I Broke Up With My Boyfriend

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    Broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years last

    night. We were always sort of on again off again throughout the 4 years though. The last time we broke up (September 2014) it was bc he said I wasn't in love with me anymore. Ina three month span he was intimate with one girl and sort of had a thing with another. Well that...
    justbreathe95 justbreathe95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    I broke up with my boyfriend last Saturday.

    A relationship of 10 months has ceased to continue further. I can't bear to look at our previous photos together, it makes me feel like I lived a dream, as if the happiness shown in the picture wasn't me but someone else's. But for some unknown reason I haven't cried a single...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 15, 2015

    I got out of a relationship

    after months of not being interested, when the relationship started to go on and off over and over again, all because I asked him to get back with me and then break us up again, unable to explain that I just didn't want the relationship anymore. I finally broke it off, he said...
    lucyskywalker lucyskywalker
    18-21, F
    Jan 22

    I broke up with my boyf we had been together

    14months we argued everyday I started to have feelings for someone else it was like a week before xmas I feel so much better knowing how he really felt after the break up the A--hole I just want to sleep around which is so bad 🙊
    cailowe cailowe
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2015
    meowcatkitty meowcatkitty
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    I just broke up with my boyfriend of eleven

    years. I should be sad..I know he is. But all I feel is numb. Which tells me it was the right thing to do.
    deegaf420 deegaf420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    And we are now just really great friends.

    I feel like we're both so much more happier being just friends than being together cos we can just talk to each other better and it's not as confusing and it also is just a lot more comfortable. XxxX
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

    Finally we have ended our relationship

    as much as I feel sad I feel a heavy weight lifted off my shoulders and not having to worry about not being myself and being free!!
    joshuaherrera20 joshuaherrera20
    22-25, M
    Apr 7, 2014

    he broke up with me. the pain is intense.

    I feel like I wont luv anyone else cuz I luv him still. I need to move on but I cant :, (((( idk what to do im really hurt.
    yolifeisgreat yolifeisgreat
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 8
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 8

    And I am so glad that I did,

    because I am already finding happiness with others.
    ateamgirl ateamgirl
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    Well he was just my boyfriend

    for a quick fleeting week and it's the first time that I've ever pulled the plug on a relationship.... I usually just sabotage and expect them to get sick of me and my crazy ways and end things themselves. I think I have such a difficult time breaking up with people for a few...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 25

    I broke up with my fiancé yesterday.

    We have a 5 month baby boy. My former fiancé struggles with binge drinking and his entire personality changes. He started throwing things and yelling when the baby was in the same room. I thought he was doing better but now we have a son and I will not tolerate any of his...
    mel3030 mel3030
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    So, I have posted here how I was dating a blind

    person and my experience with that. Well, we just broke up on Saturday. I finally decided that I was not ready for such a committed relationship, especially one where I had to take on a lot more responsibility. I just think that it was important for me to realize that my...
    mattihope mattihope
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2015

    I just broke up with my boyfriend,

    he's very sad now but that's what you get when you make me do weird **** in front of public.
    LittleMissBoots295 LittleMissBoots295
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    This happened a while ago.

    I had my very first relationship in my Senior year of high school. He was a year younger than me and I found out later while dating that he was an Atheist (nothing wrong with though wish I known earlier I wouldn't have dated outside my religion) but he was a good guy...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    i forgot how good it felt to be alone im

    so comfortable i don't want to leave the house ...*cheers to myself*
    miimii0069 miimii0069
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    happened today actually.

    he pretty much chose his ex over me :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2014

    I don't know why I am posting this

    because the majority of you readers won't care but I broke up with my boyfriend...whom I had lost my viginity to. I know it was for the best because he was cheating on me! I feel it's a weight lifted of my shoulders because I can finally go out to parties again and just have fun...
    unwrappedperfection unwrappedperfection
    16-17, F
    14 Responses May 10, 2014

    It had to be done. The reasons aren't important

    right now. I was putting it off because I know I would miss talking to him on the phone, sharing our day with each other. When I told him I didn't want to see him again, He didn't try to change my mind, didn't mention loving me. Wished me a good life and that he wouldn't...
    Badina Badina
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2014

    I Am The One Who Ended It....

