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I Bruise

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    Classic Lie Come True!!!

    ok, the classic reason an abuse victim will give for bruises is "i walked into a door."  i know, i have used it myself. so, here i am, well out of that situation and what do i do?  give myself a black eye walking into a cabinet door.  a someone asked...
    SunnyKris SunnyKris 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2007

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    Easily........

    Shane grabbed me once (we were foolin' around) & I was black & blue the next morning. He apologized for a week. lol. I've been bruised & not even remembered what I did to get it. I bruise way too easy. It's okay though, they rarily hurt. Mahahahahaha!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8, 2009

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    Ugly

    Well that's what he tells me... that it's all me. I bruise easily. Funny I've learned to say that now every time I get a new one. My son is a bit rough and tends to get out of control so those are common. He head butted me in the stomach the other day but it's at that light...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2007

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    Bruised

    i bruised so easily. i'm not joking.
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2007

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    OUCH!

    I bruise really easily but I never realised how bad it was until a few years ago. I had taken an OD and was having a blood test, it was the first one I had ever had that I could remember, it was taken from my hand. The next day my whole hand was black!! The bruise covered the...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Mar 4, 2008

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    It's amazing how many people turn a blind eye when they see someone with bruises suddenly that weren't there the day before. Friends, Teachers, No one wants to get involved...
    laurena123 laurena123 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    So I was going to jump in the shower when something caught my eye in the mirror. Somehow today I managed to bruise the outside corner of my eye!! I don't even know how I did it...
    LonelyHolly LonelyHolly 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I went to study abroad for a few months and I began to have problems with my boyfriend. We eventually went on a break during which he slept with somebody he had been texting for...
    haoshumei haoshumei 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Blue, black, green, purple. I like them. But I'm weird.
    proelia proelia 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Everyone was where I live. I don't particularly like it nor was I very grateful for it. Too often was it done out of anger and inconsistently in my home. Also, sometimes I'd get...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yesterday's was the worst. Because I have to go out through an ally way it's a really easy ambush area. I was foolish when I saw then I didn't do anything I just froze. I know I...
    theghostofsummerpast theghostofsummerpast 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I was on the way to the beach right after graduating high school with a couple close friends in the car with me. We were having a fantastic trip, and were 5 miles from the beach...
    towsonstudent towsonstudent 18-21, M Jul 9

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    I like to share this song lyrics, out of reach by gabrielle. For those who are waiting for their MM, for those MM that can't be reach . For those who are lost, confused, hurting...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    I stepped on an insecure grating this morning. I hurt a few important parts of my body due to the momentum.. nothing serious.. just a few bruises.. but it was hell of a pain.. I...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I have a boyfriend. He.s 4 years younger than me (I.m 22 and he.s 18). We.ve been dating for 6 months now. My parents don.t like him cause he.s...
    PoisonCherry PoisonCherry 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    This one is for those struggling with life's bruises.Often as I wander EP I am struck with how often life throws adversity and cruel blows into underserving peoples paths. So this...
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    1:Is there a boy/girl in your life? I'm single as a.......... single person 😳 2:Think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them? *thinking* thunk! Yes :) I forgive...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    A blond, brunette, and a redhead go hunting. The brunette goes into the woods and comes back out with a deer. They ask,"How did you get that deer?" She responded,"I saw the...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I was bullied in 4th grade. I was molested by a cousin when I was 9 as well the only person who knows about it is my half sister Julia because he did it to her to. I was molested...
    alexvalen alexvalen 16-17, F Jul 9

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    I cut and bruise a lot. I especially bruise in summer where I can play it off at least better than cuts. I've been on suicide watch at hospitals in the past. I don't know why I...
    alexvalen alexvalen 16-17, F Jul 9

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    There is a demon in us all. For some people it comes out easier than others. Our very own... Hadrian Coull, the only one who refuses to use our given last name. He would smile and...
    TheDylanWorld TheDylanWorld 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Dear __________, I ignored the times you laughed at my tears, And all the lies you've told me over the years. I ignored all your evil, Believing you had nothing to gain. I ignored...
    owlabyss owlabyss 16-17, F Jul 16

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    I am learning how to count my blessings. :) Recently, I was sitting in church. I wasn't paying much attention to the service, because I was too busy whining to myself about my job...
    gingershuman gingershuman 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm moving to surrey, because I had a fight with my mum and got attested for self defence but I couldn't do anything because I didn't press charges against her. I just wanted to...
    teebagg teebagg 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Actually just got out of one last night.. Pretty proud of myself, he's been blowing up my phone & I haven't been giving him the time of day, now all I gotta do is have these...
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 23 Responses Jun 25

