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I Call Men Sir

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 246 People

    And They Better Call Me

    Dr. or Ms. It is a sign of respect. If they don't know me then, Miss or Ms. is fine. If they do, then they are expected to call me Dr. It is a title that worked hard for and have earned. I show others the same courtesy no matter what age they are.  The only people who call me by...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 12 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    i wanted to show respect

    for my boyfriend and asked him how he felt about me calling him sir. after a few days thinking about it he said that he would like that if i was ok with it. i started calling him sir at home and in private when we were out after some time he asked if i was ok with calling him...
    spiceoneagain spiceoneagain 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Excuse Me, Sir...

    I was raised to refer to men/women that I am not familiar with as 'sir' or 'ma'am'. I have worked in various service industries and was perfectly at ease using sir or ma'am. However, one time I was in some posh bar in Washington  D.C. and there was a man standing in...
    greensatindress greensatindress 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    I am from Germany and we do not have something

    like that. But I got lectured very bad because I did not to a man here and think he was right and I should because it is rude to call strangers only by their first name and talk to them like to my friends. When you read that Sir, I am very sorry.
    123claudia 123claudia 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Not Normally

    But if they were my master, I would.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Sometimes its just force of habit.

    but isn't it good manners, either way
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Spelling Makes A Difference.

    It is nice to hear people address males and females as sir or ma'am,but I must confess to a feeling of being superior when addressing an obnoxious guy as sir and thinking,"If only he knew how I was spelling it when applied to him".I could be spelling it,'s i r' for good guys but...
    Rapolis Rapolis 66-70, M Apr 4, 2013

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    Just The Cute Ones :d

    That's the sub within... It's my little way of saying, "You're so sexy."Although, sometimes I use it as an insult when a guy is being rude, as in, "Can I help you, sir?"
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    All adults I don't know.

    Everyone here does and Ma'am for their wifes.
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Totally Trained

    What can I say?  My daddy was a preacher and both my granddaddies were military men.  How could I grow up in THAT and not call people sir and ma'am!?!?!?
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F May 6, 2012

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    Sometimes

    Most of them think it's funny, I perceive. Others say "I haven't heard that in a while."
    learntocook learntocook 18-21 Aug 25, 2010

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    I just think it's polite & respectful.

    It's the way I've been taught
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Seriously and I'm not cute either. Just because of the appellation of my years is of lower range, does not mean I am a kid. It is psyhical but mentally I am not a child. When will...
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    You want to come home and bend me over without a word? Come home and slam me on my knees so I can take you all the way? Command, use, and abuse me? Yes SIR! :)
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