    We were dating for One year, and seven months. It was great at 1st, than it went bad, and we thought it was over, than he changed, or said he did, and actually acted liked he changed, so things got better again for a short while, but than things just got bad again, and for months...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    Why couldn't I fall in love?

    Eight months tryig so hard to feel something, a spark or some butterflies, but nothing. He was perfect in principle! But I couldn't fall in love. Maybe love doesn't exist. Maybe I should've settled for the person, and not the feeling. I'm lost. Back to the start.
    MissSilverwood MissSilverwood
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 23

    I finally did it. Finally found the right time

    to do it. It wasn't planned or anything but I knew it was coming. Our relationship was going downhill and he was a completely different person than the guy I remembered and fell in love with. I don't know what caused him to change but the stress and hurt he put me through was to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 5, 2015

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    astrudcc11 astrudcc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2015
    KrisMiss KrisMiss
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2014

    First Time Walking Away

    I dated a guy for eight months who I thought was the love of my life. Two months into my dating him, I discovered that he had NPD(narcissistic personality disorder). I think the process of finding this out on my own was so excruciatingly that I went into denial mode and pretended...
    Mulhollandrive Mulhollandrive
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    After a year and a half I broke up with him.

    I'm devastated. But he needs to realize what he has. And how he treats his gf. I love him and will never stop. But I was tired of being treated like crap and being on his time. He needs to change some things and I need time to think. So it was best. But I wanna be with him again...
    Lex222 Lex222
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2014

    I broke up. I still can't believe it.

    The only reason I won't commit suicide is because I have a beautiful little daughter to care about. this week was the worst week of my life .I just broke up with him (10 days ago) I don't know what to do we have been dating for almost 3 years and now everything is lost. we have...
    mommyJess mommyJess
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 6

    I just broke up with my boyfriend

    after dating him for 9 months and I'm happy. Maybe it was the fact that he was mean to me. I realized I was strong and didn't deserve that. Now I'm happy. Am I wrong to feel that way?
    Tristynwuvsyou Tristynwuvsyou
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2014

    Who needs that boring,

    ugly stupid boy anyway? I hope he's crying right now. I'm glad I dumped him. why have him when I could have a richer, cuter boy instead? we're going out tonight and I'm gonna tell my ex how happy I am! he's a wreck without me. he's now that quiet, sad kid that no one talks to...
    kindaspoilt kindaspoilt
    13-15, F
    9 Responses Mar 5

    After he ignored me for 4 days straight,

    I broke up with him via text message. I was really sad for those 4 days, b/c who likes being ignored right? So now I feel happy again, so yay:) The date is December 28 and I am single and ready to mingle;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    I broke up with him today.

    Of course I'm hurt, but I was constantly accused of being a liar, a manipulator, a deceiver, and a cheater. I am not any of those things. He was always so paranoid and suspicious. I know I can be a bit of a spaz, but Jesus. He's one of those people who has a lot of problems, but...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 20, 2015

    So I had to break up with my boyfriend .

    We fell out of love a long time ago . I know he feels my health has dragged him down . I'm not sad . I wish him happiness and hope he finds what he needs . But , I'm not going to be in a relationship where someone guilt trips me for being sick and having to take care of me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 28, 2015

    Silly.....

    It sounds silly to me to say "I broke up with my boyfriend".  After all, I'm 41, not 15 or 25.  I guess it would be more dignified to say I ended the relationship.  But I found EP by googling I broke up with my boyfriend, because I wanted to find other...
    aligirl999 aligirl999
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Aug 16, 2008

    Not Really Upset That Its Over...i Wonder Why?

