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I Can Admire Nudity Without Thinking of Sex

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    I love being nude and looking at

    both men and women naked and not think about having sex at all. Other nudists in our group feel the same way.
    bustywifeinbikini bustywifeinbikini
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    I danced in the rain naked once

    and found it exciting, but not in a sexual way. Hard to explain, but it was really cool!
    jesuspopboy jesuspopboy
    26-30, M
    Jun 30, 2014

    While I am capable of this,

    I often do not. If I see a hot woman, naked or not, the launch sequence is engaged.
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm
    31-35, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    Nudity Is Just That Nudity

    I am a nudist, I think I've always been one. I'm not nor, have I ever been ashamed of that fact. At one time I had a job as the maintenance man at a health club/spa in Marin County Ca. that was clothing optional 5 days a week, one day for males only, one day females only and...
    jameslytle jameslytle
    66-70, M
    Jul 16, 2012

    An Artists View

    I guess it's because I am an artist and both of my parents are artists as well. I have been surrounded by nude art figurines and paintings and art books my entire life, so really, nudity doesn't equal sex in all cases for me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Mar 30, 2010

    Few Details

    I can only admire them with few details. The silent expression, with the face baring no emotions, the eyes in search of words. The body, with all the lines meeting curves perfectly in harmony. I just admire nudity.
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Feb 21, 2012

    I Have A Question For You All.

    I came across this, and I do admire nudity without it being sexual in nature; but I am curious about the heterosexual people on here. If you are heterosexual, do you also admire bodies of the same sex? No judgment at all, just honestly curious. I'd like answers from everybody...
    JessiLeigh JessiLeigh
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    Yes, I Can!

    Being a confirmed nudist, I can look at another naked person and admire them without it becoming a sexual experience. The human body is a beautiful creation.  There's nothing wrong with showing it all and looking at it.  Of course, as a man I truly enjoy seeing naked women...
    SwGaMan SwGaMan
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 28, 2013

    Honestly, I know i can!

    It's such a great thing, I think because of how taboo nudity is nowadays we can only think of it as a dirty thing. :(
    jsdiapsfjidpa jsdiapsfjidpa
    22-25, M
    Apr 4, 2014

    Naturally At Ease

    I don't need to see nudity to think about sex,  I will admit though, I obsess about sex and always have since from a very young age.  It can be problematic for me.  Several years ago I began going to a clothing optional beach - I might add,  I am very insecure about sex and...
    Jan 26, 2013

    I think a females body is beautiful.

    It's not always about sex!
    Trojanmaster Trojanmaster
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    Its So True

    I so agree with this page, no you don't have to be sex mad to be a nudist, I haven't even thought about squeezing the whessel into anybody Cos I like the human form, as we all come in different shapes and sizes
    yoheitat yoheitat
    18-21, M
    Oct 30, 2013

    Can See It For Art And Not Just The Sex....

    Be able to view the female form, and see it for being artistic and not for being all about the sex....
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    16 Responses Jun 11, 2010

    ppl start saying such crude rubbish

    when i talk about how i luv a womans shoulders . i just find shoulders shape and contour sexy . but ppl start commenting how desperate i am to need s e x .. erg .. no point in even chatting or discussing or argue-ing ..
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    1 Response Jan 30

    But It's Difficult!

    It really is! Doesn't matter which sex. It is a point of interest to see another person naked.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    I am a wife and mom who is a nudist with others.

    I make it a point of not thinking about having sex with others when we are nude together. This includes family and friends.
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

    Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder!

    "I will praise Thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made..."I am a Christian nudist. I think the human body is well made and beautiful.  You cannot appreciate the beauty if the body is covered?  Nudism fits Christianity.  We were made in God's image and in His likeness...
    sailnude sailnude
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    I Can, But Why Would I Want To

    Sex is a fundamental biological need and desire of all species higher than slime mold.   Pretending that humans don't think about sex is just silly.  An average normal adult human thinks about sex about every 5 minutes, men and women.   There is no way that we are going to...
    DozerDan DozerDan
    66-70, M
    Jun 14, 2012

    I Don'T Think About Sex

    I tingle with excitement when I'm naked, but I don't turn to thinking about screwing some girl. I might jack off in the ecstasy, but I enjoy it purely for myself. Now granted, I'm an exhibitionist. I'd love for people to compliment my bod. But I wouldn't dream of turning to sex...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 15, 2013

