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I Called My Mother a 'manipulative Bitch'

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     My real mom (Virginia) is dead. She had alcohol problems, but even then, she wasn't nearly as bad as my guardian, who also just happens to be my sister. Apparently, my mother had a lover before Tony (my father), 12 years before my birth. Lucky me. Now, Im lucky to have Sharlean...
    SecretHentaiBoy SecretHentaiBoy 22-25, M Oct 21, 2011

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    Manipulative Does Not Cover It!

    If I where to tell the story of me and my mmm, my mother, I would have to start at the beginning. And No one reading this has enouth time in their week let alone day to read it all. So I will give it to you in a very un-orthidoxed story telling way. Me and my mother are Bi...
    DanB79 DanB79 31-35, M Apr 19, 2011

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    Crazy Crazy Crazy *****

    Where to begin? Im tired of drama, constant threats, and overall all of the things my mother does to make me feel like ****. Firstly, I moved to Alaska to live with family when mom couldnt take care of me after she found out that I had been getting molested by her mexican...
    DyingThorn DyingThorn 18-21, F Mar 18, 2012

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    My Mother Is A *****

    My mom is a very hardworking woman. Problem is she is a big whiner. I work Monday to Friday, serious honest work after I graduated. Now, what she cares is my money. She took 20% of my salary every month. I am young, I want to invest my money to build my own life, my own path, I...
    geministud1986 geministud1986 22-25 Apr 11, 2012

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    Fake Pastor Wannabe Mom

    My mother is an so called pastor and has been for 6 years. She used to physically abuse me as a teenager and since then its been hell. My Mom is the most hypocritical person I know.Shes lonely has hasnt had a man for over 20 years since her and my father got an divorce. She...
    mzprettymadison mzprettymadison 18-21 3 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    I Need To Leave . . . .

    I'm a 17 years old , and will be 18 in about 6 months. My story starts when I was in 6th grade. Idk what went wrong wl my life but out of no where my mother started to act different towards me. She was always angry at every thing I did. Called me names. & worse. If I did...
    dijahliv dijahliv 16-17 2 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    Thank Goodness I Found This Site, It Helps To Know I'm Not Alone

    I had a total melt down last night.  It started after my 20 year old daughter came home after spending a couple of nights with my newly (4 months) widowed mother.  My daughter made one simple statement that opened the flood gates when she climbed into the car: "how did...
    Ramm08 Ramm08 46-50 2 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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