong and put this energy towards something else but its not...
    fearisaliar fearisaliar 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Broke Up - Breaking up sucks in general. Breaking up with someone you love has to be the ultimate heart-wrenching experience. No wonder people write songs about this stuff- I think...
    KayKai KayKai 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Hate My Ex - I broke up with my terrible ex who abused me physically, mentally , cheated me for about 2 and 1/2 years .!
    richa12345678 richa12345678 22-25, F 4 Responses May 6, 2011

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    Silly..... - It sounds silly to me to say "I broke up with my boyfriend".  After all, I'm 41, not 15 or 25.  I guess it would be more dignified to say I ended...
    aligirl999 aligirl999 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    First Time Walking Away - I dated a guy for eight months who I thought was the love of my life. Two months into my dating him, I discovered that he had NPD(narcissistic personality...
    Mulhollandrive Mulhollandrive 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    I finally broke up with my bf of 2 and half years coz of my insecurities and hair loss.
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend. He needs someone who understands him, I'm not that one. It was for the best
    Otto1234566 Otto1234566 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Today - I had a boyfriend of about 8 months and today we just broke up. Actually I broke up with him. We were having a lot of problems with him not being very nice to my guy...
    Emirembe Emirembe 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    He seemed to take it better than me. I'm crushed, he was such a kind person. He said he still had feelings for me yet he told my best friend he didn't want to date.
    lunaloves lunaloves 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi... I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and it's taking a toll on me, especially since I helped him get a job where I work and we broke up last week when he...
    lanaturalesa82 lanaturalesa82 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Am The One Who Ended It.... - We were dating for One year, and seven months. It was great at 1st, than it went bad, and we thought it was over, than he changed, or said he did...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Frustrated Rant On X... - So, two years and you think that you can treat me like **** because I broke up with you, and found someone new? I think I was blind to the little boy that...
    30Forward 30Forward 31-35 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    I think that for the 500,000,000 time, it really is over. It took me just under 2 years to completely close the door on this relationship. This was one of the most unique / bizarre...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F Jan 30

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    I never had a relationship....
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I Broke Up With My Boyfriend Who Was Obsessed With Me But I Still Love Him - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I would want to think that was right in doing so but somewhere I...
    asadbutterfly asadbutterfly 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    I feel so sorry :( I am mıssıng hım so much ı need hım :( But after break -14 days - he never call or text me . So ı guess he never loved me and thats so sad cause ı really...
    Selinn Selinn 16-17, F Jan 15

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend after dating him for 9 months and I'm happy. Maybe it was the fact that he was mean to me. I realized I was strong and didn't deserve that. Now I...
    Tristynwuvsyou Tristynwuvsyou 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 hours ago..... I feel so relieved....
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend because of my friends and I'm here crying while there at their house having fun and this is so freaking stupid I hate them right now
    Excuseme1357 Excuseme1357 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Painless.. - i broke up with guys thru text msgs & IMs...takes the sting out (for me anyways)..my mom thinks its a cruel and dishonorable way to take care of such business
    oRACHELo oRACHELo 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    A First Love Gone - In this case, he broke up with me. It didn't make sense at first, he seemed very promising, being my high school sweetheart. We started liking each other after...
    rocket2themoon rocket2themoon 18-21, F Nov 20, 2011

