I Can Be Dominant, Not Abusive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 184 People

    I'm considered a gentle/playful/loving Dom.

    I will hold the door open and smack your *** when you walk through.
    knightdriver knightdriver
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    I want to know more about what it's like to be

    dominated...I get wet just thinking about it
    JinxyJen13 JinxyJen13
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2015


    It is about balance.Being dominant is not about getting off on seeing someone suffer.It is nothing of the sort.Actually being dominant helps you to empower another person to release themselves and enjoy something special based on a high level of trust and commitment to their well...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

    I've not been on this site long,

    but long enough to know that there are many people looking for happiness and contentment in a D/s relationship. The only larger group of people are those pretending to be something they are not. To be a true Dom, you need to respect the gift of submission you've been given...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 17, 2015

    Its a very important difference.

    I certainly am dominant in both day to day and sexually. Other women by and large like that and the feminine men that I had and have relationships with are certainly into me being me
    paulalafemme paulalafemme
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

    I like to dominate over woman.

    But I will never abuse them. Everything has its limits.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 7, 2015
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