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I Call Men Sir

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    Sometimes

    Most of them think it's funny, I perceive. Others say "I haven't heard that in a while."
    learntocook learntocook 18-21 Aug 25, 2010

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    My days are long... I start my day

    before the sun rises for you to strap on your gear. I fear you may get lost in the desert. Before I can reach you. Your laugh and smile is all I see and hear wen the sun sets. But between the miles of sand and beyond the miles of trees. I can't feel you, sir. MS
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F Dec 4, 2014

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    Sometimes its just force of habit.

    but isn't it good manners, either way
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    I am from Germany and we do not have something

    like that. But I got lectured very bad because I did not to a man here and think he was right and I should because it is rude to call strangers only by their first name and talk to them like to my friends. When you read that Sir, I am very sorry.
    123claudia 123claudia 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Just The Cute Ones :d

    That's the sub within... It's my little way of saying, "You're so sexy."Although, sometimes I use it as an insult when a guy is being rude, as in, "Can I help you, sir?"
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Spelling Makes A Difference.

    It is nice to hear people address males and females as sir or ma'am,but I must confess to a feeling of being superior when addressing an obnoxious guy as sir and thinking,"If only he knew how I was spelling it when applied to him".I could be spelling it,'s i r' for good guys but...
    Rapolis Rapolis 66-70, M Apr 4, 2013

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    All adults I don't know.

    Everyone here does and Ma'am for their wifes.
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Excuse Me, Sir...

    I was raised to refer to men/women that I am not familiar with as 'sir' or 'ma'am'. I have worked in various service industries and was perfectly at ease using sir or ma'am. However, one time I was in some posh bar in Washington  D.C. and there was a man standing in...
    greensatindress greensatindress 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    I just think it's polite & respectful.

    It's the way I've been taught
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    i wanted to show respect

    for my boyfriend and asked him how he felt about me calling him sir. after a few days thinking about it he said that he would like that if i was ok with it. i started calling him sir at home and in private when we were out after some time he asked if i was ok with calling him...
    spiceoneagain spiceoneagain 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    And They Better Call Me

    Dr. or Ms. It is a sign of respect. If they don't know me then, Miss or Ms. is fine. If they do, then they are expected to call me Dr. It is a title that worked hard for and have earned. I show others the same courtesy no matter what age they are.  The only people who call me by...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Not Normally

    But if they were my master, I would.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Totally Trained

    What can I say?  My daddy was a preacher and both my granddaddies were military men.  How could I grow up in THAT and not call people sir and ma'am!?!?!?
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F May 6, 2012

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    He called me good girl again! :) Yes sir. Of course I'll be good for you.
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    I'm aware of the stigma of mental illness, as someone who has been accused of being mentally ill ever my mid 20s, even by friends. I hate the way the recommend I get some medicine...
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    My mom says since I found out I have another chronic illness in additon to MS, I've became too emotional. She said (on Christmas Day) it's almost impossible for her to handle it...
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    I read a great article about dating online and in general with mental illness. The author is 36 years old, and never married woman who suffers with mental illness herself. She says...
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    I tried to sign myself in 2 years ago. My ex boyfriend and his best friend were both assuming relationships with me. I'd have to talk to one guy, all through the day and hours at...
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    Hi Shannon I'm sorry that you feel bad with this sickness ,I feel also the same like you but I'm helpless and what made life worse for me the mental health teams in my town...
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    I don't like theway men think. Even the so called good ones are bad.
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    I'm a freak and I know it. I get called so many names and it's mentally hurt me.
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    You're 5'11 I'm 5'4 you call yourself a man but you just hit me in the face for saying nothing but the truth. You run from your problems just like you're doing now. You called...
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