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    Did my first cage fight!! Won by desicion all three rounds. Was as fun as I expected, life is good right now. I've been in a couple street fights when I was a kid, and been in...
    leptar leptar 18-21, M Jun 25

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    You know, I am the kind of person who just cannot walk away from someone who needs my help. Complete opposite of my parents, and that is where most of the troubles begin. Let me...
    aleiyavonvanitysixx aleiyavonvanitysixx 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm not even sure if it's even consider a spanking.... I rather call it a beating than a spanking because it sounds so.... Soft. I mean... My father usually slaps me a few times...
    AriGALAXY AriGALAXY 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Would anyone love me? Broken, bruised, scarred, depressed, suicidal. I don't think anyone would. I would be lucky if anyone loved me.
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I don't know whats worse; the physical or emotional abuse.. Physical signs of abuse go away, well most of mine did; a couple scars and such here and there but nothing a little...
    softballgirl3 softballgirl3 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    No blood I can still stand, I get some bruises or scratches. But really does it make a difference, I get kicked in my legs hard, hit hard, things thrown at me. I've learned to be...
    Anna85xo Anna85xo 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Wish Upon A Star.... When I was seven I remember the site of blood, it was all I had seen. My parents fought all the time, anger was normally turned to my big brother and myself...
    MusicalGamer MusicalGamer 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I am laying here in bed watching movies and all I can think about is him he's my everything if I lost this man I wouldn't know what I would do he's picked me up from being...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I woke up tied to a bed, in a really drab desolate and decrepit house. There were no sheets on the bed... there were metal spikes on the ceiling above me. This guy comes into the...
    tystruckman tystruckman 36-40, M Jun 27

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    I do not actually remember 2 sec before and after i fall down. Not that i fainted but my mind seemed to be lost for atleast 4 sec of that day. I stood up as i am waking from...
    foryoureyesonly1983 foryoureyesonly1983 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I think my brain is kinda dis-abled Cus it don't know if I'm nuts or sta-ble I'm a different breed but not a la-bel Because I'm known to turn the ta-ble I take meds for the...
    RebelStar24 RebelStar24 16-17, F Jun 27

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    This website it is an incubator and all of its participants are spreading their disease like a plague. I will be fine I will be confident I will be happy and I will feel like I...
    darchuletagirl2 darchuletagirl2 16-17, F Jun 27

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    My leg hurts so bad. I'm pretty sure I bruised a bone in my knee which makes it ache to lift my knee but then to top it off I have torn cartilage in my knee that makes it hurt to...
    theredgiant theredgiant 26-30, M Jun 28

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    Dixie Chicks - Goodbye Earl Lyrics Mary Anne and Wanda were the best of friends All through their high school days Both members of the 4H Club Both active in the FFA After...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F Jun 28

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    I need some help, really badly. First, I apologize if any of this has improper grammar or misspellings, I am writing this in a hurry. When I was a child, I was moved around a bit...
    LilMissStats LilMissStats 13-15, F Jun 28

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    The Pain Is Still Raw I have a few memories that haunt me but my memory is bad so sometimes it takes something to trigger off that memory but i think the one main one that will...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Yea these bruises are from beatings my dad did to me. This is why I wish he was dead and far away.
    romanceisdeadd romanceisdeadd 13-15, M 15 Responses Jun 30

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    Mirror, Mirror on my wall. Do you wish for me to fall? Cut my wrist, and bruise my skin, I know by now, I can not win. Mirror, Mirror you own me. Never good enough, I see. If what...
    societykilledtheteenagers societykilledtheteenagers 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    The Damn Thick Ice: When I was little my favorite season of the year was winter for two perfect reasons: I loved to throw humongous snowballs at people I hated (ex: my older...
    NFDenmark NFDenmark 16-17, M Jun 30

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    " my hands are tied, my body is bruised and I've been left with nothing to win and nothing left to lose" - With or Without You by U2
    himmelmeere himmelmeere 22-25, F Jul 1

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    I have become the scapegoat daughter of a narcissistic mother, and I don't know what to do anymore. She has physically harmed me on multiple occasions, and the next morning denies...
    psychfemme psychfemme 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I never dreamed I'd find myself here. I never imagined it would all end this way for me. I'm new here to this forum but I am not new to SM. I haven't lived it as long as some of...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 1

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