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I Call Men Sir

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    i wanted to show respect

    for my boyfriend and asked him how he felt about me calling him sir. after a few days thinking about it he said that he would like that if i was ok with it. i started calling him sir at home and in private when we were out after some time he asked if i was ok with calling him...
    spiceoneagain spiceoneagain 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Spelling Makes A Difference.

    It is nice to hear people address males and females as sir or ma'am,but I must confess to a feeling of being superior when addressing an obnoxious guy as sir and thinking,"If only he knew how I was spelling it when applied to him".I could be spelling it,'s i r' for good guys but...
    Rapolis Rapolis 66-70, M Apr 4, 2013

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    Excuse Me, Sir...

    I was raised to refer to men/women that I am not familiar with as 'sir' or 'ma'am'. I have worked in various service industries and was perfectly at ease using sir or ma'am. However, one time I was in some posh bar in Washington  D.C. and there was a man standing in...
    greensatindress greensatindress 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Totally Trained

    What can I say?  My daddy was a preacher and both my granddaddies were military men.  How could I grow up in THAT and not call people sir and ma'am!?!?!?
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F May 6, 2012

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    I am from Germany and we do not have something

    like that. But I got lectured very bad because I did not to a man here and think he was right and I should because it is rude to call strangers only by their first name and talk to them like to my friends. When you read that Sir, I am very sorry.
    123claudia 123claudia 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Not Normally

    But if they were my master, I would.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Just The Cute Ones :d

    That's the sub within... It's my little way of saying, "You're so sexy."Although, sometimes I use it as an insult when a guy is being rude, as in, "Can I help you, sir?"
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I just think it's polite & respectful.

    It's the way I've been taught
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 11

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    All adults I don't know.

    Everyone here does and Ma'am for their wifes.
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Sometimes

    Most of them think it's funny, I perceive. Others say "I haven't heard that in a while."
    learntocook learntocook 18-21 Aug 25, 2010

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    And They Better Call Me

    Dr. or Ms. It is a sign of respect. If they don't know me then, Miss or Ms. is fine. If they do, then they are expected to call me Dr. It is a title that worked hard for and have earned. I show others the same courtesy no matter what age they are.  The only people who call me by...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 12 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I hardly think they deserve to be called men. These "men" are ruining it for the rest of us. I wish they would pick a fight with a real man, and maybe then they'll show their true...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    Thank you, Sir, for all you've provided for me! I spoke with people/"men" on chat random but never more than a few minutes! I felt too dirty or guilty speaking with other "men...
    DTF7 DTF7 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    But I don't find it weird to be called forgotten xD I'm used to being called they first word of my username. Forgotten, Hyper, Simple, Batman, Kitteh... I'm used to being called...
    ForgottenFantasy ForgottenFantasy 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    For us that were born in the Deep South, ma'am and sir were drilled into us. It is just a sign of respect and of being well mannered. I am approaching 60 y/o and I still use ma'am...
    piercedbeast2001 piercedbeast2001 56-60, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    SLEEPING WITH SIRENS AND PIERCE THE VEIL ARE GOING ON TOUR TOGETHER WHAT IS MY LIFE EVEN<33333
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
    SpiceZ SpiceZ 56-60, F Jul 22

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    The problem for me is this: In general, women care for men & children, whether we know them or not. But it is generally accepted that women & children should feel unsafe in the...
    ChattyCathy81 ChattyCathy81 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I love it when older men notice me. I get so turned on. 40s 50s maybe even older.
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    I love older men. I'm 26 and I was with a man who was 54. He had such a firm touch and soft skin. It turned me on so much that he wanted me. I felt so comforted by him being so...
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    I am black and I have dated guys of my own race, but in the end i would end up heart broken. I am NOT saying that there are no good black men out there just that white men (and...
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