    I guess we really weren't totally exclusive...it was more out convenience, but we said sexually we would stay exclusive and if we were going to be someone else we would tell each other so that we both could move on. Over a year of seeing him on and off and the first time I ever...
    gemify gemify
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Jan 29, 2012

    And I feel absolutely amazing!

    ! I was with him for a long time, 4 and a half years to be exact, but it was a very abusive relationship and I was afraid to leave him, I thought that I was going to lose everything and my world would just crash and burn. I fell out of love with him a long time ago but I couldn't...
    Majin1712 Majin1712
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I broke up with him last week

    and then tried to contact him again... I texted him about how I missed him and just wanted to slow things down... He didn't respond for a couple of days. Then Saturday he called me and said 'We can still be friends and stuff' . I laughed at the 'and stuff' part. Then I went over...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 2

    Today. After 5 long years of putting up with

    the lies and the cheating, and more lies, I was finally over it. Today, I gathered up the courage to face him and say "It's just not working out." He took me for granted, betrayed me, ruined my trust, and today, I let him know that he was never, ever going to get that trust back...
    thisaintlove thisaintlove
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Apr 13, 2014
    annonymous56 annonymous56
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    I give up, Im so done.

    It doesn't matter how hard I try, Im never good enough. I keep telling myself not to fall in love, not to think about the future, that my relationship is nothing more than a fling, but God he made me think all these things, he made me feel all theses things. From the start I...
    SecretPain13 SecretPain13
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    And it hurts. UPDATE to my I Hate

    that my boyfriend is Pessimist post... On Oct. 24th my -ex- boyfriend and I had a halloween party to attend. His negativity drove us to argue the entire drive to the party. As soon as I got to the party I separated from him and socialized with other party guests and friends...
    lost12345 lost12345
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    i broke up with my boyfriend

    and i have done nothing but listen to paramore since it happen...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 4

    It's sad that we have been dating

    for an hour then asks for sexy pics I'm 15 ur 18 don't think so
    mia151 mia151
    13-15, F
    Jan 20

    Finally...we kicked him out.

    I am so much happier without him. It just feels amazing to be ME again ^_^ I don't even miss him. He put me through so much bullshit grr but now I'm free :)
    StrangeMe18 StrangeMe18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2014

    I just got out of a terrible relationship

    but I hate being alone I need someone to help me get through the ups and downs of life someone I can depend on to be there for me and to hold
    lost12unit lost12unit
    13-15, M
    1 Response Nov 20, 2014

    Life After

    It has been about half a year since the break up with my "first love". I was devastated for three months, miserable for two, okay for one, and now I finally feel like myself again. I don't know how long it usually takes someone to "get over" someone else, but it took me half a...
    KayKai KayKai
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2013

    this was actually a few days ago

    when i did. but i felt like being single for a while. i mean, i didnt even know him not even a month and he asked me out. so now we are just best friends. there are times when i do kiss him. but thats only on the cheek or forehead.
    HeySafaaJust HeySafaaJust
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 15

    I broke with him just

    now now I feel like nothing els matters so ✌
    prettyme12 prettyme12
    13-15, F
    8 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    Why is it so hard to move out of your ex bfs

    family house , oh well , asta nunca !
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 19

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015
    deegaf420 deegaf420
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I Dumped My Boyfriend

    I I loved him and still do love him. But I just couldn't give what he wants, what he needs. We have been going steady for almost a year and as far as I know, he has not been with anyone else. He is the only boyfriend I've ever had. I've always been afraid of boys and he was the...
    Kuniko Kuniko
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Jul 7, 2010

    I just broke up with my boyfriend of seven

    years, I feel so relieved. There was no love or communication. Now I feel like the whole world has opened up and I am free with a ticket to find real love. Am i crazy, shouldn't I feel sad?
    guliannah guliannah
    51-55, F
    Feb 27, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 20

    it's been three weeks

    and it's been very hard.. the day will come when I'll get over the pain I am feeling right now. wether he realizes his lost or not , I could care less.
    babe0318 babe0318
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015
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