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    Life After - It has been about half a year since the break up with my "first love". I was devastated for three months, miserable for two, okay for one, and now I finally feel like...
    KayKai KayKai 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    I just broke up with the most amazing person in the world...I love him very much and will always love him...We were in a long distance relationship...and I fell for him hard. You...
    summerfire summerfire 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me yesterday. He said that we were too different and that he was never able to fall in love with me even tho he wanted to. He also said that...
    katherinapmts katherinapmts 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    It's Killing Me, But It Was the Right Thing to Do. - This has been quite the emotional cheese grater.   Breaking up with someone with whom you are still in love is so...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    I Can't Go Back - I can't go back, I don't want to. The love I had for him is gone. Respect went out the window for him a long time ago. I knew what he was capable of and yet I...
    dannah777 dannah777 22-25, F 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    And I am so glad that I did, because I am already finding happiness with others.
    ateamgirl ateamgirl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I Dumped My Boyfriend - I I loved him and still do love him. But I just couldn't give what he wants, what he needs. We have been going steady for almost a year and as far as I know...
    Kuniko Kuniko 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    So I did it.. He's upset of course. He fell in love with me and wanted to be committed, but I'm not ready. He doesn't understand that and now he's taking it really hard.
    iCelebrate420 iCelebrate420 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    It's been three weeks. He still doesn't know, and I won't ever tell him the reason I finally broke up with him. And just like that, three years of my life is something I have to...
    Jenuinely Jenuinely 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    And I think it was a good thing. We were never really meant for each other anyway. Not when he told me to quit my job, not when he looked at me strange for my hobbies. Not when he...
    Felicity3110 Felicity3110 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I thought he was amazing, kind, and loving... Then, he started acting weird. Told me it was because of my weight... Said he loved me though, and wanted to give our relationship a...
    QueenofCalifornia QueenofCalifornia 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I read what you wrote in one site..regarding break up..Nom I want to share my situation now to you,Cause i know you are a good adviser..I'm in a long distance relationship with him...
    january022 january022 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Trust - when i started dating my boyfriend, i was 15 and he was 16. it's kind of crazy that we made it this far... three years later and we're both nineteen, going to the same...
    Phasmid Phasmid 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    I need some advice...my boyfriend broke me up because we are un different culture and beliefs..He is muslim and I'm Christian,.he told me that our relationship will not work out..i...
    january022 january022 22-25, F Feb 18

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    I just did it when his phone was off I kinda deal bad for him
    XDeathTheKidx XDeathTheKidx 13-15, M Mar 11

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    Not Really Upset That Its Over...i Wonder Why? - I guess we really weren't totally exclusive...it was more out convenience, but we said sexually we would stay exclusive and if we...
    gemify gemify 36-40, F 15 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Saw My Ex Yesterday... - Yesterday, while on my way back home from office...I spotted my ex. Felt so sorry for him. He was there walking beside his office parking lot and having a...
    asadbutterfly asadbutterfly 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    I Don't Wanna Ruin His Life Cause I Love Him So Much - Okay... It's 8.20AM. We've been not talking to each other properly for 2 days, I don't know why?! And I found myself flirting...
    SteffyC17 SteffyC17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2011

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    Today. After 5 long years of putting up with the lies and the cheating, and more lies, I was finally over it. Today, I gathered up the courage to face him and say "It's just not...
    thisaintlove thisaintlove 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    We were together three years. A stupid girl made him angry at me then sent him an Instagram direct saying she loved him. He agreed and now I hate him. He is a malious, vain and...
    magegirl11 magegirl11 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I broke up with my wonderful boyfriend G in September. We had been dating for seven years, since I was 18. We had a beautiful, quirky relationship and he taught me how to love. I...
    lenaethompson lenaethompson 22-25 1 Response Feb 17

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    Trying To Mend A Broken Heart... - I was with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. Things were good apart from the last 4-6 months where we spent less and less time talking properly...
    Sparkleandmagic Sparkleandmagic 22-25 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    I Just Can't Take It! - We tried the friend thing. My heart is still as raw and red as a babboon's *** with open festering wounds. He tells me about the girls- Eve, Court, Nicky...
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    happened today actually. he pretty much chose his ex over me :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey told me he lost feelings for me. I broke up with him. Yesterday would have been seven months
    JuliBReina JuliBReina 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Finally we have ended our relationship as much as I feel sad I feel a heavy weight lifted off my shoulders and not having to worry about not being myself and being free!!
    joshuaherrera20 joshuaherrera20 22-25, M Apr 7

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    Me and my boyfriend, just broke up. We only dated for like a month but, hey, everything happens for a reason. I'm happy we broke up. That's mean I know but he had a boring...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 17