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I Can Be Fun Once You Get to Know Me

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    It Doesn't Take Long

    When I first meet people, I'm very quiet and anxious. So I seem like a very boring person. And sometimes I can be, when I'm spacing out or don't know what to say in a moment. :-/ But once you get to know me (or more accurately, I get to know you more), I am a fun and interesting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20, 2009

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    Well, Fun In a Funny Sense...

    I'm actually shy. I may not seem like it, in fact some people have though i was a b*tch before they got to know must come off as hostile and mean sometimes. its a defense against me seeming like a shy little mouse. I do love to have fun though. When people get to KNOW me (not...
    pleasegivemeasmile21 pleasegivemeasmile21 18-21, F Feb 8, 2009

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    Note The Word: "can"

    I'm almost certainly shy towards those who I don't know that well. Really it depends how fun the other person / rest of the group is. I haven't got the ability to wake anyone up in the middle of a yawn fest, but around even just 1 other fun person and I really can come alive...
    rachelx86 rachelx86 22-25, F Jul 6, 2012

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    Like Having Fun

    Yea I like to get to know a person first. I like to find similarities in the people I hang out with. I believe that I'm the type of person that can get along with anyone as long as you don't purposely offend me. I have no problem joking around and can take a joke. Once you get to...
    ninja007time ninja007time 22-25, M Aug 26, 2012

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    Hats Off

    u are very cool person and u are very artistic i think your picture says it all nice hat
    NANDISH NANDISH 18-21 Aug 23, 2008

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    Shy But Fun

    I am very shy when you first meet me, but once I get to know you it is on.  I love to play jokes and make people laugh.  Sometimes people don't like my jokes.  I especially love to play jokes on a woman that I work with.  She is very scared of rats, spiders...
    PrInCeSs0629 PrInCeSs0629 26-30, F Mar 17, 2008

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    Can Be Fun If I Feel Comfortable With the People

    once i've gotten to know people i will be lots of fun cos i'm alot more confident and that means i actually do dare to be fun, but when i don't know them very well, i daren't be fun, cos that normally consists of showing them what i'm really like, so i get scared that they won't...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F Aug 14, 2007

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    I Am A Happy Goth!

    I am a happy Goth. I am a happy Goth. I am a happy Goth. I am a happy Goth! It's true, look its written there in four lines of confirmation. I am a happy Goth. I AM A HAPPY GOTH! It's colder outside, and I have things to do later, but I am a happy Goth!
    Psychedelique Psychedelique 22-25, F Feb 9, 2013

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    The Getting to Know Me Part Is...

    The getting to know me part is usually the hardest.  I guess I've built up too many walls around myself, so most people never get that far.  For those who do though, I'm told I can be a lot of fun to be around.
    Sidira Sidira 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2007

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    I Have My Ups and Downs But...

    I have my ups and downs but my most people only see my fun side.
    Livinginpeace Livinginpeace 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2008

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    Taking Notes

    I am a pretty serious person a lot of the time but I really love to make other people laugh! I tend to deadpan my jokes and once I have you laughing, I don't let up until I know you are really enjoying yourself! I find acerbic and dry humor as funny as anything..My brother and I...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Hi

    I have been wit my husband for 16 yrs. Nw , we decided to take our marriage open an see other people. My husband knew I was bisexual frm the time we meet. I enjoy being able to have both but I have caught my feels starting up .for someone else. I felt bad but I cnt control my...
    sassymomma1969 sassymomma1969 36-40, F Mar 1, 2013

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    Like I understand I can be boring

    when it comes to messaging but if you really get to know me then out comes myself and if you get to know me in person. Honestly I'm a pretty cool guy so yeah.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Mar 16

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    ...

     So, when you first meet me, I will be very quiet. Sooner or later, I will decide if I like you and I will open and up and be myself. And I think there are times when I can be fun. But not with strangers... 
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    People Say So

    people say that i can be fun when they get to know me for quite some time. i am not sure if i am capable of switching personalities like they say but maybe there's some truth to that. i dont know. i am simply telling what i have been told.
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F Aug 20, 2008

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    Yes, I'm very energetic. ...

    Yes, I'm very energetic. I love dancing, singing, drama (I'm very dramatic). I love to make people laugh. I attract people; especially strangers.
    sweetd sweetd 56-60, F Aug 14, 2007

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    Your Reminding Me of Me

    Hi!  My name is Zoigirl (30)!  Thank you all for sharing a piece of yourselves.  I really like listening to your stories and reading your experiences.  Getting to know you all is a good experience for me.  I use to have more confidence  in my self...
    zoigirl zoigirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2007

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    So Quiet! But Am I Really So Boring?

    I've got such a problem with socializing with new people. Ha, I suppose that's what happens when you've been isolated for years because of bullying. At least, with me. I only started making friends again after grade 8, and I still only have a small group of 'close' friends. But...
    Samaya Samaya 16-18, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2007

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    Im Only Shy At First

    i am normally really shy, and i don't talk much either. however if i am around certain people and i feel comfortable i am quite whimsical and random :) its during these times when i am more myself, i talk more, i laugh more, in general i am more fun to be with. but if i am around...
    SummerDragonfly SummerDragonfly 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Through The Grain

    Once you meet me you will realize,I will be shy for the first hour, but then after that, I'll ask certain question, so I can see what type of person you are, then I can relate to that, and then we can go party or canoeing or something mad. When I'm in company for the first time...
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M Feb 4, 2011

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    I Can Appear Shy and Quiet

    but allow me to express myself and you will see my funloving vivacious side, i live to live and enjoy many things in life and will try anything once
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Jun 8, 2008

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    Just Saying...

    I’m way more than just a pretty face. To truly get to know me is to first get past what you see on the outside and work yourself to the inside starting with my mind. Once you get into my mind, you will slowly begin to understand my thoughts, my opinions, and my principles. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    Getting to Know Me

    I'm seen as the quiet person. Not the shy-quiet type but more of the observing-quiet type, unless I'm off in my own world. However once I get to know you and you get to know me and I'm comfortable I'm actually a fun, loyal, random, loving, person to be around. I know not many...
    Marowit Marowit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    We Can Be Friends Forever

    5 fun facts about me: Rock music is literally my life, it is practically the only type of music i listen to any more. I go to a school of the arts as a communications major. I love indie and horror movies I love learning about religion and the roles it has played in society...
    Freakintheflesh Freakintheflesh 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    My Goofy Side

     I can be a bit formal and perhaps stiff when I'm getting to know someone. But once I become more comfortable around new friends, my goofy, playful childlike side comes out, sometimes out of nowhere and it surprises people.  My sense of humor and my random and...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows 22-25 1 Response Oct 23, 2009

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    like Most I Am Shy to Begin...

    like most i am shy to begin with, based on low self confidence, however if i feel comfortable, i let myself go and have a laugh.  but let's be honest, not many people will answer this question with a no!
    catsanddogs catsanddogs 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2008

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    Just Get Past My Outer Shell Or Wall

    I'm a naturally shy person, been that way my whole life, so when it comes to meeting new people it hasn't been that easy.  Whenever im getting to know someone i just share bits and pieces of my self, even that has been hard to do. Most of the time at the beggining ill be...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M Oct 9, 2010

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    I Can Be Fun Before You Get To...

    I can be fun before you get to know me.  Once you get to know me you might think I'm not so much fun because I get all serious and thinking.
    brujis brujis 19-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14, 2007

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