    Proper Understanding Of Enjoying Nudism

    I don't have any nude pictures nor I care about seeing anyone's nude pictures. Nudity is beautiful and feeling free without any clothes. I would be nude all the time but some family members are not into nudism (even though I seen them naked many times). I told my wife that we...
    scottishman1958 scottishman1958
    51-55, M
    Jul 29, 2010

    An object of creation

    I suppose when I see another nude man who is more endowed than I am it is hard not to associate it with sex. But watching an olympic diver or gymnast who is almost nude (diver) or semi nude and otherwise showing thru tights, it is an appreciation of a magnificent athletic...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2012

    I can admire nudity without thinking of sex.

    .... But my body does 😉. Of course, it does depend on the art.
    boadiccearose boadiccearose
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

    For sure I can, but at the same time it is a

    primal desire. There are just some situations where self control is a little harder to achieve.
    Admirerofwomen Admirerofwomen
    41-45, M
    Feb 3, 2015

    I like to look, I am drawn to physical beauty

    in its many forms (blame 3 million years of hard-wired human development), and I make no apologies for that (nor am I ignoring beauty that goes deeper, but that's a different topic). But I make a great effort to admire and be respectful, not lewd and gawping, and always keep in...
    voodoo1970 voodoo1970
    46-50, M
    Feb 28
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife
    26-30, M
    Aug 7, 2014

    I am totally at ease being bare in front of

    other people, be they friends or strangers, a large group or individuals, whether they are clothed or not. It's not an exhibitionist thing, I don't have any deep seated need for people to look at me or to show myself.....I'm just happy and comfortable when undressed, and as long...
    voodoo1970 voodoo1970
    46-50, M
    Feb 28

    UK Guardian published a new article supporting

    Steve Gough and legal public nudity. The new EP filters won't allow me to quote the newspaper article but here is the link: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jan/07/naked-rambler-public-nudity-stephen-gough
    DozerDan DozerDan
    66-70, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    There is a beauty in the human nude

    that transforms sex. A naked body, female or male, is a promise. Like a rainbow. We forget sometimes how to appreciate beauty, instead we are simply animalistic.
    Bourgault Bourgault
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2014

    It's A Nice Thought

        But who am I kidding? Not a chance.
    CuriousNomad CuriousNomad
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 5, 2013

    But not for long! I'll think about it,

    and get wet! Then I'll want to be stimulated.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    I really can! ^^ I know it's possible,

    but we so often equate sex with everything we can't even look at ourselves without thinking 'ah, i'd **** me'.
    allcheeknobone allcheeknobone
    22-25, M
    Sep 27, 2014

    Let'S Get Naked

    I can stare at a naked body for hours, studying the shapes and contours. This sounds creepy, I never actually have stared at a naked body for hours, but saying minutes seemed too short. Either way, no matter the size or condition, the fitness level or the health of the body...
    LoveisNotEnuf LoveisNotEnuf
    31-35, F
    Oct 17, 2013

    I love and admire nudity with my family

    and friends without thinking of sex. At no time would l ever consider any sexual relationship with my children. I am a nudist with others and have been since I was an adolescent. We get together for parties often and just enjoy the time being nude with each other and...
    femalenakedathome femalenakedathome
    46-50, F
    Jul 24, 2014

    For MIB, ;) Yeah, I really can,

    ...unless I'm looking at you,.... I said GOD DAMN ! you are so beautiful... And I rather like the way you move, the jolting style in the way you rock and roll in me, My body quakes with tremors and shakes as it trembles,.. Mmmmmmm It's AS if the earths tectonic plates have...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter
    41-45
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Yep

    I'm not so sure about guys bodies, I find them quite dull to look at. Women's bodies are amazing though. Every curve is sweeping and bold and it blends seamlessly into the next. With me there's a point where a woman is so beautiful it seems a waste just to think of her in...
    Ketsan Ketsan
    31-35, M
    Oct 19, 2009

    Play

    I make no secret of the fact that I love the female body and not just in a sexual fashion either which is why every potential playmate gets warned from the start that I like to play. What do I mean by play? I love to run my hands over my lover's body; exploring every line and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 15, 2010
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